Libra sun with Leo moon and Leo sun with aqua moon

I’m trying to figure out if this is friendly bartender flirting or more. Let me start this by saying I don’t spend much money at this bar. I tip well but since I only drink soda or water, it hasn’t been more than a 10 $ tip(over the span of hours).

So this bartender who I think is flirting with me has me curious. The bartender is super flirty with everyone but I’m wondering if it’s different with me.

The annoying question, am I an exception to the rule.

I’ve posted about this before because I have issues reading body language and social cues. And that’s mostly what flirting is! Anywho,

I’ve been going to this bar for several weeks now and last night was the most informative but still left me confused.

I enter the bar and the bartender has my drink (soda) within 5 mins. I don’t pay for this drink. I ask how they are but insist that we can talk later as to not to disturb them at work. He sets up some glasses where I’m at and says something about he can work right here. We get the “how are you?” out the way and i walk to the back of the bar like a coward. After that we catch each others eye a few times and talk about what we plan to sing for karaoke. Also find out each others age, I asked first and he paused then asked me.

Later on I’m sitting by myself at a table with my eyes closed singing to the music. I was pretty into the song and just dancing by myself . I open my eyes and bartender is across from my table smiling but doesn’t speak. I smile and close my eyes going back Into the music.

After that I’m in the back bar again and he comes up with one of those toy balls with the rubber whatever on it and ask me if I want to touch it. I did but it was more to touch their hand.

Finally, one of his coworkers randomly ask me if I want to get stoned. We go outside to the front of the bar and smoke a bit . I find out it’s the bartenders supply and they asked their friend to get me stoned.

I come back in the bar and thank him and he replies, I’ve been wanting to do that for weeks. I just look at him and thank him again.

He’s such a flirt. Kissed his coworkers head and was flipping his hair and hugging everyone. I know he seems friendly but I’m not sure if he’s interested.

I sent him a message on ig a week ago but I’m guessing he didn’t see it based on how he was talking yesterday.

He also got off early last week and sat at the back of the bar avoiding me and kind of paused when he saw I was still there.

I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable in their workplace so any help is appreciated

His Venus cancer Mars Virgo

My Venus in scorpio and mars libra

Thanks for reading and feedback

Posted by Scotteh007

Uhmm thats really......hard to say.

But whos signs are whose here?

Because I have the Libra Sun Leo moon and I was wondering if it was his.

I can totally relate to this behavior when hes all flirty when hes working but when hes done completely closed off.

But because I'm just actually really shy.

He might be just flirty for work reasons. To keep his customers coming back. Woman do this too. Bartenders put on this act to keep business.

I’m the libra sun and Leo moon. 🙂