leo woman and capricorn man

This topic was created in the Leo forum by MoonshineLeo on Friday, June 9, 2017 and has 28 replies.
Guys have you ever dated a capricorn if so how long did it take the cap to open up completely? Just started seeing a cap that i've knows my whole life. We've always been friends, our dads work together and have been best friends for over 20 years so we are trying to be very careful and try to not move too fast too soon because of our families. Our communication is completely different, he's very shy and i am not. But sometimes he surprises me with how strong and aggressive he can be when he wants something. I know i will need a lot of patience for this to work and i don't mind it at all. He seems a little wishy washy right now, are they usually like that from time to time? and then other times he knows for sure what he wants...

For the first time in my life i want to date someone who feels safe and is family friendly and responsible and respectful and he's all of those things. I don't wanna mess it up. How did other leo and capricorns work out?

Any advice is appreciated.
I was with a Capricorn in my early 20's and yes Caps and Leo's are really good with each other. We were really careful not to hurt each other but some times things can be unavoidable and they happened. He hurt me and I stayed and when he went to the military the distance made me lonely so I left him. After About 8 years of being in the military he resurfaced and we spoke a lot about trying it again.

It never happened due to the distance, he wanted to stay in the state he was in and not come back to where we grew up. I wanted to stay where I grew up I love my home town. Anywho eventually he found someone from his childhood and she moved to his state. She got pregnant and they got married and he is a good husband and father.

Caps are alright so I would def give this a try if I was you as long as he's good to you.
Caps are so awesome.

Just let him lead. And trust meh, he will lead smile

Good luck !
Dated a Cap woman. She was self absorbed in the end. In the beginning she was very professional and then BOOM out of nowhere she was warm an affectionate. It was because I was also professional and didn't respond to her growing affection toward me (I didn't know she had feelings for me until her friend told me so).

The key here is patience and keeping things low key. Capricorns aren't big on "showiness", in fact it's best to leave that to them. They respond best when they are being supported. As long as you are calm and collected, that should attract them.
Posted by Gob_Shite
I dated a couple, back in the day. A bunch of selfish bitches.

I would never date another Leo woman ever again.

Scared im not a selfish bitch at all
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I was with a Capricorn in my early 20's and yes Caps and Leo's are really good with each other. We were really careful not to hurt each other but some times things can be unavoidable and they happened. He hurt me and I stayed and when he went to the military the distance made me lonely so I left him. After About 8 years of being in the military he resurfaced and we spoke a lot about trying it again.

It never happened due to the distance, he wanted to stay in the state he was in and not come back to where we grew up. I wanted to stay where I grew up I love my home town. Anywho eventually he found someone from his childhood and she moved to his state. She got pregnant and they got married and he is a good husband and father.

Caps are alright so I would def give this a try if I was you as long as he's good to you.
Aww that made me sad. Do you regret leaving him? Capricorns are really good men...
Posted by wagtail
Caps are so awesome.

Just let him lead. And trust meh, he will lead smile

Good luck !
Caps are awesome, even the females i get along with and are really close to. They just have a no drama attitude and are so calm and patient and ugh they rock my sox
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Dated a Cap woman. She was self absorbed in the end. In the beginning she was very professional and then BOOM out of nowhere she was warm an affectionate. It was because I was also professional and didn't respond to her growing affection toward me (I didn't know she had feelings for me until her friend told me so).

The key here is patience and keeping things low key. Capricorns aren't big on "showiness", in fact it's best to leave that to them. They respond best when they are being supported. As long as you are calm and collected, that should attract them.
Got it! ;D

Did you work with her? What happened in the end? alot of details missing here lol
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Posted by Gob_Shite
I dated a couple, back in the day. A bunch of selfish bitches.

I would never date another Leo woman ever again.

Scared im not a selfish bitch at all


Maybe not but I've learnt one important lesson about Leo women and romantic relationships: someone has to constantly get screwed around with, for Leo women to be content. If it's not them doing the dirty, it's their partner (hence why Leo women are renown for making lousy relationship choices).

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i like peace in my relationships and the leos i know do too, just because we are "dramatic" doesn't mean we like the drama or "constantly get screwed around with" what-ever that means... and im very cautious with my relationships, thank you.
Posted by Rindaroo
Well I'm a Sag, but my bf is a Cap. The key to them opening up is no pressure. When they feel safe and comfortable, they reveal more and more.

i see alot of Capricorns with Sagittarius and they last for years and years, gives me hope because we are SO different
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Posted by Chuckcem
Dated a Cap woman. She was self absorbed in the end. In the beginning she was very professional and then BOOM out of nowhere she was warm an affectionate. It was because I was also professional and didn't respond to her growing affection toward me (I didn't know she had feelings for me until her friend told me so).

