Leo/ Leo Compatibility
This topic was created in the Leo forum by Kittenfish on Friday, January 6, 2017 and has 43 replies.
Any experience w this one? Any problems sharing the alpha role?
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hahahaha...seriously this guy has me reeled in. I reached out after a year of silence - we had never met before. This guy did everything but drag me into his den with his teeth. No hesitation....and I'm sort of scared by the intensity. We met for the first time last night.
Posted by KittenfishSounds awesome
hahahaha...seriously this guy has me reeled in. I reached out after a year of silence - we had never met before. This guy did everything but drag me into his den with his teeth. No hesitation....and I'm sort of scared by the intensity. We met for the first time last night.
super curious myself, wouldn't mind keeping us updated would youeh?@lovinglioness1115 YOUEH the gorgeous one 
okay mutual lovin over - back on topic lol
okay mutual lovin over - back on topic lol
I've been waiting for this topic to come up! Now come on, any experience anyone? Works out well? No? Say something! 
I've around 3 or 4 Leo men in my circle, and I don't know if it's my luck or what, almost all of them seem really humble! They're nice and soft, but kinda reserved (or do I have the skill to make anyone appear humble and reserved? Just wondering!).
Met a Leo guy a few months ago online. We'd decided that we'll remain friends. Then I stopped contact because I had to initiate it all the time and he'd admitted that he was more of an introvert. Got bored.
This New Year eve he began texting me - began with a greeting, and then we exchanged jokes and teased each other. Then he went on to give me the kind of compliments that were quite rare - "noble", "impressive", and such... This time, he doesn't seem to be as reserved, but I'm not sure!
He's taking time to text me these days (which he wouldn't do earlier), called me 'buddy' but on the same day, he also said, "we've got to meet "
Lol! This is how guys generally get confused with me - assuming my friendly messages to be flirtatious; now I don't wanna do the same! What's he saying? Both friendly and reserved! There are certainly hints of flirtation, but is it what they say of the typical Leo, flirtation with anyone, or is this his way of showing some interest?
I just ended things with one sickening Cap and can't take anymore reservedness or mixed signals!
Met a Leo guy a few months ago online. We'd decided that we'll remain friends. Then I stopped contact because I had to initiate it all the time and he'd admitted that he was more of an introvert. Got bored.
This New Year eve he began texting me - began with a greeting, and then we exchanged jokes and teased each other. Then he went on to give me the kind of compliments that were quite rare - "noble", "impressive", and such... This time, he doesn't seem to be as reserved, but I'm not sure!
He's taking time to text me these days (which he wouldn't do earlier), called me 'buddy' but on the same day, he also said, "we've got to meet "
Lol! This is how guys generally get confused with me - assuming my friendly messages to be flirtatious; now I don't wanna do the same! What's he saying? Both friendly and reserved! There are certainly hints of flirtation, but is it what they say of the typical Leo, flirtation with anyone, or is this his way of showing some interest?
I just ended things with one sickening Cap and can't take anymore reservedness or mixed signals!
Come on! Royal dates another Royal and it's so rare? No sparks or flames? Not one of you Leos have anything to say about this, fellow Leos?
Haha! Are you sure about 'winning the Leo' thing, because our friendliness and extroverted nature is often mistaken!
The ultimate Leo bully, eh? Haha, I'll 'try' to keep quiet here.
The ultimate Leo bully, eh? Haha, I'll 'try' to keep quiet here.
Posted by CAPRILICIOUSOh! Ok. Thank you.
My parents are Leos.
If you're looking for a goal-oriented partnership, then it's a good match. The energies in such a relationship are mostly directed outwards.
My parents have been good at sharing responsibilities and creating wealth and opportunities for their children. It's a powerful matchup and my parents are highly respected in the community.
The downside, however, is that both have been guilty of neglecting each other's emotional needs. Their relationship with their children is stronger than what they have with each other.
But are Leo men shy? I've come across 3-4 Leo men from different backgrounds so far. They seem to be quite shy to initiate a conversation, but they begin talking somewhat freely and playfully when I start a conversation and they're comfortable. Can't understand.
Posted by CAPRILICIOUSInteresting. It so happened that during a friendly chat, he told me that I was humble and I told him that he was humble. I guess both of us had misinterpreted each other as 'humble', which is not the case really. It was funny.Posted by InLoveWithLifeI'd say they are respectful, sensitive and guarded, which makes them appear shy.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSOh! Ok. Thank you.
My parents are Leos.
If you're looking for a goal-oriented partnership, then it's a good match. The energies in such a relationship are mostly directed outwards.
My parents have been good at sharing responsibilities and creating wealth and opportunities for their children. It's a powerful matchup and my parents are highly respected in the community.
The downside, however, is that both have been guilty of neglecting each other's emotional needs. Their relationship with their children is stronger than what they have with each other.
But are Leo men shy? I've come across 3-4 Leo men from different backgrounds so far. They seem to be quite shy to initiate a conversation, but they begin talking somewhat freely and playfully when I start a conversation and they're comfortable. Can't understand.
In reality these men are confident, prideful, ambitious and boisterous. They are good at earning money and looking after their family.
Mentally they are very strong. They deal with life's challenges head on.click to expand
These guys are both nice and weird. I don't know when to call it friendship and when they mean more than that. They seem to flirt now and then, pay good attention, are also polite and sweet and there's a lot of joking, teasing, and laughing, but I don't think it'd be wise to jump to any conclusion till they say anything openly! (Till then, I guess I'd appear reserved to them.
