Posted by DivaCanLeoI'm not aware of that. He'd never tell me anything after the romance phase! Tooooo secretive with everyone!
So what's his moon sign.
Posted by InLoveWithLifeYou said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!
Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!
Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!
BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
Posted by pinkbird03Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!Posted by InLoveWithLifeYou said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!
Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!
Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!
BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?click to expand
Posted by InLoveWithLifeYea, I'm done waiting around for him. Going to start dating again! How did you find out about the other girl?Posted by pinkbird03Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!Posted by InLoveWithLifeYou said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!
Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!
Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!
BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!
I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03It was through social media. He'd blocked me, but still I knew. Both of us always kinda suspected him. She didn't know about me and I didn't know about her, till I told her the truth. Then we decided to confront him in person.Posted by InLoveWithLifeYea, I'm done waiting around for him. Going to start dating again! How did you find out about the other girl?Posted by pinkbird03Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!Posted by InLoveWithLifeYou said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!
Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!
Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!
BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!
I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!click to expand
Posted by InLoveWithLifeWow! That's crap. Good for you for having enough self respect to be done with him!! It should get better soon. Start dating again!Posted by pinkbird03It was through social media. He'd blocked me, but still I knew. Both of us always kinda suspected him. She didn't know about me and I didn't know about her, till I told her the truth. Then we decided to confront him in person.Posted by InLoveWithLifeYea, I'm done waiting around for him. Going to start dating again! How did you find out about the other girl?Posted by pinkbird03Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!Posted by InLoveWithLifeYou said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!
Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!
Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!
BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!
I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!
But she hasn't taken it so seriously. I mean forgiving your loved one is a good thing, but to this extent? Or maybe he convinced her with some new story? I don't know. But I've learnt to not trust anyone too secretive from now on.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Yeah. I can't think of anything less. Hate him! Now beginning the dance again and yes, friends are helpful and understanding!Posted by InLoveWithLifeWow! That's crap. Good for you for having enough self respect to be done with him!! It should get better soon. Start dating again!Posted by pinkbird03It was through social media. He'd blocked me, but still I knew. Both of us always kinda suspected him. She didn't know about me and I didn't know about her, till I told her the truth. Then we decided to confront him in person.Posted by InLoveWithLifeYea, I'm done waiting around for him. Going to start dating again! How did you find out about the other girl?Posted by pinkbird03Oh! Please leave, dear. The longer we stay, the more we are taken for granted by such guys!Posted by InLoveWithLifeYou said it! I'm treated like an option. He won't let me move on, but he's definitely not committing to anything! We broke up months ago, but still are friends and talk a lot. It's not going anywhere. So I'm giving up completely!
Glad to meet you, pinkbird03! Now I remember us sharing all that confusion, hurt and pain on this forum!
Seriously, these guys seem to be such jerk. Neither will they clearly tell you that they are not in love with you nor will they let you move on. Were we treated like options or hobbies or something? Hate it!
BTW you guys broke up? Or you're planning to?
How he made me go through all the ups and downs but he's always wearing the 'i don't care' mask - poker face!
I'm done, really, but I'm just wondering for how long this mixed emotions stage will last!
But she hasn't taken it so seriously. I mean forgiving your loved one is a good thing, but to this extent? Or maybe he convinced her with some new story? I don't know. But I've learnt to not trust anyone too secretive from now on.click to expand
Posted by Capri-sunYou're right. Generally I can't stay unhappy for long. Somehow happiness always creeps in. But this is the first time I got so serious about a relationship. So I'm wondering...
Only you will know how much time you need
Posted by TrueFantasy
Sorry you went through that but now you're FREE!
I'm a Virgo and I can barely get along with Caps and about Virgos being a 'doormat' ... well I've sorta noticed this behaviour in a lot of them in relationships which pisses me off especially for my Virgo sister. Her relationship is absolute HELL but she's just accepting it. Her husband is annoyingly secretive. >
I'm glad you you're not taking his shit.
That was one experience. Continue doing what makes you happy. At this moment, are you taking a pause from finding a relationship or are you still keen?
Posted by aquarius_beautyI agree with the valuable lessons, yes. But in your friend's case, god, it should've been really painful! I do feel for him. Hope he's better now?
Leos are such sweethearts and love to find that perfect mate but your impulsive and attention seeking nature makes you guys jump the gun too fast. You guys see a Capricorn your drawn in by their practical appeal, career oriented, stable outlook, and voluptuous bodies (most caps tend to have nice bodies). Then you realize that they're not what they appear to be. They're too cruel, cold, and can be unsympathetic to a warm Leo. Plus they tend to go through stages of depression which seriously drags a sunny Leo down.
