Leo man - please help I sincerely miss this Leo!

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Hi all, please help. I have met this Leo man online couple of weeks ago, nothing serious just got along well. He said he would be busy at weekends to help his brother at the business so I didn’t bother him...we had been on the phone everyday and chatting a lot.

Over the weekend Heard nothing from him and I didn’t disturb him either. And that was it...nothing since. There wasn’t any signs or anything. Ghosted. He blocked/unmatched me on the dating app. So I whatsapp him asking if he was okay, no reply. Then I just sent him a message saying if he doesn’t wanna talk to me anymore, it’s ok. I won’t bother him anymore but it’s been nice known Him. Take care etc. I was upset and blocked him, unfriended On fb. I don’t think he locked me yet as I can still see him online and profile pic.

Please don’t judge, I sincerely missed him and I think I can guess what was the problem but not 100% sure. How to approach him again or this is it the friendship is over? I’m so confused. 😢
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Posted by pinkbird03

What do you think the problem is?


He mentioned he cannot stand infidelity which I haven’t and he once also mentioned I’m always online on that app where we met but I said I just logged out and he insisted that I was still online. No issues since (days before his busy wknd) and I mentioned to my friend she said the same thing she sees me there whenever she logged on. After a long chat with her she asked me if I logged on elsewhere apart from my phone, and I realised I logged on from my laptop and close the window without signing out...that happened before I met this guy...so I guess this MIGHT be the problem, other than that I looked back to all the text nothing really brought to my attention.
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx
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What do you think the problem is?

He mentioned he cannot stand infidelity which I haven’t and he once also mentioned I’m always online on that app where we met but I said I just logged out and he insisted that I was still online. No issues since (days before his busy wknd) and I mentioned to my friend she said the same thing she sees me there whenever she logged on. After a long chat with her she asked me if I logged on elsewhere apart from my phone, and I realised I logged on from my laptop and close the window without signing out...that happened before I met this guy...so I guess this MIGHT be the problem, other than that I looked back to all the text nothing really brought to my attention.
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It could be this or it could be anything honestly. You’ll never get the truth unless he communicates it to you. Stick to the facts. He left which means he’s not interested in dating you right now. It could change, but right now is not the right time.
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I found a website with calculator but I didn’t know his birth time this is what came up:

Sun in 0° 10' Leo

Moon in 0° 27' Taurus

Mercury in 25° 28' Cancer (r)

Venus in 27° 41' Leo

Mars in 19° 47' Aries

Jupiter in 8° 9' Aquarius (r)

Saturn in 28° 53' Gemini

Uranus in 19° 14' Libra

Neptune in 4° 49' Sagittarius (r)

Pluto in 2° 7' Libra

North Node in 6° 29' Capricorn (r)

Chiron in 20° 54' Aries

Ascendant in 23° 40' Libra

MC in 20° 27' Cancer
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.
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Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.
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Don't approach him again. He's indirectly trying to phase you out. I had this happen with a Leo before and we had talked for a lot longer than just a few weeks. They don't do well with confrontation it seems.

Also, now that I see your other post with his chart, the Leo I was talking about also had Taurus Moon.


I haven’t get in touch with him since as I’m afraid of rejections. I was tempted last night may be a text to ask if he was okay but I didn’t. I dont expect to hear anything from him anymore. I was looking at sun sign Leo and moon sign Taurus, actually quite match what he was like!
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.
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No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.
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No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

100%

My Cancer Mars / Venus makes me clingy too. It pushed away the Leo Sun / Taurus Moon dude I liked. And he did the same thing, just quietly exited without a word. This sounds like the same sort of thing to me.
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I have a cancer mars too and Leo Venus so I can get clingy as well so I get it but on the flip side when someone does it to me early on it pisses me off and turns me off. I think part of it is that Leo's enjoy the chase so when someone comes on too strong its a turn off. I remember I met this guy in a club when I was in college and I gave him my number, well I went out of town that weekend and when I got back he had left all these messages on my answering machine (before cell phones, I'm old) and I was like "wtf" and never called him back.
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.
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So he didn't respond right away and you sent him him a good bye text? Why would he respond to that? Maybe he didn't get your text? Do you have it where it shows it was delivered or read? If not and he didn't get your text the first time or was to busy to answer(when I get really busy I sometimes forget someone texted me) and then he got your goodbye text why would he respond? Honestly at that point I would have just been like "ok. Bye" in my head and then not respond.