) Posted by CAPRILICIOUSAww... Thank you! Actually one thing I've learnt from my recent past is to not be so impulsive very early with anyone, because all those words you've used kinda apply to me, too, and it literally scares most of the men. They can't openly tell me to be submissive but they wish I'd be!Posted by InLoveWithLifeThese men love life. They are always curious and keep themselves busy with projects.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSInteresting. It so happened that during a friendly chat, he told me that I was humble and I told him that he was humble. I guess both of us had misinterpreted each other as 'humble', which is not the case really. It was funny.Posted by InLoveWithLifeI'd say they are respectful, sensitive and guarded, which makes them appear shy.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSOh! Ok. Thank you.
My parents are Leos.
If you're looking for a goal-oriented partnership, then it's a good match. The energies in such a relationship are mostly directed outwards.
My parents have been good at sharing responsibilities and creating wealth and opportunities for their children. It's a powerful matchup and my parents are highly respected in the community.
The downside, however, is that both have been guilty of neglecting each other's emotional needs. Their relationship with their children is stronger than what they have with each other.
But are Leo men shy? I've come across 3-4 Leo men from different backgrounds so far. They seem to be quite shy to initiate a conversation, but they begin talking somewhat freely and playfully when I start a conversation and they're comfortable. Can't understand.
In reality these men are confident, prideful, ambitious and boisterous. They are good at earning money and looking after their family.
Mentally they are very strong. They deal with life's challenges head on.
These guys are both nice and weird. I don't know when to call it friendship and when they mean more than that. They seem to flirt now and then, pay good attention, are also polite and sweet and there's a lot of joking, teasing, and laughing, but I don't think it'd be wise to jump to any conclusion till they say anything openly! (Till then, I guess I'd appear reserved to them.
They do have a tendency to jump first and think later. They will go after anything that catches their fancy. Very impulsive. They are great flirts too.
You were with a Cap earlier, so you might miss that depth...if you have gotten used to it by now.
Anyway, Leos open up really fast and are generous with gifts. I wish you lots of fun!click to expand
Haha, lemme see how it goes! One thing for sure - these guys are fun and cheerful, and after that dark time with Cap, wow, sunlight again!
Posted by CAPRILICIOUSYou're right! I better let it be for now and attend to my work! (Wish they weren't all that sweet, though, lol)Posted by InLoveWithLifeLol. Just be yourself. Don't overanalyze!Posted by CAPRILICIOUSAww... Thank you! Actually one thing I've learnt from my recent past is to not be so impulsive very early with anyone, because all those words you've used kinda apply to me, too, and it literally scares most of the men. They can't openly tell me to be submissive but they wish I'd be!Posted by InLoveWithLifeThese men love life. They are always curious and keep themselves busy with projects.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSInteresting. It so happened that during a friendly chat, he told me that I was humble and I told him that he was humble. I guess both of us had misinterpreted each other as 'humble', which is not the case really. It was funny.Posted by InLoveWithLifeI'd say they are respectful, sensitive and guarded, which makes them appear shy.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSOh! Ok. Thank you.
My parents are Leos.
If you're looking for a goal-oriented partnership, then it's a good match. The energies in such a relationship are mostly directed outwards.
My parents have been good at sharing responsibilities and creating wealth and opportunities for their children. It's a powerful matchup and my parents are highly respected in the community.
The downside, however, is that both have been guilty of neglecting each other's emotional needs. Their relationship with their children is stronger than what they have with each other.
But are Leo men shy? I've come across 3-4 Leo men from different backgrounds so far. They seem to be quite shy to initiate a conversation, but they begin talking somewhat freely and playfully when I start a conversation and they're comfortable. Can't understand.
In reality these men are confident, prideful, ambitious and boisterous. They are good at earning money and looking after their family.
Mentally they are very strong. They deal with life's challenges head on.
These guys are both nice and weird. I don't know when to call it friendship and when they mean more than that. They seem to flirt now and then, pay good attention, are also polite and sweet and there's a lot of joking, teasing, and laughing, but I don't think it'd be wise to jump to any conclusion till they say anything openly! (Till then, I guess I'd appear reserved to them.
They do have a tendency to jump first and think later. They will go after anything that catches their fancy. Very impulsive. They are great flirts too.
You were with a Cap earlier, so you might miss that depth...if you have gotten used to it by now.
Anyway, Leos open up really fast and are generous with gifts. I wish you lots of fun!
Haha, lemme see how it goes! One thing for sure - these guys are fun and cheerful, and after that dark time with Cap, wow, sunlight again!
Changing oneself for another person can make us start to resent them after a while, especially when things are not going well.
Don't suppress your true nature, if it's not hurting anyone.click to expand
Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by DivaCanLeoLeo men appear guarded at first, because they are sensitive and have a huge ego. But at the same time, they are impetuous. Once attracted to a girl, they will jump headlong.
Wait you say they're open yet guarded?
Hmmmm do how does that work
Also what do you think about leos with Taurus moon
Taurus moon is a very strong placement
When I say they open up really fast, I was comparing them to Capricorns, who usually take a long time to get there. In a relationship, Leos are quick to declare their feelings. They are very communicative, unlike Capricorns.
Well, I've seen a difference between Leos with Fire/Air moon vs Earth/Water moon. The former are spendthrifts, while the latter can be somewhat stingy.
