Leo man/Sag female

So.. I’ve been seeing my Leo man for about a month now and things are going seemingly well... but... are Leo’s standoffish with emotions? Physically, things are good.. but emotionally he has times where he withdraws. He canceled or rescheduled plans three times before we actually got to hang out alone together AND we still haven’t gone on our first date.

I will sweet and cute things for him but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate and I don’t know if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill or if this is just how Leo’s are.

Any ideas?

I’m not needy by any means but sometimes I can’t even tell if he is excited to see me... help?

Leo's will give you heaps of compliments and want to see you all the time. If it's just casual dating, then walls are likely to be up to avoid rushing in and messing up. Especially if that's what has been experienced in the past.

So he might not be sure about you yet. Or maybe he doesn't want to get too close.and emotionally invest. It's still early though and if you haven't spent much time together yet, you might need to get to know each other more before he feels secure in the relationship, if that's what he wants from you.

Sounds like he doesn't quite know you quite well just yet. Leos are typically warm, but we can be fairly cautious when we're unsure about the other person. Leos are also very protective of our hearts once we've been hurt. After we've dated for a while we learn to be more careful. Even more so, if the Leo isn't truly invested, he may have other options. Sounds like it's too early to tell.

Thanks, everyone. We had some great discussion this weekend and I got more clarity. He is taking his time because he has been badly burned in the past. But he certainly made some progress this weekend!

He is a pretty amazing guy, so Injust need to slow my Saggy tendencies. 😊

Yes slow down for the sake of him. He is unsure, of course he sufered already and he is cautious now. Dont go further unless you really like him. This of course, as long as both of you are planing a realtionship, cause if only sex just have fun. You sag, have the tendency to start very well but that deep conection you lack later can freeze your leo heart. Be just like you are, but respect his relationship ideals, -and he also must respect your freedom. He might like you, he is just being caautious, just be sure you ll not create a superficial relation, he will need a deep, emotional and sentimental conection. Im a leo man and she is a sag, almost 2 years dating. Love her like crazy. The cons are just that, she lack of that deep things.

If you lack that for too long, and its easy for you since you are free like a bird, he will run later, knowing that he must find someone who will be there for him. We dont want someone with us 100% of the time. In fact we like indeoendent women, we suport independent ideals in our partners, family and close friends but later we see ourselfs loosing big parts of those people just because we had the humble and greatfull attitude ro show them how can they be happy being free. Its kind of stupid since we teach our loved ones how to be independent like we are but then we find ouserlfs dependent of them because they go away in some way, if you know what i mean. Thats why lot of leos end up with cancers since they are independent too professionaly but they will never disapear. Also virgos suits well on us and ive seen some leos with virgos. Just be a mix, be independent but never forget him due to professional reasons, personal reasons or whatever. 😆

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So.. I’ve been seeing my Leo man for about a month now and things are going seemingly well... but... are Leo’s standoffish with emotions? Physically, things are good.. but emotionally he has times where he withdraws. He canceled or rescheduled plans three times before we actually got to hang out alone together AND we still haven’t gone on our first date.

I will sweet and cute things for him but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate and I don’t know if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill or if this is just how Leo’s are.

Any ideas?



I’m not needy by any means but sometimes I can’t even tell if he is excited to see me... help?

I don't know much about Leos,the only experiences that I had with them,were them complementing and trying to talk to me or be with me all the time.

But,I know sag women and sometimes you girls can be too clingy and do too much for the partner,which makes them not appreciate your efforts.You guys tend to always want to be in the presence of your boyfriends,always doing things together and sometimes this can be tiring.I'm not saying that all sags are like that but November sags are very clingy and need to control that.

I agree with fonts who've said that maybe he isn't sure about you,but I've never tried to understand Leos,so my opinion isn't valid.

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Posted by herlimbicmind

So.. I’ve been seeing my Leo man for about a month now and things are going seemingly well... but... are Leo’s standoffish with emotions? Physically, things are good.. but emotionally he has times where he withdraws. He canceled or rescheduled plans three times before we actually got to hang out alone together AND we still haven’t gone on our first date.

