Leo woman ended it with Cap man

This topic was created in the Leo forum by InLoveWithLife on Sunday, January 1, 2017 and has 31 replies.
I am not gonna say "I should've listened to all those who said that this won't work out or I should run". It failed. Yes. But I've no regret. It ran for around 1 year. LDR. Yikes! In some ways, the best. In some ways, the Worst!

I always knew he liked me, but I suppose he was sort of scared in my presence, as he was too secretive and mysterious and I expected him to be open and free like I am. Loads of lies he said! All because he liked me when there was already a Virgo in his life. (And they say these guys are loyal!) He loved my attention definitely, and I guess I enjoyed his, too.

But we are totally different and it takes too much of compromise on both ends which neither of us is willing to make. He used to annoy me with his cold, stingy, boring, passive aggressive nature, while my bubbly, outgoing, outspoken nature annoyed him. Tooooo slow to think and decide! Always wants to hold the upper hand and highly secretive, plus also a cheat! All long, he had been in a live-in relationship with someone. He's comfortable only with someone submissive, someone who'd be under his control, and that's definitely not me!

Whoever said Caps are stingy and boring are absolutely right!

When I found in the end what a jerk he was, cheating two (or more) women, I got so mad! Finally I was able to say goodbye and move on. But I'm really surprised at how that Virgo could stay with him even after finding out the truth. Compatible signs, yes, but like this? "Do anything to me and I'll not leave you at all!"??? A real doormat?

Well, that's her business. Now I'm here to advise other Leo girls here too to not take a Cap seriously till you are 200% sure he's the guy!

It was very painful. I was made to go through hell. I am going through the mixed emotions state now, I guess. Happiness, relief, disappointment, hatred, anger, disgust, etc. How do I get out of this stage and fully move on?
Feeling the same way about I cap I dated. They are not the easiest people to date! Unless they are completely in love with you.
Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!

Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!

BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
Posted by DivaCanLeo
So what's his moon sign.

I'm not aware of that. He'd never tell me anything after the romance phase! Tooooo secretive with everyone!

Mine is Scorpio (moon sign).

I was deeply attached and he would never openly express anything. I don't know even now if he's regretting or if he's having a cool time!

So how long will it take for me to fully move on? This is the first time I got so deep!
Posted by InLoveWithLife
Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!

Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!

BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
You said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!

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Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!

Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!

BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
You said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!

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Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!

How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!

I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!
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Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!

Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!

BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
You said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!

Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!

How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!

I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!
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Yea, I'm done waiting around for him. Going to start dating again! How did you find out about the other girl?
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Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!

Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!

BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
You said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!

Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!

How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!

I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!
Yea, I'm done waiting around for him. Going to start dating again! How did you find out about the other girl?
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It was through social media. He'd blocked me, but still I knew. Both of us always kinda suspected him. She didn't know about me and I didn't know about her, till I told her the truth. Then we decided to confront him in person.

But she hasn't taken it so seriously. I mean forgiving your loved one is a good thing, but to this extent? Or maybe he convinced her with some new story? I don't know. But I've learnt to not trust anyone too secretive from now on.

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Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!

Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!

BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
You said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!

Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!

How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!

I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!
Yea, I'm done waiting around for him. Going to start dating again! How did you find out about the other girl?
It was through social media. He'd blocked me, but still I knew. Both of us always kinda suspected him. She didn't know about me and I didn't know about her, till I told her the truth. Then we decided to confront him in person.

But she hasn't taken it so seriously. I mean forgiving your loved one is a good thing, but to this extent? Or maybe he convinced her with some new story? I don't know. But I've learnt to not trust anyone too secretive from now on.

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Wow! That's crap. Good for you for having enough self respect to be done with him!! It should get better soon. Start dating again!
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Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!

Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!

BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
You said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!

Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!

How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!

I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!
Yea, I'm done waiting around for him. Going to start dating again! How did you find out about the other girl?
It was through social media. He'd blocked me, but still I knew. Both of us always kinda suspected him. She didn't know about me and I didn't know about her, till I told her the truth. Then we decided to confront him in person.

