Part Two

This topic was created in the Leo forum by LoudLeo on Saturday, October 14, 2017 and has 33 replies.
Most of you probably remember my screen name from a few months ago when I shared my story of the sweetheart Cancer woman that I basically chased off after she cleaned my house.

Well, what was missing from that story is that prior to her coming into my life, I had spent the last three years trying to win over a Capricorn woman who I swore up and down that I was going to marry. Most Leos know we don't give up on anything we truly want without a fight, so yeah, almost three years of getting rejected by this Cap, but I was determined to win her over. Fast forward to the week before Valentine's Day 2017. I had this Cap sent five gifts over five days -- one per day. This was my last ditch effort to get her. For the final time, she rejected me, and solidified for me that Capricorns and Leos generally speaking ARE NOT a good match.

So literally a few weeks later, sweet little Miss Cancer comes into my life, while I'm still reeling from that Capricorn heartbreak. I'm not going to dig up the entire post for those that didn't get a chance to check it out, but the Reader's Digest version is Miss Cancer spent a weekend at my place some months back, and while I was at work, she cleaned my house. A few days after that, I checked out on her. No phone calls, no texts, nothing. All while I was trying to figure out how I was going to respond to her cleaning my house. But another reason for this was I could really feel myself getting comfortable with her, and it wasn't all that long ago that I felt that same level of comfort with the Cap, and was made to feel and look like a fool. Tried to get the Cancer back, and she basically wasn't having it. Cancers HATE abandonment, and that was proven.

Moral of all this? Regardless of sign compatibility, always take time for yourself to mend before you try love again with someone else. You're still hurting, and when someone who just might be the right one for you comes along a little too soon, you'll end up hurting them too.
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You have a question?
Correct, as the saying goes, "hurt people hurt people".
@Chuckcem, I'm sure you remember the post in question.
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@Chuckcem, I'm sure you remember the post in question.
Yep, I remember it. I believe I commented on it.
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!

as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
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@Chuckcem, I'm sure you remember the post in question.
Yep, I remember it. I believe I commented on it.
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You did, indeed.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!

as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
It was LITERALLY night and day between those two. Problem was I should've taken some healing time before I tried to pursue Miss Cancer.
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!

as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
It was LITERALLY night and day between those two. Problem was I should've taken some healing time before I tried to pursue Miss Cancer.
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Oh yea they are opposite on the zodiac wheel so yea day and night.

Be honest with the cancer and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't understand then thats ok lesson learned but maybe she needs to hear what you have to say in order for her to give you another chance.
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leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!

as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
It was LITERALLY night and day between those two. Problem was I should've taken some healing time before I tried to pursue Miss Cancer.
Oh yea they are opposite on the zodiac wheel so yea day and night.

Be honest with the cancer and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't understand then thats ok lesson learned but maybe she needs to hear what you have to say in order for her to give you another chance.
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Tried doing that. The ball is in her court, and from the little I know about Cancers, IF they give you a second chance, it won't be right away. It'll be after a long, long while. So, I'm just waiting.

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leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!

as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
It was LITERALLY night and day between those two. Problem was I should've taken some healing time before I tried to pursue Miss Cancer.
Oh yea they are opposite on the zodiac wheel so yea day and night.

Be honest with the cancer and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't understand then thats ok lesson learned but maybe she needs to hear what you have to say in order for her to give you another chance.


Tried doing that. The ball is in her court, and from the little I know about Cancers, IF they give you a second chance, it won't be right away. It'll be after a long, long while. So, I'm just waiting.

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Well reach out againnnnn lol
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
3 years? Why would you waste that kind of time chasing someone?

That's kind of weird

Gifts everyday..lol caps don't fall for those tricks dude

Lol. She didn't reject you. You rejected yourself

Hold up here. Tricks? I don't go out and haul ass driving Uber for 10 hours after I just got done working an 8 hour shift at the regular job making money for "tricks." And if you have to ask who does that, I'm gonna ask you if you ever loved someone. Because yeah, you do extraordinary ish when you love somebody.
Posted by nightowl
I read here somewhere that you chased your cancer woman away by getting mad that she cleaned your place

have you ever thought about what you're doing in the relationship
Just so we're clear, is your question what was I doing in the relationship, or what did I do wrong in the relationship?
Posted by nightowl
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.

If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Really? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
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3 years? Why would you waste that kind of time chasing someone?

That's kind of weird

Gifts everyday..lol caps don't fall for those tricks dude

Lol. She didn't reject you. You rejected yourself

Hold up here. Tricks? I don't go out and haul ass driving Uber for 10 hours after I just got done working an 8 hour shift at the regular job making money for "tricks." And if you have to ask who does that, I'm gonna ask you if you ever loved someone. Because yeah, you do extraordinary ish when you love somebody.
Love or manipulation ...trying to buy someone's affection?


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Manipulation huh? LOL that's literally laughable. I had been on dates with this woman off and on throughout those three years, and the "tricks" as you call them are called being romantic. That's in my nature. That's what I do. I do gestures for you if I care about you. Manipulation..........wow.

Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.

That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??
Posted by LadyNeptune
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.

That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??
If it was just one Capricorn, you'd have a great point. I've had experience with four Capricorns. Three ended in similar fashion, and the fourth actually drug out the longest. So this wasn't a "one-and-done" experiment.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.

That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??
Have you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by LadyNeptune
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.

That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??
Have you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
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I only know of one couple -- the Obamas. When you see those two, you can tell they genuinely love each other.
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Posted by nightowl
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.

If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Really? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
That's great in theory but time is finite

Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on

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Each person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.