I will sweet and cute things for him but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate and I don’t know if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill or if this is just how Leo’s are.

Any ideas?



I’m not needy by any means but sometimes I can’t even tell if he is excited to see me... help?

I don't know much about Leos,the only experiences that I had with them,were them complementing and trying to talk to me or be with me all the time.

But,I know sag women and sometimes you girls can be too clingy and do too much for the partner,which makes them not appreciate your efforts.You guys tend to always want to be in the presence of your boyfriends,always doing things together and sometimes this can be tiring.I'm not saying that all sags are like that but November sags are very clingy and need to control that.

I agree with fonts who've said that maybe he isn't sure about you,but I've never tried to understand Leos,so my opinion isn't valid.

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Maybe because they are closer to scorpio?

But of course you want to be clingy to a Leo. In their prime time they are practically the perfect man.

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Posted by herlimbicmind

So.. I’ve been seeing my Leo man for about a month now and things are going seemingly well... but... are Leo’s standoffish with emotions? Physically, things are good.. but emotionally he has times where he withdraws. He canceled or rescheduled plans three times before we actually got to hang out alone together AND we still haven’t gone on our first date.

I will sweet and cute things for him but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate and I don’t know if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill or if this is just how Leo’s are.

Any ideas?



I’m not needy by any means but sometimes I can’t even tell if he is excited to see me... help?

I don't know much about Leos,the only experiences that I had with them,were them complementing and trying to talk to me or be with me all the time.

But,I know sag women and sometimes you girls can be too clingy and do too much for the partner,which makes them not appreciate your efforts.You guys tend to always want to be in the presence of your boyfriends,always doing things together and sometimes this can be tiring.I'm not saying that all sags are like that but November sags are very clingy and need to control that.

I agree with fonts who've said that maybe he isn't sure about you,but I've never tried to understand Leos,so my opinion isn't valid.

Maybe because they are closer to scorpio?

But of course you want to be clingy to a Leo. In their prime time they are practically the perfect man.

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oh yea!The fact that they will complement you a lot and be present can make girls fall in love pretty quickly.I was almost a victim of them...never again!

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Posted by herlimbicmind

So.. I’ve been seeing my Leo man for about a month now and things are going seemingly well... but... are Leo’s standoffish with emotions? Physically, things are good.. but emotionally he has times where he withdraws. He canceled or rescheduled plans three times before we actually got to hang out alone together AND we still haven’t gone on our first date.

I will sweet and cute things for him but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate and I don’t know if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill or if this is just how Leo’s are.

Any ideas?



I’m not needy by any means but sometimes I can’t even tell if he is excited to see me... help?

I don't know much about Leos,the only experiences that I had with them,were them complementing and trying to talk to me or be with me all the time.

But,I know sag women and sometimes you girls can be too clingy and do too much for the partner,which makes them not appreciate your efforts.You guys tend to always want to be in the presence of your boyfriends,always doing things together and sometimes this can be tiring.I'm not saying that all sags are like that but November sags are very clingy and need to control that.

I agree with fonts who've said that maybe he isn't sure about you,but I've never tried to understand Leos,so my opinion isn't valid.

Maybe because they are closer to scorpio?

But of course you want to be clingy to a Leo. In their prime time they are practically the perfect man.

oh yea!The fact that they will complement you a lot and be present can make girls fall in love pretty quickly.I was almost a victim of them...never again!

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Lol it feels good to me

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Posted by herlimbicmind

So.. I’ve been seeing my Leo man for about a month now and things are going seemingly well... but... are Leo’s standoffish with emotions? Physically, things are good.. but emotionally he has times where he withdraws. He canceled or rescheduled plans three times before we actually got to hang out alone together AND we still haven’t gone on our first date.

I will sweet and cute things for him but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate and I don’t know if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill or if this is just how Leo’s are.

Any ideas?



I’m not needy by any means but sometimes I can’t even tell if he is excited to see me... help?

