Leo with Libra anyone else?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by spary98 on Sunday, May 21, 2006 and has 33 replies.
Hi, I'm a Leo male with a Libra women, just wondered if any other Leos are with Libra's atm, in the past I've only been with Scoropis but just wondered if any other Leos are with Libras atm or if I'm the odd one out and all the rest are with Scorpios. Just interested to see how its going if you are, points to be taken about the difference between Scorpio & Libra, Libra are fun while not quite as something that Scorpios are, also they don't seem to mind not having my full attention as Scorpios do, hense why I am here typing a message. But saying that I have to know that Libra's aren't like Scorpios, they are fun and exzilerating and not dominating which as a Leo I usually feel comforted by that.
::whispers:: omg it's a leo male. Rare sight smile
I am not dating a libra female but....

...Libra's aren't like Scorpios, they are fun and exzilerating...
I am dating a scorp and he is incredibly fun. Then again he has a sag moon. Changes everything.
How long have you two been together spary?
Please stay Mr. Leo Man...we need a few around here!
I'm Scorp so can't help you ont he Libra issue....
Hello, been together since March the 9th.
And how are things going with you two? Aside from the fun and exhilarating part smile
Is she a die hard romantic? Are the libra rumors true?

"Please stay Mr. Leo Man...we need a few around here!"
lol sophie, no kidding. I agree. spary are you over the age of 18 and have been around the zodiac a few times? lol We might need you. smile
Oh I am a Libra female doing something with a Leo guy. I thought we were dating. Now we are ?????
WTF? Really.
Sorry for the brief vent, but I have no idea what is going on with him. I am not terribly stressed, and have decided to date OtHeRs. Which he must have sensed, because he called me and I said, "You weren't the person I was expecting!" (I was very happy to hear from him but I thought it was my best friend calling as I had just left a message.)
And in some down and out voice, he says, "were you expecting it to be the other 5 guys you are seeing?"
WTF?!?!
I am about as Libra as you get Spray. I will help you if I can.
smile
Oooh, I've never dated a Libra but I have a lot of Libra friends. They ARE awesome!! SO good for the Leo temperament.
My leo friend dated a libran girl and still dating. He had too many confusions initially and I gues I cleared his doubts. He couldnt stand her flirting with other guys. He used to get a feeling that she was controlling him in a smooth way. He had a doubt whether she is playing with him or real serious. He couldnt get used to librans "I want you 24x7" theory. Leo wanted some personal space and the libran girl kept on talking to him. Then one fine day he asked me how a libran girl is. It didnt took me much time to explain him that she is not fooling around him. Just explained to him my own flirting nature and thats it.
They are planning to get married now. smile
Interesting librian.
I am finding the Leo confusing. Are we together? Are we not together? Are he not interested or is it just really bad timing as it appears?
I can't figure it out. It is all so unstructured.
If I knew what was going on, if there was consistent rules that I could count on, I would be much more at peace. I don't like things too unstructured.
like a true Libra ... I can say yes to anything if I know what I am saying yes too.
little sparrow,
Based on what I gathered from another post, you may have to be the one to end it completely if this is not what you what. Some men, no matter how much you tell them this is what you "don't want", will keep coming back anyways and the only way to put a stop to it is to do it yourself. Based on another post, you stated you two had already broken up? Yet, he is behaving as if he still likes you I take it? Then maybe it's time to have a little talk with him. If this keeps happening and you still aren't happy, then it's going to have to be up to you. Is this something you really want?
It is my fault. I left the door open. I said all the right things and left room for him to come back my way, because we seem very compatible and well matched. The timing is just not good and I was hoping by leaving the door open he would come back my way in a few months when he has had sometime to recover from his last relationship.
We met just a month after he ended a three year relationship. Understandably, he wants to take things slow. But the question is how slow is too slow?
Unfortunately, we really like each other.
He doesn't want to rush into anything, and I don't want to be rebound girl. Everyone hates their rebound person. Fortunately, I don't get the feeling he has any feelings towards his ex. It is just a matter of dealing with all the freedom you have after you end a long term relationship and you suddenly have to refind you identity.
Uuugh.
So in answer to your question .... I dunno. lol!
...But the question is how slow is too slow?...
This is something only you can answer. Do you feel like you have the patience for this? Is he really worth it to you? Usually when somone says "let's take it slow" it means if it's meant to be it will just happen naturally.

