I started dating a Leo in October. I made a thread about him then, I got some good advice and heard that I should be prepared for him to lose interest because we had sex on date 3. Well, he started talking about 'distractions' last month, stopped making plans with me and texting less often. He still wanted to get together but he would call me on the spur of the moment and ask if I wanted to go to dinner, get drinks, etc. In the beginning he would ask me a week or at least several days in advance for a date. I have taken this as a loss of interest on his part and had pretty much accepted that he just wasn't that into me and I was prepared to let it die. Do you think these are indicators that he isn't interested anymore? He text today to make plans for tomorrow night so I'm not sure if he has lost interest or we just have different style s and expectations. I plan on talking about it with him tomorrow.
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
Your lack of reaction to his "distractions" comment could have fueled him into continuing to pursue you.
Had you reacted as if you were angry/devastated he'd still be distracted. Whatever you're doing continue doing it. A good cat and mouse game won't hurt.