My Leos ex girlfriend was a Cap. She broke his heart by cheating on him. One day she called him and told him she was getting back with her ex after having sex with him. After he had warned her to tell her ex to keep away. She was cruel to him, treated him like sh#t, and the way she ended things with him left him severely scarred. She slept around with his coworkers, only adding to the humiliation, then tried to get him back.
But in all, I feel like these life experiences teach us valuable lessons in learning to appreciate people who are truly good to us.
Posted by lnana04Majority of the men I date badly want sex and that's disgusting when you don't know anything about them. That kinda attitude, in my eyes, is perverted and sickening. I never let such men come anywhere near me. This guy wanted it, too, but when I said that I'm not comfortable (it was early), he didn't push me at all. I simply liked it. Unlike the other guys who try desperately to woo me and fail!
I'm curious.
You say you've never fallen so deeply, yet you say that he was mysterious, secretive, and overall didn't reveal much. What exactly do you think you fell for?
Posted by CAPRILICIOUSIn the course of 10 months, we'd met each other personally only twice. And the girl was there in his life, but unaware.
@InLoveWithLife You guys were in an LDR? Had you ever met him in person?
If not, that might be the reason you have such strong feelings for this guy. You only get to see the good side of him and don't have to deal with his flaws or annoying habits, if any, that you get to observe when you're seeing someone regularly.
Just remember that the people you see online are just as normal (or maybe less), boring, disgusting, immature...as the people you see in real life.
Cap or not, the guy was definitely not emotionally committed to either of you girls. Time to leave this behind and move on.
Posted by ITSCAPLOCKThank you, Caplock!
Capricorn guys are complete jerks. Im glad you dumped is idiot ass. They're cheaters too. They like leading woman on instead of just being nice.
Posted by DivaCanLeoHahaha! Well said! I guess he's a walking brickwall, hating to reveal his inner self to absolutely anyone! Loners are what they deserve to be!
I love caps and they love me but I'll never get in a relationship with them. Dull as bricks.
Posted by Capri-sunThank you so much. Means a lot. Yes, I guess it's for good.Posted by InLoveWithLifePosted by aquarius_beautyI agree with the valuable lessons, yes. But in your friend's case, god, it should've been really painful! I do feel for him. Hope he's better now?
Leos are such sweethearts and love to find that perfect mate but your impulsive and attention seeking nature makes you guys jump the gun too fast. You guys see a Capricorn your drawn in by their practical appeal, career oriented, stable outlook, and voluptuous bodies (most caps tend to have nice bodies). Then you realize that they're not what they appear to be. They're too cruel, cold, and can be unsympathetic to a warm Leo. Plus they tend to go through stages of depression which seriously drags a sunny Leo down.
My Leos ex girlfriend was a Cap. She broke his heart by cheating on him. One day she called him and told him she was getting back with her ex after having sex with him. After he had warned her to tell her ex to keep away. She was cruel to him, treated him like sh#t, and the way she ended things with him left him severely scarred. She slept around with his coworkers, only adding to the humiliation, then tried to get him back.
But in all, I feel like these life experiences teach us valuable lessons in learning to appreciate people who are truly good to us.
And in this case, it was none of those qualities that attracted me to him. It was his subtle expressions of love through poetry, his never pushing on sex when that's what most other men want right away, his romantic moves, etc that attracted me.
Now I wonder if he is feeling bad, too, or if he's really cool! Do cheaters ever regret? On one side, I feel that guilt is unstoppable. But on the other side, I think, he'll do everything to keep this out of his mind and go on with his dirty ways! Don't know.
Don't wonder about those things because you will never have answers to them. It's irrelevant at this point.
Glad you're seeing things clearly. Time to be happy
I know it hurts, it's for your best that the truth came out and now you're aware. Hope you bounce back & continue to be the beautiful person that you are.click to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoShucks! So he'll go on cheating more and more women, without any real feelings, just calculating and making his.moves seeking pleasure, more women will fall prey, and there's nothing I can do about it?
This is the thing you'll never know if a cap really loves you. They're very calculative. They calculate everything. It's not feelings for them. They rationalize everything.
Posted by DivaCanLeoOh! Ok. Not my kind, I guess. I'm fast paced. I believe in not wasting one moment in life, and I want all the happiness and peace I can find for me and others in the present.Posted by InLoveWithLifeDon't get bitter. The men are weird. I have a cap brother. Talking to him about love is like we're complete opposite.Posted by DivaCanLeoHahaha! Well said! I guess he's a walking brickwall, hating to reveal his inner self to absolutely anyone! Loners are what they deserve to be!
I love caps and they love me but I'll never get in a relationship with them. Dull as bricks.