But she hasn't taken it so seriously. I mean forgiving your loved one is a good thing, but to this extent? Or maybe he convinced her with some new story? I don't know. But I've learnt to not trust anyone too secretive from now on.

Wow! That's crap. Good for you for having enough self respect to be done with him!! It should get better soon. Start dating again!
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Yeah. I can't think of anything less. Hate him! Now beginning the dance again and yes, friends are helpful and understanding!

Posted by Capri-sun
Only you will know how much time you need
You're right. Generally I can't stay unhappy for long. Somehow happiness always creeps in. But this is the first time I got so serious about a relationship. So I'm wondering...

Now that you're a Cap, tell me, na? How much time would it take for the typical Cap? Are they carefree and easily move on or are they deeply hurt and refuse to admit it?
I'm curious.

You say you've never fallen so deeply, yet you say that he was mysterious, secretive, and overall didn't reveal much. What exactly do you think you fell for?
Posted by TrueFantasy
Sorry you went through that but now you're FREE!

I'm a Virgo and I can barely get along with Caps Sad and about Virgos being a 'doormat' ... well I've sorta noticed this behaviour in a lot of them in relationships which pisses me off especially for my Virgo sister. Her relationship is absolute HELL but she's just accepting it. Her husband is annoyingly secretive. >Sad

I'm glad you you're not taking his shit.

That was one experience. Continue doing what makes you happy. At this moment, are you taking a pause from finding a relationship or are you still keen?



Hey, thanks for that! At the moment, kindness and understanding from anyone feels good. It was really painful. My main aim of confronting was to help the Virgo see reality, but if she's not willing to let go, then there's nothing I can do! I mean that I can't tolerate a man doing this to any woman, using her, exploiting and then charming her to keep her in his clutch!

But if I say anything more to her, I bet it'll be seen as jealousy or something. That's one thing I certainly don't have. So like my friends advised, I guess I'll have simply walk out!

And I'm going through mixed emotions, dear. Rage, disgust, disappointment, relief, childlike happiness, etc. So I really don't know whether I should take a good break or keep my eyes open for the right guy!

Posted by aquarius_beauty
Leos are such sweethearts and love to find that perfect mate but your impulsive and attention seeking nature makes you guys jump the gun too fast. You guys see a Capricorn your drawn in by their practical appeal, career oriented, stable outlook, and voluptuous bodies (most caps tend to have nice bodies). Then you realize that they're not what they appear to be. They're too cruel, cold, and can be unsympathetic to a warm Leo. Plus they tend to go through stages of depression which seriously drags a sunny Leo down.

My Leos ex girlfriend was a Cap. She broke his heart by cheating on him. One day she called him and told him she was getting back with her ex after having sex with him. After he had warned her to tell her ex to keep away. She was cruel to him, treated him like sh#t, and the way she ended things with him left him severely scarred. She slept around with his coworkers, only adding to the humiliation, then tried to get him back.

But in all, I feel like these life experiences teach us valuable lessons in learning to appreciate people who are truly good to us.
I agree with the valuable lessons, yes. But in your friend's case, god, it should've been really painful! I do feel for him. Hope he's better now?

And in this case, it was none of those qualities that attracted me to him. It was his subtle expressions of love through poetry, his never pushing on sex when that's what most other men want right away, his romantic moves, etc that attracted me.

Now I wonder if he is feeling bad, too, or if he's really cool! Do cheaters ever regret? On one side, I feel that guilt is unstoppable. But on the other side, I think, he'll do everything to keep this out of his mind and go on with his dirty ways! Don't know.

Posted by lnana04
I'm curious.

You say you've never fallen so deeply, yet you say that he was mysterious, secretive, and overall didn't reveal much. What exactly do you think you fell for?
Majority of the men I date badly want sex and that's disgusting when you don't know anything about them. That kinda attitude, in my eyes, is perverted and sickening. I never let such men come anywhere near me. This guy wanted it, too, but when I said that I'm not comfortable (it was early), he didn't push me at all. I simply liked it. Unlike the other guys who try desperately to woo me and fail!

