unknownlegend
@unknownlegend
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leo woman's behavior when they like someone?
Truthfully I don't know much about signs and their behaviors. However I would have taken the cookie comment and the question in the last paragraph as an indicator of interest. Sounds like she's dropping hints and trying to see where you're at by how you respond.
Seems right now like a game of chicken. Both of you a little hesitant to make move. You're not sure and neither is she especially if you're always around attractive women. She's probably not sure if she's just another girl and you're like that with all of them hence that "why me" question. Plus in the cookie scenario you were talking about another girl. She's probably afraid to step out on the ledge and put herself out there.
Probably not much will change until one of you steps outside your comfort zone. Have you ever asked her out before to do something "date like" where the focus is just the two of you and not work or another girl?
If you like her go for it
Seems right now like a game of chicken. Both of you a little hesitant to make move. You're not sure and neither is she especially if you're always around attractive women. She's probably not sure if she's just another girl and you're like that with all of them hence that "why me" question. Plus in the cookie scenario you were talking about another girl. She's probably afraid to step out on the ledge and put herself out there.
Probably not much will change until one of you steps outside your comfort zone. Have you ever asked her out before to do something "date like" where the focus is just the two of you and not work or another girl?
If you like her go for it
Well, we went out but with her girl friends when i needed to photoshoot her. But recently I asked her a favor to let my band play at her former school and if she could help us and she agreed. then she got all moody and I said "I'm sorry I will make it up to you" and she said "you should make it up to me! first you gotta teach me how to use photoshop and can I get a cookie?" so I said yes and she's coming around my house on sunday. Then she asked me about a place and how to get there and asked me if I could come with her since she doesn't know how to get there so on monday just the two of us are going out... -_- but I hate myself because its like she's always the one who asks me and makes a move...
I feel like if I knew more about the signs that behavior may make more sense. She probably does want you to make the the first move but at least she's letting you know that's what she wants.
If you're wondering whether or not she's interested I'd say so. Is there any physical contact. Touching your arm or something when you tell a joke. Does she play with her hear when your talking to her. Those are all usually good signs
If you're wondering whether or not she's interested I'd say so. Is there any physical contact. Touching your arm or something when you tell a joke. Does she play with her hear when your talking to her. Those are all usually good signs
When I tell jokes she used to slap my shoulders but when she tries, it seems like she's resisting like...she tries to hit me but it never really landed and when I told her that I'll be going to her province and be playing with my band there she was really jumpy and said she's desparate to see my band but can't go because her family is flying somewhere else. Then after 3 months I was shocked because she told me that she would be going to her province to see me... maybe the smiles she gave me those shy smiles I don't know. I really like her but I'm scared right now because this is the first time I've been with a girl like her, I've been with other girls but there's something different about her character../
I feel you're pain. I'll tell you a little story. I knew a girl once that blew me away. She was so much different than every other girl I've met and it kinda paralyzed me to move forward.
She would sometimes make excuses to come over and we'd have fun and hang out etc then she would switch to a cute almost timid voice and ask me about my dating life.
Looking back I know I had a window of opportunity which I think closed because she may have thought I wasn't interested. We haven't spoke in a couple years and she's moved across the country. It haunts me. Literally. I dated a different girl for 2 years after that and I'd have dreams about this other girl and when I woke up next to girlfriend I was disappointed.
Don't let this happen to you man. It's my only regret. If you think it's there step outside your comfort zone. Often times it's what we're most of afraid of that we need most to do.
I know it's easy for me to say because I'm on the outside and I have nothing invested it. At some point one of you will have to make a move before the fire burns out.
She would sometimes make excuses to come over and we'd have fun and hang out etc then she would switch to a cute almost timid voice and ask me about my dating life.
Looking back I know I had a window of opportunity which I think closed because she may have thought I wasn't interested. We haven't spoke in a couple years and she's moved across the country. It haunts me. Literally. I dated a different girl for 2 years after that and I'd have dreams about this other girl and when I woke up next to girlfriend I was disappointed.
Don't let this happen to you man. It's my only regret. If you think it's there step outside your comfort zone. Often times it's what we're most of afraid of that we need most to do.
I know it's easy for me to say because I'm on the outside and I have nothing invested it. At some point one of you will have to make a move before the fire burns out.
You story breaks me and inspires me at the same time. It's sad but why don't you try to look for her? you could try you know instead of letting the past haunt you. I'd say search for her even for a closure.
