Leo women...do you come back?

My friends girlfriend recently left him. She started doing bodybuilding competitions, started to kind of distance herself and snap at him...then eventually moved all her stuff out. All within two months. He said their relationship was perfect prior, they never fought. They were together a long time. She wont tell him where she is living, when he text her said "Ill text you when I'm ready, ok?" He is blaming supplements that she was taking.

But, like damn you just up and move after that long together. I feel like he is missing something. That seems very well thought out and very direct. Like "keep away".

Have you ever drastically cut ties? Did you go back?

It’s called the leo switch, one day we just had enough and we switch everything. It comes from not being happy prior. It’s probably not the best way to go about things but i have done this and never went back.

Right? He's like she just needs time to find herself. I'm like "Ughhhh dude, she took the furniture and got an apartment!" Its not like she packed a bag and went to her parents house. And on top of it wont even tell you where she is!

I think he's in denial. How the hell can you really say she was happy? Weird.

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Right? He's like she just needs time to find herself. I'm like "Ughhhh dude, she took the furniture and got an apartment!" Its not like she packed a bag and went to her parents house. And on top of it wont even tell you where she is!

I think he's in denial. How the hell can you really say she was happy? Weird.

What’s his sign?

Aries

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Aries

Oh this is usually a good match except that the leo can be more emotional than the aries and aries has a hard time keeping up with that part. Maybe he doesn’t even know what he did wrong? So he thinks she will come around. Deff something missing here

Without knowing the full story, I can tell you that @MoonshineLeo hit it on the nose. The Leo switch is real and it flipped because the Leo woman wasn't happy in her relationship with your friend. While the real reasons for this aren't currently known, it is fair to say the issue was big enough that the Leo decided to drop everything. How long was the Aries with the Leo?

It's very possible that the Aries man and the Leo women never fought. While that can be the hallmark of a solid relationship, it's usually an indicator of toxic one. A couple that never fights is either great at communicating or terrible at it. Normally the latter is the case. Every couple fights, or at least has disagreements from time to time. Never fighting means problems aren't being resolved, which only leads to resentment and eventually a breakup.

My guess is your friend felt that everything was great, but the Leo woman didn't feel fulfilled. It's possible that she wasn't the best at communicating this or your friend wasn't a great listener. Either way the Leo felt that her attraction had fallen far and was happy to cut her losses permanently. When a Leo woman pulls a move like this, it's because she has no intention of returning.

Zodiac signs aside, this is a pretty common problem men face. A lot of men become complacent in a relationship, not realizing the woman is losing attraction for him. Suddenly the relationship fall apart and the woman already has her bags packed, leaving the guy thoroughly confused. There are a lot of reasons for this. Maybe the Aries was too nice or maybe he was too selfish. At this point there's no way to know unless he's able to give you specifics.

I absolutely agree. There is something missing here. You were together happily for 11 years (basically their entire 20's) and your girl just packs up and leaves.? wont tell you where she is living, and asks you to not contact her. She also deleted him off social media. But he says its all civil and they are friendly. I'm like "Huh?".... Its hard to give advice on a situation when you know the whole story is missing. I will say, he couldn't come up with not ONE thing he could have done better or any warning signs of her leaving- which is weird as well. Just that she started taking workout supplements, started getting snappy with him and completely changed her personality. To me, i'm like- she started going hard for her body, focused her life on a goal, got a new hobby and left. But who knows?

I just wanted to know if this seemed normal to you all? Because the amount we've been talking about it... its bothering me that it doesn't make sense. Just how I am.

I don't know, based on my knowledge, Aries are quite stubborn and when I communicate with them it feels like they listen but they don't 'understand' the message in depth.

They're loyal and fun but they do burn me out in the long run with their views and I do notice that they don't really meet people in the middle, it's either their way or the highway.

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My friends girlfriend recently left him. She started doing bodybuilding competitions, started to kind of distance herself and snap at him...then eventually moved all her stuff out. All within two months. He said their relationship was perfect prior, they never fought. They were together a long time. She wont tell him where she is living, when he text her said "Ill text you when I'm ready, ok?" He is blaming supplements that she was taking.

But, like damn you just up and move after that long together. I feel like he is missing something. That seems very well thought out and very direct. Like "keep away".

Have you ever drastically cut ties? Did you go back?

The girl seems to be highly motivated, charged up, focused, and serious about her career. She is very dedicated at the moment and does not want any kind of distractions. I think she took a solid executive decision about her life and I hope she achieves what she desires. The guy should be inspired from this girl...

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I actually agree! She sounds very driven and strong. Maybe when she's done with her competitions she will return. That is his hope. I just wonder if someone would actually move out and then return...just for a fitness competition.

I loveeee working out :p lol

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My friends girlfriend recently left him. She started doing bodybuilding competitions, started to kind of distance herself and snap at him...then eventually moved all her stuff out. All within two months. He said their relationship was perfect prior, they never fought. They were together a long time. She wont tell him where she is living, when he text her said "Ill text you when I'm ready, ok?" He is blaming supplements that she was taking.

But, like damn you just up and move after that long together. I feel like he is missing something. That seems very well thought out and very direct. Like "keep away".

Have you ever drastically cut ties? Did you go back?

The girl seems to be highly motivated, charged up, focused, and serious about her career. She is very dedicated at the moment and does not want any kind of distractions. I think she took a solid executive decision about her life and I hope she achieves what she desires. The guy should be inspired from this girl...

I actually agree! She sounds very driven and strong. Maybe when she's done with her competitions she will return. That is his hope. I just wonder if someone would actually move out and then return...just for a fitness competition.

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Ehhh, once Leo do this, I don't think they would go back. It feels like she may have felt trapped in the relationship so she packed up and left to begin a new chapter in life. This is usually after some compromise was made on a person's part and it's all about finding and fixing onself right now.

That's what I'm thinking. I think he really has he heart set on her returning. I don't want to be cynical... but even my Libra relationship loving ass would pretty much be done if I went and got my own place, and said dont contact me right now.

That is saying "I'm distancing myself so I can move on".

Yes...in some cases or depends on the situation.

But once its over & no love then its a NO.

Had 2 relationship only, and with my first bf for one yr. I never comes back to him despite of how many attempts he did on his side to reconcile. But, with my second relationship of 8 yrs...I did. Then finally, ended the relationship on hearts(Valentines) day of 2016. He also, tries to woe me but I turned my back for good.