The key here is patience and keeping things low key. Capricorns aren't big on "showiness", in fact it's best to leave that to them. They respond best when they are being supported. As long as you are calm and collected, that should attract them.
Got it! ;D

Did you work with her? What happened in the end? alot of details missing here lol
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We worked together for a time. At that point I was 100% professional. Then on her last day I found out that she really liked me. We dated for a time, but she was a bit self absorbed and depressive.

One thing to watch out for in some Capricorns (at least in the women) is a selfish/status climbing streak. Capricorns may be a bit too logical, unemotional, and depressive as well. So for a Leo who is positive, this can be energetically draining. This particular woman was better when I acted cold and detached toward her. She also had some unresolved emotional issues as well that I found out about after we started dating.

That being said, some of my good guy friends have been Caps and both are jovial. They can have a depressive streak as well, but in a different way. While the women may sulk about status, the men seem to sulk more about attention. They can get pretty dark, but generally are pretty even keel. One of my Cap friends just got married to a lively Taurus woman. He's very by the book and calm, while she is very rambunctious, so it can work.
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Dated a Cap woman. She was self absorbed in the end. In the beginning she was very professional and then BOOM out of nowhere she was warm an affectionate. It was because I was also professional and didn't respond to her growing affection toward me (I didn't know she had feelings for me until her friend told me so).

The key here is patience and keeping things low key. Capricorns aren't big on "showiness", in fact it's best to leave that to them. They respond best when they are being supported. As long as you are calm and collected, that should attract them.
Got it! ;D

Did you work with her? What happened in the end? alot of details missing here lol
We worked together for a time. At that point I was 100% professional. Then on her last day I found out that she really liked me. We dated for a time, but she was a bit self absorbed and depressive.

One thing to watch out for in some Capricorns (at least in the women) is a selfish/status climbing streak. Capricorns may be a bit too logical, unemotional, and depressive as well. So for a Leo who is positive, this can be energetically draining. This particular woman was better when I acted cold and detached toward her. She also had some unresolved emotional issues as well that I found out about after we started dating.

That being said, some of my good guy friends have been Caps and both are jovial. They can have a depressive streak as well, but in a different way. While the women may sulk about status, the men seem to sulk more about attention. They can get pretty dark, but generally are pretty even keel. One of my Cap friends just got married to a lively Taurus woman. He's very by the book and calm, while she is very rambunctious, so it can work.
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She liked you the whole time at work and she never said anything to you or hinted it? i dont know cap woman to be like that but i can see where you have to be kind of cold to get them to come around, well we cant be a typical all in your face leo. Did it end on a bad note? Do you still talk to her?
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Well I'm a Sag, but my bf is a Cap. The key to them opening up is no pressure. When they feel safe and comfortable, they reveal more and more.

i see alot of Capricorns with Sagittarius and they last for years and years, gives me hope because we are SO different
He & I are a lot alike actually. I am dominant Cap lol. But definitely have my Sag parts too. We are a good match.

Caps like to be in control, and aren't very communicative. Well mine tells me anything but then if it's an issue between us he clams up. Extremely stubborn too. You have to really let each other be themselves. So I think for a Leo, it's important not to get into a war of wills. Ya know you are a fixed sign. Lol. They can be distant, so that might be hard for a Leo too. But then they can be these amazing affectionate sweet creatures too. Oh & Leo's love communication too, so have to be patient.

For me, he's a peaceful calming place if I let him be. But I can't let him walk on me either. So stand up for myself too. He respects that. It's kind like with a Leo ( yes I've dated Leo's & get along well with them). Keeps my fire in check without limiting me if that makes sense.

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Yes that makes sense. He is a cap with sag placements so earth and fire and i am a leo with cancer placements so fire and water. For the most part we deff get along and are very honest with eachother and open so thats a good thing. How long did you wait to get in bed with him? Winking also how long after that did it take to be official? Hes very affectionate with me i love it *blushing*

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Dated a Cap woman. She was self absorbed in the end. In the beginning she was very professional and then BOOM out of nowhere she was warm an affectionate. It was because I was also professional and didn't respond to her growing affection toward me (I didn't know she had feelings for me until her friend told me so).

The key here is patience and keeping things low key. Capricorns aren't big on "showiness", in fact it's best to leave that to them. They respond best when they are being supported. As long as you are calm and collected, that should attract them.
Got it! ;D

Did you work with her? What happened in the end? alot of details missing here lol
We worked together for a time. At that point I was 100% professional. Then on her last day I found out that she really liked me. We dated for a time, but she was a bit self absorbed and depressive.

