Leo X Leo is it possible? I'm dating another Leo and it messes up my mind!
This topic was created in the Leo and Leo Compatibility forum by heartheus on Tuesday, May 9, 2017 and has 2 replies.
Hello guys, first timer poster here; been lurking in this board for a few days but too ego to ask this question (classic Leo, huh).
Ok since I decided to just "fuck it" and post my "issues" anyway, here are some background stories (long texts ahead):
I'm a 31 years old man, just recently relocated to Hong Kong for work. I am that kind of Leo who knows what I really want in my life, I know that all I want in my life to be happy is true love. The thing is, I have never been in a long, serious, and healthy relationship before. All my previous "relationships" was basically hookups, and I wish I could be dating with few guys that I have slept with but it never happened. They are few times that I went on dates but it never bloomed further.
Then I met this Leo guy through the infamous gay dating app. He was charming and straight-forward, characteristics that I like. We texted back and forth for few days; about different topics (hobbies, music, and a lot of sexy stuffs). I was totally into him: from the attention he gave me and from our many similarities. For once in my life, I met a guy who I really like.
Before we decided to meet, I was curious about the reasons why we got along so well, so I decided to ask him about his star sign. I had a hunch that he was probably a Leo or a Scorpio, so I was not surprised. But he was a bit "withdrawn" when he discovered about both of us being a Leo, he even mentioned that two Leos dating were "not necessarily a good thing" as "Leos don't always get on well". As I'm a very positive guy (I'm a Leo sun and Aquarius moon) I told him to "never say never", and he responded with "it's a Virgo in me". From that I realized he was into all this astrology/star signs, just like me.
Fast forward, we met for lunch on last week Thursday, and on the following Saturday. The date on Thursday went well, but something seemed off on Saturday. We went out for lunch after sex on Saturday, he took me to a nice place, and we walked around and he even bought me stuff. Every thing was really lovely, but when we parted our ways, he was kinda in a rush and I just sensed that he have "changed". I was totally unhappy about that, but I keep to myself and just texted him after I reached home that the day was a fun day. The morning after, I texted him asking if he's ok and told him that "he seemed off". He asked me why but I couldn't explained it so I just said "sorry, maybe I was overthinking it".
After that, everything went downhill. He stopped texting me first, he stopped giving me compliments, no more flirting, nothing. And up until today, I was the one who initiates the texting, in which I feel like I'm annoying him or even "unwanted". I even tried to flirt and give him compliments like I always did and but he was not as responsive as he was previously. I tried my best not to panic or over react, but I feel so much connection with him that I started looking inwards and blamed myself for "sabotaging" a potential life-mate. For a Leo, I never felt this lost/this low over someone before. What should I do? Does he lost interest in me? Should I keep initiating the conversations? Should I ask him out again? Can two Leos work?
Ok since I decided to just "fuck it" and post my "issues" anyway, here are some background stories (long texts ahead):
I'm a 31 years old man, just recently relocated to Hong Kong for work. I am that kind of Leo who knows what I really want in my life, I know that all I want in my life to be happy is true love. The thing is, I have never been in a long, serious, and healthy relationship before. All my previous "relationships" was basically hookups, and I wish I could be dating with few guys that I have slept with but it never happened. They are few times that I went on dates but it never bloomed further.
Then I met this Leo guy through the infamous gay dating app. He was charming and straight-forward, characteristics that I like. We texted back and forth for few days; about different topics (hobbies, music, and a lot of sexy stuffs). I was totally into him: from the attention he gave me and from our many similarities. For once in my life, I met a guy who I really like.
Before we decided to meet, I was curious about the reasons why we got along so well, so I decided to ask him about his star sign. I had a hunch that he was probably a Leo or a Scorpio, so I was not surprised. But he was a bit "withdrawn" when he discovered about both of us being a Leo, he even mentioned that two Leos dating were "not necessarily a good thing" as "Leos don't always get on well". As I'm a very positive guy (I'm a Leo sun and Aquarius moon) I told him to "never say never", and he responded with "it's a Virgo in me". From that I realized he was into all this astrology/star signs, just like me.
Fast forward, we met for lunch on last week Thursday, and on the following Saturday. The date on Thursday went well, but something seemed off on Saturday. We went out for lunch after sex on Saturday, he took me to a nice place, and we walked around and he even bought me stuff. Every thing was really lovely, but when we parted our ways, he was kinda in a rush and I just sensed that he have "changed". I was totally unhappy about that, but I keep to myself and just texted him after I reached home that the day was a fun day. The morning after, I texted him asking if he's ok and told him that "he seemed off". He asked me why but I couldn't explained it so I just said "sorry, maybe I was overthinking it".
After that, everything went downhill. He stopped texting me first, he stopped giving me compliments, no more flirting, nothing. And up until today, I was the one who initiates the texting, in which I feel like I'm annoying him or even "unwanted". I even tried to flirt and give him compliments like I always did and but he was not as responsive as he was previously. I tried my best not to panic or over react, but I feel so much connection with him that I started looking inwards and blamed myself for "sabotaging" a potential life-mate. For a Leo, I never felt this lost/this low over someone before. What should I do? Does he lost interest in me? Should I keep initiating the conversations? Should I ask him out again? Can two Leos work?
Hey thanks for responding!
He is 38 years old. I think I might be a little passive during the date/sex (which I thought would helped inflate his ego, not really sure). Maybe he is just an asshole :/
Anyway I sent him a text telling him that I understand if he needs space and told him "text me if anything. Goodnight". And it was the second time he deflected the question (his response was "I needed space?" and followed by "good night.") I didn't reply that text as I felt unwanted and I don't wanna keep "chasing" after him.
Well, I found it so weird and frustrating, because he feels like a different person, and I can't help thinking of ways that I can reach out to him. He seems to be such a gentle lion, there is this wall that he puts up but I want to know more about him. Like I want to help him out, but I want him to keep me in the loop.
Before this he would opened up about his emotion, during the second date he even shared sad stories about him and his family. He told me that he only has a sister-in-law as both his parents and his brothers are dead (from various type of cancer and his younger brother committed suicide). I was shocked and sympathetic when I heard that from him, but he was positive and he seemed like he did not want to talk more about it so we didn't. Does his past and the fact that he shared that to me influence his behavior in some way?
He is 38 years old. I think I might be a little passive during the date/sex (which I thought would helped inflate his ego, not really sure). Maybe he is just an asshole :/
Anyway I sent him a text telling him that I understand if he needs space and told him "text me if anything. Goodnight". And it was the second time he deflected the question (his response was "I needed space?" and followed by "good night.") I didn't reply that text as I felt unwanted and I don't wanna keep "chasing" after him.
Well, I found it so weird and frustrating, because he feels like a different person, and I can't help thinking of ways that I can reach out to him. He seems to be such a gentle lion, there is this wall that he puts up but I want to know more about him. Like I want to help him out, but I want him to keep me in the loop.
Before this he would opened up about his emotion, during the second date he even shared sad stories about him and his family. He told me that he only has a sister-in-law as both his parents and his brothers are dead (from various type of cancer and his younger brother committed suicide). I was shocked and sympathetic when I heard that from him, but he was positive and he seemed like he did not want to talk more about it so we didn't. Does his past and the fact that he shared that to me influence his behavior in some way?
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