Leo Woman Ignores Me?

So, I landed a job as a recent college grad and one of my coworkers is a leo girl. Starting from day one, she's been ignoring me. She talks to everyone else, is super confident (kinda arrogant), and doesn't even look at me when I'm around. If I enter a room from far away, I'll catch her looking at me. If I break the ice, she's super nice and talkative but then the process repeats itself the next day. Honestly, it makes things awkward.

She may be sizing you up. Could you be her competition?

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She may be sizing you up. Could you be her competition?

Let me rephrase that, it's a non-paid position so that I can get experience for med school.

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Posted by sultrykitty
She may be sizing you up. Could you be her competition?

Let me rephrase that, it's a non-paid position so that I can get experience for med school.

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Could be anything, really. You good looking? Maybe it's just because you're new. We always size up a newcomer, but lots of reasons for doing it positive and negative.

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She may be sizing you up. Could you be her competition?

Let me rephrase that, it's a non-paid position so that I can get experience for med school.

Could be anything, really. You good looking? Maybe it's just because you're new. We always size up a newcomer, but lots of reasons for doing it positive and negative.

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It's been almost a year. She always acts cold and distant, but when I talk she's happy and talkative. So, I've been ignoring her lately and her facial expressions look disgusted. That being said, almost all leos ignore me. They say hi to my friends walking by, but ever me. Even my friends say they don't know them.

Posted by iceman321
So, I landed a job as a recent college grad and one of my coworkers is a leo girl. Starting from day one, she's been ignoring me. She talks to everyone else, is super confident (kinda arrogant), and doesn't even look at me when I'm around. If I enter a room from far away, I'll catch her looking at me. If I break the ice, she's super nice and talkative but then the process repeats itself the next day. Honestly, it makes things awkward.

"If I break the ice, she's super nice and talkative but ... "

Well, then... it's on you.

Because she's playing it cooool, and she's not making it easy on you.



🙂



Go for it.

Posted by TheLibraMudra
Residency?

Maybe she's shy lol

I'm a medical scribe. Shy? Helllllllll no. She's extremely loud, aggressive, bold, and kind of arrogant.

It's annoying because I have to find her everday, and initiate contact so she can be sweet and approachable. If I don't do this ritual everyday, then in a group setting (or us just alone), she'll talk to and look at everyone, but me.

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Residency?

Maybe she's shy lol

I'm a medical scribe. Shy? Helllllllll no. She's extremely loud, aggressive, bold, and kind of arrogant.

It's annoying because I have to find her, and initiate contact so she can be sweet and approachable for the day. If I don't do this ritual everyday, then in a group setting (or us just alone), she'll talk to and look at everyone, but me.

Shy for you.

lol

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If she has to talk for work, she will. She's never been nervous around me. She gives me dirty looks if I ignore her, but sometimes she can also be cold when I talk to her. Honestly, I just want a comfortable workplace.

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She may be sizing you up. Could you be her competition?

Let me rephrase that, it's a non-paid position so that I can get experience for med school.

Could be anything, really. You good looking? Maybe it's just because you're new. We always size up a newcomer, but lots of reasons for doing it positive and negative.

It's been almost a year. She always acts cold and distant, but when I talk she's happy and talkative. So, I've been ignoring her lately and her facial expressions look disgusted. That being said, almost all leos ignore me. They say hi to my friends walking by, but ever me. Even my friends say they don't know them.

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How do you carry yourself? What does your chart look like? Maybe she's just being friendly because you're a coworker but doesn't feel the need (or desire) to get to know you better or initiate conversation.

Maybe you just give off vibes that for some reason turn us off?

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Residency?

Maybe she's shy lol

I'm a medical scribe. Shy? Helllllllll no. She's extremely loud, aggressive, bold, and kind of arrogant.

It's annoying because I have to find her, and initiate contact so she can be sweet and approachable for the day. If I don't do this ritual everyday, then in a group setting (or us just alone), she'll talk to and look at everyone, but me.