One thing to watch out for in some Capricorns (at least in the women) is a selfish/status climbing streak. Capricorns may be a bit too logical, unemotional, and depressive as well. So for a Leo who is positive, this can be energetically draining. This particular woman was better when I acted cold and detached toward her. She also had some unresolved emotional issues as well that I found out about after we started dating.

That being said, some of my good guy friends have been Caps and both are jovial. They can have a depressive streak as well, but in a different way. While the women may sulk about status, the men seem to sulk more about attention. They can get pretty dark, but generally are pretty even keel. One of my Cap friends just got married to a lively Taurus woman. He's very by the book and calm, while she is very rambunctious, so it can work.
She liked you the whole time at work and she never said anything to you or hinted it? i dont know cap woman to be like that but i can see where you have to be kind of cold to get them to come around, well we cant be a typical all in your face leo. Did it end on a bad note? Do you still talk to her?
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Oh I literally had no clue until her friend told me. It didn't end well, no, but it wasn't the worst either. I don't talk to her because she was far to selfish in the end. She made everything about her (she even talked about herself in the 3rd person).
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Posted by Rindaroo
Well I'm a Sag, but my bf is a Cap. The key to them opening up is no pressure. When they feel safe and comfortable, they reveal more and more.

i see alot of Capricorns with Sagittarius and they last for years and years, gives me hope because we are SO different
He & I are a lot alike actually. I am dominant Cap lol. But definitely have my Sag parts too. We are a good match.

Caps like to be in control, and aren't very communicative. Well mine tells me anything but then if it's an issue between us he clams up. Extremely stubborn too. You have to really let each other be themselves. So I think for a Leo, it's important not to get into a war of wills. Ya know you are a fixed sign. Lol. They can be distant, so that might be hard for a Leo too. But then they can be these amazing affectionate sweet creatures too. Oh & Leo's love communication too, so have to be patient.

For me, he's a peaceful calming place if I let him be. But I can't let him walk on me either. So stand up for myself too. He respects that. It's kind like with a Leo ( yes I've dated Leo's & get along well with them). Keeps my fire in check without limiting me if that makes sense.



Yes that makes sense. He is a cap with sag placements so earth and fire and i am a leo with cancer placements so fire and water. For the most part we deff get along and are very honest with eachother and open so thats a good thing. How long did you wait to get in bed with him? Winking also how long after that did it take to be official? Hes very affectionate with me i love it *blushing*

actually we had a date, and then he wasn't acting serious and was acting wishy washy, so I let him go. Then 4 months later, he came back acting serious. ( in the meantime, he was watching my FB lol). Hate to admit this, but we didn't waste anytime (2nd date) lol. we were official by week2. But pretty much from the first date the second time around, there was no one else for either of us. We've been together 8 months now.
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When you said you let him go did you talk to him about it or just stopped talking to him completely ?
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Dated a Cap woman. She was self absorbed in the end. In the beginning she was very professional and then BOOM out of nowhere she was warm an affectionate. It was because I was also professional and didn't respond to her growing affection toward me (I didn't know she had feelings for me until her friend told me so).

The key here is patience and keeping things low key. Capricorns aren't big on "showiness", in fact it's best to leave that to them. They respond best when they are being supported. As long as you are calm and collected, that should attract them.
Got it! ;D

Did you work with her? What happened in the end? alot of details missing here lol
We worked together for a time. At that point I was 100% professional. Then on her last day I found out that she really liked me. We dated for a time, but she was a bit self absorbed and depressive.

One thing to watch out for in some Capricorns (at least in the women) is a selfish/status climbing streak. Capricorns may be a bit too logical, unemotional, and depressive as well. So for a Leo who is positive, this can be energetically draining. This particular woman was better when I acted cold and detached toward her. She also had some unresolved emotional issues as well that I found out about after we started dating.

That being said, some of my good guy friends have been Caps and both are jovial. They can have a depressive streak as well, but in a different way. While the women may sulk about status, the men seem to sulk more about attention. They can get pretty dark, but generally are pretty even keel. One of my Cap friends just got married to a lively Taurus woman. He's very by the book and calm, while she is very rambunctious, so it can work.
She liked you the whole time at work and she never said anything to you or hinted it? i dont know cap woman to be like that but i can see where you have to be kind of cold to get them to come around, well we cant be a typical all in your face leo. Did it end on a bad note? Do you still talk to her?
Oh I literally had no clue until her friend told me. It didn't end well, no, but it wasn't the worst either. I don't talk to her because she was far to selfish in the end. She made everything about her (she even talked about herself in the 3rd person).
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Oh wow do you know why she never told you she liked you? Was she shy or did she think you would reject her?

