Need Help From Leo Females ..please guide me

This topic was created in the Leo forum by bluedeath on Monday, April 11, 2011 and has 35 replies.
Hello All leo females there.....
Need to ask from leo females......
i am sagittarius ( 8 dec ) guy and i just broke with my leo girlfriend ( 15 august )......
the cause of fight and breakeup is lots of lies from my side and i really dont mean to say all those just to hide my successful person identity i did that ..... kindly guide me if you be at her place what would you have done and what is the way to get her back .... she is engaged now means her engagement done .... please guide me .....
i love her so deeply and she love me so deeply but i dunno why she is acting like that now ....
waiting for replies from all leo females
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She is engaged to someone else?? Im sorry, Im not really understanding your post. Not enough details and confusing. Can you elaborate?
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I'm guessing she's not engaged to you so leave her alone. You kept lying to her so she got fed up and moved on. If she's treating you coldly it's because she's trying to get her point across.
Leos abhor being disrespected which is exactly what you did by lying to her. We are prideful creatures that do not like to be taken advantage of. She is a woman scorned on top of it.
Give her space. Give her what she wants or she'll eventually cut you out altogether without a second thought. We are capable of forgiving quickly without holding a grudge but are not afraid to let go if it means our health and sanity are on the line.
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Posted by LoveBucket
Please don't elaborate further -- you've said more than enough already!!


ahahaha! I couldnt really understand it.... guess it wasnt just me then?? lol
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All i know from the information u gave us is that u lied to her. Leo's HATE i mean HATEEEEE to be lied to, even if its a little fib. And that is the exact reason she left u because i'm sure it was about another female or somethin like that. Am i right? lol
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Posted by bluedeath
i dunno why she is acting like that now ....



She is acting like that because she is done with the lies as well as the relationship.
How long had you been together?
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Posted by delishhh
All i know from the information u gave us is that u lied to her. Leo's HATE i mean HATEEEEE to be lied to, even if its a little fib. And that is the exact reason she left u because i'm sure it was about another female or somethin like that. Am i right? lol


Yep... WE HATE LIES!!! THe worst thing you do to me is LIE to me!!! I HATE IT!!! I can respect your honesty no matter how ugly.... but the lies... HELL TO THE NO!
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she is engaged means ... she told me her engagement is done with some other guy and soon they getting married ..... so kindly tell me how to prove myself .... whatever i did is to hide my real identity because in reality i am very successful man like a tycoon and i present myself to her as simple guy .... so kindly guide me please ....
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it starts like this ..... we met online and we fallen for each other so much so badly we always spend hours chatting and talking and we like 2 body one soul and we never ever for 3 months online faught online ... then our families they want us to marry and we both so much ready to get married but i lied about my personality and my profession and all because i dont want any girl to like me as big tycoon not for my money not for my big business circle ..... then one day i told her all truth and then she said she love me alot and she is waiting for me but then after 1 month she said that her family found a guy for her and she will marry the guy which her family found for her and later 1 month ago she told she got engaged with some other guy from her locality and they shared engagement rings in presence of family and soon they will get married but from her words i feel she is not happy with the guy when ever i try to let her know about our memorable moments where i loved her so pure and love her forever now ..... she becomes silent and write to me some very short message like .... i dont wanna talk about ... i dunno and like this .... as being with her i know she loves me so purely as i do just my lies over lies did all mistake and i am not also have fault in this .,... what ever i said is to be normal guy in front of her ...... we till now share messages and she always say lines like i never loved her my love was fake but truth is i love her more then God because she and me we are best out of this world ...... please now guide me as i love her so purely and wanna give her life which no man ever gave to his women ......
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Posted by bluedeath
it starts like this ..... we met online and we fallen for each other so much so badly we always spend hours chatting and talking and we like 2 body one soul and we never ever for 3 months online faught online ... then our families they want us to marry and we both so much ready to get married but i lied about my personality and my profession and all because i dont want any girl to like me as big tycoon not for my money not for my big business circle ..... then one day i told her all truth and then she said she love me alot and she is waiting for me but then after 1 month she said that her family found a guy for her and she will marry the guy which her family found for her and later 1 month ago she told she got engaged with some other guy from her locality and they shared engagement rings in presence of family and soon they will get married but from her words i feel she is not happy with the guy when ever i try to let her know about our memorable moments where i loved her so pure and love her forever now ..... she becomes silent and write to me some very short message like .... i dont wanna talk about ... i dunno and like this .... as being with her i know she loves me so purely as i do just my lies over lies did all mistake and i am not also have fault in this .,... what ever i said is to be normal guy in front of her ...... we till now share messages and she always say lines like i never loved her my love was fake but truth is i love her more then God because she and me we are best out of this world ...... please now guide me as i love her so purely and wanna give her life which no man ever gave to his women ......