My father has a Cancer moon, while my brother, Sagittarius. My brother is very outgoing and he believes in taking risks. My father, on the other hand, wants to follow the tried and tested. There is a huge difference in their natures.
Personally, I prefer the former. Most of my Leo friends have Aquarius moons.click to expand
I have an Aqua Moon! Fun!
Haha! It's fun to know these facts. Now there's this guy with a Leo sun/Gemini moon. I've a Leo sun/Scorpio moon.
On some sites, they say "Leo - Leo, too many similarities, so it won't work out".
On some other, they say, "Gemini and Scorpio are opposite, so it is very difficult. "!
What do they mean? "Similar = difficult", "not similar = difficult"!?
What can I expect of it?
On some sites, they say "Leo - Leo, too many similarities, so it won't work out".
On some other, they say, "Gemini and Scorpio are opposite, so it is very difficult. "!
What do they mean? "Similar = difficult", "not similar = difficult"!?
What can I expect of it?
Posted by DivaCanLeoLol, I can't even imagine cracking a joke like that, nor do I think it'll be easy for me to take such a joke! Haha!Posted by CAPRILICIOUSSo if a Leo sun Taurus moon says you know were very similarPosted by DivaCanLeoLeo men appear guarded at first, because they are sensitive and have a huge ego. But at the same time, they are impetuous. Once attracted to a girl, they will jump headlong.
Wait you say they're open yet guarded?
Hmmmm do how does that work
Also what do you think about leos with Taurus moon
Taurus moon is a very strong placement
When I say they open up really fast, I was comparing them to Capricorns, who usually take a long time to get there. In a relationship, Leos are quick to declare their feelings. They are very communicative, unlike Capricorns.
Well, I've seen a difference between Leos with Fire/Air moon vs Earth/Water moon. The former are spendthrifts, while the latter can be somewhat stingy.
My father has a Cancer moon, while my brother, Sagittarius. My brother is very outgoing and he believes in taking risks. My father, on the other hand, wants to follow the tried and tested. There is a huge difference in their natures.
Personally, I prefer the former. Most of my Leo friends have Aquarius moons.
And you stupidly reply like siblings?
How do you think that Leo sun would take it.
And hope can you get their attention backclick to expand
But like Caprilicious said, it depends on how he takes it. If he's all fun loving and fine with initiating conversations, he'll find a way to get back again soon.
Yeah, like she said, neither can I imagine anyone breaking up over a joke.
Posted by DivaCanLeoChill. Give him some time. He needs to get over the 'sibling' thing, right?Posted by InLoveWithLifeWell he def got colder after.Posted by DivaCanLeoLol, I can't even imagine cracking a joke like that, nor do I think it'll be easy for me to take such a joke! Haha!Posted by CAPRILICIOUSSo if a Leo sun Taurus moon says you know were very similarPosted by DivaCanLeoLeo men appear guarded at first, because they are sensitive and have a huge ego. But at the same time, they are impetuous. Once attracted to a girl, they will jump headlong.
Wait you say they're open yet guarded?
Hmmmm do how does that work
Also what do you think about leos with Taurus moon
Taurus moon is a very strong placement
When I say they open up really fast, I was comparing them to Capricorns, who usually take a long time to get there. In a relationship, Leos are quick to declare their feelings. They are very communicative, unlike Capricorns.
Well, I've seen a difference between Leos with Fire/Air moon vs Earth/Water moon. The former are spendthrifts, while the latter can be somewhat stingy.
My father has a Cancer moon, while my brother, Sagittarius. My brother is very outgoing and he believes in taking risks. My father, on the other hand, wants to follow the tried and tested. There is a huge difference in their natures.
Personally, I prefer the former. Most of my Leo friends have Aquarius moons.
And you stupidly reply like siblings?
How do you think that Leo sun would take it.
And hope can you get their attention back
But like Caprilicious said, it depends on how he takes it. If he's all fun loving and fine with initiating conversations, he'll find a way to get back again soon.
Yeah, like she said, neither can I imagine anyone breaking up over a joke.
Shrugsclick to expand
So...I do love how this conversation got hijacked by non Leos just loving on us cats....but...friendly reminder...this is a Leo + Leo thread. Does this shit fucking work or not??? I no know...
Posted by KittenfishI loved the 'hijacking' as well. And I'm waiting for answers from Leos, hoping a Lion or Lioness would share their personal experience! I'm an Leo, and I've shared my experience with Leo men - most of them seem humble and reserved, but also friendly and playful, never seen their dark sides, never got the opportunity to, nice guys on the whole, and yes, guarded.
So...I do love how this conversation got hijacked by non Leos just loving on us cats....but...friendly reminder...this is a Leo + Leo thread. Does this shit fucking work or not??? I no know...
What have you gotta say? Got anything to add?
Posted by InLoveWithLifePosted by KittenfishI loved the 'hijacking' as well. And I'm waiting for answers from Leos, hoping a Lion or Lioness would share their personal experience! I'm an Leo, and I've shared my experience with Leo men - most of them seem humble and reserved, but also friendly and playful, never seen their dark sides, never got the opportunity to, nice guys on the whole, and yes, guarded.
So...I do love how this conversation got hijacked by non Leos just loving on us cats....but...friendly reminder...this is a Leo + Leo thread. Does this shit fucking work or not??? I no know...
What have you gotta say? Got anything to add?click to expand
I wish...too soon to tell...