He will not allow feelings to dictate his life. I mean a chick will have to be inspirational
He plays the very long long gameclick to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoWell, it isn't. But in my case, my anger has always been my best friend. Instead of being sad and whining, I guess I'd get mad. The madness will go on for a while, but soon, he'll become history. "Ah! One more guy! Big deal!" I'll tell myself and move on with my cheerful attitude.
It's not easy being lied too and being cheated on.
Where is ROM
Posted by ITSCAPLOCKLove to, Caplock! How about some dancing?Posted by InLoveWithLifeYay let's celebrate together. Wanna get a beer ?Posted by ITSCAPLOCKThank you, Caplock!
Capricorn guys are complete jerks. Im glad you dumped is idiot ass. They're cheaters too. They like leading woman on instead of just being nice.
But I just can't imagine. Ok, a jerk. But won't a man have even a bit of shame? Caught in the act and he won't apologise even then and would still go on with his disgusting ways? Yuck!
Yeah, I'm now really glad I.left him!click to expand
Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by InLoveWithLifeYes he's fine now. It's been over a year. Cheaters do feel guilt they're human after all. But that doesn't mean that they'll change their ways. Seems like your still fixated on him. Honestly, if you don't let go then he's going to continue hurting you. I don't think that Caps are good for Leos unless they have a lot of synastry planets. Otherwise I always see Leos walking away with a broken heart.Posted by aquarius_beautyI agree with the valuable lessons, yes. But in your friend's case, god, it should've been really painful! I do feel for him. Hope he's better now?
Leos are such sweethearts and love to find that perfect mate but your impulsive and attention seeking nature makes you guys jump the gun too fast. You guys see a Capricorn your drawn in by their practical appeal, career oriented, stable outlook, and voluptuous bodies (most caps tend to have nice bodies). Then you realize that they're not what they appear to be. They're too cruel, cold, and can be unsympathetic to a warm Leo. Plus they tend to go through stages of depression which seriously drags a sunny Leo down.
My Leos ex girlfriend was a Cap. She broke his heart by cheating on him. One day she called him and told him she was getting back with her ex after having sex with him. After he had warned her to tell her ex to keep away. She was cruel to him, treated him like sh#t, and the way she ended things with him left him severely scarred. She slept around with his coworkers, only adding to the humiliation, then tried to get him back.
But in all, I feel like these life experiences teach us valuable lessons in learning to appreciate people who are truly good to us.
And in this case, it was none of those qualities that attracted me to him. It was his subtle expressions of love through poetry, his never pushing on sex when that's what most other men want right away, his romantic moves, etc that attracted me.
Now I wonder if he is feeling bad, too, or if he's really cool! Do cheaters ever regret? On one side, I feel that guilt is unstoppable. But on the other side, I think, he'll do everything to keep this out of his mind and go on with his dirty ways! Don't know.click to expand
Posted by ITSCAPLOCKLol! We don't have to know each other to celebrate, be friends and have fun over a forum.Posted by InLoveWithLifeBut i don't know you lolsPosted by ITSCAPLOCKLove to, Caplock! How about some dancing?Posted by InLoveWithLifeYay let's celebrate together. Wanna get a beer ?Posted by ITSCAPLOCKThank you, Caplock!
Capricorn guys are complete jerks. Im glad you dumped is idiot ass. They're cheaters too. They like leading woman on instead of just being nice.
But I just can't imagine. Ok, a jerk. But won't a man have even a bit of shame? Caught in the act and he won't apologise even then and would still go on with his disgusting ways? Yuck!
Yeah, I'm now really glad I.left him!click to expand
Posted by InLoveWithLifeNo youre not I know what this is. You care about this stupid hoe because shes is what she is a stupid hoe. You have the common sense and grace to leave after this dirty trash cap fucked with your love. Now after that being side youre still a leo meaning youre stilled PISSED he would even try you and he did so you dont want him TO HAVE anyone by his side knowing hes a screwed up loser. leos are nice and heartfelt but once loyalty between the love gets even one little scratch theres no full trust coming back. Honestly he deserves to have his heart pulled out and dragged across glass shards but you let karma take care of that you should go on living a lovely life for you. Im currently dealing with a cap male he hasnt cheated yet but he is boring af like everyone says caps are. And everything else that goes with cap. But trust me once he screws up. The game is over for himPosted by DivaCanLeoWell, it isn't. But in my case, my anger has always been my best friend. Instead of being sad and whining, I guess I'd get mad. The madness will go on for a while, but soon, he'll become history. "Ah! One more guy! Big deal!" I'll tell myself and move on with my cheerful attitude.
It's not easy being lied too and being cheated on.
Where is ROM
But why am I being so stupid and thinking about that woman's future when she herself doesn't seem to care much? Am I being too good/stupid?click to expand
Posted by Leowoman0814Now I strongly believe in "trust your gut", because in the very early stage, I had some negative feeling, something that said, "No, leave", but I didn't have a valid reason. I didn't listen. Now I understand.