Also he was too reserved, my opposite, and struggled with words to express his love initially. After a month or so, he expressed his love for me in the form of a poem, that too, in a very subtle, romantic way. Loved it.

From then on, little by little, all the negative things that they say about Capricorn showed up and I went mad. Silent treatment. Hot and cold behavior. Too secretive. Passive aggressive. (Don't you even have the guts to Openly tell me that you're mad, Mr.? I wanted to ask him) Cowardliness. Pessimism. Grumpy face. Shucks!

But I thought he was loyal. That's the only reason I stayed, because I have my weaknesses, too. But lack of loyalty is one thing I certainly won't tolerate! Done.
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@InLoveWithLife You guys were in an LDR? Had you ever met him in person?

If not, that might be the reason you have such strong feelings for this guy. You only get to see the good side of him and don't have to deal with his flaws or annoying habits, if any, that you get to observe when you're seeing someone regularly.

Just remember that the people you see online are just as normal (or maybe less), boring, disgusting, immature...as the people you see in real life.

Cap or not, the guy was definitely not emotionally committed to either of you girls. Time to leave this behind and move on.
In the course of 10 months, we'd met each other personally only twice. And the girl was there in his life, but unaware.

Looks like you're right. Guess he's emotionally committed to neither! I wish that girl realises this, too, but he's too good at spinning stories and charming and I don't think she's understood that he is not true to her either! But I guess I've gotta stop worrying for her, which to be honest, is difficult for me. I can't bear to see anyone suffering or being exploited!

I'll try to let things go and.move on. My friends are nice and sweet. And kind words from you guys are also helpful. Hope to come out of this mess soon! smile

Posted by ITSCAPLOCK
Capricorn guys are complete jerks. Im glad you dumped is idiot ass. They're cheaters too. They like leading woman on instead of just being nice.
Thank you, Caplock! smile

But I just can't imagine. Ok, a jerk. But won't a man have even a bit of shame? Caught in the act and he won't apologise even then and would still go on with his disgusting ways? Yuck!

Yeah, I'm now really glad I.left him! smile
Posted by DivaCanLeo
I love caps and they love me but I'll never get in a relationship with them. Dull as bricks.
Hahaha! Well said! I guess he's a walking brickwall, hating to reveal his inner self to absolutely anyone! Loners are what they deserve to be!
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Leos are such sweethearts and love to find that perfect mate but your impulsive and attention seeking nature makes you guys jump the gun too fast. You guys see a Capricorn your drawn in by their practical appeal, career oriented, stable outlook, and voluptuous bodies (most caps tend to have nice bodies). Then you realize that they're not what they appear to be. They're too cruel, cold, and can be unsympathetic to a warm Leo. Plus they tend to go through stages of depression which seriously drags a sunny Leo down.

My Leos ex girlfriend was a Cap. She broke his heart by cheating on him. One day she called him and told him she was getting back with her ex after having sex with him. After he had warned her to tell her ex to keep away. She was cruel to him, treated him like sh#t, and the way she ended things with him left him severely scarred. She slept around with his coworkers, only adding to the humiliation, then tried to get him back.

But in all, I feel like these life experiences teach us valuable lessons in learning to appreciate people who are truly good to us.
I agree with the valuable lessons, yes. But in your friend's case, god, it should've been really painful! I do feel for him. Hope he's better now?

And in this case, it was none of those qualities that attracted me to him. It was his subtle expressions of love through poetry, his never pushing on sex when that's what most other men want right away, his romantic moves, etc that attracted me.

Now I wonder if he is feeling bad, too, or if he's really cool! Do cheaters ever regret? On one side, I feel that guilt is unstoppable. But on the other side, I think, he'll do everything to keep this out of his mind and go on with his dirty ways! Don't know.