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The only girl I was completely into was a little Leo and it was very intense, passionate and we were both too dominant a King and Queen almost against eachother trying to get and do what either of us wanted at all costs. And the most worst things happened to both of us. We were both on the news on different occasions for horrible events that happened to both of cuz of our egotistic dominance. Good luck to the most firey fire.
Ouch! Will it be that difficult, really? I can't imagine being submissive to anyone even in my dreams. Even if I don't want to control someone, I'd still value my self respect fiercely and not let anyone command me!
Are there no positive stories? Two tough Leos understanding each other and making compromises when and where necessary to find a happy ending?
Uff!
Are there no positive stories? Two tough Leos understanding each other and making compromises when and where necessary to find a happy ending?
Uff!
Posted by Freetobe007Hey, Girl! There's a Leo whom I suppose is interested in me. We met online a few months ago and then we'd decided to stay friends. There was nothing interesting from then on and I totally avoided him.
I was in a long term relationship with a fellow Leo. Very intense, passionate relationship. He was one of the few people who was down to do all the crazy, fun chit my heart desires. If I felt like getting a spontaneous tattoo, he'd get one with me. If I was cliff jumping, he was sprinting right next to me. He was really sweet and generous; he used to massage me for as long as I wanted all the time & have a cup of mint green tea ready for me just the way I like it when I would visit just to name a couple of things. We had a lovely element of mutual-pampering to our relationship.
Major problems with the alpha role. It's not that I want to be an alpha, but I cannot stand being controlled or bossed around. I will rebel and be completely obstinate and would deliberately not give what he wanted until he fixed his approach. I liked for us to lead one another whereas he liked to be in control, often leading to me saying, "Get out of my face with that bullchit." We had really intense fights that often turned into raging sex. He had a horrible jealous streak. One time, he sped on the highway in the middle of the night to my apartment with a knife because he thought I was with another man and he was ready to stab him. -_- He also tried to do subtle things to keep us on each other's radar when he sensed I was pulling away like moving into the apartment complex I had my eyes on and repeatedly trying to encourage me to sign up at his gym.
This new year eve, he got back to me sending me a greeting. Since then, we've been chatting pretty often. We tease each other, exchange jokes and laugh like kids. He's both friendly and also seems a bit flirtatious. He's sending me a lot of emoticons (just the wink ones and tongue out or blushing ones) and even shared with me a romcom movie link.
He still calls me 'buddy' once in a while but also says "we've to meet sometime". He gives me compliments that are rare - noble, impressive, inspiring, "you're really good/humble", etc.
He hardly ever initiates any chat but if I initiate, he responds quite enthusiastically. For all the questions I ask him regarding my everyday problems, he gives me smart answers.
What am I supposed to understand from this? That he's interested or is this a Leo guy's 'friendly' behaviour?
If he's interested, how do they expect a woman to react? Be open and straightforward or wait patiently, let them enjoy the chase, and let them make the first move?
Posted by Freetobe007We're living in the same city. We exchanged numbers the day we met online. He seemed to be not interested in anything then (neither was I) and he's busy on almost all days - working on the weekdays and doing some course on the weekends.Posted by InLoveWithLifeHey!!Posted by Freetobe007Hey, Girl! There's a Leo whom I suppose is interested in me. We met online a few months ago and then we'd decided to stay friends. There was nothing interesting from then on and I totally avoided him.
I was in a long term relationship with a fellow Leo. Very intense, passionate relationship. He was one of the few people who was down to do all the crazy, fun chit my heart desires. If I felt like getting a spontaneous tattoo, he'd get one with me. If I was cliff jumping, he was sprinting right next to me. He was really sweet and generous; he used to massage me for as long as I wanted all the time & have a cup of mint green tea ready for me just the way I like it when I would visit just to name a couple of things. We had a lovely element of mutual-pampering to our relationship.
Major problems with the alpha role. It's not that I want to be an alpha, but I cannot stand being controlled or bossed around. I will rebel and be completely obstinate and would deliberately not give what he wanted until he fixed his approach. I liked for us to lead one another whereas he liked to be in control, often leading to me saying, "Get out of my face with that bullchit." We had really intense fights that often turned into raging sex. He had a horrible jealous streak. One time, he sped on the highway in the middle of the night to my apartment with a knife because he thought I was with another man and he was ready to stab him. -_- He also tried to do subtle things to keep us on each other's radar when he sensed I was pulling away like moving into the apartment complex I had my eyes on and repeatedly trying to encourage me to sign up at his gym.
This new year eve, he got back to me sending me a greeting. Since then, we've been chatting pretty often. We tease each other, exchange jokes and laugh like kids. He's both friendly and also seems a bit flirtatious. He's sending me a lot of emoticons (just the wink ones and tongue out or blushing ones) and even shared with me a romcom movie link.
He still calls me 'buddy' once in a while but also says "we've to meet sometime". He gives me compliments that are rare - noble, impressive, inspiring, "you're really good/humble", etc.
He hardly ever initiates any chat but if I initiate, he responds quite enthusiastically. For all the questions I ask him regarding my everyday problems, he gives me smart answers.
What am I supposed to understand from this? That he's interested or is this a Leo guy's 'friendly' behaviour?
If he's interested, how do they expect a woman to react? Be open and straightforward or wait patiently, let them enjoy the chase, and let them make the first move?
In my experience, when a Leo man wants you, he will initiate putting you in positions where he can engulf you in everything he has. They're not shy about it at all. For example, my Leo ex kept approaching me out of nowhere and making up random reasons to make small talk when we first met until he eventually asked for my number. The main sign is him making a consistent effort to be present in your life.