Again, that sounds clingy.

In the future my advice if that happens,, send a text saying "hey, didn't hear from you after my last text a few days ago, did you get my message? Just wanted to make sure everything was OK with you." And if he still doesn't respond then forget about him and dont text him agaib. You never know what might have happened.

I wouldn't try reaching out again. You already sent the goodbye text. He might or might not reach out to you again when he isn't so busy if he is still interested but I wouldn't hold my breath and try to focus on something else.
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

Leo sun Leo Venus

oh hell yes he can get jealous and possessive

Leo Venus wants to be #1 ..if they even sniff ther's others they will be out



the problem is you can assume many things through text that's why open conversation through phone or face to face is important
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I agree open communication is key. But leos are not very good at unfortunately(I'm guilty of it) however blowing up and sending goodbye text after not hearing from him for a couple of days isn't great communication either.

And yes, we want to be number one, and if we feel like we aren't then we will bounce. But not after only 2 weeks of talking...I usually don't get like that until after we slept together.
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

So he didn't respond right away and you sent him him a good bye text? Why would he respond to that? Maybe he didn't get your text? Do you have it where it shows it was delivered or read? If not and he didn't get your text the first time or was to busy to answer(when I get really busy I sometimes forget someone texted me) and then he got your goodbye text why would he respond? Honestly at that point I would have just been like "ok. Bye" in my head and then not respond.

Again, that sounds clingy.

In the future my advice if that happens,, send a text saying "hey, didn't hear from you after my last text a few days ago, did you get my message? Just wanted to make sure everything was OK with you." And if he still doesn't respond then forget about him and dont text him agaib. You never know what might have happened.

I wouldn't try reaching out again. You already sent the goodbye text. He might or might not reach out to you again when he isn't so busy if he is still interested but I wouldn't hold my breath and try to focus on something else.
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Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️ I sent the first one asking if he was okay as he was online all that time...then he went off. I left it for a while and about to see if it’s read, Im he was online for long time but not read my text still it was only two grey ticks. Then couple of times checked still not read then my guts told me he’s avoiding me (that was the first thing in my head) so I said bye 😢 he usually reply as soon as he sees my messages even at work. I can’t really assume anything as I can’t read his mind but I guess may be he thought I lied to him about my online thing, which honestly I really didn’t realise uni my friend tried to figure out why I logged out it’s still showing online. I won’t bother him again. If it’s meant to be, it’ll bring us crossing each other’s paths again. If not I really hope he finds the one. 🙂
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

the truth should set you free
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I don’t know why I’m scared. May be I’m afraid of being rejected? Sigh, I’m so stupid am I?
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I’m sun Taurus and moon cancer 🙏🏻

go do your compatibility chart on cafe astrology and tell us the numbers you get



y'all might have moon too sign

but the square of Leo and Taurus might be the issue always miscommunication

until one or both dips
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05/12/1978 Aspect 07/23/1973 Value

Mercury Square Mercury 0.13 -257

Mercury Trine Venus 2.52 72

Mercury Trine Lilith 2.02 45

Venus Sextile Mars 1.37 64

Venus Trine Uranus 0.48 69

Jupiter Opposition N Node 2.27 -37

Saturn Conjunction Venus 4.22 82

Neptune Trine Mars 2.25 41

Neptune Sextile Uranus 1.36 34

Pluto Conjunction Uranus 4.50 46

N Node Trine Jupiter 2.59 27

N Node Sextile Neptune 0.17 42

N Node Conjunction Pluto 2.57 51

N Node Square N Node 2.31 -39

I ASC Trine Mars 2.36 49

I ASC Sextile Uranus 1.47 38

660 -333 327

I tried to upload the screenshot but don’t know what happened, so I copied and paste 🤦🏻‍♀️ I have no idea what all these mean 😭 really love to start learning!
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.
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For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you.

