Need help with this Leo Girl. :((

Hi everybody,
Pls pardon me as this my very first post and I really hope that I can get some good advice from all you people here. Thanks in advance. 🙂

I am a Gemini guy born on 11 June 1973. My ex (we just ended) was born Leo 3 August 1987.
We had been in a relationship since Dec 2013. During the start, we were very close and she did showed signs of possessiveness a Leo girl should be which I like. She will keep asking if my ex did contact me and all these, also asking me to remove my ex photos from my Facebook, which I did. However, in late Jan 2014, her ex came and looked for her. Suddenly I can feel the changes in her, she's not so warm and caring towards me and I asked her why. She admitted that she saw her ex and she's confused. During then, we had a on/ off status for about a week. One day she will say she wants to stay on with me and the next moment she will tell me she wants to end. Eventually, I felt I had enough and I decided to ignore her. I didn't reply her texts and her calls. Then the next day, she came to me and changed back to that loving girl she once was and told me not to think about the unhappy issue again. I accepted and we became very good again. She will post on her Facebook our photos and addressed me as "Hubby" and telling all our friends about our wedding in the near future. I thought she has finally made up her mind about being serious with me.
On the 25 Feb, however, we had a misunderstanding as I suspect and accused her that she met up with her ex again. But she denied, I challenged her to show me her text messages between her ex and her but she got worked up and blamed me. Saying that I don't trust her. After which, she posted on her Facebook that she was very hurt that I don't trust her enough. Since this incident happened, she behaved the same way as the first incident, telling me that she don't have the heart to continue this relationship anymore. I explained to her that why I reacted that way was because I care and love her a lot and I was jealous. However, this time round she seems determined that she does not want this relationship anymore. In a fit of anger, I texted her that I won't be so hard up on her like the other guys going after her, I've done my best as a boyfriend and I don't think I deserve this kinda treatment from her. After which, she deleted all our photos from her Facebook.
Here is a brief description of the way I treated her (there are more but I just list a few):
1. I gave her all my atten

Continue..,
1. I gave her all my attention and has never rejected a single request from her. Whenever she needed me, I will always be there for her.
2. When I saw that her nails needed a new coat, I brought her to get her nails done up without her asking.
3. I was sensitive and attentive to all her needs, bring her to places she likes and eating the food that she likes.
4. A few occasions when she knocked her toes into the pavement while walking, I will immediately go down and massage her feet in public, just to make sure she's not hurt.
5. When I saw that her phone battery will always go flat when we were out (coz she don't have the habit of having her phone fully charged), I went to buy a extra battery for her.
Now I really at a loss as in whey she don't treasure this relationship anymore or is it that she's just mad about me? Please help me. Thanks.

Gemini Choo

Lol Jynja.. Yes I will if you are my girlfriend. _??_

You sound like two immature teenagers, facebook and text messages causing relationship problems!

You're only 3 months in and talking marriage already, 3 months + 1 split-up = it's not going to work.

How are you even invested this early on??

You're in your 40's and she's in her 20's, there might just be an excuse for her to act like a teen but you're way past that or should be. Why are you wanting a relationship with this much drama?

*sigh*



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Posted by celticlioness
You sound like two immature teenagers, facebook and text messages causing relationship problems!

You're only 3 months in and talking marriage already, 3 months + 1 split-up = it's not going to work.

How are you even invested this early on??

You're in your 40's and she's in her 20's, there might just be an excuse for her to act like a teen but you're way past that or should be. Why are you wanting a relationship with this much drama?

The age difference isn't the problem, it's the lack of maturity. She has already shown you how seriously she feels about marriage and it sounds like you're just babysitting.

If you like em young, at least find one that's on the same level as you mentally.

Wait a minute..

Yes. I think the age gap is not a problem for us as we tend to share similar thinking on many areas and we were never out of topic to talk about. Perhaps my whole message was misread or I didn't put it clearly. Yes, overall she is a nice girl, but she tends to swing to the extreme from time to time, one moment she is so sweet and loving, the next when she's unhappy when we had an argument, she will tell me that she has no more faith in this relationship.

The age difference isn't the problem, it's the lack of maturity. She has already shown you how seriously she feels about marriage and it sounds like you're just babysitting.

If you like em young, at least find one that's on the same level as you mentally.

Wait a minute..

Posted by Jynja
So she has a Gemini/ Libra or Aquarius moon?

LOL

Seriously I don't know. Lol. I don't even know what's mine.

There's a fine line between being childlike and childish. Nothing wrong with having fun with your significant other as long as both have a sense of responsibility.