Don't wonder about those things because you will never have answers to them. It's irrelevant at this point.

Glad you're seeing things clearly. Time to be happy smile

I know it hurts, it's for your best that the truth came out and now you're aware. Hope you bounce back & continue to be the beautiful person that you are.

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Thank you so much. Means a lot. Yes, I guess it's for good.

But I'm still struggling to totally let go. Having been cheated for nearly a year... I know that there are worse stories. Well, with the help of my friends and you guys, I guess I'll be able to totally let go pretty soon, dear.

Thanks! smile
Posted by DivaCanLeo
This is the thing you'll never know if a cap really loves you. They're very calculative. They calculate everything. It's not feelings for them. They rationalize everything.

Shucks! So he'll go on cheating more and more women, without any real feelings, just calculating and making his.moves seeking pleasure, more women will fall prey, and there's nothing I can do about it?

He's a liar and now I guess that he's convinced that girl to believe in his story, that she's the only woman he ever loved! Looks like there's nothing I can do to help her.

I guess I should forget all this nonsense and move on!
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I love caps and they love me but I'll never get in a relationship with them. Dull as bricks.
Hahaha! Well said! I guess he's a walking brickwall, hating to reveal his inner self to absolutely anyone! Loners are what they deserve to be!
Don't get bitter. The men are weird. I have a cap brother. Talking to him about love is like we're complete opposite.

He will not allow feelings to dictate his life. I mean a chick will have to be inspirational

He plays the very long long game
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Oh! Ok. Not my kind, I guess. I'm fast paced. I believe in not wasting one moment in life, and I want all the happiness and peace I can find for me and others in the present.

If someone will be so into the future and not enjoying the beautiful present, well, it would really get on my nerves, I suppose. Good I left him anyway! Let him go by what the calculator says!
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It's not easy being lied too and being cheated on.

Where is ROM
Well, it isn't. But in my case, my anger has always been my best friend. Instead of being sad and whining, I guess I'd get mad. The madness will go on for a while, but soon, he'll become history. "Ah! One more guy! Big deal!" I'll tell myself and move on with my cheerful attitude.

But why am I being so stupid and thinking about that woman's future when she herself doesn't seem to care much? Am I being too good/stupid?
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Capricorn guys are complete jerks. Im glad you dumped is idiot ass. They're cheaters too. They like leading woman on instead of just being nice.
Thank you, Caplock! smile

But I just can't imagine. Ok, a jerk. But won't a man have even a bit of shame? Caught in the act and he won't apologise even then and would still go on with his disgusting ways? Yuck!

Yeah, I'm now really glad I.left him! smile
Yay let's celebrate together. Wanna get a beer ?

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Love to, Caplock! How about some dancing? Big Grin
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Leos are such sweethearts and love to find that perfect mate but your impulsive and attention seeking nature makes you guys jump the gun too fast. You guys see a Capricorn your drawn in by their practical appeal, career oriented, stable outlook, and voluptuous bodies (most caps tend to have nice bodies). Then you realize that they're not what they appear to be. They're too cruel, cold, and can be unsympathetic to a warm Leo. Plus they tend to go through stages of depression which seriously drags a sunny Leo down.

My Leos ex girlfriend was a Cap. She broke his heart by cheating on him. One day she called him and told him she was getting back with her ex after having sex with him. After he had warned her to tell her ex to keep away. She was cruel to him, treated him like sh#t, and the way she ended things with him left him severely scarred. She slept around with his coworkers, only adding to the humiliation, then tried to get him back.

But in all, I feel like these life experiences teach us valuable lessons in learning to appreciate people who are truly good to us.
I agree with the valuable lessons, yes. But in your friend's case, god, it should've been really painful! I do feel for him. Hope he's better now?

And in this case, it was none of those qualities that attracted me to him. It was his subtle expressions of love through poetry, his never pushing on sex when that's what most other men want right away, his romantic moves, etc that attracted me.