The only thing that's holding me back is we used to confide with each other. I have this girl I like and she has this boyfriend of hers. We ended up losing both, the girl I was supposed to be with left me with another guy and her boyfriend cheated on her. It's like "hey we were friends and now we're falling but how?" it's confusing but before I really liked her she was my dream girl for 6 years now. But I want to step out of my comfort zone and do it like you said. I have this friend who liked her back then she showed to much interest in her that she pushed him away and that's what I don't want to happen, same to me back then I showed a girl too much and I was pushed away. That's what I'm scared of.
The only thing that's holding me back is we used to confide with each other. I have this girl I like and she has this boyfriend of hers. We ended up losing both, the girl I was supposed to be with left me with another guy and her boyfriend cheated on her. It's like "hey we were friends and now we're falling but how?" it's confusing but before I really liked her she was my dream girl for 6 years now. But I want to step out of my comfort zone and do it like you said. I have this friend who liked her back then she showed to much interest in her that she pushed him away and that's what I don't want to happen, same to me back then I showed a girl too much and I was pushed away. That's what I'm scared of.
Yea I get that too. In fact I'm kinda dealing with that now. It's hard for sure to find that balance. You don't want to seem needy or desperate. Sometimes girls freak out to when they start to get too close because they get scared of putting themselves out there and getting hurt, same as we do.
If you're able to at least convey your interest that's a start. Like I said I'm dealing with that now. Things moved super fast in like 2 days and she couldn't handle the intensity and the heavy emotions so we kinda wiped the slate clean and started back at square 1. I'm letting her dictate the pace.
The last 2 girls I've dated both came out and asked me to be their boyfriend after a period of time. Granted when they asked we were acting like it anyway but at least I knew they wanted mutual commitment and I wasn't going to be pushing to hard.
So you don't really need to put that type of pressure on it. Once you get things moving, let her set the pace and escalate things then match her. She doesn't sound like the blunt type. So it may be through hints mind you which means she'll hint that you can go to the next level and you just gotta take that leap over and over through every escalation.
As for me I'm not as haunted by her as I used to be. I guess time takes care of that. I don't think about her hardly at all anymore but I use her to measure other girls against.
If you're able to at least convey your interest that's a start. Like I said I'm dealing with that now. Things moved super fast in like 2 days and she couldn't handle the intensity and the heavy emotions so we kinda wiped the slate clean and started back at square 1. I'm letting her dictate the pace.
The last 2 girls I've dated both came out and asked me to be their boyfriend after a period of time. Granted when they asked we were acting like it anyway but at least I knew they wanted mutual commitment and I wasn't going to be pushing to hard.
So you don't really need to put that type of pressure on it. Once you get things moving, let her set the pace and escalate things then match her. She doesn't sound like the blunt type. So it may be through hints mind you which means she'll hint that you can go to the next level and you just gotta take that leap over and over through every escalation.
As for me I'm not as haunted by her as I used to be. I guess time takes care of that. I don't think about her hardly at all anymore but I use her to measure other girls against.
Yeah, the truth is I also have a memory of a girl that haunted me in the past but now she's like a lesson to me. let me ask you are leos really like that? they are sometimes cold. They read your messages reply long and sometimes they just don't want to read your message and reply short? like they're moody or something.
This girl, I don't know how to put it into words... She captured me... and I don't know what to do. I made a song for her 4 years ago when we still don't know each other but I already liked her then... now we're here, friends and I don't know what's happening.
This girl, I don't know how to put it into words... She captured me... and I don't know what to do. I made a song for her 4 years ago when we still don't know each other but I already liked her then... now we're here, friends and I don't know what's happening.
wait so does this means she is just playing with me? playing with my feelings? why would she drop me and hurt me big time?... I already gave her space one month and she's the one who came to me and we talked again... I really don't talk to her if I don't feel to.. but what does your comment mean? it's ok and it's true I think I'm obsesed but what should I do to win her?
You've been friend zoned (simple, directt, and plain)
I really asked her about that too... she told me that she don't believe in friendzone and she always think of the possibility that she could still fall for a friend.
Just the fact she actually lets you go out with her girlfriends seems like shes not that interested. (You baking cookies and asking her for model shoots may be the cause for that) Leave her alone a bit and see how she acts.
I tried baking cookies on one of her friend's birthday and she come up to me and said "how about me don't I get one?" and I only went twice with her and her girl friends but now I visit her home and we go out sometimes. OH YEAH and I already did that I tried to ignore her and she come up to me and asked me if I can go with her etc etc.
so I shouldn't pursue her? then how can I win her if I don't? what's the best to do that? 😢 so I can't chaser but she should chase me is that it?
I think that's a great Idea 🙂. I will try that. thank you!