Your situation may unfold differently though because you two met online. Do you live in the same state? Has he mentioned exchanging phone numbers?click to expand
But now he's shy to initiate a chat and hardly ever does that. But once I initiate asking him for some suggestion, it's like an exchange of enthusiasm. We both crack spontaneous, childish jokes.
Haha, alright, I'll take this as the typical Leo man's friendly approach and I won't think otherwise till he openly tells me something.
Thanks for sharing your opinion, dear. I'll keep in mind what you said.
I'm in a Leo/Leo relationship. In a few days, we'll have been together 20 years! When we met he was very guarded. But he loved the way I courted him with all my attention and heat. In return, he poured on all the playful giving that a lion does. Neither of us had ever had so much fun in our lives. We were inseparable by week 2.
Do we fight? Oddly...almost never. Maybe it's our moons: he's moon Taurus and I'm moon Pisces. We each have our own territories. He rules day to day matters, I rule all future planning and long term goals. He's practical, I'm the wild. It's an amazing mix.
It's also awesome having a leo/leo partnership because in the beginning it feels like you are the only two people in the world, and then it starts being you two against the world. Divide and conquer! You take the left, I'll take the right, and we'll both bring home the spoils to each other.
Do we fight? Oddly...almost never. Maybe it's our moons: he's moon Taurus and I'm moon Pisces. We each have our own territories. He rules day to day matters, I rule all future planning and long term goals. He's practical, I'm the wild. It's an amazing mix.
It's also awesome having a leo/leo partnership because in the beginning it feels like you are the only two people in the world, and then it starts being you two against the world. Divide and conquer! You take the left, I'll take the right, and we'll both bring home the spoils to each other.
Posted by LeodarlingHaha, wild Leo! Thanks for sharing that! It was good to read, after reading a lot of 'may not work' and 'too difficult'. I'm a wild Leo, too. Yes, I believe in showering a lot of attention and the power of courting, too.
I'm in a Leo/Leo relationship. In a few days, we'll have been together 20 years! When we met he was very guarded. But he loved the way I courted him with all my attention and heat. In return, he poured on all the playful giving that a lion does. Neither of us had ever had so much fun in our lives. We were inseparable by week 2.
Do we fight? Oddly...almost never. Maybe it's our moons: he's moon Taurus and I'm moon Pisces. We each have our own territories. He rules day to day matters, I rule all future planning and long term goals. He's practical, I'm the wild. It's an amazing mix.
It's also awesome having a leo/leo partnership because in the beginning it feels like you are the only two people in the world, and then it starts being you two against the world. Divide and conquer! You take the left, I'll take the right, and we'll both bring home the spoils to each other.
But this fellow seems to be quite guarded. We were having a fun chat yesterday. I asked him if he were vegetarian or non vegetarian and about his mom, too. (he lives only with his mom). Then I playfully said "introduce me to your mom, I'd like to learn some cooking from her" and soon he stopped texting back! Maybe it was because he and I ourselves haven't met yet? I don't know.
A similar situation happened a few days ago, and the whole day, the moment he'd see me online, he'd go offline. I found this really funny! Later I told him to feel free to tell me if he's uncomfortable with me being open and blunt. No response again.
Haha, this guarded? But otherwise he's nice and sweet. Lemme see.
Also, my sweet Leodarling! Wish you a very Happy anniversary!
Yeah, I'm not sure how pursuing works for Leo men. Are they into the chase, or do they want attention in the beginning?
Posted by KittenfishHey, Kittenfish! I sent him a link this morning and he sent me replies to yesterday's messages saying "not at all, you're always welcome to come home."
Yeah, I'm not sure how pursuing works for Leo men. Are they into the chase, or do they want attention in the beginning?
Like you, I'm also in too early a stage to make any comments. What kind of Leo are you? I'm wild, open, bold and straightforward. This hurts most men, but I expected Leo men to be different. From what they say here, it appears like they're strong-minded, yet guarded?
And how will we be able to clearly know when they cross the mark of 'friendliness' (even I want my guy to be really friendly) and are actually showing interest? Uff!
Update me.
I mean, in general I'm playful with guys, but I try to let them initiate for at least a little in the beginning. I've been burned a ton being the initiator. (last guy was a scorpio...and oh my he would disappear all the time)
What kind of Leo am I? Well, I have an aqua moon, so I'm fun, but a bit aloof at times. I do a lot of questioning of my own behavior, and I think way too much, haha.
So back to this other Leo (here's my problem right now): this guy was hot and heavy last week, and we had been flirting every day for a week. We finally met up late last week - it was awkward for me (his hours are the opposite of mine, he works as a sous chef and doesn't get off work until laaaate) and he had been baiting me to come over. So I did. In the rain. And it's late (like "girl you know these are booty hours" late, wtf are you doing - but he was chiding me on, saying I wasn't interested in him because i wasn't making any effort, blah blah...so i had to bite). We got along well, the heat was definitely there - we cuddled and talked about life, and what he wants to do in the future. It all seemed pretty natural, but it was a short visit. I had to drive back home so I could be ready for work in the am. If I had stayed over, the traffic would have been unbearable.