Now I wonder if he is feeling bad, too, or if he's really cool! Do cheaters ever regret? On one side, I feel that guilt is unstoppable. But on the other side, I think, he'll do everything to keep this out of his mind and go on with his dirty ways! Don't know.

Yes he's fine now. It's been over a year. Cheaters do feel guilt they're human after all. But that doesn't mean that they'll change their ways. Seems like your still fixated on him. Honestly, if you don't let go then he's going to continue hurting you. I don't think that Caps are good for Leos unless they have a lot of synastry planets. Otherwise I always see Leos walking away with a broken heart.
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I was hurt, but I'm pretty strong, dear. It is just that I believe in justice. Yes, from what I know, even repeat cheaters do face guilt sometime or the other. But otherwise I'm happy and going, mostly. Once in a while some anger crops up, but I'm able to overcome it pretty soon. Lemme see...

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Capricorn guys are complete jerks. Im glad you dumped is idiot ass. They're cheaters too. They like leading woman on instead of just being nice.
Thank you, Caplock! smile

But I just can't imagine. Ok, a jerk. But won't a man have even a bit of shame? Caught in the act and he won't apologise even then and would still go on with his disgusting ways? Yuck!

Yeah, I'm now really glad I.left him! smile
Yay let's celebrate together. Wanna get a beer ?

Love to, Caplock! How about some dancing? Big Grin
But i don't know you lols

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Lol! We don't have to know each other to celebrate, be friends and have fun over a forum. Tongue
Really? That makes me think twice bout my situation
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It's not easy being lied too and being cheated on.

Where is ROM
Well, it isn't. But in my case, my anger has always been my best friend. Instead of being sad and whining, I guess I'd get mad. The madness will go on for a while, but soon, he'll become history. "Ah! One more guy! Big deal!" I'll tell myself and move on with my cheerful attitude.

But why am I being so stupid and thinking about that woman's future when she herself doesn't seem to care much? Am I being too good/stupid?
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No youre not I know what this is. You care about this stupid hoe because shes is what she is a stupid hoe. You have the common sense and grace to leave after this dirty trash cap fucked with your love. Now after that being side youre still a leo meaning youre stilled PISSED he would even try you and he did so you dont want him TO HAVE anyone by his side knowing hes a screwed up loser. leos are nice and heartfelt but once loyalty between the love gets even one little scratch theres no full trust coming back. Honestly he deserves to have his heart pulled out and dragged across glass shards but you let karma take care of that you should go on living a lovely life for you. Im currently dealing with a cap male he hasnt cheated yet but he is boring af like everyone says caps are. And everything else that goes with cap. But trust me once he screws up. The game is over for him
Posted by Leowoman0814
Really? That makes me think twice bout my situation
Now I strongly believe in "trust your gut", because in the very early stage, I had some negative feeling, something that said, "No, leave", but I didn't have a valid reason. I didn't listen. Now I understand.

Think it over and then decide, dear. Be very careful.
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It's not easy being lied too and being cheated on.

Where is ROM
Well, it isn't. But in my case, my anger has always been my best friend. Instead of being sad and whining, I guess I'd get mad. The madness will go on for a while, but soon, he'll become history. "Ah! One more guy! Big deal!" I'll tell myself and move on with my cheerful attitude.

But why am I being so stupid and thinking about that woman's future when she herself doesn't seem to care much? Am I being too good/stupid?
No youre not I know what this is. You care about this stupid hoe because shes is what she is a stupid hoe. You have the common sense and grace to leave after this dirty trash cap fucked with your love. Now after that being side youre still a leo meaning youre stilled PISSED he would even try you and he did so you dont want him TO HAVE anyone by his side knowing hes a screwed up loser. leos are nice and heartfelt but once loyalty between the love gets even one little scratch theres no full trust coming back. Honestly he deserves to have his heart pulled out and dragged across glass shards but you let karma take care of that you should go on living a lovely life for you. Im currently dealing with a cap male he hasnt cheated yet but he is boring af like everyone says caps are. And everything else that goes with cap. But trust me once he screws up. The game is over for him
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Thank you, dear. Guess I'm doing better now. Did some good shopping and pampered myself with stuff I enjoy. Yes, you're right. He deserves that, but yes, I'll let life teach him a lesson.

