leo reunion - tips and ideas please!
This topic was created in the Leo forum by isadora2008 on Sunday, October 26, 2008 and has 9 replies.
Hello All - So, I am seeing my leo after a three week absence. He has been very clear about what he hopes will happen the second he walks in the door. My question to the leo men and gals with leo men is.... Since I want to make this occasion VERY memorable, I would love some romantic suggestions on the best way to make an impact when he arrives. Lingerie? Lots of clothes he can rip off? Halloween costume? I want to blow his mind. He's leo rising with an aqua moon. Venus, mars etc.. all in leo.
Thanks!
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Thanks for asking. It is sort of inbetween the two. He has been getting some major issues straightened out, and knew that he needed to concentrate fully on that. He did step back and break up with me, but he continued to call on a regular basis. In a strange way, after a while he didn't seem to remember that he'd broken up with me, but neither did he have the time to get together - three yr old kid, new business, switched apts...and also if he sees me, he loses resolve pretty quickly. There's a very strong current between us. So there hasn't been any face to face contact.
Over the month, I didn't ask him for anything - just was an occasional sounding board - I had no idea if he wanted the relationship back or not.. then he made a few overtures that didn't pan out, but he made it clear that he missed me and was thinking of me as much as one can when one is totally preoccupied.
This week, when I mentioned I had a plumbing problem, he offered to come over and fix it, and also as I said, made it clear in a number of phone calls what he was hoping for. I know from experience that he doesn't do anything until he's ready, so my feeling is that he's ready now and the plumbing is his excuse. Whether this leads to another go at the relationship or not, I don't know, but either way, I'm just really excited that we'll have some personal time together, face to face and I want to make it magical for us both.
Over the month, I didn't ask him for anything - just was an occasional sounding board - I had no idea if he wanted the relationship back or not.. then he made a few overtures that didn't pan out, but he made it clear that he missed me and was thinking of me as much as one can when one is totally preoccupied.
This week, when I mentioned I had a plumbing problem, he offered to come over and fix it, and also as I said, made it clear in a number of phone calls what he was hoping for. I know from experience that he doesn't do anything until he's ready, so my feeling is that he's ready now and the plumbing is his excuse. Whether this leads to another go at the relationship or not, I don't know, but either way, I'm just really excited that we'll have some personal time together, face to face and I want to make it magical for us both.
ha - that would be great if I were a scorpio but actually, I'm an aries. Gemini rising. Leo moon.
I do appreciate the viewpoints and the protective advice. Its so sweet to feel looked out for by people who are far beyond the ether of computerland. I had thought it would be great just to have an evening of excellent physical stuff. I'm a pretty busy person too, so I'd take sex once a month with someone I'm really compatible with, then six months without....
I would like to keep it lighthearted, because there's nothing like heavy talk to weigh down stuff. That being said, I should probably say something first. Must think about that.
I do appreciate the viewpoints and the protective advice. Its so sweet to feel looked out for by people who are far beyond the ether of computerland. I had thought it would be great just to have an evening of excellent physical stuff. I'm a pretty busy person too, so I'd take sex once a month with someone I'm really compatible with, then six months without....
I would like to keep it lighthearted, because there's nothing like heavy talk to weigh down stuff. That being said, I should probably say something first. Must think about that.
That's reasonable... but then if he asks what am I then... what should I say? I'm your displaced girlfriend? I'm the love of your life?
I considered saying that I'm doing this because I love him, and if he doesn't feel the same, then we should be doing it....
I considered saying that I'm doing this because I love him, and if he doesn't feel the same, then we should be doing it....
whoops i meant to say 'shouldn't be doing it'
well, for all you experts out there I should probably reveal the flip side, which is that my venus, mars, and another couple planets are in taurus... though in so many ways I am a textbook aries. I think this has been great advice. Thanks prringleo and leokitten for being devil's advocates. I think especially helpful is the advice about inquiring as to his feelings. I think at this point he has had enough time to ruminate.
I'm all Leo and frankly if I were you I wouldn't go to town on his return. So what you're doing is "celebrating" HIS return? That must be such an ego boost for him.
Let him know that whilst you understand his wanting to part for a while you're also not going to be dropped like a hot cake everything he has shit to sort out in his life....partners are supposed to be there for each other not split when the going gets tough.
Let him know that whilst you understand his wanting to part for a while you're also not going to be dropped like a hot cake everything he has shit to sort out in his life....partners are supposed to be there for each other not split when the going gets tough.
Well - thank you all for helping me consider all the facets of this situation. He got sick. I went over there, fully clothed, I might add - we skipped the whole plumbing excuse - and skipped the sex - and went straight to the relationship talk. .. there was some making out, but mostly talk, and I left with a newly forged sense of where he's coming from and a definite request from him that we be 'on' rather than off. So we'll see what happens next.
Some clarity. Cautiously optimistic is a good way to put it. I'm going to give it some more time, but not too much more.
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