That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??
Have you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
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My silverlake clients. Two gays that have been together 20 years. Gay years are like dog years so thats actually 140 years.
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Posted by nightowl
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.

If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Really? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
That's great in theory but time is finite

Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on

Each person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.

What happens after you win the prize?
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You do whatever it takes, within reason, to keep it. Pointblank. Period. Otherwise, what was the point in putting in all that effort?

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Posted by nightowl
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.

If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Really? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
That's great in theory but time is finite

Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on

Each person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.

You're looking for a reward, there you go. Its the thrill of chase. Do you really love this girl or do you just want to win? if this is what you decided

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LOL. Why do you go to work? Yeah, you might go to work because you absolutely love your job, but that love for your job ain't gonna pay the mortgage, the rent, or whatever the case may be. At the end of the day, you go to work for your reward in the form of a paycheck. People do what they do in life to see some sort of reward, whatever form that comes in.
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Posted by nightowl
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.

If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Really? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
That's great in theory but time is finite

Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on

Each person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.

You're looking for a reward, there you go. Its the thrill of chase. Do you really love this girl or do you just want to win? if this is what you decided

LOL. Why do you go to work? Yeah, you might go to work because you absolutely love your job, but that love for your job ain't gonna pay the mortgage, the rent, or whatever the case may be. At the end of the day, you go to work for your reward in the form of a paycheck. People do what they do in life to see some sort of reward, whatever form that comes in.
Just fyi im also a leo. So i know after being in love. love is not something you can work hard to get..love

You can try your hardest and never get it..if your heart is not in the right place

enough with the american dream speech. theres a reason...theres people out there who will suit you much better than someone who doesnt want you. Its being realistic.

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And I can dig all of that. I'm just wondering how the Capricorn got to be the focus of this thread when she wasn't even the most recent love situation. Most recent was the Cancer, but at any rate, you put yourself out there and do things you normally wouldn't do for the person you love. If they love you back, that's ideal. If they don't, then that's a lesson learned for you.
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Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.

That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??
Have you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
My silverlake clients. Two gays that have been together 20 years. Gay years are like dog years so thats actually 140 years.
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Haha oh okay. Leo's and caps go through a lot together. I wonder what's their secret to forever.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!

as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
Seconded.
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Posted by nightowl
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.

If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Really? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
That's great in theory but time is finite

Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on

Each person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.

You're looking for a reward, there you go. Its the thrill of chase. Do you really love this girl or do you just want to win? if this is what you decided

LOL. Why do you go to work? Yeah, you might go to work because you absolutely love your job, but that love for your job ain't gonna pay the mortgage, the rent, or whatever the case may be. At the end of the day, you go to work for your reward in the form of a paycheck. People do what they do in life to see some sort of reward, whatever form that comes in.
Just fyi im also a leo. So i know after being in love. love is not something you can work hard to get..love

You can try your hardest and never get it..if your heart is not in the right place

enough with the american dream speech. theres a reason...theres people out there who will suit you much better than someone who doesnt want you. Its being realistic.

And I can dig all of that. I'm just wondering how the Capricorn got to be the focus of this thread when she wasn't even the most recent love situation. Most recent was the Cancer, but at any rate, you put yourself out there and do things you normally wouldn't do for the person you love. If they love you back, that's ideal. If they don't, then that's a lesson learned for you.
Bexcuse it shows that you love the chase more than anything

A person gave you their time and affection yet you threw it away Bexcuse it wasn't hard enough

I guess you need the challenge and the only reason you want the crab now is Bexcuse she curbed you. Not cause you actually liked her

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Wrong again ma'am. At my core I'm a lazy, LAZY mofo, and if I don't have to work, or chase in this case, then I'd rather not. Again, you go for what and who you want in life.

As far as Miss Cancer, no I'm not out for a chase with her at all. I'm grown enough to admit that I effed up with her and should've left her alone since I was on the heels of all that BS I put myself through with the Cap. The time we were together should've been the time that I was getting out anger and frustration and all the rest of that ish before I tried to pursue anything with anyone else.

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!

as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
Seconded.
I'm sure Taurus moons love cap placements
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I actually don't have any issues with Cap placements. I myself have a Cap Mars.
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Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.

That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??
Have you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
My silverlake clients. Two gays that have been together 20 years. Gay years are like dog years so thats actually 140 years.
Gay couples aren’t the same as heterosexual couples.
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How so? Aside from the logistics of sex obviously.
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!

as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
Lol. Sag? Idk I dated a Leo and am Cap dominant. Of course, we clicked on my Sag & hesitation of my Cap bits were tough for him. But the Leo just keeps chasing anyway lol.

Anyway - my Cap & I seem to complement each other - optimism vs pessimism but he's my rock & balances me out - now that he's not being hesitant!!!! Lol.
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YEs i know our stories have so many similarities because you're a fire sign too and im SO happy for you and im glad things are working out with you two Big Grin
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Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.

That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??
Have you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
My silverlake clients. Two gays that have been together 20 years. Gay years are like dog years so thats actually 140 years.
Gay couples aren’t the same as heterosexual couples.
How so? Aside from the logistics of sex obviously.
I read in an astrology book that it differs from heterosexual and homosexual couples. Like for example Leo and Aqua... it says it can work once you push through the hurdles but with F Leo and F Aqua it says it’s not a good match at all. I agree. I love Leo women but if I was gay i wouldn’t date one...we’d probably end up killing each other.
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That's funny, because a I tried dating someone years and years ago. She and I mutually decided we'd be better off as friends. She's another Leo, and the things that irk people about me irked me about her. Funny how that works out..........

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Posted by nightowl
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.

If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Really? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
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Say it loud & proud Leo! Lol