Sudden hot and cold leo
This topic was created in the Leo forum by Virgoloverrrrr on Monday, August 11, 2014 and has 3 replies.
I'm a virgo/libra cusp and I've been "partners" with my leo guys for about 2 years we broke up then warmed up to each other again for another 2 years. the beginning of the relationship was almost euphoric, we were best friends. I would happily defy my family for him, let him know I love him, we even used to call each other Bonnie and Clyde bc we were always on the run from my mother who did not want us together at all! I finally broke free of my mothers control and moved to a different country, went still maintained our bond, in fact at that point it was stronger than EVER. When I was coming back to the US after living in the carribbean for a year, I had two choices, either move in with my leo against my family's wishes and just continue life with him or move in with my family in Florida and finish school. I chose my family because it was cheaper for both of us, I know it hurt him but he made it seem like he understood my decision.....while I was adjusting to Florida my leo was going through some spiritual awakening as well and became somewhat of a Muslim and we were both in very different pages in life. I broke it off because I felt we were growing into two different people and no longer were the same two personalities that fell for each other I even started to date someone else....fast forward one yea I hated dating other people because for a moment they would distract me from my leo then all I could do is compare them to my leo. I told my leo this and he loved it, we started talking again. I went back to my home state and saw him for he first time in 2 years...we were in bed within an hour of seeing each other. After we had sex I realized he was no longer going through the spiritual journey and was back to normal, but was a bit distant. I figured we weren't together and I told him I wish I hadn't slept with him and made him earn me like he did before, he felt really bad after that and just avoided sleeping with me. After that I went back to Florida and continued keeping in touch with him from time to time, then earlier this summer we both started our own business's and he was really excited for me. Calling me pet names, asking for advice etc..... He suggested I visit him for a week. Before I make it up there I'm letting him know how excited I am and how me truly makes me feel and he's accepting all of it with open arms....when I get to my home state, it's as if I bought a ticket just to get a front row seat of his new life. He barely touched me, prett
o get a front row seat of his new life. He barely touched me, pretty much told me to back off and "chill" with all the lovey dovey stuff bc it's " too easy" to him, he wants to make sure we can be partners still! I felt very ignored and not as queen-ish as he used to make me feel. I kind of told him how I felt and he said I was over analyzing everything, we're just taking things slow and seeing where it goes....wtf!? I also went through his computer and found ARCHIVES of my pictures! And tons of quotes that have to do with the perfect partner and moving on....I'm just SO CONFUSED he says if he didn't have love for me he wouldn't have invited me to his home....but I don't like to be strung along either. I've always known him to be a man who know what he wants....this isn't it! HELP!! Should Make it work with my leo ex and give him time to warm up to me again? Or should I dump the one foot in one foot out act!?
I've been all over this site searching for anything that can help me understand what's going on and what I should do...we still text but i initiate the convos 
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