Libra male Loves a Leo female

Well I'm a Libra Male who has been seeing a Leo Female off and on for the past 7 Months. We started off great. The big problem is that I have had a few set backs in life. These caused us to break up a few times. The last time we were dating was in Sept. and things just got messed up bad. I made major mistakes. Well she kept talking to me and things were ok for a lil bit. We got back together 2 weeks ago and I thought things were great. Then she started having problems with us again. Well she has been very defensive towards me and very snappy with her words. She doesn't want me to stop calling. Well texting or messaging.
The last time she was like this I stopped texting and messaging her but kept sending flirts to her via the social net work we met on. Like one a week or so. During that time I also sent her 2 emails telling her how I feel about her. Well she has bashed the emails and just about all my feelings for her. She finally opened up to me about what she was feeling during the dark days. This I understand and i am happy she opened up to me.
I now understand what she was thinking and feeling. The problem I have is I love her more than anything. She knows this all to well. I am just torn cause I feel I'm wasting my time spinning my wheels.

The question I have should I go on? She doesn't want me to stop talking to her. She is acting like she is pissed all the time towards me. Should i back off some and maybe she will see what she might be missing.—

Just from what you have written, it seems as though she is seriously beginning to resent the mistakes that were made (Probaby not YOU, but the mistakes made). She probably still cares for you but it seems as though she is on the defensive now because she is afraid that the cycle will keep repeating itself. I understand how you feel because I am in the same situation (roles reversed and a bit different but still the same) but if you ever need help, I'm here!

Hey thank you Viva_La_Raine
I was sorta thinking that. I been trying to keep it cool. Trying to show her things are getting better. I was out of work when we met and now i'm working. I have had a few other things change for the better so I am not the same person she met. Well as in working and doing better🙂 She sees this and I think she will come around. I think i need to give it a lil time.

Yes, please do! We have a tendency to kind of distance ourselves when we feel out of sorts but if we care about you (Which I believe she does 🙂) we come back. Don't worry, I believe it will get better.

Hmmm Im Leo female and depending on the "mistake/s"— I may never forget it......we are extremely loyal and if somebody hurts us as in infedility? hmmmmmm I dunno. Mind you Im not sure what the "mistake/s" was/were so I cant judge.

Seems she may have a lot of baggage about whatever it was and wont let you forget it and ultimately ruining anything good if she cant get over it.

Ummmm no Chatz... I have never cheated on any woman.

My heart is set on this Leo. She is the first thought on my mind every day and the last every night. We have been sorta off and on fighting for months its very hard.

The truth be told I met her online and as my marriage was ending. I then met her in person. We talked for 9 hours. I left my wife 3 days later.

The stress of a lot of diff things has been very hard on my Leo and I. She tends to not open up about anything. This tends to cause problems at times. I get this most of the time but it gets tricky at times for me to understand. That is why we end up like we are.

Well thats good to see 🙂

Being a Leo I can kinda understand.....we are incredibly loyal and one would imagine that there would be a lot to deal with when ending a marriage, etc and its hard on Leos to take all of what would go with that....a lot would go through her mind as no doubt it would go through yours. It would be incredibly difficult to commence a relationship when ending another, especially a marriage.

Are you sure that this is fair on either of you? Given you have mixed feelings and no doubt emotional about the ending of a marriage (Ive heard Librans take endings hard and have witnessed this myself). Can you honestly say you are over your wife completely when beginning a new relationship?

Is this still an online relationship or do you see one another regularly? There are a lot of questions and scenarios to work through.

Its very difficult to enter into something new when one holds baggage from the past.....are you sure you want to put this Leo through that?

Well I have gone through lots of things. We have been through a few tough times. I am past most of the emotional bs that goes with the marriage ending. She has seen me at my worst and keeps coming back for more and more.

I wish we could see each other more often. I feel things would be much better if we did. She is has been trying work out the problems we have had. I do understand this and that is messing me up. I like having her around. The living conditions i am in are sorta bad right now. The woman my brother has living with us is crazy and just needs to go. That is easier said than done.

My marriage started to end about 2 yrs ago. I became very unhappy with my wife who decided to not bother talking to me and putting her friends before the life we had. I left three days after i met my Leo. I have not looked back from that day. I went through lots of things and it mostly came down to the ex putting our daughter between us. I have been fighting to see our daughter sense May and the courts of Mass. are not helpful when its a guy trying to see his child. That is the biggest thing that is causing most of my relationship problems.