So Confused!

This topic was created in the Leo forum by SagWoman on Sunday, February 1, 2009 and has 6 replies.
I have been working out with a personal trainer for 2 years. In the last 5 months we have done a few things outside the gym together. We communicate daily either through text or phone calls. I am really confused if we are just friends or if he is interested in pursuing more. The last time we went out he was asking me how I felt about him, held my hand at dinner, and made very flirtatious remarks about dating. It seemed to me that he was very interested in me as more than a friend. However, he has not tried to make plans with me since, which was 2 weeks ago, even though he continues to call and text me daily. Yesterday I was trying to make plans with him this weekend and since it was Superbowl Sunday he said he would need to find out if his friends were doing anything, but asked me if I wanted to hang if he doesn't do anything. I told him no offense, but that sounded bad and I don't want to be hung out with as a last resort. So he sent me this text:? Want you to never be mad at me or think that you are a last resort. I really enjoy your company and you are one of my dearest friends here. I am honored you enjoy my company like I do yours.? His text really touched me. We have a lot of chemistry when we are together and I would really like to see our relationship develop more than friendship. But if he was interested wouldn't he be pursing me now? Should I take the fact that he isn't asking me out a sign that he isn't interested?
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Really? Why do you think that? There has actually been a lot of things that have happened over the past 5 months that would be too much to write. But the night that we went out to dinner. He kept telling me that I would take advantage of him. Then at the end of the night when we were hugging goodbye he told me that he is surprised that I didn't take advantage of him. And we were hugging for a long time and multiple times when saying goodbye. He didn't kiss me, but I got the impression that maybe he wanted me to kiss him since he kept talking about me taking advantage of him.
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has there been any intimacy other than hand holding and hugging over the past 2 years?
has he ever asked you out on a date?
he refers to you as "dearest friends".
if he wanted to kiss you, he would have just done it.
sounds like friend-zone.
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Leo man would have jumped all over you before you could blink, you wouldn't be able to breathe because of the heat, most are not shy with love/relationships, they love to be in love, from what I can tell he's treating you like a friend because he's not on it, professing his love nor attempting to prove his love, when a leo wants a woman he hardly holds back.
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everything goes super fast with a leo male, sounds like this guy may be either in a relationship already or dating multiple women at one time which isn't uncommon
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"taking advantage of him" hmm seems like he has some sort of blocked perception about you.
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