Quadruple Scorpio nightmare
This topic was created in the Leo forum by BigGirlPanties on Thursday, June 13, 2013 and has 9 replies.
Howdy fellow felines,
I met a Scorp sun, moon, venus, jupiter online exactly 4 days ago. Spoke on phone a few times. He is 43, never married, no kids, few relationships. After brief talking/texting, he is talking relationship! yes, for real! More like fantasizing on how he wants long term, wants me to make equal visits to his neighboorhood (about 40 mins away), and all that stuff. It did ewww me out though not surprised cus I know enough about scorps to know this behavior. But....
Now he is getting nuts.
Last night he texts, I was on phone call so did'nt reply. While on phone, I logged into the dating site to check for mail. He instantly messages me there. I don't reply cus I can only mutli-task so much. Sends another message, then another text. Obsessively, cus I didnt reply. WTF?
30 mins later when I hung up the call, I texted back. He accuses me of ignoring him. (The visualization of a bunny boiling on my stove came into mind). I explain I was on phone. "Oh" he says. "I thought you were blowing me off cus I texted you ALMOST TWO HOURS AGO". Um, is there is time line I MUST reply by in text world, I think. Then he says to disregard the email I sent on the site. Ruh roh...:O
Email says "Alrighty, I get the hint. Thanks for wasting my time. Hope you have a safe trip home. I wont bother you anymore". This all cus I do not respond to his obsessive need to suck me into his insane vortex of a mind. Ewwwwwwww. I'm totally grossed out now.
He wants to meet me and asked "When do you want to see me"? What a great invite for a date. I need to find the words to say this isnt gonna happen. Intense scorpio succubus. Help!!
I met a Scorp sun, moon, venus, jupiter online exactly 4 days ago. Spoke on phone a few times. He is 43, never married, no kids, few relationships. After brief talking/texting, he is talking relationship! yes, for real! More like fantasizing on how he wants long term, wants me to make equal visits to his neighboorhood (about 40 mins away), and all that stuff. It did ewww me out though not surprised cus I know enough about scorps to know this behavior. But....
Now he is getting nuts.
Last night he texts, I was on phone call so did'nt reply. While on phone, I logged into the dating site to check for mail. He instantly messages me there. I don't reply cus I can only mutli-task so much. Sends another message, then another text. Obsessively, cus I didnt reply. WTF?
30 mins later when I hung up the call, I texted back. He accuses me of ignoring him. (The visualization of a bunny boiling on my stove came into mind). I explain I was on phone. "Oh" he says. "I thought you were blowing me off cus I texted you ALMOST TWO HOURS AGO". Um, is there is time line I MUST reply by in text world, I think. Then he says to disregard the email I sent on the site. Ruh roh...:O
Email says "Alrighty, I get the hint. Thanks for wasting my time. Hope you have a safe trip home. I wont bother you anymore". This all cus I do not respond to his obsessive need to suck me into his insane vortex of a mind. Ewwwwwwww. I'm totally grossed out now.
He wants to meet me and asked "When do you want to see me"? What a great invite for a date. I need to find the words to say this isnt gonna happen. Intense scorpio succubus. Help!!
4 days and without a date, yet he already demands?
Red flags alert galore, this may be a sign of an insecure and/or controlling individual...
Red flags alert galore, this may be a sign of an insecure and/or controlling individual...
This sounds so damn familiar, it's a relief! I have an ex whom I'm certain will dig up my bones from my grave to ensure I'm gone and hold me one last time. He is a Scorp sun and has Venus & Mercury in Scorp. I have still not been able to shake him.
I get random f'u's quickly followed up with some poetic expression, quote or sonnet. Pain in the arse! Run for your life! Whatever you do, be FRANK before he convinces himself otherwise.
Good luck!
excuse the crap grammar. I'm sneaking it in at work! :-)
Haha! Wow. This is kinda funny but not at the same time. Totally like that!
My ex has a few placements sun/venus/mercury all in Scorpio. If I didn't answer he would lose his marbles. I say get rid of him. He's already making demands and you aren't even together. Imagine what it would be like if you were. Probably stalk the living daylights out of you.
I would just tell him you aren't interested. Plain and simple. Scorpio's can smell bullshit a mile away so just be honest. If he bothers you just block him. If he asks why tell him the truth. Be like you know I didn't appreciate x, y, z.
Kind of a bad omen though I wouldn't give him another chance. I would just be like yeah not going to work. Leave it at that.
My ex has a few placements sun/venus/mercury all in Scorpio. If I didn't answer he would lose his marbles. I say get rid of him. He's already making demands and you aren't even together. Imagine what it would be like if you were. Probably stalk the living daylights out of you.
I would just tell him you aren't interested. Plain and simple. Scorpio's can smell bullshit a mile away so just be honest. If he bothers you just block him. If he asks why tell him the truth. Be like you know I didn't appreciate x, y, z.
Kind of a bad omen though I wouldn't give him another chance. I would just be like yeah not going to work. Leave it at that.
