Leo man running from intimacy

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Dressa2008
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9 Years

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So I’ve previous posted about this Leo I’m still dealing with. It’s being a good 5-6 months of ups and downs with some struggles. We’ve had a period of time where communication stopped because he wasnt expressing himself but when I sent him a text expressing I wanted to “end this cycle of stagnation” he quickly sent numerous text and called several times to work things out. He expressed that my private life scared him but I expressed I’ll let him in more if he opened up more and could be someone I could trust. But it’s been a couple of weeks since our talk and I feel like it’s still not much effort on his part. Thing is I really do care for him and the way our bond is when we’re together is freakin scary good. We just connect. Should I just leave him be and move on?? He told me was falling for me and his behavior shows it but he expresses nothing to me. He doesn’t compliment me, he doesn’t send cute text, he doesn’t plan things for us to link up. I’m just so confused!
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Dressa2008
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9 Years

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well specifically he said that I don’t talk about my kids with him and it was shocking to know I had a set of twins because I don’t post about them or anything. I told him upfront that I had twins but he acts like they didn’t exist. If I’m dating someone we’re not going to discuss my kids until I’m forsure you’re going to be around long enough. Not everyone gets the chance to meet my kids
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well specifically he said that I don’t talk about my kids with him and it was shocking to know I had a set of twins because I don’t post about them or anything. I told him upfront that I had twins but he acts like they didn’t exist. If I’m dating someone we’re not going to discuss my kids until I’m forsure you’re going to be around long enough. Not everyone gets the chance to meet my kids

Kind of deceitful no? Why not just be up front that you have kids? Meeting them is a totally different hint but atleast share that info. That’s very weird.
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Dressa2008
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I’m sure he thinks the same.

He doesn’t want to get close unless he is sure of his feelings because he doesn’t want to be part of a rotating door.



But if I’m trying to open a bit more and he’s completely not trying is there anything else I can do? I’ve asked him to spend time to build intimacy because I thought sharing how I feel about him would be better done in person than over the phone and because he appears to do better in person rather than on the phone. But he hasn’t made time for me and would ignore that part of the text message when I ask him to spend time. I know he doesn’t want to let this go because if I don’t text him back quick enough he’ll keep texting me or research something I’m interested in and send it to me. I feel like doing the research to find ted talk videos and podcast center around my interest shows he can put in the work. I just don’t know what to do at this point. Walk away or being patient with this man that I know we will be amazing together.