Shy for you.

lol

If she has to talk for work, she will. She's never been nervous around me. She gives me dirty looks if I ignore her, but sometimes she can also be cold when I talk to her. Honestly, I just want a comfortable workplace.

Well not everyone is always going to like you. Maybe you should stop paying attention to her so closely. What are you, a Scorpio in the corner observing her every move? Lol

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If he is then that's probably it. Speaking from experience, lol.

All leos ignore me, but talk to everyone else. They initiate convos with them. If I initiate convos, then they're friendly and begin yelling my name across campus, posting on my facebook walls, and starting being physically playful. Their whole demeanour changes.

So what's your sign?

Pisces

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So what's your sign?

Lol

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That's *not* supposed to sound like a pick up line...😄

Posted by iceman321
Pisces

Yeeeahh...Pisces guys are fine to be around but not very commanding. We like our men a little more assertive. Or with more swagger. She's probably expecting you to engage her more often.

Not attracted to her. Just makes the whole enviroment awkward. If I don't talk to her, then in a group, she ignores me. It'll be like 5 people, but she talks to and makes eye contact with the other 4 but not me. If I find her as the day starts, then she'll talk to and make eye contact with me too. She never does this to others. She'll greet them.

👋

hi iceman, I adore Pisces men...

You wouldn't perchance have any other placements for thish Leo gal of yours would you...?

Maybe her moon or venus could enlighten us 🙂

Posted by iceman321
Not attracted to her. Just makes the whole enviroment awkward. If I don't talk to her, then in a group, she ignores me. It'll be like 5 people, but she talks to and makes eye contact with the other 4 but not me. If I find her as the day starts, then she'll talk to and make eye contact with me too. She never does this to others. She'll greet them.

So she doesn't prefer you, but you're OK to talk to. What's the problem? Maybe it takes longer for her to warm up to certain people.

If you're not attracted, why are you so concerned about how she acts around you? You're a coworker, not a friend.

I'm beginning to feel the same aversion, tbh.

Or maybe she thinks you ARE attracted and doesn't want to give you any ideas. I'm like that with people that I get that vibe from but don't feel any attraction to. Makes me uncomfortable but I don't want to be mean because they're nice people, just not my type.

If I talk to another coworker, she either gives a nasty look or makes me do something. She never says anything to the other scribes. In fact, if a coworker and I have a basketball jersey, she'll ask them about it but ignore me. I mean, since day one, she talked to the other scribe trainees but barely interact with me. They never initiated anything. When she's far away or when she walks into the room, she stares at me.

Lmao at all these people telling you she 'likes you'.

Dirty looks? Avoidance? Yeah she definitely wants your dick. *rolls eyes.

Pull her aside and let her know that your feeling some dislike from her aimed your way and you just want an easy and harmonious workplace. Ask her if you've done something to offend her and if so, what you can do to make amends.

Chances are she just has a resting bitch face and it's nothing personal to you. Your just under her radar. So learn to toughen up your skin and not be so butt hurt. Not everyone in life will greet you with flower crowns and icecream. And that's OK.

I just want a peaceful work environment. I need her so I can do my job, and it's an extra burden to find her, talk to her, have her warm up to me, start my job, and repeat the process the next day.

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Lmao at all these people telling you she 'likes you'.

Dirty looks? Avoidance? Yeah she definitely wants your dick. *rolls eyes.

Pull her aside and let her know that your feeling some dislike from her aimed your way and you just want an easy and harmonious workplace. Ask her if you've done something to offend her and if so, what you can do to make amends.

Chances are she just has a resting bitch face and it's nothing personal to you. Your just under her radar. So learn to toughen up your skin and not be so butt hurt. Not everyone in life will greet you with flower crowns and icecream. And that's OK.

As funny as it is to you.

Immature and childish girls sometimes behave that way. Especially if she knows he's not interested. As crazy as it sounds.