Talking in 3rd person ? Whatttt
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Dated a Cap woman. She was self absorbed in the end. In the beginning she was very professional and then BOOM out of nowhere she was warm an affectionate. It was because I was also professional and didn't respond to her growing affection toward me (I didn't know she had feelings for me until her friend told me so).

The key here is patience and keeping things low key. Capricorns aren't big on "showiness", in fact it's best to leave that to them. They respond best when they are being supported. As long as you are calm and collected, that should attract them.
Got it! ;D

Did you work with her? What happened in the end? alot of details missing here lol
We worked together for a time. At that point I was 100% professional. Then on her last day I found out that she really liked me. We dated for a time, but she was a bit self absorbed and depressive.

One thing to watch out for in some Capricorns (at least in the women) is a selfish/status climbing streak. Capricorns may be a bit too logical, unemotional, and depressive as well. So for a Leo who is positive, this can be energetically draining. This particular woman was better when I acted cold and detached toward her. She also had some unresolved emotional issues as well that I found out about after we started dating.

That being said, some of my good guy friends have been Caps and both are jovial. They can have a depressive streak as well, but in a different way. While the women may sulk about status, the men seem to sulk more about attention. They can get pretty dark, but generally are pretty even keel. One of my Cap friends just got married to a lively Taurus woman. He's very by the book and calm, while she is very rambunctious, so it can work.
She liked you the whole time at work and she never said anything to you or hinted it? i dont know cap woman to be like that but i can see where you have to be kind of cold to get them to come around, well we cant be a typical all in your face leo. Did it end on a bad note? Do you still talk to her?
Oh I literally had no clue until her friend told me. It didn't end well, no, but it wasn't the worst either. I don't talk to her because she was far to selfish in the end. She made everything about her (she even talked about herself in the 3rd person).
Oh wow do you know why she never told you she liked you? Was she shy or did she think you would reject her?

Talking in 3rd person ? Whatttt
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Because like me she didn't want to blur the lines of our professional relationship. Dating someone that you work with can get complicated fast. Plus she was taking the time to observe me. Capricorns are careful and methodical in nature. They are also success driven and can be opportunists. They won't necessarily risk their position if it doesn't make sense. So they seek stable partners over reckless ones.
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Well I'm a Sag, but my bf is a Cap. The key to them opening up is no pressure. When they feel safe and comfortable, they reveal more and more.

i see alot of Capricorns with Sagittarius and they last for years and years, gives me hope because we areu SO different
He & I are a lot alike actually. I am dominant Cap lol. But definitely have my Sag parts too. We are a good match.

Caps like to be in control, and aren't very communicative. Well mine tells me anything but then if it's an issue between us he clams up. Extremely stubborn too. You have to really let each other be themselves. So I think for a Leo, it's important not to get into a war of wills. Ya know you are a fixed sign. Lol. They can be distant, so that might be hard for a Leo too. But then they can be these amazing affectionate sweet creatures too. Oh & Leo's love communication too, so have to be patient.

For me, he's a peaceful calming place if I let him be. But I can't let him walk on me either. So stand up for myself too. He respects that. It's kind like with a Leo ( yes I've dated Leo's & get along well with them). Keeps my fire in check without limiting me if that makes sense.



Yes that makes sense. He is a cap with sag placements so earth and fire and i am a leo with cancer placements so fire and water. For the most part we deff get along and are very honest with eachother and open so thats a good thing. How long did you wait to get in bed with him? Winking also how long after that did it take to be official? Hes very affectionate with me i love it *blushing*

actually we had a date, and then he wasn't acting serious and was acting wishy washy, so I let him go. Then 4 months later, he came back acting serious. ( in the meantime, he was watching my FB lol). Hate to admit this, but we didn't waste anytime (2nd date) lol. we were official by week2. But pretty much from the first date the second time around, there was no one else for either of us. We've been together 8 months now.
When you said you let him go did you talk to him about it or just stopped talking to him completely ?
Just stopped talking completely. He wasn't asking me out again, or making effort. I wasn't going to chase him & that's not how I wanted to be treated. He actually texted me a couple months later out of the blue and asked if he was ever getting to see me again & then we talked about it & figured out we both had been interested but didn't know the other was. ?? but he wasn't acting like it. I told him if he wanted to see me, he needed to ask me out!!! Then he didn't AGAIN. Actually he said, if I ask you out, you can't say no. Omg! I made effort two times texting & dropped it again. When he came back two months after that, he acted different. I guess he finally figured it or me out!

