Hi, I'm a Leo male with a Libra women, just wondered if any other Leos are with Libra's atm, in the past I've only been with Scoropis but just wondered if any other Leos are with Libras atm or if I'm the odd one out and all the rest are with Scorpios. Just interested to see how its going if you are, points to be taken about the difference between Scorpio & Libra, Libra are fun while not quite as something that Scorpios are, also they don't seem to mind not having my full attention as Scorpios do, hense why I am here typing a message. But saying that I have to know that Libra's aren't like Scorpios, they are fun and exzilerating and not dominating which as a Leo I usually feel comforted by that.
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Feb 25, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2525 · Topics: 50
How long have you two been together spary?
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Mar 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 647 · Topics: 52
Please stay Mr. Leo Man...we need a few around here!
I'm Scorp so can't help you ont he Libra issue....
Hello, been together since March the 9th.
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Feb 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 847 · Topics: 15
Oooh, I've never dated a Libra but I have a lot of Libra friends. They ARE awesome!! SO good for the Leo temperament.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Interesting librian.
I am finding the Leo confusing. Are we together? Are we not together? Are he not interested or is it just really bad timing as it appears?
I can't figure it out. It is all so unstructured.
If I knew what was going on, if there was consistent rules that I could count on, I would be much more at peace. I don't like things too unstructured.
like a true Libra ... I can say yes to anything if I know what I am saying yes too.
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Feb 25, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2525 · Topics: 50
little sparrow,
Based on what I gathered from another post, you may have to be the one to end it completely if this is not what you what. Some men, no matter how much you tell them this is what you "don't want", will keep coming back anyways and the only way to put a stop to it is to do it yourself. Based on another post, you stated you two had already broken up? Yet, he is behaving as if he still likes you I take it? Then maybe it's time to have a little talk with him. If this keeps happening and you still aren't happy, then it's going to have to be up to you. Is this something you really want?
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
It is my fault. I left the door open. I said all the right things and left room for him to come back my way, because we seem very compatible and well matched. The timing is just not good and I was hoping by leaving the door open he would come back my way in a few months when he has had sometime to recover from his last relationship.
We met just a month after he ended a three year relationship. Understandably, he wants to take things slow. But the question is how slow is too slow?
Unfortunately, we really like each other.
He doesn't want to rush into anything, and I don't want to be rebound girl. Everyone hates their rebound person. Fortunately, I don't get the feeling he has any feelings towards his ex. It is just a matter of dealing with all the freedom you have after you end a long term relationship and you suddenly have to refind you identity.
Uuugh.
So in answer to your question .... I dunno. lol!
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
See if it was a case of letting it develop naturally ... I would be onboard with it. He keeps hitting the brakes because he is falling too fast.
I would be very happy with a see where this takes us if he wasn't artifically throwing up road blocks. I really have no idea what to do.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
I can live without the words at this point as long as I know everything is sincere.
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
In my friends case, he was confused whether the libran girl was sincere or not bcoz it was an entirely different experience he encountered from her. He couldnt believe that she was not playing with him and was really sincere... Also there was quite a lot of thinking going on from his side whether to commit or not. He wanted to. But then again he wanted to rethink about it again and again. Am glad that he finally took some decision.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Interesting. This sounds very much like the situation I am now in.
What was she doing that lead him to believe she was not sincere?
I have decided to stand still and do nothing. I will be warm and receptive when he approaches, but I am going to give him plenty of space to sort this out for himself. Hopefully, he figures it out quickly.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Oh yes ... if you could ask if there was anything specific she did to make him feel better about the situation, I would appreciate it.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Thanks so much!
I think you hit the nail on the head. He keeps saying I am so sincere and open and easy to talk too. He isn't use to someone caring about him or listening to him, and having answers. He keeps saying I am spoiling him ... which I don't get because I am doing nothing different than I always do. I am treating him like a friend that I care about.
He seems to have all this need for space as well and seems to be putting artifical breaks up. Like he is afraid if he doesn't, I will suck him in.
His last relationship sounded drama ridden. I have a funny feeling she was a Scorp just from the bit he has said about her. I think he was afraid of her. lol!
Whereas, I am a complete 180. She sounded very princessy and her way or the high-way. I am a libra so I am more what can we do to make you happy and feel better?
Perhaps, I will just hold the course as was my original intention.
It will all come out in the wash and all that jazz.
I owe you one. (If you need any help with Virgos or Scorps, from a libra perspective, I'm your girl.)
Hello just thought I'd come back and say that my relationship with my GF (Libra) is going really well although I don't think this is where I will end up, I think it is just part of the journey, maybe because I didn't get on with my Scorpio counter-part before.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Why date her and waste her time if she isn't what you want?
because what i think might be wrong
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Well, if you have your heart set on a Scorp, you won't be happy with a Libra. (Depending on the other placements.)
Libra is all about partnership, love, beauty, and pleasure. (Yours and ours) We are natural partners, diplomats, negotiators, peace-makers. We want fair and justice.
Scorps not so much. As I learn more about them, Scorps want power.
You see, my concern, is that the Libra will take you as her partner. If you are just playing her, her world will fall apart. A Libra will morph into your deepest needs and wants. We have a way of getting into your soul, figuring you out, and serving you the fantasy you want.
Although we tend to be aloof, we love our partners by surrending ourselves. It could devestate the libra if she gets to attached. The one thing you can never say of a libra partner, is that they didn't understand you. We are the most empathetic to our partners and live only to please them.
That is why heart-break devestates us. Luckily, we are beautiful and highly in demand, so a new lover is guaranteed. But still .... be careful playing with a Libra heart. Although air can feed the fire, one good gust, we can put you out.
(I realize I am projecting my own situation onto yours.)
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
He may have missed his window. I may have met someone else. (sparrow about to play fickel card. lol)
I can't take all the me, me, me stuff. He is just too confused. And to be honest, I think I am a little out of his league.
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Mar 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 647 · Topics: 52
Little!
Gosh I know your confusion and feel for you!
How about come right out and ask him straight up what the deal?
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Oh I know what the deal is ... he wants to put me on hold. He needs to get himself straightened out.
I can't be bothered.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Oh I found out his moon was in Scorp and his venus is in Cancer. That is part of the problem. I find men with too much water just sit around and want the woman to do all the work.
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Feb 03, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 469 · Topics: 63
i think alot of leos are attracted to libra or scorpio
Message posted by: little_sparrow on 5/31/2006 10:17:29 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.126
I find men with too much water just sit around and want the woman to do all the work.
Lol LS take out the water part and it's men full stop.
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Jun 01, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 790 · Topics: 20
Good luck, I dated a Libra female for 3 excruciating years. She could not make up her mind about anything and always waited for me to make the decisions. I prefer more of a 50/50 partnership, so it was frustrating to say the least.
If she wasn't so beautiful I would have been out long before...and of course, as a Libra, she expected to be told that she was beautiful multiple times per day...