LEOs i NEEEEED your help

This topic was created in the Leo forum by didi666 on Thursday, November 8, 2007 and has 10 replies.
Hi Leos,
I am a 31 Gemini, i met this 31 Leo through a friend...he got me at hello, you see we spoke for hours before we even met (so its not based on looks) we met the same day cause the attraction was all over the place smile
we start seeing each other every weekend and we get a chance during weekdays BUT its always with friends (we were alone only 3 times in 4 weeks)
he was engaged for 3 years and was suppose to marry next month, he broke up 1 1/2 months before i met him...i am sure he is going through tough time but she is totally out of the pix....
my worries isn't about his ex. but about the way he is, i am the one who is always calling (wake up calls, remainders....etc)
he can be the sweetest thing ever but only when he wants to be...i am very emotional and moooooody like no other (A Gemini baby) i am very honest about how i feel and it all shows on my face...
i want to know what makes Leos happy, i am very open and i say what i want but he is keeping it inside SadSadSad
if i would wish one thing in this world, i would wish HIM....he has all what i ever wanted....
tip me if you can...
Thanks,
Didi
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Red flag, he's still in love with the ex, best to distance yourself, she may be out of the picture but that song will sing in his heart for a while, date him at your own risk...beware he's not going to open up anytime soon....leo men are naturally happy and open and most have no problem expressing themselves ie love, affection, touch unless their is a sad love song going on in his heart.
I would suggest not spending so much time with him for now...he's not ready but you seem to be getting attached, good luck, your going to need it.
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didi, it's obvious that he likes you but is on the rebound. It might be a short rebound since it sounds like he broke off the engagement, but he still needs time. As in Single Time. Anything that smells like a commitment right now is going to make him nervous and he will disappear.
You are excited to hop into a good relationship, he is relieved to be out of a bad one. He needs something casual and easy right now till he gets his head on straight and trusts his own judgment again. No pressure, no great expectations. Back off a little and give some breathing room. And then he will come to you...
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I would listen to Cookie on this.
I got involved with two Leos who were rebounding. I don't recommend it. One I still carry a tourch for even though I haven't seen him in over a year. Don't. Let. This. Happen. To. You.
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give him time dont chase him if he wants you he will come after you
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MyEulogy90 we need you on this board, you sound like a lot of leos I know and the more and more I hang with leo guys I realize your dead on in regards to leo men and how they think, of course your a young leo cub so you have a bit of growing to do but its still refreshing.
great insight
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No sarcasm, I like the way you think, we need a male lions perspective on things around here.
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umm i'm a girl so might have a different insight than men do - but more or less the fact that he doesnt really call you or initiate anything just means he isnt interested and you fall into the 'gang' of friends leos always tend to make.
Leo's always need to see something extra special in the guy/girl they decide to court or get serious with - else its just a casual affair with things maybe/maybe not going anywhere. That special something tends to change time after time - and break up after break up. More often than not - they would seek someone a little opposite of the one they broke up with. Atleast in the immidiate phase.
Leos are optimistic souls and also hate being loners - so even if they move out of a relationship - rebound or not they would seek someone else.
Try and move things fast before he finds someone else as his love interest.
try find the real reason he broke up with his ex - and then show to him that you're the exact opposite (only in relation to those characterstics).
At the moment the bitter truth is that the fact that he doesnt call or bother is cause he isnt interested. Wont be surprised if he forgets about you the moment he hangs up the phone. Sorry for being so candid but i'm dating a taurean and its had horrible effects on my diplomacy skills.
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Dear all,
thanks for you support & honesty....
i wish i have used this method before things got a bit out of hand, we had our talk today and it was hard but i must admit that it clarified many things.
Softcookie, u were talking as if you know both of us...his best friend told me the same thing and i am giving him all the space he needs.
MyEulogy90, i got your point and somehow u r right..
Tiki, u might be right as memories of our ex-loved ones are hard to be forgotten (it took me almost 2 yrs to be over my ex fianc? after 7 yrs realtionship), i feel what he is going through but its not easy to go on with all the pressure from his family and his ex trying all possible ways to get him back...
any way, i have bothered u all with my problem...i only wish the best for all and wish me luck...
i will give him space and hope for it to workout but i will go on with my life...nothing is worth stopping for......
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hey proverbs, i was born 6.6.76 at 6am so i love this no....i know in some cultuers consider it the devil no but that is just a lie...
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