There was another girl :(

Posted by kalin
At least he's honest!

Posted by BlackMamba
It's your cancer moon. You're a sensitive person who is sympathetic. Stop that. You're not a fuking therapist. Don't be a doormat.
Don't let guys waste your time. Be upfront about what you want it!


Create heavy boundaries!

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Posted by kalin
At least he's honest!

I did not say he was a lier... I am jaded... but weird the stalking. Honestly I really don't know him...

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Posted by sunnygirl
But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891.asp). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by sunnygirl
But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891.asp). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

He probably intentionally misunderstood.





Thank God... let him go.

Bleh.

Bullet... dodged.

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Posted by sunnygirl

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by sunnygirl
But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891.asp). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

He probably intentionally misunderstood.





Thank God... let him go.

Bleh.

Bullet... dodged.

Did you delete your message where you said you were not happy you were right and sent virtual hugs? I liked that one more, but yeah, agreed. Rejection is always a bit hard to get over. I'll get there in a week or so.

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Posted by tiziani
As you said he and you are long-term friends with history. That counts for something.

Posted by Scorpio4242
I'm sorry you are hurting 😔 But sometimes being friends with someone is better than being in a relationship with them.. I don't think he did anything wrong bassed on what I read and I don't think you did either. I read your other post and it sounds like misunderstanding and miscommunication but even if you guys didn't have that miscommunication in the beginning things could have still ended the same way.

I think it's normal or common for people to date a few people at a time when not commited and when they are ready to commit they pick the person that the think is the best fit for them.
Leo's require a special kind of love lol. He knows what he want so respect his choice and focus on the things that will help you attract what you want. 😘😘

Also Respect his honesty because he could have played games with you. Accept his friendship and be graceful.. Live your life and I'm sure someone great will come along.. I'm sure it's a lesson in all of this for you..

Posted by sunnygirl

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by sunnygirl
But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891.asp). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

He probably intentionally misunderstood.





Thank God... let him go.

Bleh.

Bullet... dodged.

Did you delete your message where you said you were not happy you were right and sent virtual hugs? I liked that one more, but yeah, agreed. Rejection is always a bit hard to get over. I'll get there in a week or so.

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