One night stands

ok so i see some people (mostly men) are ok with having just one-night stands or having just a f**k buddy. Leos does this seem sth that you can do easily? Or are you most likely to want more from the beginning...? I am saying that because leos want every bit of attention.... So if you know that sb doesn't want anything more than just sex.. do you try to make him fall for you? Or are you ok with that? The question basically is... does the nature of the leo sign make it more difficult for them to settle for less?

I also dont like our clingy attitude towards love its like when we love we are really stupid and dont even think about the other persons character thus many hurt leos sorry just needed to vent .

kris that was kind of my answer to the topic "Leos find it hard to let go of a relationship" on the leo board...

Hey Kris...I might be the complete opposite. I don't go out looking for love. In fact, I'm only in my 3rd relationship that has lasted over a year, and those that I've been in a relationship w/ were folks I never would have suspected...I certainly was not out looking for them, it just kinda happened. Also, to clear someting up...Despite our love for love, we don't have a "clingy" attitude towards it. We do like to be in love, we like to have a someone to share ourselves with, and we do try very hard to make work out any relationship kinks...but i don't know if that means we cling to that person. We are prideful, and it's hard to let something go...but its a struggle that most people face when having to give up the one's you love.

To answer your question, ug...I personally don't have a problem w/ one-night stands (aries moon:-)! However, being a leo, I would be totally insulted if someone approached me for only sex, whether I actually liked him or not. My rule is that only I can do the approaching if I want to get laid...can't work the other way around. Must be a pride issue. I guess if I'm in control, I don't have to worry about falling in love or wanting anything more (especially if all I want is sex). Make sense?

lol i typed it i didnt copy and paste so dont worry.

sorry i wrote that on another topic...
anyway i was just pointing out that we have the same view on that... not saying you cheated lol!! 😉

However, being a leo, I would be totally insulted if someone approached me for only sex, whether I actually liked him or not. My rule is that only I can do the approaching if I want to get laid...can't work the other way around. Must be a pride issue. I guess if I'm in control, I don't have to worry about falling in love or wanting anything more (especially if all I want is sex). Make sense?

exactly my point.!! thank you truthseeker you said what i was trying to express only with better words!! I mean that is what the problem is guys... Why can't we just take it easy? I wish i could detach more easily,,, instead i do the opposite... if I see that a guy wants only sex then I have to make him want more.... I don't accept defeat!! Big ego or what?

It's hard for leo's to "take it easy." I think the only reason why I am a bit more "evolved" is because of my virgo rising. Leos are generally passionate individuals. When we want something (or someone) we put all of ourselves into achieving it. If there were more air in our charts, detachment wouldn't be hard at all. It just depends on the person.

what about a leo with sagittarius rising truthseeker? that is two fire elements!! and moon in aqua....

I was being 'nosey' lol and read up on this.. great topic! Every sign i'm sure has it's challenges with this.. udergrad.. post this in the gem's room? Or if ya don't mind can i copy it?? lol Oh and P.S. Leo's are the shit.. not cuz you know it.. but because you KNOW it. even you Kris..LMAO

I have had ONE one night stand. And I was okay with it. He was a Sag. He was HOT. I had a shallow moment and had been drooling over him for awhile. We went out one night and connected (mentally) but for some reason I still wasn't feeling anything more than "I WANT HIM". It was a long night lol! And fun. And nobody was hurt. I was the one who didn't want anything more. I questioned his sincerity. Aside from that, no. I can't do it. I always want more. I happen to lean towards clingy leo who needs space. ::oxymoron::

I agree with truthseeker. I would be insulted if someone appraoched me for only sex. The sag didn't do that. It just happened to be that way for some strange reason.

.......But the way some leos act they think they would die without love..........

No not die. Unhappy yes. Who wouldn't be?

go on babygrl post it on the gem board.... that should be interesting.... lol!