I guess it was kinda Cap behavior until you're sure...
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Ahh i totally feel like i am in that stage with the Cap where hes not sure of me yet, but we've known eachother or whole lives...was he more aggressive the last time around? has he kept it steady now that you're in a relationship?

Caps are a mystery to me lol...i like it
Have you tried giving him a fidget spinner?
Energy wise we are compatible. My brother is a Leo and I had worked with one Leo lady. She was like my elder sister. Very caring and protective. It was fun. She taught me to how to be professional :-). Also Leos don't like to be corrected. A bit of ego work here. You have to be careful otherwise they take it to the heart. Similarly for Caps. We don't like to be wrong.
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Have you tried giving him a fidget spinner?

are you trying to throwing shot ?
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Um what?
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Have you tried giving him a fidget spinner?

are you trying to throwing shot ?

Um what?

fidget spinner are 4 lame
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Excuse me?! Fidget spinners are rad, bro! #FidgetGangOrDie
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Caps are so awesome.

Just let him lead. And trust meh, he will lead smile

Good luck !
Caps lead? I am waiting 23 years but so far pants wear I! And i hate it !!!
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Have you tried giving him a fidget spinner?

are you trying to throwing shot ?

Um what?

fidget spinner are 4 lame

Excuse me?! Fidget spinners are rad, bro! #FidgetGangOrDie

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I was with a Capricorn in my early 20's and yes Caps and Leo's are really good with each other. We were really careful not to hurt each other but some times things can be unavoidable and they happened. He hurt me and I stayed and when he went to the military the distance made me lonely so I left him. After About 8 years of being in the military he resurfaced and we spoke a lot about trying it again.

It never happened due to the distance, he wanted to stay in the state he was in and not come back to where we grew up. I wanted to stay where I grew up I love my home town. Anywho eventually he found someone from his childhood and she moved to his state. She got pregnant and they got married and he is a good husband and father.

Caps are alright so I would def give this a try if I was you as long as he's good to you.
Aww that made me sad. Do you regret leaving him? Capricorns are really good men...
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Short answer no, although he is a great guy I enjoyed my experiences with other ppl that I would not have had if I stayed. He was boring lol great guy tho just not my type but omgee he was fine!

Hi everyone!

So....I met this amazing Capricorn a few weeks ago. My good friend (who is also a Cap) thought we would be great together. We all went out to a hookah bar and had an amazing time! We drank quite a bit. We are currently geographically separated ( 2 different states) but he asked me to come visit him twice. So after we left the lounge we went to get food and I went back to his friends place with him (he was in tdy for a week and staying with a friend) Long story short...we ended up sleeping together that night and the next morning. He requested me on social media that morning. We talked about general things until my ride came. He gave me a big hug and kiss and told me to hit him up. The following day I DM'd him telling him to have a safe trip and I hope to see him sooner than later. He replied saying he will definitely be back and gave me his phone number. We have texted on and off since but it seems as if I always initiate the texting. He always responds but he doesn't text first. Honestly I didn't know how to feel about the situation. I didn't really know this guy but I was/am definitely interested in going further with him and possibly forming a relationship. He likes my pictures on social media and watches my IG stories also. I'm so confused...I think he is interested but I can't be sure...the leo in me is super impatient Sad
My cap ex (shortterm relationship) is great. We are good friends. I know another cap guy (my bf's best friend) and i see the similarities in both my ex and him. I as a leo get along with both of them and they are just light hearted guys who never wish or think bad about anyone. Very good to there families.

Just good people and it's the same with cap girls. I get along with them well. I do find cap girls get manipulated in relationships because they do put in a lot of effort (my opinion).

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Hi everyone!

So....I met this amazing Capricorn a few weeks ago. My good friend (who is also a Cap) thought we would be great together. We all went out to a hookah bar and had an amazing time! We drank quite a bit. We are currently geographically separated ( 2 different states) but he asked me to come visit him twice. So after we left the lounge we went to get food and I went back to his friends place with him (he was in tdy for a week and staying with a friend) Long story short...we ended up sleeping together that night and the next morning. He requested me on social media that morning. We talked about general things until my ride came. He gave me a big hug and kiss and told me to hit him up. The following day I DM'd him telling him to have a safe trip and I hope to see him sooner than later. He replied saying he will definitely be back and gave me his phone number. We have texted on and off since but it seems as if I always initiate the texting. He always responds but he doesn't text first. Honestly I didn't know how to feel about the situation. I didn't really know this guy but I was/am definitely interested in going further with him and possibly forming a relationship. He likes my pictures on social media and watches my IG stories also. I'm so confused...I think he is interested but I can't be sure...the leo in me is super impatient Sad
Be patient but also sometimes caps need that extra pushh