really sweet gemini puzzled about leo...lol

This topic was created in the Leo forum by sweetest_gemini on Saturday, August 12, 2006 and has 16 replies.
lol...ok you guys...im new here welcome me!
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my kinda ex is a leo..kinda ex bacause well we fell inlove and gotten really deep and sweet but you know me...im not very well ahhhh into relationship esp. when i was younger..but i've not really forgotten about this leo for so many years...now im older and i guess i want him back...i got a chance to talk to him the other day...after sooo many years...not in person though but online. He was a little cold. smile but I can't blame him...we ended up our relationship in a bad way...my fault--please dont ask why..i guess i hurt him. OUr relationship was breif yet very intense...we hit it off right away, we were soo in sync---(not the band)...lol i feel him so much, i understand him...i believed then he was my soulmate...buti got scared a lil bit i threw it all away...I cannot stop blaming myself..he got mad then..
the talk we had the other day was breif..not panty...lol (kidding) well yeah breif...we exchange how are you's and he asked U STILL SINGLE? i said yeah and asked how abou u, he said yeah..though he turned a lil cold after that...answering me only 1 word/question..and no futher inquiries other than short what, when...
here's the question:
-the fact that he asked if im still single does that mean, he's still
interested? or does he wanna get back? or he's just mere curious?
- when he acted cold? does that mean he doesn't care anymore? or he's still hurting? is it the leo pride?
by the way he also said i was beautiful (that was based on what he remembers of me) but i felt like he was being sarcastic..
Help!!!!
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whatsup with breif...brief
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lol You're funny...

This is a hard one because you didn't say why you broke up. I promise I'll try real hard not to ask : )
If he acted cold, I think he's still angry no matter what other questions he asked you. The "are you single" question may have just been asked out of curiosity. I think no matter what someone's sign, if they still cared they would be happy to hear from you. Did you sense ANY happiness in his tone aside from things he said?
Leo is also linked to forgiveness. But if there was a line that was crossed (cheating, for example) I won't ever forgive. Ever, ever. Yes Leo is a prideful sign, but hurt is hurt. This is just me.
I guess it depends on what happened between you two that separated you.
There are Leo men here who may be able to provide better advice but I don't think they are on during the weekends. Give them a minute.
Welcome to the boards sweetest gemini smile
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...(self preservation?)....
Yes! In the negative sense, also self destruction.
4 leo influences panacea? We have a winner smile
I hope you will be sticking around. You are the first with that much leo in your chart.
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we broke up because i got scared....scared of something that was stronger than me... then i got a little skeptical about things...about us, but there was nothing to doubt about..i just know it now. I was blind then. I am a gemini u know and that is my prob because i tend to question things a lot, they ay that gmini's are great skeptics-thats very tue to me..i know i should have been more rational about my feelings...i honestly don't understand well, i tend to think two things at a time too, and i dont understand hich is right...i know it will sound funny but im confused by me hehehhee..or maybe i got scared of the intensity of our emotions...it was like a tsunami....all i can do is runnnnnn ahhhhhh...lol..i should've just succumbed to it, i know he would save me. but i was scared to drown. I know i sound stupid.
well since i said goodbye..for reasons he didn't know because i couldn't explain it that time..because i didn't understand it well..he thought i played games with him...
and that was bad..but i left it that way i never attempted to defend myself or even tried to explain things to him...
i'll be right back i need to go...thanks though.its a big help.!
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How long has it been?
If you feel that strongly and are finally certain this is what you want, maybe you should make another attempt to talk to him. Apologize even. Right now, it sounds as if he is still holding resentment. A few more attempts and an apology. And if he is still giving you the same reaction then at least you tried, right? You won't be kept wondering.
It sounds as if you are going to have to do some work in order to get him to forgive you. If you really feel the way you say, then it's worth it.
Good luck sweety
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im back! again... i'd like to thank you guys.. purrrfect and panacea..
this is really helping me..i'm tryig to be in touch with reality and be more rational, that's why i need some good advice and someones perspective...someone from the outside because you guys see things more objectively.
its been 3 years...duh
maybe its because i feel guilty that i find it hard to let go..i feel like i need to let him know the truth even maybe he doesn't care about it now..maybe its one way of letting go
knowing...accepting..letting go smile
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if i tend to contradict myself bear with me...sometimes i feel like givng up..coz it seems stupid..its been so long..surely i could have found someone now..i tried to date other guys but i always end up comparing them to him..sometimes just when i think i've successfully forgotten about him...i'll find myself drifting away..dreaming about him..
bear with me here coz im also trying to analize my feelings...writing helps me think..hahahha im not tryin to make dpxnet my online diary...jeez is that what's happenning, and my diary is replyng..wow!
tell me i am nuts...coz must be but imagine i never told anyone this..if it wasn;t me i would laugh.
he goes to school 4 hours away from me, if its traffic its 5 hours and one day i missed him terribly i drove 10 hours just to see the school he goes to, i didn;t call him or anything coz im not sure if he hates me or didn't have an idea if he's still single or what..10 hours because as soon as i got there i made a u-turn shaking to death! God!
I think about him when i am very sad and low, I think about him when I am having a good time, and most importantly I never forget about him in the greatest moments of my life...you know the great acheivements--i always want him there.
I've been everywhere, done everything, met everyone...well not everyone..lol, i've changed, my hair grew, my body is now more sexy hahahahhah double lol....everything changed but one...my love for him didn't fade away..it grew stronger.
GOD the more more i dwell on this the more i'm gonna go nuts..what! have i written a novel now...jeez got to go!
thanks for listening....i love you all!!!!!!!
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I won't tell you are nuts because I have experienced something similar with the person I am with now. Some people are impossible to let go of.
And sometimes you don't really require other peoples advice, you help yourself just by listening to yourself speak.
..10 hours because as soon as i got there i made a u-turn shaking to death!....
Aww!