I don’t expect anything from him after reading all the replies on here as o admit I made a stupid mistake now I’m a laughing stock to him 🤦🏻‍♀️ Stupid me again...lesson learnt and move on ❤️
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10 Years

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by SeaLion
Posted by blackphvse
Posted by holy_moo

Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you.

I don’t expect anything from him after reading all the replies on here as o admit I made a stupid mistake now I’m a laughing stock to him 🤦🏻‍♀️ Stupid me again...lesson learnt and move on ❤️
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by SeaLion
Posted by blackphvse
Posted by holy_moo

Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you.

I don’t expect anything from him after reading all the replies on here as o admit I made a stupid mistake now I’m a laughing stock to him 🤦🏻‍♀️ Stupid me again...lesson learnt and move on ❤️
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10 Years

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by SeaLion
Posted by blackphvse
Posted by holy_moo

Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you.

I don’t expect anything from him after reading all the replies on here as o admit I made a stupid mistake now I’m a laughing stock to him 🤦🏻‍♀️ Stupid me again...lesson learnt and move on ❤️
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holy_moo
@holy_moo
10 Years

Comments: 1 · Posts: 85 · Topics: 5
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by SeaLion
Posted by blackphvse
Posted by holy_moo

Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.
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When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you. I’m a laughing stock now lesson learnt and get on with life that’s what I’m going to do 👍🏻

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holy_moo
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10 Years

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Posted by holy_moo
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Posted by holy_moo

I’m sun Taurus and moon cancer 🙏🏻

go do your compatibility chart on cafe astrology and tell us the numbers you get



y'all might have moon too sign

but the square of Leo and Taurus might be the issue always miscommunication

until one or both dips

05/12/1978 Aspect 07/23/1973 Value

Mercury Square Mercury 0.13 -257

Mercury Trine Venus 2.52 72

Mercury Trine Lilith 2.02 45

Venus Sextile Mars 1.37 64

Venus Trine Uranus 0.48 69

Jupiter Opposition N Node 2.27 -37

Saturn Conjunction Venus 4.22 82

Neptune Trine Mars 2.25 41

Neptune Sextile Uranus 1.36 34

Pluto Conjunction Uranus 4.50 46

N Node Trine Jupiter 2.59 27

N Node Sextile Neptune 0.17 42

N Node Conjunction Pluto 2.57 51

N Node Square N Node 2.31 -39

I ASC Trine Mars 2.36 49

I ASC Sextile Uranus 1.47 38

660 -333 327

I tried to upload the screenshot but don’t know what happened, so I copied and paste 🤦🏻‍♀️ I have no idea what all these mean 😭 really love to start learning!

You have OK compatibility in my view cause its right in the middle, better than negative or having low number, but your positive aspects aren't that high, to begin with, you don't have any of his Saturn hitting your bits (marriage) nor any squares that might hint at sexual tension

It looks like your mercury square one another which means you might have misunderstanding communicating.

also, aren't you guys way too old for these games?
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I’m tired of games now and since We stopped talking to Rach I deleted the app as well. Let’s enjoy life again away from the dating app (only started in December and already got burnt lol) I am too old for games now 😭
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Posted by holy_moo
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by SeaLion
Posted by blackphvse
Posted by holy_moo

Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you. I’m a laughing stock now lesson learnt and get on with life that’s what I’m going to do 👍🏻
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You’re not a laughing stock. It’s good to care about someone. You are just wasting your caring nature on him. Find someone who cares back and doesn’t treat you like that.
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Comments: 1 · Posts: 85 · Topics: 5
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by SeaLion
Posted by blackphvse
Posted by holy_moo

Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you. I’m a laughing stock now lesson learnt and get on with life that’s what I’m going to do 👍🏻

You’re not a laughing stock. It’s good to care about someone. You are just wasting your caring nature on him. Find someone who cares back and doesn’t treat you like that.
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Thank you 🙏🏻 and I can thank enough how you all helped me to see clearer and get myself out of this. Really appreciate this xx
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Posted by holy_moo
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by holy_moo
Posted by SeaLion
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Posted by holy_moo

Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you. I’m a laughing stock now lesson learnt and get on with life that’s what I’m going to do 👍🏻

You’re not a laughing stock. It’s good to care about someone. You are just wasting your caring nature on him. Find someone who cares back and doesn’t treat you like that.