I don't know much about Leos,the only experiences that I had with them,were them complementing and trying to talk to me or be with me all the time.

But,I know sag women and sometimes you girls can be too clingy and do too much for the partner,which makes them not appreciate your efforts.You guys tend to always want to be in the presence of your boyfriends,always doing things together and sometimes this can be tiring.I'm not saying that all sags are like that but November sags are very clingy and need to control that.

I agree with fonts who've said that maybe he isn't sure about you,but I've never tried to understand Leos,so my opinion isn't valid.

Maybe because they are closer to scorpio?

But of course you want to be clingy to a Leo. In their prime time they are practically the perfect man.

oh yea!The fact that they will complement you a lot and be present can make girls fall in love pretty quickly.I was almost a victim of them...never again!

Lol it feels good to me

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As you should!!!But I was talking about an opportunistic leo not all of them.I dodged an opportunistic leo,thank God!!

Their charming,convincing and serious approach are good to assure any girl that they can trust them.If that's their true intentions,than it's a beautiful thing to be with them.

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Posted by herlimbicmind

So.. I’ve been seeing my Leo man for about a month now and things are going seemingly well... but... are Leo’s standoffish with emotions? Physically, things are good.. but emotionally he has times where he withdraws. He canceled or rescheduled plans three times before we actually got to hang out alone together AND we still haven’t gone on our first date.

I will sweet and cute things for him but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate and I don’t know if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill or if this is just how Leo’s are.

Any ideas?



I’m not needy by any means but sometimes I can’t even tell if he is excited to see me... help?

I don't know much about Leos,the only experiences that I had with them,were them complementing and trying to talk to me or be with me all the time.

But,I know sag women and sometimes you girls can be too clingy and do too much for the partner,which makes them not appreciate your efforts.You guys tend to always want to be in the presence of your boyfriends,always doing things together and sometimes this can be tiring.I'm not saying that all sags are like that but November sags are very clingy and need to control that.

I agree with fonts who've said that maybe he isn't sure about you,but I've never tried to understand Leos,so my opinion isn't valid.

Maybe because they are closer to scorpio?

But of course you want to be clingy to a Leo. In their prime time they are practically the perfect man.

oh yea!The fact that they will complement you a lot and be present can make girls fall in love pretty quickly.I was almost a victim of them...never again!

Lol it feels good to me

As you should!!!But I was talking about an opportunistic leo not all of them.I dodged an opportunistic leo,thank God!!

Their charming,convincing and serious approach are good to assure any girl that they can trust them.If that's their true intentions,than it's a beautiful thing to be with them.

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I agree 100% the fixed nature really does it for me. I have a ( Leo moon ) so constancy turns me on. They can really make a girl feel special.

Hi, there! I was happy to see your thread because I came on here after what seems like a few years, and I have the same question/concern/confusion. I'm a female Sag as well and just started dating a Leo guy. Can you please update us and let us/me know how it's been going? Any new updates?

My Leo guy and I went on our 1st date over a month ago, and it was great! He then texted and said I have all his attention and that we should definitely see more of each other. We made 2nd date plans but it didn't pan out because we're both single parents so busy schedules took over. Then after not hearing from him (I think he was deciding if he was going to date this other woman) for about 3 weeks and my thinking we would just not see each other again, I texted him to say hello. He texted right back and asked for that 2nd date. The 2nd date was great as well and we got to know each other more. Then he said at the end of the night that he would call the following week. He then unmatched me on a dating app so I thought, "Cool! He is deciding to stick with me and drop the app."

I decided to text him after three days and mention that I noticed he unmatched me and if I should take is a hint that perhaps he doesn't want to go on that 3rd date. He texted back and said, "Stop worrying...we're good." So do Leo men just take time? I'm reading some of the comments above and it seems that yes, maybe he's taking his time...much like some Scorpio men do (that 1-2 weeks' wait is nothing for them). What do y'all think? I don't know if I should move on. But he, like other Leo men I know, seems to always be telling me the truth (when he said he was sick and couldn't go out, I learned later that his twins were actually the ones that got him sick - I thought at first he was giving me a line to get out of a date). Any updates, herlimbicmind? Anyone else have any other input? Thank you!

