Lions, a mystery to me but maybe not to you? Help!
This topic was created in the Leo forum by orientalpeony on Monday, March 10, 2014 and has 4 replies.
From what I read it seems you're dangerously falling into the friend zone. I don't think any of my Leo exs have shown me a text from their exs...
The only reason I think you might.. and I could be wrong, though I don't think I am based off my experience... is because even though you don't constantly text and message you still seem too available. As in you are there if he needs anything. You told him that several times. Even from what you wrote of his reactions to you. IME Leo men come on strong when they want someone. And I've dated a couple Leo men and they all came on strong. He does not seem as into you as you might think. Trust me little actions like touching and subtle talking is NOT a Leo man's style . If they like you there would be no question You would KNOW.
It could be because that he's going through a lot of his friend... but do NOT use that as an excuse too much. My Leo ex went through that with his suicidal SISTER whom he loved dearly, but it didn't change the way he acted toward me.
My advice is you can't do anything immediately, and I feel this is why you come here, most women that come here usually are looking for an immediate action that they can do to make them feel more secure about something they have no control over which is the mans feelings for you. Which whether they are they are not there is nothing you can really do more to change them.
I say just do you. And let him come around to you. You already told him you'd be there, no need to repeat yourself, after a while it gets a little desperate. Like oh talk to me whenever you need someone, meaning talk to me PLEASE. So be careful with that. Just focus on yourself and if he comes around let him chase you. Trust me.
The only reason I think you might.. and I could be wrong, though I don't think I am based off my experience... is because even though you don't constantly text and message you still seem too available. As in you are there if he needs anything. You told him that several times. Even from what you wrote of his reactions to you. IME Leo men come on strong when they want someone. And I've dated a couple Leo men and they all came on strong. He does not seem as into you as you might think. Trust me little actions like touching and subtle talking is NOT a Leo man's style . If they like you there would be no question You would KNOW.
It could be because that he's going through a lot of his friend... but do NOT use that as an excuse too much. My Leo ex went through that with his suicidal SISTER whom he loved dearly, but it didn't change the way he acted toward me.
My advice is you can't do anything immediately, and I feel this is why you come here, most women that come here usually are looking for an immediate action that they can do to make them feel more secure about something they have no control over which is the mans feelings for you. Which whether they are they are not there is nothing you can really do more to change them.
I say just do you. And let him come around to you. You already told him you'd be there, no need to repeat yourself, after a while it gets a little desperate. Like oh talk to me whenever you need someone, meaning talk to me PLEASE. So be careful with that. Just focus on yourself and if he comes around let him chase you. Trust me.
Posted by orientalpeony
Me again. Just writing in cause I'm about |-- this --| close to texting him something neutral like "Hope all is well". Stopping myself before I do.
Sigh. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. And my mind is not even idle. ):
Hahaha true!!
Well done for showing restraint - you will immediately regret sending it anyway lol!
Posted by KittyKnitter
... put yourself first. he will in touch when he is ready for contact.
keep him accountable for his words and actions. he is an adult with choices.
meanwhile don't let life pass you by and don't be a pushover.
Excellent advice.
Soooo simple.
But never easy.
+1
I cant speak for all Leo men. But I myself have found that some but not all of us tend to find it hard to let go of some people once we like them unless they are extremely bad for us. But one thing that happens is once we feel that someone doesn't appreciate us we get hurt and will disappear sometimes for a good reason sometimes not. One example of this would be if something has made one of us ready to get mad we might disappear to gather our thoughts and decide how we want to approach things whether it be an apology or calm down enough to discuss things. in some cases the distance may be because of how much is actually going on in his mind that he may or may not be able to fully explain or discuss with you. But if they care enough they will come around and explain what it really is. As loud and flamboyant as a Leo can be heavy is the head that wears the crown is the old saying and a lot of these so called kings have many things on their mind at all times when trying to look out for their kingdom IE family, friends and things they hold dear. Hope my ramblings made a little sense and helped.
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