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Dec 25, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 4299 · Topics: 74
I just had to ask this as I've been pondering this question for a while.
Disclaimer: I don't mean this as to be offensive or mean that this applies to all Leo women just the ones I know.
Most of the Leo women in my life have had... issues.
Usually, with their self-esteems. I've known probably only know five Leo women personally and they've all been sexually promiscuous and two of the five were sexually promiscuous and were nut cases. One was my cousins girlfriend and my ex-boyfriend's sister (the Leo... yes everyone in his immediate family were Leos his brother, sister, him, and his step dad... only the mother wasn't a Leo she was an Aqua, oy vey! Did not know how she did it living with a bunch of Leos LOL).
Lets label them M (my cousins gf) and C (my ex's sister).
Now they both have had bi-polar disorders and both had been diagnosed with it and they both even have attempted to kill themselves. M had this fetish with meeting guys online and becoming their gf, though she met my cousin through school, he's a cancer and they never worked out.
C on the other hand, man there was so many things wrong with this girl.
It began in high school (it sucks because she confided to me about everything) when she met this guy, they were just friends and she ended up losing her virginity to him (I think he was an Aqua). I think she was hoping more would become of the relationship, but of course... it didn't. She than had a pregnancy scare, false alarm.
No mind you this was just between me and her.
Well after that incident I found that she was sent to the hospital for trying OD on ibuprofen. Of course than she was on suicidal watch. It was actually all down hill from there. She started skipping school, dropping out. Getting a tattoo above her vaginal area that said "Lucky You," and she began going to the military base and hooking up with random soldiers.
She confided all of this in me and I became more and more worried with every new escaped she told me about. So, I told my ex about it not knowing what to do, of whether I should break that confidentiality about it. He of course freaked out and told his mother. She ultimately got her to remove the tattoo, or course C was infuriated when she found out throwing a tantrum in her room. Punching the walls, threatening to kill me if she saw me... so of course I wasn't allowed at there house until they took her to a mental ward. From what I've learned they have administered her to a mental ward before
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... at a very young age, where she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. She hated me ever since than.
To make a long story short, after being rehabilitated, she refuses to go to school therein which her parents have no control over. She than goes back to school and she lives a normal life for a while. She meets a guy through online Halo, she runs away to Canada to be with him. She than comes back and is shipped to Missouri to be with her father where she steals from a mentally handicapped lady becomes addicted to meth and gets sent to rehab for meth and heroine addiction. She's now in Cali married to a 30 year old man. All of this and she's still only 19 turning 20 this year.
All of the other Leo women have been very sexual beings. My friend she had strings of boyfriends all at once, moving from one to the other for sex. And the other one I knew from school had no problems sleeping with anyone.
So my question is... is this something inherent in Leo women or just the handful of ones I've only known?
I can't help but have this image for Leo women, when all my experiences have been so.
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Dec 25, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 4299 · Topics: 74
I mean does this all stem from the whole Leo wanting attention, yet only worsen in these women because of their self-esteem issues?
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Has anyone else dealt with Leo women like this? Am I the only one?
Some Leos, especially ones with lots of fire energies, like lots of first house action and fire ascendants, can be extremely explorative and when making moves, are in no way subtle about them.
I've known only one Leo similar to how you've described - marrying earlier to a much older guy then divorcing him less than a year later, extremely obsessed with appealing most to any people around her, flopping back and fourth between eating disorders and psychological issues, victimizing herself when cornered.... just the whole lot of negative things.
Needless to say, she was very frowned upon by the other Leos who knew her, to the point where they pretty much would rip her apart every chance they got in hopes that she might start being her real self and put down all these ridiculous facades.
Unfortunately she continues to be this way, and while there are many cool sides to her, there is something very weird going on. She, like mentioned above, has an excess of fire energies but what is most unsettling is the Aquarius moon that opposes her sun. Besides that she was also raised in a family that, while being quite well off and fine with each other, she got away with a lot among them, including things like leaving school for months during the year cause of having some "breakdown" or getting to go to other countries constantly cause of going through "hard times" .... people who get things easily often tend to continue to try living that way, and sometimes they are very subpar individuals in a lot of things they do, feeding off every quality and people they come across, like parasites pretty much.
Some of what you described, particularly the promiscuity, and I mean no disrespect but it applied more to Aries girls I've known than Leo ones. If I think to every single Leo girl I've known, I only see girls usually quite obsessed with themselves, considering themselves very highly and making moves no less worthy than their extensive ideas of themselves.
I suggest not killing too much time with these very insecure, parasitic individuals that are probably that way for unconscious reasons even they can't pinpoint...
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Dec 25, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 4299 · Topics: 74
I don't doubt that the promiscuity would apply more to Aries girls, since we are more sexual beings, though it doesn't quite apply to me. I've just been curious about it for a while and have been curious to the reasoning behind all of this since I can't quite understand reasoning for such behaviors.
I guess I was hoping that astrology would give me more information on this matter.
Thank you for your input it was quite helpful.
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Leos strongly follow their impulses in general and live a lot for the moment. They also seek approval from their environment a lot. When they develop bad habits or mentality growing up it can be quite bad and as a fix sign they don't change easily.
im a leo woman and even though YES i love sex, i dont have sex with just anyone, and the ppl that have emotional problems like attemping suicide and bi polar- that sounds much more like upbringing. i mean, look, u cant have a stable personality if ur living in a disfuntional house - i dont care wat the sign is. generally leo women NOT men, are very honest, loyal, smart and yeah sexual. look at madonna and jlo. just to give u an idea.
Leos strongly follow their impulses in general and live a lot for the moment...(((ditto)))
They also seek approval from their environment a lot.(((this is not true for muah)))for some leos it is though
IMO.
It's the people. It's the people giving Leos the attention.
exactly prov...i dont seek, they find me!
lol @ koochie koochie koo
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Dec 25, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 4299 · Topics: 74
Attention comes and goes to all creatures of being and really has no favorablitiy among any.
It is the Leo that relishes in that attention the most, do not deny for many a times have I seen the ends of those lips curl up in a coy smile.
Deny it as you might, whether one ask for attention or not, you Leos LOVE it. For there have been MANY occasions when I have seen a poor lion neglected and a sad demeanor about him; and pounces as they may on the first scent of attention.
It is no wonder I have observe this in many Leos as Leo is the most popular born of the Zodiac (since most babies are born within the times of July and August).
Why one can even argue based on the number of post in DXP alone that Scorpios are more favorable in gaining attention. Attention comes to anyone and everyone...
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iunno...i like attention sometimes. i don't ever really do anything just for attention though? i mostly do what i feel like, and if it attracts attention i'll either like it or not depending on what kind it is. in general i don't like ppl in mah biznass...srsly.
on a related note, i try my damnedest to avoid drama but it comes to me a lot. one area where the "you attract what you give out" really phails, cause i'm laid-back and direct 99.9 % of the time.
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Dec 25, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 4299 · Topics: 74
Law of attraction wheelhomies...
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did u ever stop to think that it might not be a sign problem? i'm sure ur not seeing the whole picture here. coincidentally they're leos but it sounds to me like there are some major problems within the family. i used to have huge issues growing up (especially during adolescence) which caused me anxiety problems, distress, and depression. it was all purely environmental though. i was raised in an abusive household so it messed me up in the head for a while. the minute i was able to move out on my own i was a good 85% better. i did have to work over some left-over emotional baggage from that experience for a few years but overall it was a situational thing. btw, i'm a leo.