Thanks guys, I'm gonna wait to see if/when he texts me again.Then I will tell him that what he did doesn't sit right with me. I'm glad I'm not smitten with him, cus THEN it'd be hard to go bye bye. He told me he's been on this dating site for 5 months and had not ONE date. He is ok looking, funny, witty all that stuff so I couldn't understand why he couldnt get a date. NOW I know. He freaks women out too soon.
He seems to be quite immature, not in an asshole way, but in an emotionally delayed way. He is into DJ'ing and hot car stuff. Which is generally a younger guy thing. He is also a gym rat, posting body pics on his FB. I wonder if these activities make him feel good about himself when he is lacking what he wants most, a relationship. I feel empathy for him but not to the extent I will allow this stuff in my air zone. Besides, I've got another date with the Leo tonight. And he has a scorp rising, which is about all the scorp I want in a man.
He seems to be quite immature, not in an asshole way, but in an emotionally delayed way. He is into DJ'ing and hot car stuff. Which is generally a younger guy thing. He is also a gym rat, posting body pics on his FB. I wonder if these activities make him feel good about himself when he is lacking what he wants most, a relationship. I feel empathy for him but not to the extent I will allow this stuff in my air zone. Besides, I've got another date with the Leo tonight. And he has a scorp rising, which is about all the scorp I want in a man.
Well here is some update to this crazy crustacean:
Today I drove up to Orlando to visit my bf, a male Pisces. Strictly platonic and I actually mentioned him to the Scorp in passing. So he texts me asking whats up. Said I was enroute to Pisces house for weekend. I had told him few days ago I was coming up here. He gets very short with me, one word replies. I ask if something wrong. At first he denies but is very cold. So I ask if he is stinging me (We discussed astrology). Then he blew a frigging gasket...telling me that it was *I* who had iced him out days ago when I did not "propose a time and place to meet", that I had zero time for him because I am spending it all with friends this week, that he thinks he is just a "vapor" to me and not a man of substance" and that he never puts people he cares about on the back burner but obvs I do. I HAVE KNOWN THIS GUY FOR 6 DAYS!!! I am on vacation this week, had my plans to travel set in advance, been traveling all week so no way was I cancelling just to have a first date with someone. WTF???
Then, he closes off with "Go fuck your loser boy-toy in Orlando BYE!!". I have to admit I am grateful he bailed cus I thought I'd have a hard time getting rid of him. But in typical Leo fashion, I had to end with a signature Leo line so I replied with "What's a boy toy?"
Today I drove up to Orlando to visit my bf, a male Pisces. Strictly platonic and I actually mentioned him to the Scorp in passing. So he texts me asking whats up. Said I was enroute to Pisces house for weekend. I had told him few days ago I was coming up here. He gets very short with me, one word replies. I ask if something wrong. At first he denies but is very cold. So I ask if he is stinging me (We discussed astrology). Then he blew a frigging gasket...telling me that it was *I* who had iced him out days ago when I did not "propose a time and place to meet", that I had zero time for him because I am spending it all with friends this week, that he thinks he is just a "vapor" to me and not a man of substance" and that he never puts people he cares about on the back burner but obvs I do. I HAVE KNOWN THIS GUY FOR 6 DAYS!!! I am on vacation this week, had my plans to travel set in advance, been traveling all week so no way was I cancelling just to have a first date with someone. WTF???
Then, he closes off with "Go fuck your loser boy-toy in Orlando BYE!!". I have to admit I am grateful he bailed cus I thought I'd have a hard time getting rid of him. But in typical Leo fashion, I had to end with a signature Leo line so I replied with "What's a boy toy?"
I am having my first experience with a Scorpio and he wasn't to that extreme but very is very persistent. After spending a couple of times with him. He is growing on me but in the begging he was really rubbing me the wrong way with his cockiness and persistence. It was getting over bearing. I literally almost iced him out. But I also got very blunt with him. I set very hard boundaries, like my work and personal commitments come first in my life. I put him in his place if he starts any crap with me about time or not answering my communications. After our first meeting he made a comment that he was sorry I was not that memorable to him. I told him I didn't say that. He was putting words in my mouth. I enjoyed my time with him but I wasn't going to sit there and be all clingy, if I didn't have an interest I would have cut it off but I couldn't help he was feeding into my ego. LoL yeah he got quite after that. I have noticed recently he has cooled off now that I have established what I will and will not tolerate: he said to me tonight he hopes to see me next week and he feels I am very attractive and have a great personality and feels I am fun to be around. He is able to be himself and not have to walk on eggshells. I don't think he would feel this way unless I showed him I was a strong independent woman. He has gained respect from me because of this. I am not sure if he would feel this way if I was passive in my feelings.
I did a scorp sun with cap moon and rising. Did NOT enjoy all his cold Cappyness. And I have a Cap brother who is similar. Can't say Id dig a cap, no offense to my dearest CowP man 
I lol at what you wrote Seraph about the scorp venus..LOL. My former sag man had it and yes, it was something else. But geez, this one with the quadruple...adios mio. Thank god his 4 headed monsterness arose so earlier. Probably save me a limb or two.
I lol at what you wrote Seraph about the scorp venus..LOL. My former sag man had it and yes, it was something else. But geez, this one with the quadruple...adios mio. Thank god his 4 headed monsterness arose so earlier. Probably save me a limb or two.
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