And regarding that female, it's up to her. Not my business. And when you say 'boring', yes, this guy's just that! If one looks at his social media, one might think he's leading an awesome life. But in real life, Whoa! Such a boring life! I'm made to wonder if he's really alive...

Glad it's all over! smile

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@InLoveWithLife You guys were in an LDR? Had you ever met him in person?

If not, that might be the reason you have such strong feelings for this guy. You only get to see the good side of him and don't have to deal with his flaws or annoying habits, if any, that you get to observe when you're seeing someone regularly.

Just remember that the people you see online are just as normal (or maybe less), boring, disgusting, immature...as the people you see in real life.

Cap or not, the guy was definitely not emotionally committed to either of you girls. Time to leave this behind and move on.
In the course of 10 months, we'd met each other personally only twice. And the girl was there in his life, but unaware.

Looks like you're right. Guess he's emotionally committed to neither! I wish that girl realises this, too, but he's too good at spinning stories and charming and I don't think she's understood that he is not true to her either! But I guess I've gotta stop worrying for her, which to be honest, is difficult for me. I can't bear to see anyone suffering or being exploited!

I'll try to let things go and.move on. My friends are nice and sweet. And kind words from you guys are also helpful. Hope to come out of this mess soon! smile

Well, it's a new year. Leave the past behind and start a new chapter.

I wish you all the best! smile

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Yep. That's what I've been telling myself, too! smile

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Leos are such sweethearts and love to find that perfect mate but your impulsive and attention seeking nature makes you guys jump the gun too fast. You guys see a Capricorn your drawn in by their practical appeal, career oriented, stable outlook, and voluptuous bodies (most caps tend to have nice bodies). Then you realize that they're not what they appear to be. They're too cruel, cold, and can be unsympathetic to a warm Leo. Plus they tend to go through stages of depression which seriously drags a sunny Leo down.

My Leos ex girlfriend was a Cap. She broke his heart by cheating on him. One day she called him and told him she was getting back with her ex after having sex with him. After he had warned her to tell her ex to keep away. She was cruel to him, treated him like sh#t, and the way she ended things with him left him severely scarred. She slept around with his coworkers, only adding to the humiliation, then tried to get him back.

But in all, I feel like these life experiences teach us valuable lessons in learning to appreciate people who are truly good to us.
I agree with the valuable lessons, yes. But in your friend's case, god, it should've been really painful! I do feel for him. Hope he's better now?

And in this case, it was none of those qualities that attracted me to him. It was his subtle expressions of love through poetry, his never pushing on sex when that's what most other men want right away, his romantic moves, etc that attracted me.

Now I wonder if he is feeling bad, too, or if he's really cool! Do cheaters ever regret? On one side, I feel that guilt is unstoppable. But on the other side, I think, he'll do everything to keep this out of his mind and go on with his dirty ways! Don't know.

Yes he's fine now. It's been over a year. Cheaters do feel guilt they're human after all. But that doesn't mean that they'll change their ways. Seems like your still fixated on him. Honestly, if you don't let go then he's going to continue hurting you. I don't think that Caps are good for Leos unless they have a lot of synastry planets. Otherwise I always see Leos walking away with a broken heart.


I was hurt, but I'm pretty strong, dear. It is just that I believe in justice. Yes, from what I know, even repeat cheaters do face guilt sometime or the other. But otherwise I'm happy and going, mostly. Once in a while some anger crops up, but I'm able to overcome it pretty soon. Lemme see...

Do what you have to do in order to move on.
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I went out shopping and purchased a few trendy outfits. I'm also in touch with a few good friends who are very supportive of me. So far I'm keeping myself busy with something or the other... Hope it works out. But from what I've read, it's natural to feel upset and it'd take some time and one must accept it, they say.