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Feb 21, 2015Comments: 1412 · Posts: 2819 · Topics: 78
If I messed up or if my anger got out of hand I will calm down and immediately apologize. Sometimes the other person is ready to forgive and move on like nothing but then sometimes the other person hates me and does for a while. Which is understandable. But I will do anything to be forgiven if the person means a lot to me. If I don't apologize or try to make it up to you I just don't care but that's very rare.
Consequences...ahh yeah those are a doozy.
BUT I almost immediately regret all of my antics. Like it's not at all easy to fess up and put my (lioness) tail between my legs. But I'll do it, because I still have a big heart.
But when I do apologize, I want it to sound just as sincere as I truly mean it. I don't wanna be wishy washy or anything.
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Jan 10, 2015Comments: 1921 · Posts: 17000 · Topics: 108
I just talk myself out of them. I've never faced a situation that words couldn't get me out of. The only real consequences are those which are forced upon me by the world and can't be changed. Which then I just adapt to them.
I always have good intentions so when I fuck up and someone is mad at me I am non chalant. I really don't care. They can be mad all they want lol UNLESS I care/have love for you then I feel like shit and will do anything for forgiveness and just make sure I SHOW how much I care and am sorry. I take the consequences like a boss. (TBH sometimes I try to rush through them or ignore them)
Well I must only know immature Leos, male and female and none know the word sorry or phrase, I made a mistake...
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Feb 14, 2013Comments: 552 · Posts: 18848 · Topics: 149
Maybe they don't know you're offended.
Or should they *just know* in your opinion?
I think the definition of an immature person (any sign) is not that they don't know when they did something wrong or nasty or mean or even just made an honest mistake, but that they show absolutely no sign of responsibility for it, not even later, in any shape or form. I tried, talking to them doesn't help either. it is really hard to mend things like that, on your own. which is funny because when I think about it, all the immature ones I know are control freaks. in a funny way they are incapable of recognizing the effects of their own strong will. when their control puts them in a positive light there seems to be less problems, that's OK, they wanted it that way, it succeeded, so everything's fine, they are reassured. food for thought imho.