Thank you 🙏🏻 and I can thank enough how you all helped me to see clearer and get myself out of this. Really appreciate this xx
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I'll tell you a secret, I dated 2 other guys and was constantly going on dates and hanging out with friends for a few weeks, while the Leo guy was dragging his feet to meet me. When he was calling me, I was always on my way to this place or that place.

I was treating him like a chat buddy because that's all he seemed to want to do.

Then we met in person and it took off from there.

Don't put too much weight in the ones who just want to text a ton for a long time without meeting.
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you. I’m a laughing stock now lesson learnt and get on with life that’s what I’m going to do 👍🏻

You’re not a laughing stock. It’s good to care about someone. You are just wasting your caring nature on him. Find someone who cares back and doesn’t treat you like that.

Thank you 🙏🏻 and I can thank enough how you all helped me to see clearer and get myself out of this. Really appreciate this xx

It will be alright fellow Cancer moon Chica!

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I'll tell you a secret, I dated 2 other guys and was constantly going on dates and hanging out with friends for a few weeks, while the Leo guy was dragging his feet to meet me. When he was calling me, I was always on my way to this place or that place.

I was treating him like a chat buddy because that's all he seemed to want to do.

Then we met in person and it took off from there.

Don't put too much weight in the ones who just want to text a ton for a long time without meeting.
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May be I hurt his feeling and he might never want anything to do with me ever again. I thought about asking and if I did at least apologise for hurting him then stop all contacting. Anyway let’s hope he’s doing okay
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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.

When i didn’t hear anything From him and thought let’s see if he’s on the app may be he didn’t get my text and I noticed I was blocked/inmates (the messages disappear from conversation page) so I text and see if he’s okay and he was online all that time I text only 2 grey ticks he was still online so my hot head took over and snapped...I sent a text saying I guess you don’t wanna talk to me which is cool. Take care and been nice talking to you. I’m a laughing stock now lesson learnt and get on with life that’s what I’m going to do 👍🏻

You’re not a laughing stock. It’s good to care about someone. You are just wasting your caring nature on him. Find someone who cares back and doesn’t treat you like that.

Thank you 🙏🏻 and I can thank enough how you all helped me to see clearer and get myself out of this. Really appreciate this xx

It will be alright fellow Cancer moon Chica!

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I'll tell you a secret, I dated 2 other guys and was constantly going on dates and hanging out with friends for a few weeks, while the Leo guy was dragging his feet to meet me. When he was calling me, I was always on my way to this place or that place.

I was treating him like a chat buddy because that's all he seemed to want to do.

Then we met in person and it took off from there.

Don't put too much weight in the ones who just want to text a ton for a long time without meeting.

May be I hurt his feeling and he might never want anything to do with me ever again. I thought about asking and if I did at least apologise for hurting him then stop all contacting. Anyway let’s hope he’s doing okay
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With all that Leo, he may have too much pride. I wouldn't expect him to contact you at all, with how things ended. He was done long before you. At least now you know to actually log out of your account. Lesson learned for next time. Sometimes that type of thing bugs a person.
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Your asking how to approach him when you already did. You reached out on whatsapp after he had blocked you. You literally said to him, if you don't want to talk to me anymore that's ok I won't bother you.

Any further effort on your part will be pathetic doormat behavior and contradictory af to what you just said to him, don't do it.

Your better off unblocking him on sm and live your life/post some cute pics so he can see what he's missing. That is, if you actually still want this dingleberry back.
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@Saggurl88 You’re right! Yup As soon as I said my ‘goodbye’ my friend she managed figure out then I went back to my laptop and open the browser and it took me straight back to that page as logged in! Problem solved and I deleted the app to stay away for a while. Ouch! Lol


If you're doing it cause you really need a break, then that's a good reason for it 🙂

Staying off the app won't benefit you, if it's just because you're hoping he will come back. You might as well hop back on and try your luck again.

I think guys will be avoiding the apps anyways because Valentines day is around the corner.