So here's the rub. Ever since meeting in person, he's been distant (or busy???). We've talked a bit, but he hasn't been the initiator, and I haven't been wanting to put out more effort, because I made the initial effort of driving out to meet him. Friday night I wanted to see him, so I texted him to come over. He said he was working late, and it would be freezing to ride out to me...and that he gets off at 1. Well, I fell asleep, and woke up to find that he has asked me where i was, as in he wanted to come out after all. But it was late by the time I saw the text (It was sent at midnight, and I saw the text at 3am) so we didn't end up connecting. I sent him a cute text around 4pm that day (this is Saturday btw)...just a cute teaser text, not a question or anything because i know he's at work. The fucker doesn't respond until almost midnight on Sunday...with a one word teaser text. So I have not responded. I thought maybe if I didn't respond, he would initiate and actual conversation eventually.
Eghh, so I'm not sure what to do here, cut it doesn't feel all that good at the moment.
What kind of Leo am I? Well, I have an aqua moon, so I'm fun, but a bit aloof at times. I do a lot of questioning of my own behavior, and I think way too much, haha.
So back to this other Leo (here's my problem right now): this guy was hot and heavy last week, and we had been flirting every day for a week. We finally met up late last week - it was awkward for me (his hours are the opposite of mine, he works as a sous chef and doesn't get off work until laaaate) and he had been baiting me to come over. So I did. In the rain. And it's late (like "girl you know these are booty hours" late, wtf are you doing - but he was chiding me on, saying I wasn't interested in him because i wasn't making any effort, blah blah...so i had to bite). We got along well, the heat was definitely there - we cuddled and talked about life, and what he wants to do in the future. It all seemed pretty natural, but it was a short visit. I had to drive back home so I could be ready for work in the am. If I had stayed over, the traffic would have been unbearable.
So here's the rub. Ever since meeting in person, he's been distant (or busy???). We've talked a bit, but he hasn't been the initiator, and I haven't been wanting to put out more effort, because I made the initial effort of driving out to meet him. Friday night I wanted to see him, so I texted him to come over. He said he was working late, and it would be freezing to ride out to me...and that he gets off at 1. Well, I fell asleep, and woke up to find that he has asked me where i was, as in he wanted to come out after all. But it was late by the time I saw the text (It was sent at midnight, and I saw the text at 3am) so we didn't end up connecting. I sent him a cute text around 4pm that day (this is Saturday btw)...just a cute teaser text, not a question or anything because i know he's at work. The fucker doesn't respond until almost midnight on Sunday...with a one word teaser text. So I have not responded. I thought maybe if I didn't respond, he would initiate and actual conversation eventually.
Eghh, so I'm not sure what to do here, cut it doesn't feel all that good at the moment.
Posted by Kittenfish
I mean, in general I'm playful with guys, but I try to let them initiate for at least a little in the beginning. I've been burned a ton being the initiator. (last guy was a scorpio...and oh my he would disappear all the time)
What kind of Leo am I? Well, I have an aqua moon, so I'm fun, but a bit aloof at times. I do a lot of questioning of my own behavior, and I think way too much, haha.
So back to this other Leo (here's my problem right now): this guy was hot and heavy last week, and we had been flirting every day for a week. We finally met up late last week - it was awkward for me (his hours are the opposite of mine, he works as a sous chef and doesn't get off work until laaaate) and he had been baiting me to come over. So I did. In the rain. And it's late (like "girl you know these are booty hours" late, wtf are you doing - but he was chiding me on, saying I wasn't interested in him because i wasn't making any effort, blah blah...so i had to bite). We got along well, the heat was definitely there - we cuddled and talked about life, and what he wants to do in the future. It all seemed pretty natural, but it was a short visit. I had to drive back home so I could be ready for work in the am. If I had stayed over, the traffic would have been unbearable.
So here's the rub. Ever since meeting in person, he's been distant (or busy???). We've talked a bit, but he hasn't been the initiator, and I haven't been wanting to put out more effort, because I made the initial effort of driving out to meet him. Friday night I wanted to see him, so I texted him to come over. He said he was working late, and it would be freezing to ride out to me...and that he gets off at 1. Well, I fell asleep, and woke up to find that he has asked me where i was, as in he wanted to come out after all. But it was late by the time I saw the text (It was sent at midnight, and I saw the text at 3am) so we didn't end up connecting. I sent him a cute text around 4pm that day (this is Saturday btw)...just a cute teaser text, not a question or anything because i know he's at work. The fucker doesn't respond until almost midnight on Sunday...with a one word teaser text. So I have not responded. I thought maybe if I didn't respond, he would initiate and actual conversation eventually.
Eghh, so I'm not sure what to do here, cut it doesn't feel all that good at the moment.
Ouch! That can be Really Annoying for me. And the 'he doesn't initiate' happens very often for me, too. I thought that at least the Leo guys would be different but they seem to be no different!
Even today, I'd to initiate a chat - sent him a link to some funny news report and then he responds to yesterday's text messages. He did have the time to read them yesterday. I thought he didn't ping me because he didn't want to or he was offended or something and today he says, "you're welcome to come home"! (after I initiate! What a welcome, really!)
And then I initiated a chat again this time because I needed some help and he'd be able to help me with it. From then on, he began talking enthusiastically. It was cheerful from both sides. We laughed, teased and had fun. But why must I always do the initiating? Does this mean that they're not interested or are they testing us or are they simply playing hard to get, what? I don't want any games!!!
Eghh...I think this guy just wanted pussy...
Posted by Leodarling
Maybe it's our moons: he's moon Taurus and I'm moon Pisces.
Can't hurt.
Posted by KittenfishI'm tired of caring! I changed his contact name to 'Done'.