Really? That makes me think twice bout my situation
Posted by RihannasForeheadPosted by InLoveWithLifeNo youre not I know what this is. You care about this stupid hoe because shes is what she is a stupid hoe. You have the common sense and grace to leave after this dirty trash cap fucked with your love. Now after that being side youre still a leo meaning youre stilled PISSED he would even try you and he did so you dont want him TO HAVE anyone by his side knowing hes a screwed up loser. leos are nice and heartfelt but once loyalty between the love gets even one little scratch theres no full trust coming back. Honestly he deserves to have his heart pulled out and dragged across glass shards but you let karma take care of that you should go on living a lovely life for you. Im currently dealing with a cap male he hasnt cheated yet but he is boring af like everyone says caps are. And everything else that goes with cap. But trust me once he screws up. The game is over for himPosted by DivaCanLeoWell, it isn't. But in my case, my anger has always been my best friend. Instead of being sad and whining, I guess I'd get mad. The madness will go on for a while, but soon, he'll become history. "Ah! One more guy! Big deal!" I'll tell myself and move on with my cheerful attitude.
It's not easy being lied too and being cheated on.
Where is ROM
But why am I being so stupid and thinking about that woman's future when she herself doesn't seem to care much? Am I being too good/stupid?click to expand
Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by InLoveWithLifeWell, it's a new year. Leave the past behind and start a new chapter.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSIn the course of 10 months, we'd met each other personally only twice. And the girl was there in his life, but unaware.
@InLoveWithLife You guys were in an LDR? Had you ever met him in person?
If not, that might be the reason you have such strong feelings for this guy. You only get to see the good side of him and don't have to deal with his flaws or annoying habits, if any, that you get to observe when you're seeing someone regularly.
Just remember that the people you see online are just as normal (or maybe less), boring, disgusting, immature...as the people you see in real life.
Cap or not, the guy was definitely not emotionally committed to either of you girls. Time to leave this behind and move on.
Looks like you're right. Guess he's emotionally committed to neither! I wish that girl realises this, too, but he's too good at spinning stories and charming and I don't think she's understood that he is not true to her either! But I guess I've gotta stop worrying for her, which to be honest, is difficult for me. I can't bear to see anyone suffering or being exploited!
I'll try to let things go and.move on. My friends are nice and sweet. And kind words from you guys are also helpful. Hope to come out of this mess soon!
I wish you all the best!click to expand
Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by InLoveWithLifeDo what you have to do in order to move on.Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by InLoveWithLifeYes he's fine now. It's been over a year. Cheaters do feel guilt they're human after all. But that doesn't mean that they'll change their ways. Seems like your still fixated on him. Honestly, if you don't let go then he's going to continue hurting you. I don't think that Caps are good for Leos unless they have a lot of synastry planets. Otherwise I always see Leos walking away with a broken heart.Posted by aquarius_beautyI agree with the valuable lessons, yes. But in your friend's case, god, it should've been really painful! I do feel for him. Hope he's better now?
Leos are such sweethearts and love to find that perfect mate but your impulsive and attention seeking nature makes you guys jump the gun too fast. You guys see a Capricorn your drawn in by their practical appeal, career oriented, stable outlook, and voluptuous bodies (most caps tend to have nice bodies). Then you realize that they're not what they appear to be. They're too cruel, cold, and can be unsympathetic to a warm Leo. Plus they tend to go through stages of depression which seriously drags a sunny Leo down.
My Leos ex girlfriend was a Cap. She broke his heart by cheating on him. One day she called him and told him she was getting back with her ex after having sex with him. After he had warned her to tell her ex to keep away. She was cruel to him, treated him like sh#t, and the way she ended things with him left him severely scarred. She slept around with his coworkers, only adding to the humiliation, then tried to get him back.
But in all, I feel like these life experiences teach us valuable lessons in learning to appreciate people who are truly good to us.
And in this case, it was none of those qualities that attracted me to him. It was his subtle expressions of love through poetry, his never pushing on sex when that's what most other men want right away, his romantic moves, etc that attracted me.
Now I wonder if he is feeling bad, too, or if he's really cool! Do cheaters ever regret? On one side, I feel that guilt is unstoppable. But on the other side, I think, he'll do everything to keep this out of his mind and go on with his dirty ways! Don't know.
I was hurt, but I'm pretty strong, dear. It is just that I believe in justice. Yes, from what I know, even repeat cheaters do face guilt sometime or the other. But otherwise I'm happy and going, mostly. Once in a while some anger crops up, but I'm able to overcome it pretty soon. Lemme see...click to expand