My leo is pushing me away

This topic was created in the Leo forum by candy198224 on Thursday, April 25, 2019 and has 4 replies.

candy198224

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Signed Up: Apr 25, 2019
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I need your advise please, my leo is pushing me away but frankly I started it, we know each other from a year and a half within this year I am the one who always started to communicate, but am not of the type that is so clingy to call so many times a day, so whenever he is not answering I don't ask about him after a while he comes back asking where were you?! I took a distance once and he brought me back

Despite of his way of being caring and then cold through this year I kept communicating and we met once

After that I felt I need to speak out how I feel and I did

And in order to keep my pride I told him as long as you don't feel the same I have to step back for a while

He called trying to make me not to do that and he didn't say anything if he has anything for me or not

So kept a distance again in this while he called that he doesn't want to lose me and me around

I accepted it hoping that he might have some feelings for me

Yet he kept flirting with his friends(girls)

That was so hard for me so I told him i have to go its too much for me to accept and I need to go

Then blocked him from Facebook in order not to follow his activities on it

After a month I couldn't bear being so far from him so I called and he was really nice and told me to send him a friend request again

However since this day he never answered my texts or calls

After like 10 days he put a profile Pic on WhatsApp with a gift! I asked him what is this he didn't answer

Asked him to tell me if he is in a relationship just say it, the answer was something like that!

So I pulled myself away again, but after this I realized there is no relationship or anything but he is just pushing me away

Can you help me, do you think he ever had anything for me, I felt like so, if not why he kept coming back to me and why now he is pushing me away

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Well it seems like neither one were very direct with one another, however it seems as if you told him how you felt and he want to flirt with other women. That alone is a good reason to move on and not worry about him. Blocking him just to unblock him later was silly on your part since that basically shows that you're unsure what you want. I advice you leave this guy alone and look for someone who will reciprocate your feelings.

Signed Up: Jan 27, 2019
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Leave this yo-yo alone. Stop letting him toy with your feelings. It's okay to be sad or a little hurt but don't open the door to have you manipulate you behind it. I mean, he's ignoring you. That's pretty rude and disrespectful. Who wants or needs a rude, disrespectful ass for a man? Yeah. No thanks. Keep your dignity in tact and move forward towards healing and finding someone more compatible and respectful.