Reappearing Leo man

Ive been with this Leo man for 5 months last summer, before his dissapearing acts started. He was opening up his business and had less time for me, eventually we broke up. He never claimed us o be a couple and even said he cant promise me anything. That he does not see us in a long run.

Its been hard for me to get over him, as we clicked perfectly both personality and bed-wise. The sexual tension we had, was close to an explosion, which we both admit.

Now, after months he wanted to meet me, telling how much he misses us and wants to “go with the flow” again, to which I said I cant promise anything, as im seeing someone else (never told him about the other guy). However I needed to see him to at least have ok relationships.

Anothet month later I broke up with the new guy and texter Leo to grab a drink. We ended up sleeping 2-3times after, with contacting only for that.

RECENT EVENTS: A week ago, my car broke in the middle of the highway, so he rushed for miles to pick me up and paid huge amount for the car service. That night I left without sleeping, leaving him confused and obviously mad. Then, I went for a vacation and now he tells me he (again) realised how much he misses me, wants to see me and spend time together.

I promised to see him again, but i need to put THE question down flat- does he want to be together as otherwise im not playing these games anymore. Problem is, he sees this as a confrontation every single time, which makes him mad and dissapear again.

Wtf, why does he not let me go? We both know we match perfectly with our blunt personalities and fun approach to life. I cannot get why in hell he does not commit?!

Can anyone comment, for me to prepare better for final convo? We have a difficult history with my heart being shattered in pieces because of him and getting cold all of sudden for several months before..

People who knew us said we are perfect together, I just want him to understand that he needs to invest time if he really wants me to stick around. But how do you “confront” a Leo and make him open up?

Put your foot down Aries... If he do not play by your rules, you do not play at all!

Put your foot down Aries... If he do not play by your rules, you do not play at all!

Wow...help me out.

So your car broke down and he footed the bill and you then went back to his place and broke from tradition and had no sex—? Then you went on vacation. I musta missed the line where you paid him back. Did the happen?

I'm not saying you owe him sex but...damn. there was a reason for your break from tradition. Especially since he was your Knight in shining armor. This is something else.

Wheres your integrity?

Now let's look at his integrity...

He met you and made you a FWB. He made no mention of claiming you then and now. "Go with the flow." And throws a temper tantrum when he gets called out to the carpet. This is your answer.

But since you dont wanna acknowledge that...here we go....

You are a mighty Aries. Have the same energy when you gladly accepted his financial contribution.

Put your foot down.

"Do you want to be together or not."

There you go. Just like that.

Now, you go further with eyes wide open. Now it becomes your bad if you keep going down this road and not getting your needs met.