ok... Pretend I am there just nodding my head and listening : )
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sweetest_gemini
It sounds like he still has feelings for you, and that he's also holding a Leo grudge. But Leo's can forgive almost anything as long as there is a heart-felt apology (and a little grovelling). I'm sure he still wonders what happened between the two of you oh so long ago.
Purrrfect is right, just put it all out there and see what happens. Tell him what you've told us and mean it. The things you regret most in life are the things you didn't do. What do you have to lose? An ex-boyfriend that you wouldn't see again anyway?
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Awww, I have someone like that in my past too Gem.
If it has been three years since you last had contact, throw it out there and see what happens. My best friend just married a Leo she hadn't talked to in two years. I don't believe we stop loving the people we truly love just because they aren't in our lives anymore.
But let this be your last stand. Throw it out there and accept this as your great answer. He will either step up or not. If he doesn't, you know that you are two people who love each other and just can't make it work. It is sad but it happens. Then let it free you up to find someone who truly loves you and you can love back.
Good Luck.
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thanks for the input little_sparrow & purrrfect! yes, you guys are right. I'm happy to have found friends here who understand. smile
it just seem funny cause i think i want him now more than ever, and im wndering too why just now, why didn't i feel this strongly then when i could still talk to him, is this some sort of a joke? uhhhh...I left him a message and if i don't get a reply i'll just try to forget about him.. till then you have to help me and give me advice on how to let go of your ..purrrfect match....lol
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*** it just seem funny cause i think i want him now more than ever, and im wndering too why just now, why didn't i feel this strongly then when i could still talk to him
Could it be you are in love with the fantasy and not the man? It kind of sounds like this to me.
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...till then you have to help me and give me advice on how to let go of your ..purrrfect match....lol......
I don't know about the others, but I haven't figured it out yet either. We both keep coming back to each other. lol!!
....i want him now more than ever, and im wndering too why just now, why didn't i feel this strongly then when i could still talk to him,....
Maybe because you are a little more mature and experienced now after 3 years? Dating others you have nothing in common with might remind you of what you had. Could it be because now you have more to compare him to? Try not to dwell too much on that because that isn't something you can go back and change. What's done is done. All you can do is try to fix it.
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to both of you my friends....could be...
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until you said how far away you were from him, i thought you were my gemini . except i doubt she'd compare her potential new mates to me .
i think you should take some time to make a list of the things that you are wanting out of life, and see if he can fill that need, whether the list is for a year down the road or for the rest of your life . if not, let him go on his merry way . if so, give him a chance . i, as a leo male, have *heavy* amounts of attraction for gemini women . but i have learned to transmute it, in a way, to keep myself sane .
does he ever exhibit obsessive behaviour towards you ?
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