Maybe its hard for her to believe that you are a highly successful tycoon when your grammar and sentence structure is so broken and hard to decipher. Or maybe its your venacular?
Whatever the case, you must know that she is thinking that if you lied to her once... you could possibly and very likely be lying to her again. What is she supposed to believe? If this was strictly an online romance.... then it was pretty much a fantasy to begin with only to be proven as such by the fact that you were pretending to be something that wasn't even real. It's one thing to lie about your profession and you financial position but you admit above to lying about your personality. That's HUGE!

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Leos hate lies..and if she is engaged to someone else then I guess it's not going to work for you....Sad
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its not about grammer i wrote it like that intentionally.......
because i dont believe in showing off .... just needed all your about in this regard so asking from you all this ....
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My Sag(Dec 10) and me(Aug 21) - We dated for 3 years and was going to get married until I found out lies he'd told. They were not major ones, but the fact that he lied about simple crap pissed me off to the point I felt I couldn't trust him! I let him go and didn't talk to him for years. We were much like you two, seemed so perfect for each other. Now 15 years later I can talk to him and be with him, but STILL WILL NEVER TRUST HIM!
You've messed up HUGE! BIG! Don't think you'll be able to win in this situation! Especially if she's getting married. It's probably rebound for her, but she's got in her mind that it's time to move on!!!!
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Posted by bluedeath
its not about grammer i wrote it like that intentionally.......
because i dont believe in showing off .... just needed all your about in this regard so asking from you all this ....


^^^ This is why your Leo is done! You cant even be your true self here asking for advice. How do you expect us to offer you advice when you keep changing shit up.... EXACTLY why you very likely will never regain her trust. LeoGal4Real is correct. I think you most likely blew this one!
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i am not politician thats why i dunno how to play with words or anything ... just wrote here my deep inner feelings and asking you all very inteligent leo women how you treated this situation of mine ...
are leo girls so cold blooded that they give up true relationship so easily because as far as i know people die for true love but never leave true lover... every one deserve second chance ... my case my girlfriend she even faught with her parents and told them she will get married with me only else she will remain single forever......
is there any way i can ever win her heart back .... because i love her deeply and will always be there for her no matter what will happen ....
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Posted by bluedeath
i am not politician thats why i dunno how to play with words or anything ... just wrote here my deep inner feelings and asking you all very inteligent leo women how you treated this situation of mine ...
are leo girls so cold blooded that they give up true relationship so easily because as far as i know people die for true love but never leave true lover... every one deserve second chance ... my case my girlfriend she even faught with her parents and told them she will get married with me only else she will remain single forever......
is there any way i can ever win her heart back .... because i love her deeply and will always be there for her no matter what will happen ....


Who said anything about being a politician? You obviously are not grasping the concept of what I am trying to tell you here. Im simply using your words as an example as to what is beneath. By your own admission you lied to her about your profession and your personality. This was never, as you put it above, a "true relationship". Maybe YOUR feelings for her were/are real... but the fact that you lied repeatedly leaves her with doubts about everything including your true feelings.
Leos are NOT cold blooded at all. As a matter of fact, we have some of the warmest hearts of all the zodiac signs. We are commonly known for fighting til the death for those that we love as well as hanging onto love relationships well past the point of no return for sake of not being a failure. The problem here is.... YOU WERE DISHONEST and she doesnt really KNOW who you are at all, let alone whether or not she really loves YOU... because she doesnt really KNOW you.
In reference to you last question.... no one knows if you can win her back or not. Your best bet would be do just continue to be there for her and try to show your love for her as much as you can. Actions speak louder than words. Especially in this situation.
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^^^^^ Word Lady! ???

Posted by bluedeath
are leo girls so cold blooded that they give up true relationship so easily because as far as i know people die for true love but never leave true lover...


bluedeath, yours was not a "true relationship" because you lied. How could you expect her to fight for something based on lies? You are really a stranger to her because of your dishonesty. Do you realize the word "true" also means "honest"?
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But i want to give her life of princess and i have everything which world fights for.....
she is priceless for me and i know i will be there for her no matter what will happen. As a matter of fact i dont have second heart so i cannot love any other girl... if you be in case of my girl friend what you all leo women would have expected from me to do .... because i know leo women never forget thr true love no matter how far they go in their lives.....
please guide me what i am supposed to do now ... should i continue showering my love as always till lifetime or what .... need you all nice leo women advice .....
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Ugh!
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Lovebucket ... i never heard any leo women ever laugh at a person who needs advice so badly from you all .... understand my situation please and i am here to ask your opinion because someone's life's your genuine opinion can change......
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Posted by bluedeath
Lovebucket ... i never heard any leo women ever laugh at a person who needs advice so badly from you all .... understand my situation please and i am here to ask your opinion because someone's life's your genuine opinion can change......