It is nice to hear the words though isn't it?
I want you, can't live without you, I don't want to see anyone else but you, don't see anyone else but me, I am branded for life, etc .... smile
See if it was a case of letting it develop naturally ... I would be onboard with it. He keeps hitting the brakes because he is falling too fast.
I would be very happy with a see where this takes us if he wasn't artifically throwing up road blocks. I really have no idea what to do.
I can live without the words at this point as long as I know everything is sincere.
In my friends case, he was confused whether the libran girl was sincere or not bcoz it was an entirely different experience he encountered from her. He couldnt believe that she was not playing with him and was really sincere... Also there was quite a lot of thinking going on from his side whether to commit or not. He wanted to. But then again he wanted to rethink about it again and again. Am glad that he finally took some decision.
Interesting. This sounds very much like the situation I am now in.
What was she doing that lead him to believe she was not sincere?
I have decided to stand still and do nothing. I will be warm and receptive when he approaches, but I am going to give him plenty of space to sort this out for himself. Hopefully, he figures it out quickly.
Oh yes ... if you could ask if there was anything specific she did to make him feel better about the situation, I would appreciate it.
He found her a bit dramatic I guess.. Dunno if dramatic is the right word to use. Kind of bit extra sincere. You know how a librans life starts to turn around their lover and everything else in their world becomes secondary and lover stands first. I guess leo hardly gets that point and doubts that a bit. Plus I guess she might have had some plans kept open to skip away like how a libran normally plans. I know she took around a month to decide on him when he was totally lost in love and would have done anything. Then it took another couple of months for him to make up his mind and commit something. Also remember that he was a bit to worried if she will take his much needed personal space. Kept on saying he always need some space for himself and found it hard to handle a 24x7 active talkative girl. smile
Thanks so much!
I think you hit the nail on the head. He keeps saying I am so sincere and open and easy to talk too. He isn't use to someone caring about him or listening to him, and having answers. He keeps saying I am spoiling him ... which I don't get because I am doing nothing different than I always do. I am treating him like a friend that I care about.
He seems to have all this need for space as well and seems to be putting artifical breaks up. Like he is afraid if he doesn't, I will suck him in.
His last relationship sounded drama ridden. I have a funny feeling she was a Scorp just from the bit he has said about her. I think he was afraid of her. lol!
Whereas, I am a complete 180. She sounded very princessy and her way or the high-way. I am a libra so I am more what can we do to make you happy and feel better?
Perhaps, I will just hold the course as was my original intention.
It will all come out in the wash and all that jazz.
I owe you one. (If you need any help with Virgos or Scorps, from a libra perspective, I'm your girl.)


Hello just thought I'd come back and say that my relationship with my GF (Libra) is going really well although I don't think this is where I will end up, I think it is just part of the journey, maybe because I didn't get on with my Scorpio counter-part before.
Why date her and waste her time if she isn't what you want?
because what i think might be wrong
Well, if you have your heart set on a Scorp, you won't be happy with a Libra. (Depending on the other placements.)
Libra is all about partnership, love, beauty, and pleasure. (Yours and ours) We are natural partners, diplomats, negotiators, peace-makers. We want fair and justice.
Scorps not so much. As I learn more about them, Scorps want power.
You see, my concern, is that the Libra will take you as her partner. If you are just playing her, her world will fall apart. A Libra will morph into your deepest needs and wants. We have a way of getting into your soul, figuring you out, and serving you the fantasy you want.
Although we tend to be aloof, we love our partners by surrending ourselves. It could devestate the libra if she gets to attached. The one thing you can never say of a libra partner, is that they didn't understand you. We are the most empathetic to our partners and live only to please them.
That is why heart-break devestates us. Luckily, we are beautiful and highly in demand, so a new lover is guaranteed. But still .... be careful playing with a Libra heart. Although air can feed the fire, one good gust, we can put you out.
(I realize I am projecting my own situation onto yours.)


little sparrow, am glad that u found my post useful... I am trying to stay as far as possible from virgos. They are nice people but I get instant issues with virgo. I cannot tolerate a virgo anymore. The moment I see that virgo appearence and theories, I skip. lol... Scorpio - yeah... my xgf was scorpio.. still emotionally attached... wont jump into that again. No cappies too... Will try my best to avoid cancer too... due to this venus issues i guess, i met a lot of wrong girls... Lately i decided no more initiative unless I meet the right set of group. Gemini, Aq, Libra, Aries. Life is short and i prefer not to go with someone who wont be finding me comfortable... Leo infact comes only after this line up but may be I need to learn some more lessons from this leo girl now... lust dominating over love mosttimes...
goodluck with ur leo guy Winking
He may have missed his window. I may have met someone else. (sparrow about to play fickel card. lol)
I can't take all the me, me, me stuff. He is just too confused. And to be honest, I think I am a little out of his league.
Good Luck to you too!
Little!
Gosh I know your confusion and feel for you!
How about come right out and ask him straight up what the deal?
Oh I know what the deal is ... he wants to put me on hold. He needs to get himself straightened out.
I can't be bothered.
Oh I found out his moon was in Scorp and his venus is in Cancer. That is part of the problem. I find men with too much water just sit around and want the woman to do all the work.
i think alot of leos are attracted to libra or scorpio
Message posted by: little_sparrow on 5/31/2006 10:17:29 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.126
I find men with too much water just sit around and want the woman to do all the work.
Lol LS take out the water part and it's men full stop.
Good luck, I dated a Libra female for 3 excruciating years. She could not make up her mind about anything and always waited for me to make the decisions. I prefer more of a 50/50 partnership, so it was frustrating to say the least.
If she wasn't so beautiful I would have been out long before...and of course, as a Libra, she expected to be told that she was beautiful multiple times per day...

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