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Yeah it does sound crazy. Just like advising him to romantically pursue a female that treats him that way based off of 'sometimes'. Why encourage such crazy? Defies all logic.

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I just want a peaceful work environment. I need her so I can do my job, and it's an extra burden to find her, talk to her, have her warm up to me, start my job, and repeat the process the next day.

Have a chat with her, ask her what's up and tell her what you said :

"I just want a peaceful work environment."

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Thanks for the replies. I would, but she would just say "what are you talking about" and do the same thing again.

She has a boyfriend, and I have absolutely no interest in her romantically.

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I just want a peaceful work environment. I need her so I can do my job, and it's an extra burden to find her, talk to her, have her warm up to me, start my job, and repeat the process the next day.

Have a chat with her, ask her what's up and tell her what you said :

"I just want a peaceful work environment."

Thanks for the replies. I would, but she would just say "what are you talking about" and do the same thing again.

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And you know this because you've tried to have this conversation with her?

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Lmao at all these people telling you she 'likes you'.

Dirty looks? Avoidance? Yeah she definitely wants your dick. *rolls eyes.

Pull her aside and let her know that your feeling some dislike from her aimed your way and you just want an easy and harmonious workplace. Ask her if you've done something to offend her and if so, what you can do to make amends.

Chances are she just has a resting bitch face and it's nothing personal to you. Your just under her radar. So learn to toughen up your skin and not be so butt hurt. Not everyone in life will greet you with flower crowns and icecream. And that's OK.

As funny as it is to you.

Immature and childish girls sometimes behave that way. Especially if she knows he's not interested. As crazy as it sounds.

Yeah it does sound crazy. Just like advising him to romantically pursue a female that treats him that way based off of 'sometimes'. Why encourage such crazy? Defies all logic.

Lmao wait... What? 😆

where did I advise him to pursue her—?

I said Imo that's why she's behaving that way.

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Lmao wait... What?

Point out where I ever referred to you at all. I said 'these people'. Trying to make this ish about you. I see you Leo.

I've asked her if I did something wrong because she's always been standoffish. She said it's nothing. She brushes everything about herself, but criticizes others (patients, drivers, pizza delivery man, janitors, other nurses, doctors) all day long.

Honestly I think you're trying too hard and she senses it. Go to work and be friendly if you feel like it. Be professional, and she'll do the same. You're a water sign so you should be able to feel your way around her moods.

I started ignoring her like 3 weeks into my job when I noticed this behavior...in December. I would say hi in the hallways, but that's it. I only started making conversation last month when she started going into the break room during lunch.

You're her prey. She's messing with you. Whether she likes you or just thinks she's having a bit of fun, she's trying to stroke HER ego. Either she likes you and is confused because she has a bf and you're "hot and cold"

or she's just pissed that you aren't taking the bait. It would REALLY be in your best interest to let her know up front that you're not interested in anything other than a professional work relationship. Nip that shit in the bud now, or one of you (or both) is going to have problems.

If you come off as weak or like you would reciprocate if given the right "cues", it's only going to get more uncomfortable for you.

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Lmao at all these people telling you she 'likes you'.

Dirty looks? Avoidance? Yeah she definitely wants your dick. *rolls eyes.

Pull her aside and let her know that your feeling some dislike from her aimed your way and you just want an easy and harmonious workplace. Ask her if you've done something to offend her and if so, what you can do to make amends.

Chances are she just has a resting bitch face and it's nothing personal to you. Your just under her radar. So learn to toughen up your skin and not be so butt hurt. Not everyone in life will greet you with flower crowns and icecream. And that's OK.

As funny as it is to you.

Immature and childish girls sometimes behave that way. Especially if she knows he's not interested. As crazy as it sounds.

Yeah it does sound crazy. Just like advising him to romantically pursue a female that treats him that way based off of 'sometimes'. Why encourage such crazy? Defies all logic.