It doesnt appear that you have taken any advice that we have given thus far..... actually every post has been about the same thing... please help me... what can I do. I dont think you have acknowledged even hearing one single piece of advice that has been offered thus far.
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YEAH! Just like your Leo woman is probably laughing at you...because if this BS is true! Crawling back and pleading and begging will just make her laugh at your @ss and not respect anything you tell her anyway! #TRUTH!!!
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Yep.... What LoveBucket said!
Its BS... but whatever... I tried to indulge... now Im just aggravated.
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The constant "please guide me" got on my nerve...and made me realize he wasn't listening, didn't wanna listen or was just being an @ss!!!!
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Posted by LeoGal4Real
The constant "please guide me" got on my nerve...and made me realize he wasn't listening, didn't wanna listen or was just being an @ss!!!!


Dear GOD!!! ME too!!!
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Dear God LLL! Your photo is steaming up monitors world wide! You look awesome.
Oh and bluedeath is fake.
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Posted by tamara
Dear God LLL! Your photo is steaming up monitors world wide! You look awesome.
Oh and bluedeath is fake.


Hahah... thanks!!
AND NO!!! OMG!!! SERIOUSLY!!!????
Again..... my shocked face....

But do tell how u found out this little morsel of info!!
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btw... I put that AVI up just for Tate.... now he has removed the stellar male specimen of abdominal delight and replaced it with a sheep... Sad
Therefore, I will be taking this one down soon! lol
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
But do tell how u found out this little morsel of info!!


It's a stock photo Winking
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
btw... I put that AVI up just for Tate.... now he has removed the stellar male specimen of abdominal delight and replaced it with a sheep... Sad
Therefore, I will be taking this one down soon! lol



Oh please don't take your avi down -it's slammin'!
Maybe this will make you laugh (same photo shoot, but hat in hand and no sheep):

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I am doing what ever you saying leo women out here ....
you said she is not intrested in me now no more because i lied but i also heard leo women when they love they love from core of their heart and they dont easily fall in love and they never show sentimetal because they never show in public but private they do ...
May be my GF pretending she is engaged or what or leo women they are so careless about their true love that they dump their lover instantly ......
I told you whole story and i just needed your opinion that how you be feeling if you be at her place that is that you be so easily moved on dumping me for another life partner when you know you loved me so badly ......
I am not spamming ..... i am just asking things from you girls side because you know leo trait better then me ....
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Posted by tamara
Dear God LLL! Your photo is steaming up monitors world wide! You look awesome.


that let along anything else that goes with it!!! LMAO! Even after my mini Tummy-Tuck and running 4 miles 3x's a week, P90X-ABS and Push-Ups I could never have abs like that...SMDH!
Two BIG-HEAD boys and I'm still struggling 11 years later!
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First part of my message is cut off-I'm awake! REALLY I AM!!!!
"I could never have abs that look like that"...
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Posted by LeoGal4Real
First part of my message is cut off-I'm awake! REALLY I AM!!!!
"I could never have abs that look like that"...


Aw thanks! But trust me... u dont want to have to go thru what I do in order to get them. No fun at all!!! Abs are 90% diet unfortunately and thats the worst part. No fatty foods for me!!!
Mmmm... as for that pic T..... now that's what Im talking about! Id like to lick some honey out of every single crevice of that....
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Posted by bluedeath
it starts like this ..... we met online and we fallen for each other so much so badly we always spend hours chatting and talking and we like 2 body one soul and we never ever for 3 months online faught online ... then our families they want us to marry and we both so much ready to get married but i lied about my personality and my profession and all because i dont want any girl to like me as big tycoon not for my money not for my big business circle ..... then one day i told her all truth and then she said she love me alot and she is waiting for me but then after 1 month she said that her family found a guy for her and she will marry the guy which her family found for her and later 1 month ago she told she got engaged with some other guy from her locality and they shared engagement rings in presence of family and soon they will get married


I'm guessing English is not your 1st language. After you told her the truth you were still together but you didn't propose to her. It looks like you waited too long and she didn't think you were serious. That's the real problem. The lies on top of not showing your true intentions is what got you to where you are.
You won't get anywhere if you don't propose or beg her to marry you instead. Words of love or empty promises aren't enough at this point. Get down on your knees, beg for forgiveness and her hand in marriage.
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