Eghh...I think this guy just wanted pussy...
Posted by InLoveWithLifePosted by KittenfishI'm tired of caring! I changed his contact name to 'Done'.
Eghh...I think this guy just wanted pussy...click to expand
Hahahaha! I changed his named to (first name) Penis (because his last name was two syllables and started w a P..haha, get it?)
Posted by KittenfishHahaha! Girl, I really wish we were in the same city or I had another Leo for a friend here. We'll show those guys then!Posted by InLoveWithLifePosted by KittenfishI'm tired of caring! I changed his contact name to 'Done'.
Eghh...I think this guy just wanted pussy...
Hahahaha! I changed his named to (first name) Penis (because his last name was two syllables and started w a P..haha, get it?)click to expand
This guy hasn't annoyed me that much yet! Lol!
For the last few days, it's been some kinda fun. A few days ago, we had a long chat - he both explained to me the theories I'd asked him about and we also had exchanged harmless, innocent jokes and praises. I'd told him to change his DP and he instantly asked me if this one wasn't nice (he also said that he'd changed it because his friend/Bro told him that he looked 'old' in that DP which he'd updated that morning, the one I liked) - he laughed with me when I said that this present one isn't bad but he looked more professional in that. He laughed and said that he was in a fix, because if he changed it immediately, he'll have to answer his Bro, so he'd do it later that night and also explain that theory further for me.
That night, he'd not changed his DP like he'd promised (lol), neither did he explain the theory.
After a day or two, I'd asked a few of my friends including him about some technology related stuff, regarding which brand/offer was the best. They all replied except this one guy. (Also I'd made a silly mistake, I'd sent him a copied text, my request to help, and sent it to him without editing it, so there was another guy's name in it!) I apologised for my mistake and that night I'd asked him if he was there (I saw him coming and leaving instantly).
No reply at all. But since then, I.notice this pattern where he'd come online at some specific time or be online when I log in at that time, and the moment he sees me online, he'd go offline. Morning, late evening and night. Lol! It happened very often n I am sure it's no coincidence!
If he doesn't wanna talk, he could block me!
What's with these guys? Why act so funny or childish? No reply. No initiating. Vanishing the moment they see you online. And they won't block you either! Lol! I expected Leo guys to be majestic and open/straightforward. Looks like these guys are no different from the rest! (around 4 Leo men in my circle, they all kinda like me, but they're all reserved!) haha!
That night, he'd not changed his DP like he'd promised (lol), neither did he explain the theory.
After a day or two, I'd asked a few of my friends including him about some technology related stuff, regarding which brand/offer was the best. They all replied except this one guy. (Also I'd made a silly mistake, I'd sent him a copied text, my request to help, and sent it to him without editing it, so there was another guy's name in it!) I apologised for my mistake and that night I'd asked him if he was there (I saw him coming and leaving instantly).
No reply at all. But since then, I.notice this pattern where he'd come online at some specific time or be online when I log in at that time, and the moment he sees me online, he'd go offline. Morning, late evening and night. Lol! It happened very often n I am sure it's no coincidence!
If he doesn't wanna talk, he could block me!
What's with these guys? Why act so funny or childish? No reply. No initiating. Vanishing the moment they see you online. And they won't block you either! Lol! I expected Leo guys to be majestic and open/straightforward. Looks like these guys are no different from the rest! (around 4 Leo men in my circle, they all kinda like me, but they're all reserved!) haha!
My mom and dad are both leo,they both have strong personality and hard headed and they always ask their children where did we get are stuborness(ah duh! From you two?),they always fight with silly things and make up kinda cute if you ask me but when they both nag you its just hell ? both have a temper,both of them like to show off they always want what they can be proud of
Posted by Aquarius3189They sound like teenagers
My mom and dad are both leo,they both have strong personality and hard headed and they always ask their children where did we get are stuborness(ah duh! From you two?),they always fight with silly things and make up kinda cute if you ask me but when they both nag you its just hell ? both have a temper,both of them like to show off they always want what they can be proud of
Hahaha yeah when two Leo's get together, it's like watching kids play in a sandbox. I'm like the w all of my Leo friends
Hey, Kittenfish! Any updates?
I'm coming across the 4th or 5th Leo guy this month! Uff! And why are they all reserved???
The one Leo I was ranting about is now playing hot and cold! He'd never initiate a chat unless and until there's some excuse (say to wish for a festival or occasion). All other times, I've to initiate the chat!
Once I initiate it, he responds quickly, enthusiastically and the chat is really fun. He's witty, smart, soft and has a good sense of humour! His texts are kinda flirtatious with a lot of tongue out emoticons, wink emoticons and blush smiles. Lol, I use them, too, but not the wink one. And both of us tease each other, we crack timely jokes and it's fun.
But suddenly he'd disappear! Yes, he's busy with work, research, and he says he's out on a personal vacation with friends, but no response for days?
It's as though he'd appear online for a short time and go offline very soon... No response and I've to wait till there's some occasion! What does this mean, really? Friendliness or an interest?
Why so reserved? I'm tired! And recently he mentioned that he has a partner in research who's living in a different country.
We'd decided two months ago that we'd remain friends and nothing more. Now he comes back to wish me for the new year, we start chatting, he's flirtatious and hints that we've to meet, but what does all this mean!?
Currently no contact or response for 2 days.
I'm coming across the 4th or 5th Leo guy this month! Uff! And why are they all reserved???