Lmao wait... What? 😆

where did I advise him to pursue her—?

I said Imo that's why she's behaving that way.

Trying to make this ish about you. I see you Leo.

Yea... Sure. ?

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Why edit out the rest of my comment though? That's a pussy move dude. Pun intended.

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You're her prey. She's messing with you. Whether she likes you or just thinks she's having a bit of fun, she's trying to stroke HER ego. Either she likes you and is confused because she has a bf and you're "hot and cold"

or she's just pissed that you aren't taking the bait. It would REALLY be in your best interest to let he know up front that you're not interested in anything other than a professional work relationship. Nip that shit in the bud now, or one of you (or both) going to have problems.

If you come off as weak or like you would reciprocate if given the right "cues", it's only going to get more uncomfortable for you.

This. Sums it up nicely.

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Both of these hypothetical senerios ASSUME that the Leo wants the op to give her attention.

All of her actions indicate otherwise.

Your advice for him to tell her that he's not interested in her is going to back fire in a big way. She'll be even more disgusted by the sight of him. This advise will just make his current problem bigger.

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Posted by sultrykitty
You're her prey. She's messing with you. Whether she likes you or just thinks she's having a bit of fun, she's trying to stroke HER ego. Either she likes you and is confused because she has a bf and you're "hot and cold"

or she's just pissed that you aren't taking the bait. It would REALLY be in your best interest to let he know up front that you're not interested in anything other than a professional work relationship. Nip that shit in the bud now, or one of you (or both) going to have problems.

If you come off as weak or like you would reciprocate if given the right "cues", it's only going to get more uncomfortable for you.

This. Sums it up nicely.

Both of these hypothetical senerios ASSUME that the Leo wants the op to give her attention.

All of her actions indicate otherwise.

Your advice for him to tell her that he's not interested in her is going to back fire in a big way. She'll be even more disgusted by the sight of him. This advise will just make his current problem bigger.

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No, he hid his last post. She pulls on his ties and pokes at him. His last post describes a girl who's extremely flirty and then is pouty if he doesn’t play back.

I was with you until he posted that.

Pulls on his tie? I thought he had a medical gig? Like scrubs attire.

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Pulls on his tie? I thought he had a medical gig? Like scrubs attire.

My guess is it's a medical office with labcoats for men, cute scrubs for the nurses.

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Pulls on his tie? I thought he had a medical gig? Like scrubs attire.

My guess is it's a medical office with labcoats for men, cute scrubs for the nurses.

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Sexism

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Pulls on his tie? I thought he had a medical gig? Like scrubs attire.

My guess is it's a medical office with labcoats for men, cute scrubs for the nurses.

Sexism

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LOL

Sorry, I've been using a phone and I guess my thumb hit hide. I'm still getting used to this website, I made an account yesterday. Yeah, she plays with my tie one day and then gets cold the next day. She talks to other male nurses when I'm around, then stops when I'm not there. Sometimes if they leave, and I say anything she goes cold.

Posted by iceman321
So, I landed a job as a recent college grad and one of my coworkers is a leo girl. Starting from day one, she's been ignoring me. She talks to everyone else, is super confident (kinda arrogant), and doesn't even look at me when I'm around. If I enter a room from far away, I'll catch her looking at me. If I break the ice, she's super nice and talkative but then the process repeats itself the next day. Honestly, it makes things awkward.

TBH this sounds really weird but I'm

a Leo and I do this when I like someone, just to see if they'll make the effort to speak to me. I'm doing this rn actually. If he doesn't talk to me then I'll talk to him eventually try not saying anything first walk past her

If you guys are still interested, I've been purposely ignoring her all week. She starts "misplacing" her papers, and asks the person right next to me to help find them. When I leave, she eventually does too. I only talk to her when I have to, and don't make any small talk. I play her game sometime, and hug this nurse that we both know from behind. The leo gives a frown and grabs her phone and starts staring at it.