Leo woman insecure?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Moonpie on Saturday, November 17, 2018 and has 13 replies.
So my boyfriends ex is a Leo...

long story short, as soon as she got to know that he had a new gf, she started to text him again and wanted to see him again...

He said no, so she was really angry

From that moment on I just got unfriendly looks and she told everyone that she hates me.

After all that shade she threw at me, I saw her yesterday by coincidence, she works as a bartender

So I thought it would be really funny if I go over and pretend I don’t even know her and just order something...

The moment that she saw me in front of her she literally just ran away and her colleague had to do her job

Pretty funny for me as an Aries!

So of course I went there 4 more times and every time the same happened, she just ran away

After all that drama that she caused and all that shade that she threw, she’s not even capable to stand in front of me and give me a drink...

What is this behavior? Is she just super insecure and when her problem stands in front of her she’s just running away?
You're trying to provoke someone who loved or maybe still loves the person you're dating and felt hurt or heart broken and then vented her frustration. I don't think the scene or drama you're trying to create is worth her time so she is avoiding a bad situation. Let it go. You look insecure trying to stir a reaction in her.
Gosh imagine if you put this kinda dedication and effort into your relationship tho...














Nahhh...trolling some random chick is so much more worth your time.
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Posted by Elissar18

You're trying to provoke someone who loved or maybe still loves the person you're dating and felt hurt or heart broken and then vented her frustration. I don't think the scene or drama you're trying to create is worth her time so she is avoiding a bad situation. Let it go. You look insecure trying to stir a reaction in her.
I was thinking stalker.
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Stalkers are less obvious.. i think this is restraining order specs. I don't get why people get obsessed with their partners ex. It's fucking creepy.
Ok without any explanation it might look like that, but it’s truly not Big Grin

She broke up with him, after cheating on him

After 8 months me and him came together and in that 8 months they didn’t have any contact

As soon as he posted a pic of us she directly texted him

Still fine with me, I never had a problem with her

One day he took me at a party where she also was, still fine with me

I introduced myself, was really nice and all I got from the beginning on was just a super bitchy look from head to toe

I thought just ok whatever

At the same party she passed by and fully bumped into me

My boyfriend saw it and from that moment on he blocked her and everything but I never requested it and he never made a big drama out of it

At that time she was living in another city, 2 months later she moved in this city and told everyone that she came just because of him and to be together with him

At some point she started to stalk me during my lunch break

She was sitting every day one and a half hours in front of me and watching me eat...

I still didn’t care, the drama was not worth it

So she started to tell everyone that she hates me

And I was by coincidence in the bar she’s working, I had no idea she’ll be there

So after all of that yes I went to see what she maybe will say directly to me instead of this passive aggressive behavior
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@Ram416
Huh?
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Posted by rmactavish

My best friend is an Aries, and he also purposefully likes to piss people off and bully people. Kinda gets high from it. 😆

You sound alot similar to him.
The thing with us Aries is that we actually are not at all bullies

We just don’t run away from problems and we prefer to face our problems or the people who have a problem with us 😅

We don’t like talking behind our backs, if you have a problem with me just come and tell me and we’re good

The whole thing is solved then

That’s why I always prefer to face the people who have something against me
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Posted by Moonpie

Posted by rmactavish

My best friend is an Aries, and he also purposefully likes to piss people off and bully people. Kinda gets high from it. 😆

You sound alot similar to him.
The thing with us Aries is that we actually are not at all bullies

We just don’t run away from problems and we prefer to face our problems or the people who have a problem with us 😅

We don’t like talking behind our backs, if you have a problem with me just come and tell me and we’re good

The whole thing is solved then

That’s why I always prefer to face the people who have something against me
Lmao are you kiddine me.

I took a screenshot of this thread and sent it to my best friend saying 'Hey I found another Aries girl who likes to bully people like yoi' and he went on a rant explaining 'how it's not bullying but standing up for themselves.' 🤣🤣
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Yes he’s right! 😊

We’re not bullies, we always stand up for the people who are bullied

If you’re nice to us, we’re nice to you but if you’re mean for no reason then I’m not going to be nice either...

For us it’s all about manners, fairness and respect
Posted by VenusRetrogade

Posted by Moonpie

Posted by rmactavish

My best friend is an Aries, and he also purposefully likes to piss people off and bully people. Kinda gets high from it. 😆

You sound alot similar to him.
The thing with us Aries is that we actually are not at all bullies

We just don’t run away from problems and we prefer to face our problems or the people who have a problem with us 😅

We don’t like talking behind our backs, if you have a problem with me just come and tell me and we’re good

The whole thing is solved then

That’s why I always prefer to face the people who have something against me

very aries like one of my besties lol tbh i would do the same as u did. my fiances ex is a psycho leo who messaged me to say my bf is messaging her and other women. as if i would believe that. and if it were true its not my loss. im hotter. sorry not sorry. blocked her and one of her gay friends followed me on insta. i accepted then posted my ring. bish be gone.
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Idk a lot of Leo women that i met are like this...

that’s why I was thinking that they’re just insecure

Stirring the pot for some nonsense drama...

I feel you, would’ve done the same 😂
Posted by Moonpie

Ok without any explanation it might look like that, but it’s truly not Big Grin

She broke up with him, after cheating on him

After 8 months me and him came together and in that 8 months they didn’t have any contact

As soon as he posted a pic of us she directly texted him

Still fine with me, I never had a problem with her

One day he took me at a party where she also was, still fine with me

I introduced myself, was really nice and all I got from the beginning on was just a super bitchy look from head to toe

I thought just ok whatever

At the same party she passed by and fully bumped into me

My boyfriend saw it and from that moment on he blocked her and everything but I never requested it and he never made a big drama out of it

At that time she was living in another city, 2 months later she moved in this city and told everyone that she came just because of him and to be together with him

At some point she started to stalk me during my lunch break

She was sitting every day one and a half hours in front of me and watching me eat...

I still didn’t care, the drama was not worth it

So she started to tell everyone that she hates me

And I was by coincidence in the bar she’s working, I had no idea she’ll be there

So after all of that yes I went to see what she maybe will say directly to me instead of this passive aggressive behavior


Omg you’re obsessed get a liiiffeeeeeeeee
Yo. This is weird. Why are you going to her job?

Is this an Aries thing? I have a crush on this bartender and his Aries ex approached me. I didn’t know for sure it was her at first but was kind when she told me. I’m not dating her ex, just midly flirting. I didn’t back down but I also didn’t stay around her all night because I came to the bar to enjoy myself (karaoke night) and the performances.

Anywho I think it’s weird as fuck you went there and if my ex girl did some shit like that. I would be pissed. At him, at her, etc. It would be hard not to lose my job so yeah I probably would avoid you as to not say or do something to get me fired. My Leo moon
Posted by BalancedBean

Yo. This is weird. Why are you going to her job?

Is this an Aries thing? I have a crush on this bartender and his Aries ex approached me. I didn’t know for sure it was her at first but was kind when she told me. I’m not dating her ex, just midly flirting. I didn’t back down but I also didn’t stay around her all night because I came to the bar to enjoy myself (karaoke night) and the performances.

Anywho I think it’s weird as fuck you went there and if my ex girl did some shit like that. I would be pissed. At him, at her, etc. It would be hard not to lose my job so yeah I probably would avoid you as to not say or do something to get me fired. My Leo moon


Some people just like the drama and like to be messy... sad the Leo is just working at her normal job...