LEO MEN TOTALLY CONFUSED ???????

This topic was created in the Leo forum by lion123 on Friday, May 10, 2013 and has 13 replies.
i have been chatting to a leo for about a month, we got on well with chat,
then i met him for a coffee.which i was very nervous, and felt the situation was
a bit stale, (as i wasnt really attracted to him)
so when i got home i sent a text stating that i felt we both felt the same (not really
intrested) then never heard anything more.
then last week i sent a email of a joke by mistake,was meant for a friend but
phone sent it to all contacts including him
thats when i got a nice message back, stating that he thought i had sent it by
mistake to him, so we stated chatting and he text me asking if i would like
to go for a coffee i agreed, we got on really well and i say him in a different
light (i like him) and said we could be friends. so we texted very flirty for a
few days, and havnt heard any more from him since, (its been 3 days) no contact
a bit confussed as we seem to really get on would appreaciat any leo mans advise
or if any leo woman have come accross this do i leave it and not contact him or
let him contact me ???????
Posted by lion123
i have been chatting to a leo for about a month, we got on well with chat,
then i met him for a coffee.which i was very nervous, and felt the situation was
a bit stale, (as i wasnt really attracted to him)
so when i got home i sent a text stating that i felt we both felt the same (not really
intrested) then never heard anything more.
then last week i sent a email of a joke by mistake,was meant for a friend but
phone sent it to all contacts including him
thats when i got a nice message back, stating that he thought i had sent it by
mistake to him, so we stated chatting and he text me asking if i would like
to go for a coffee i agreed, we got on really well and i say him in a different
light (i like him) and said we could be friends. so we texted very flirty for a
few days, and havnt heard any more from him since, (its been 3 days) no contact
a bit confussed as we seem to really get on would appreaciat any leo mans advise
or if any leo woman have come accross this do i leave it and not contact him or
let him contact me ???????

IM ALSO A LEO
Yes i would like to really get to know him he was very tactile and wanting to hugg me all the time but just dent know if i should wait for him to contact me or should i contact him ???
thank you seraph
ive just received a message from him. saying have a good weekend, and that he could eat the lioness, and other flirty
things, not sure what hes wanting, a relashionship, or just to be friends, but i dont talk to my other friends in such
a flirty way, so im confussed, do i just let him do the chasing, or meet him half way ?????

thank you seraph, you seem to know me so well, yes i do tend the analize things lol
but got another text last night at 10.30 pm, with just saying night sweet dreams lioness and a kiss
so just sent a kiss back, then today nothing. (must admit never had any dealings romantically with another leo)
but really confused, do you leo men play before you pounce lol
hi Seraph, thank you for reply, thought id update you on situation, still getting text but they are getting shorter, and just getting a text with a kiss at random times, this man has me totally confusing, if he wants just to be friends why doesnt he just say, or if he wants a relashionship???? this is example of text (xx hug xx)not a lot you can say to that
but think he does like me, so why doesnt he just come out and say ????. as a leo myself find the behaviour strange, and not sure whether its worth all this effort, and trying to second quess what he wants from me, your thought on this would be appreciated, as we are not young leos, we are in our late 30s.
thanks seraph,so i do nothing just be cool, lol yes the attention is nice lol, will keep you updating but thanks for advise you wise lion
Hi Seraph, just a update, been getting text with kisses at least 4 times a day, and sweet messages from him then last night got a text saying he has joined a dating site, and has a date today, so i sent one back saying im confused, but got one back from him saying why are you confused???. so havnt repplied to that one as dont know what to say, but i feel hurt, that hes strung me along for nearly a month sending text and wanting to meet, i am not usually dense as a leo woman, but i find his behaviour cruel, and cannot understand why he would want to hurt me, as i never asked him to text. as previously said i have never had any dealings with a leo on a personal (dating) level, but my brother is a leo, and is of good, values, and doesnt hurt people like this, your thoughts would be welcome as a leo gentlemen yourself, much appreciated thank you
thank you so much Sepaph, your such a wise lion, will try, and keep you updated x
Posted by seraph
your emotional life.
-------


You're good, Seraph. Winking
It looks to me like he's either screwing with her head, or waiting for HER to make the next move.
That sounds like an awfully girly thing to do; that is, to join a dating site and then inform the person you've been flirting with via text to see what kind of response you get.
Very passive-aggressive.

Hi seraph thank you for your advise.i am trying to distance myself.buy still cannot understand he is still sending the usual messages if not more.i am replying with just short brief answers.and not flirting back as i was. But as he said on my last message why's he wanting to continue with these text if theirs a Que wanting to meet him on a dating site.just doesn't make any sense.as we are both not kids we are in our late 30s. Must admit i can honestly say i have never had this with any man I've dated
You advise seraph has really helped me x
hi Seraph, just a update, i have done what you said being very cool, and really trying to detach myself, and not doing too bad (if i say so myself)lol, i havnt had a text since monday night, so think hes got the message that i wont be treated this way, but you are right it was driving me crazy, trying to second guess his intentions, but would like to thank you for your advise, you wise lion x
ps are all leo men this complex ???
hi Seraph,
just a update, lol after the incident with him joining a dating site, after a few more messages , i told him not to contact me again, as i was totally confused, as to what he wanted,so thought that was the last i would hear from him but no so thursday night my phone went it was a message from him asking if i was ok and he was no longer on dating site, what is this lion playing at, so hes started sending the night lioness text again, i feel hes playing with his food, and i might have to eat him up and spit out the bones.
Seraph may i say you are a fine example of a leo man stunning x

Leave Your Feedback

We'd love to hear your thoughts! If you're not logged in, you can still share your feedback below. Your input helps us improve the experience for everyone. To post your own content or join the conversation, please log in or create an account.