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Thank you everyone...had a good thought about it. He did mention he’s very traditional and can’t stand infidelity. You were right, I dodged a bullet there. Not even started a relationship yet he’s already being possessive, can’t imagine what it’s like being his partner. Guess I’ll have to get over being ghosted and move on. Love you all thank you. Stay safe xx

Nothing in what you said makes him out to be possessive??

If he liked you enough to get jealous or be possessive, he would have also liked you enough to try and meet you. Or he would have replied when you reached out and told you how he felt. You only talked for a short while. He is dodging you, he lost interest. Leos chase what they want and don't give up that easily.

Exactly. How yall made this out to be him being possessive is beyond me.

OP - you have only been talking for 2 weeks and he told you he was going to be busy. He probably is still busy or was so busy helping his brother now he has to do his regular work during the week and was probably tired as shit and probably just wanted to chill out but then here you go blowing up his phone getting all clingy and us Leos can't handle that shit so he Just ignored you and you kept doing it. Now he has lost interest and moved on cause he saw how clingy you were after 2 weeks.

If he really liked you he would have chased you even when he was busy. He doesn't like you. Get over it and move on you only knew him for 2 weeks. Get ahold of yourself woman.

No no honestly I didn’t blow up his phone with messages...on that Friday morning I texted and said take it easy tonight I know you’ll be working. Take care and speak soon. That was the last message. Didn’t text at all over 3 days then by Monday morning sent him a little text to say morning and hope he’s okay. He ignored it and so I sent said my goodbye take care and that’s it. Haven’t been in touch since at all honest. One side of me wanted the know what happened but other side cant handle the truth tbh.

For future reference, and just my opinion, never send a last text saying goodbye and take care, once you’ve been ignored.

It’s almost laughable to the other person because he had been ignoring you, which meant he didn’t give a damn. But it shows that you cared a little too much, and you didn’t even know him.

It can be seen as a desperate last chance attempt to the other person.

I had a Leo stop taking my texts because I was on the phone with someone else and wasn’t responding to him.

I told him , sorry I was on the phone with something important and that was all it took. He stopped talking to me.

I laughed and said “Really? Because of that?”

Then he wanted me to make it up to him by sending nudes. And I left him on read and never contacted him again.

It was only a couple of weeks. Other guys can be just as chatty. He’s not worth the headache.

I met another Leo right after and things are fine with him.

And he told me first that he was disabling his dating app a couple of weeks into talking and we hadn’t even met yet.

You’re wondering about a waste of time and energy.
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I agree with this 💯❗️Especially, “It’s almost laughable to the other person”.

It definitely comes off as a desperate attempt to get attention from that person, in hopes of a response, instead of an actual goodbye. I ghosted a guy and after me not replying for a day or so, he messaged me again saying he was no longer interested in conversing, well I looked at my phone 📲, laughed, and said to myself 🤔 I think that was the point of me ignoring the last message. 🙄
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Your asking how to approach him when you already did. You reached out on whatsapp after he had blocked you. You literally said to him, if you don't want to talk to me anymore that's ok I won't bother you.

Any further effort on your part will be pathetic doormat behavior and contradictory af to what you just said to him, don't do it.

Your better off unblocking him on sm and live your life/post some cute pics so he can see what he's missing. That is, if you actually still want this dingleberry back.


No more from me now I had unblocked him and deleted his number as well as I know if I don’t make this move I will ending up texting him and being a doormat to him. Not sure about cute pics he says he has high standards and he has been on that app for long time, not spoken to many women like the way he did with me (yeh right😒) but hey, is he gonna swing back, we’ll see. I don’t hold my breath anymore
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Your asking how to approach him when you already did. You reached out on whatsapp after he had blocked you. You literally said to him, if you don't want to talk to me anymore that's ok I won't bother you.

Any further effort on your part will be pathetic doormat behavior and contradictory af to what you just said to him, don't do it.

Your better off unblocking him on sm and live your life/post some cute pics so he can see what he's missing. That is, if you actually still want this dingleberry back.