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Hi, there! I was happy to see your thread because I came on here after what seems like a few years, and I have the same question/concern/confusion. I'm a female Sag as well and just started dating a Leo guy. Can you please update us and let us/me know how it's been going? Any new updates?

My Leo guy and I went on our 1st date over a month ago, and it was great! He then texted and said I have all his attention and that we should definitely see more of each other. We made 2nd date plans but it didn't pan out because we're both single parents so busy schedules took over. Then after not hearing from him (I think he was deciding if he was going to date this other woman) for about 3 weeks and my thinking we would just not see each other again, I texted him to say hello. He texted right back and asked for that 2nd date. The 2nd date was great as well and we got to know each other more. Then he said at the end of the night that he would call the following week. He then unmatched me on a dating app so I thought, "Cool! He is deciding to stick with me and drop the app."

I decided to text him after three days and mention that I noticed he unmatched me and if I should take is a hint that perhaps he doesn't want to go on that 3rd date. He texted back and said, "Stop worrying...we're good." So do Leo men just take time? I'm reading some of the comments above and it seems that yes, maybe he's taking his time...much like some Scorpio men do (that 1-2 weeks' wait is nothing for them). What do y'all think? I don't know if I should move on. But he, like other Leo men I know, seems to always be telling me the truth (when he said he was sick and couldn't go out, I learned later that his twins were actually the ones that got him sick - I thought at first he was giving me a line to get out of a date). Any updates, herlimbicmind? Anyone else have any other input? Thank you!

If a Leo actually likes you, the more you like a Leo, the more they like you. If you play too cool, they lose interest and will put their guard up. They like to be the centre of your universe and will put you at the centre of theirs but the won't waste it on someone who won't reciprocate

Thank you. I know for a fact he's very busy. I was able to stalk him on the app because it would say what his distance was. So I knew he was either at work or at home or near his home where his children are. My intuition tells me he doesn't make a lot of money and I think he thinks I do (I don't). And since they are very prideful, I'm wondering if he's not sure if he should pursue or not. I know he's attracted to me physically (we've kissed at both dates) and it's very clear that excites him. I hear of everyone telling others to let Leo men initiate conversation. But he's not good at texting, and whenever I initiate a text, he does respond and like he suddenly remembers that he likes me and says "we should definitely go out again" or something to that effect. Should I text again (the week has gone by and he hasn't contacted even though he said we would talk this week) just to ask how his weekend is going? I know he has his girls this weekend. Or should I wait for him to ask me out again so I don't seem clingy/trying to lead? He was the one who initiated after about a week, after he felt better from being sick. Is this typical of them— Or not?

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Thank you. I know for a fact he's very busy. I was able to stalk him on the app because it would say what his distance was. So I knew he was either at work or at home or near his home where his children are. My intuition tells me he doesn't make a lot of money and I think he thinks I do (I don't). And since they are very prideful, I'm wondering if he's not sure if he should pursue or not. I know he's attracted to me physically (we've kissed at both dates) and it's very clear that excites him. I hear of everyone telling others to let Leo men initiate conversation. But he's not good at texting, and whenever I initiate a text, he does respond and like he suddenly remembers that he likes me and says "we should definitely go out again" or something to that effect. Should I text again (the week has gone by and he hasn't contacted even though he said we would talk this week) just to ask how his weekend is going? I know he has his girls this weekend. Or should I wait for him to ask me out again so I don't seem clingy/trying to lead? He was the one who initiated after about a week, after he felt better from being sick. Is this typical of them— Or not?

I don't know.. some Leo's are introverted and shy, some aren't. It depends on the individual. My dad is a Leo, he doesn't initiate things, he tends to wait for someone else to because he's not confident in that way. My cousin is married to a Leo man and he's very confident and forward. So i think you need to use your gut and figure out which category he falls into.

Thank you!

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