The one Leo I was ranting about is now playing hot and cold! He'd never initiate a chat unless and until there's some excuse (say to wish for a festival or occasion). All other times, I've to initiate the chat!
Once I initiate it, he responds quickly, enthusiastically and the chat is really fun. He's witty, smart, soft and has a good sense of humour! His texts are kinda flirtatious with a lot of tongue out emoticons, wink emoticons and blush smiles. Lol, I use them, too, but not the wink one. And both of us tease each other, we crack timely jokes and it's fun.
But suddenly he'd disappear! Yes, he's busy with work, research, and he says he's out on a personal vacation with friends, but no response for days?
It's as though he'd appear online for a short time and go offline very soon... No response and I've to wait till there's some occasion! What does this mean, really? Friendliness or an interest?
Why so reserved? I'm tired! And recently he mentioned that he has a partner in research who's living in a different country.
We'd decided two months ago that we'd remain friends and nothing more. Now he comes back to wish me for the new year, we start chatting, he's flirtatious and hints that we've to meet, but what does all this mean!?
Currently no contact or response for 2 days.
Posted by InLoveWithLifeHey girl,
Hey, Kittenfish! Any updates?
I'm coming across the 4th or 5th Leo guy this month! Uff! And why are they all reserved???
The one Leo I was ranting about is now playing hot and cold! He'd never initiate a chat unless and until there's some excuse (say to wish for a festival or occasion). All other times, I've to initiate the chat!
Once I initiate it, he responds quickly, enthusiastically and the chat is really fun. He's witty, smart, soft and has a good sense of humour! His texts are kinda flirtatious with a lot of tongue out emoticons, wink emoticons and blush smiles. Lol, I use them, too, but not the wink one. And both of us tease each other, we crack timely jokes and it's fun.
But suddenly he'd disappear! Yes, he's busy with work, research, and he says he's out on a personal vacation with friends, but no response for days?
It's as though he'd appear online for a short time and go offline very soon... No response and I've to wait till there's some occasion! What does this mean, really? Friendliness or an interest?
Why so reserved? I'm tired! And recently he mentioned that he has a partner in research who's living in a different country.
We'd decided two months ago that we'd remain friends and nothing more. Now he comes back to wish me for the new year, we start chatting, he's flirtatious and hints that we've to meet, but what does all this mean!?
Currently no contact or response for 2 days.
So that guy I made the post about ended getting the stomach flu. He had a really high fever and was home for work half last week. I am just sort of letting him recover. Honestly, as for your situation...I think you might be focusing on these guys to much. Try to let them all go, focus on your own endeavors, and see what happens! A watched pot never boils.
I'm going back to TRX tonight and cannot wait! Love me some sore ass muscles. Also, I have had two great dates in the past week w other men...and I'm not talking about them or talking to them right now. Let them come to you if you're not officially dating.
Also...cut out the online monitoring...it's only going to drive you crazy!
Posted by KittenfishGuess you're right!Posted by InLoveWithLifeHey girl,
Hey, Kittenfish! Any updates?
I'm coming across the 4th or 5th Leo guy this month! Uff! And why are they all reserved???
The one Leo I was ranting about is now playing hot and cold! He'd never initiate a chat unless and until there's some excuse (say to wish for a festival or occasion). All other times, I've to initiate the chat!
Once I initiate it, he responds quickly, enthusiastically and the chat is really fun. He's witty, smart, soft and has a good sense of humour! His texts are kinda flirtatious with a lot of tongue out emoticons, wink emoticons and blush smiles. Lol, I use them, too, but not the wink one. And both of us tease each other, we crack timely jokes and it's fun.
But suddenly he'd disappear! Yes, he's busy with work, research, and he says he's out on a personal vacation with friends, but no response for days?
It's as though he'd appear online for a short time and go offline very soon... No response and I've to wait till there's some occasion! What does this mean, really? Friendliness or an interest?
Why so reserved? I'm tired! And recently he mentioned that he has a partner in research who's living in a different country.
We'd decided two months ago that we'd remain friends and nothing more. Now he comes back to wish me for the new year, we start chatting, he's flirtatious and hints that we've to meet, but what does all this mean!?
Currently no contact or response for 2 days.
So that guy I made the post about ended getting the stomach flu. He had a really high fever and was home for work half last week. I am just sort of letting him recover. Honestly, as for your situation...I think you might be focusing on these guys to much. Try to let them all go, focus on your own endeavors, and see what happens! A watched pot never boils.
I'm going back to TRX tonight and cannot wait! Love me some sore ass muscles. Also, I have had two great dates in the past week w other men...and I'm not talking about them or talking to them right now. Let them come to you if you're not officially dating.
Also...cut out the online monitoring...it's only going to drive you crazy!click to expand
Those crackpots won't boil anytime soon!
Have fun, dear! So will I. Cheers!
Posted by tnmntPosted by InLoveWithLifeYes, winning. After a couple of months they were saying "I love you"
Haha! Are you sure about 'winning the Leo' thing, because our friendliness and extroverted nature is often mistaken!
The ultimate Leo bully, eh? Haha, I'll 'try' to keep quiet here.
Little they knew...
No no, don't keep it quiet I'm curiousclick to expand
Wow! They said those words after a couple of months? Yay, man, that's cool! Happy for you! Hugs to you.
And regarding the 'trying to keep quiet', haha, I was just kidding because 'the ultimate Leo bully' made me laugh. I just imagined being with the bully so that I'll know who's the greater bully! Haha! Little Miss Leo would love it.
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