"I tried baking cookies on one of her friend's birthday and she come up to me and said "how about me don't I get one?" and I only went twice with her and her girl friends but now I visit her home and we go out sometimes. OH YEAH and I already did that I tried to ignore her and she come up to me and asked me if I can go with her etc etc."
The more I read this thread the more I feel that your not a challenge (shes not interested in you)Like you said "I hate myself because its like she's always the one who asks me and makes a move..." and I can bet you respond the same way everytime she asked you to hang out, "Okay sure, I will bend over backwards for us to hang out, I will be available everyday of the week for you, I'm all yours" or to that effect. She wanted to see if she 'has' you, and she does, aka no challenge.
Next time she asks you to hang out, you tell her "Nah can't hang out, maybe some other time" and say nothing more.
Also, don't ask her for anymore photo shoots cuz of course your telling that you like her, but dont got the balls to make the proper moves.
And most importantly, her "being cold" shouldnt affect you. If it happens, you should be like "Her loss" and get on with it. Stop being so emotional about this type of thing.
The more I read this thread the more I feel that your not a challenge (shes not interested in you)Like you said "I hate myself because its like she's always the one who asks me and makes a move..." and I can bet you respond the same way everytime she asked you to hang out, "Okay sure, I will bend over backwards for us to hang out, I will be available everyday of the week for you, I'm all yours" or to that effect. She wanted to see if she 'has' you, and she does, aka no challenge.
Next time she asks you to hang out, you tell her "Nah can't hang out, maybe some other time" and say nothing more.
Also, don't ask her for anymore photo shoots cuz of course your telling that you like her, but dont got the balls to make the proper moves.
And most importantly, her "being cold" shouldnt affect you. If it happens, you should be like "Her loss" and get on with it. Stop being so emotional about this type of thing.
so you're telling me that even if it's an important favor from her I shouldn't be bothered? we were about to go for a certain trip to help her with things. So I should decline it and said I couldn't go? though this is the only time we're gonna see each other again after 1 month. But okay I will try to do it. should I decline the offer?
Posted by tsar322
"I tried baking cookies on one of her friend's birthday and she come up to me and said "how about me don't I get one?" and I only went twice with her and her girl friends but now I visit her home and we go out sometimes. OH YEAH and I already did that I tried to ignore her and she come up to me and asked me if I can go with her etc etc."
The more I read this thread the more I feel that your not a challenge (shes not interested in you)Like you said "I hate myself because its like she's always the one who asks me and makes a move..." and I can bet you respond the same way everytime she asked you to hang out, "Okay sure, I will bend over backwards for us to hang out, I will be available everyday of the week for you, I'm all yours" or to that effect. She wanted to see if she 'has' you, and she does, aka no challenge.
Next time she asks you to hang out, you tell her "Nah can't hang out, maybe some other time" and say nothing more.
Also, don't ask her for anymore photo shoots cuz of course your telling that you like her, but dont got the balls to make the proper moves.
And most importantly, her "being cold" shouldnt affect you. If it happens, you should be like "Her loss" and get on with it. Stop being so emotional about this type of thing.
I disagree. I think you haven't been clear and upfront with her about the depth of your feelings for her. That is the first thing to take care of. If you notice her being indifferent to you at that point or engaging in cat-and-mouse shenanigans, then sure, go ahead and run. My own Leo sun perspective is that if you run away without being direct and clear about wanting to date her, then you are guilty of sending mixed/muddled messages. Don't be surprised if some other dude waltzes off with your Leo, who is (by then) confused and hurt that you are not going after her.
So does this mean that I should try to build up and deepen my relationship/friendship with her first before doing this stay-away-to-see-if-she-comes-back-to-me-thing? so I should really focus on how I will make unforgettable memories first right? before doing what the others say? or should I just focus on building those memories until/or if she will develop her feelings with me.. it's like a "let's see what comes" thing?
just by reading your comment about this karki guy 😢 is so sad. But what if we were just starting to know each other? is it ok to build up for now? and how would I know if I should stop and go away.
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I said
"I'm really tired of it, I think I would focus on my music for now."
she said
"yeah I think so. The girl you really like don't deserve you, you deserve more."
I said
"yeah atleast I got my band for now haha"
She said while eating the cookies I baked
"Yeah you have your music and your cookies. You'll never know you might meet someone because of these cookies."
so I was shocked when she said that and I was really happy. Then we hang out and I got her to be my model(because I'm also a photographer). then she asked me "hey _______ I've been wanting to ask you. You have many female friends but how you always ask me to come with you ha? why me?" while she laughed and I just told her that she's the best choice to be my model and all.
and she used to ask me questions about sample situations. I dont know. I'm a sagitarius man.