No more from me now I had unblocked him and deleted his number as well as I know if I don’t make this move I will ending up texting him and being a doormat to him. Not sure about cute pics he says he has high standards and he has been on that app for long time, not spoken to many women like the way he did with me (yeh right😒) but hey, is he gonna swing back, we’ll see. I don’t hold my breath anymore
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Plenty of other leo men out there, or just men period. You shouldn't have to work this hard at the beginning to form a connection that is mutual.

It should come easy.

Also I'm rolling my eyes at his 'I have high standards' comment.



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Hi all, please help. I have met this Leo man online couple of weeks ago, nothing serious just got along well. He said he would be busy at weekends to help his brother at the business so I didn’t bother him...we had been on the phone everyday and chatting a lot.

Over the weekend Heard nothing from him and I didn’t disturb him either. And that was it...nothing since. There wasn’t any signs or anything. Ghosted. He blocked/unmatched me on the dating app. So I whatsapp him asking if he was okay, no reply. Then I just sent him a message saying if he doesn’t wanna talk to me anymore, it’s ok. I won’t bother him anymore but it’s been nice known Him. Take care etc. I was upset and blocked him, unfriended On fb. I don’t think he locked me yet as I can still see him online and profile pic.

Please don’t judge, I sincerely missed him and I think I can guess what was the problem but not 100% sure. How to approach him again or this is it the friendship is over? I’m so confused. 😢

A Leo man here. Since you only "met" this guy a couple of weeks ago, there's no reason to worry about him. You literally do not know this guy. He is a non-entity in your life. If someone you have only known for two weeks gives you the cold shoulder (regardless of the sign), let them go! Why bother worrying yourself with someone who is THAT inconsiderate?

Likewise this Leo has no right to tell you how to interact with other people online. You are not even dating or in a relationship. Just because you two were talking for two weeks, does not mean that you can not talk to other people online. In fact I encourage you to talk to multiple people to see who is the best fit AND to weed out the crazies (like this guy). This guy is one of many and clearly too insecure for a long-term relationship. You dodged a bullet, so cut your losses and stop trying to contact him.
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Hi all, please help. I have met this Leo man online couple of weeks ago, nothing serious just got along well. He said he would be busy at weekends to help his brother at the business so I didn’t bother him...we had been on the phone everyday and chatting a lot.

Over the weekend Heard nothing from him and I didn’t disturb him either. And that was it...nothing since. There wasn’t any signs or anything. Ghosted. He blocked/unmatched me on the dating app. So I whatsapp him asking if he was okay, no reply. Then I just sent him a message saying if he doesn’t wanna talk to me anymore, it’s ok. I won’t bother him anymore but it’s been nice known Him. Take care etc. I was upset and blocked him, unfriended On fb. I don’t think he locked me yet as I can still see him online and profile pic.

Please don’t judge, I sincerely missed him and I think I can guess what was the problem but not 100% sure. How to approach him again or this is it the friendship is over? I’m so confused. 😢

A Leo man here. Since you only "met" this guy a couple of weeks ago, there's no reason to worry about him. You literally do not know this guy. He is a non-entity in your life. If someone you have only known for two weeks gives you the cold shoulder (regardless of the sign), let them go! Why bother worrying yourself with someone who is THAT inconsiderate?

Likewise this Leo has no right to tell you how to interact with other people online. You are not even dating or in a relationship. Just because you two were talking for two weeks, does not mean that you can not talk to other people online. In fact I encourage you to talk to multiple people to see who is the best fit AND to weed out the crazies (like this guy). This guy is one of many and clearly too insecure for a long-term relationship. You dodged a bullet, so cut your losses and stop trying to contact him.
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Thank you so much 😊 number already deleted, and I won’t be a doormat. He divorced 5 years ago because his Ex wife gambled behind his back and borrowed money off loan shark he paid it back for her and they went separate ways. He has been single since (he said). Not really looking for a relationship but everything was fine and suddenly cold shoulder and ghosted 🤦🏻‍♀️ Not nice feeling though but thats what I should expect really, online meeting people bound to have lots of different types of people and til we meet, it’s all just words/texts.

Thank you again for your comments and after listening to everyone’s advice and comments I do feel much better and not dwelling on that no more 🙂 happy weekend 🙂