trying to figure out where to go from here with a
This topic was created in the Leo forum by jeflogue on Sunday, May 12, 2013 and has 6 replies.
So I met a leo back in January and we went out on three dates (and we slept together, I just took it as it was and didn't expect anything to come of it) before he moved 3 states away for the summer. I was pretty impressed with his personality, though I had a really hard time believing much of anything that came out of his mouth. We continued to talk via Skype and phone (playing phone tag a LOT because I was in ful time school at the time, and have a pretty unusual work schedule), but he'd call incessantly for days then disappear for sometimes up to two weeks before he'd call me up again. Now two weeks ago he told me he was 20 minutes away on the highway, and I decided to invite him over. Well, he came over and was practically attached at the hip until he went home a week later (I have a week off at a time). In that week he pushed me into bringing me to meet my family, which I am extremly reluctant to do, and three times while we were out he decided that we were going to his parents for dinner whether I liked it or not. He also beat my ex twice, who unfortunately is still fairly involved in my life, and not by my choice. Despite his, In my opinion, excessive dominance, I was enjoying the attention and I truly had a lot of fun with him. I was really upset by the fights between him and my ex, but I ignored it because my ex was a major cause in starting both of them, though the leo threw the first punches.
Halfway through the week he tried to say he loved me in a roundabout way. I asked what he was really trying to say and he told me he loved me. I admitted that I felt more for him than I was use to, and the next night we were drinking and when he told me he loved me again I told him I did too. the rest of the week he was telling me his plans to drop everything and move back to be with me (I.e. moving in), which is terrifying for me. he's back home now and telling me he might show up tomorrow, and though I feel stupid for it after discussing the situation and asking for a least one more visit (he told me if he came back up it was to stay) I told him I'd take the gamble. The he told me he'd let me know his decision. So my question is, is he really in love with me, or is this all a game? I'm naturally skeptical, and I've gone way past my comfort zone in complimenting him, giving him the lead, etc. Is dealing with all his pushing emotionally worth it?
Halfway through the week he tried to say he loved me in a roundabout way. I asked what he was really trying to say and he told me he loved me. I admitted that I felt more for him than I was use to, and the next night we were drinking and when he told me he loved me again I told him I did too. the rest of the week he was telling me his plans to drop everything and move back to be with me (I.e. moving in), which is terrifying for me. he's back home now and telling me he might show up tomorrow, and though I feel stupid for it after discussing the situation and asking for a least one more visit (he told me if he came back up it was to stay) I told him I'd take the gamble. The he told me he'd let me know his decision. So my question is, is he really in love with me, or is this all a game? I'm naturally skeptical, and I've gone way past my comfort zone in complimenting him, giving him the lead, etc. Is dealing with all his pushing emotionally worth it?
I'd like to believe believe he does. I'm aquarius, and most of my romantic experience has been with a pisces (who played a LOT of games). And this leo guy likes to pull the "im leaving" card and hit on girls in front of me, which I don't appreciate but I feel like he's just doing it to get a rise out of me. I've never given him the satisfaction though. How should I deal with this behavior? I'd like to think it would stop if we decided to be together, any opinions?
Need some adult advise about a Leo Man...
I am an Aqua Woman who met a Leo male 7 months ago. He lives in a different town and has a very interesting career. ( he backs $ $ racing teams) He has always been someone who I can see myself with in the future, but a few months into us seeing, dating, talking what ever you want to call it, he told me he was with a girl which happened to also be staying at his home. I found this out in a text after I asked him when I could see him again. We had not seen each other in a while since he is gone 90% of the year with his job. I did not take what he said well and called him a liar and a douche. He told me no one had ever spoken to him like that in his life, Oh and I do want to add that we did not have sex during this time.So I blew it off he wasn't talking to me and I was not going to speak to him either.. oh well right?I deleted everything pics, texts, and phone # I moved on. I don't see the logic in wasting my time or anyone else's. I circular date which is, at any given time I have 5/6 guys I date or hang out with. Out of those guys I pick one to actually have sex with, I am human after all. haha.. anyway I have a pretty good non dramatic life. I just want the right guy to spend my time with. I am not going to settle for some douche. He sent me a text 3 months later wanting to explain what happened. In grand Leo fashion expensive dinner with his closest friends and hang out on a yacht of course! At this point we had sex so that is not what he was looking for from me who waits 7 months any more? We have been talking again and I have asked him what he wants. I explained what I want from a man. He just simply said he digs me. He also sends me the most beautiful songs via text which I find very romantic. Other people in my life do not see it. I also like that I have my time and he has his. Mine is spent bettering myself (volunteering, exercising, time w/ friends & family) His is spent with race car groupies and drivers party life. does he want to settle down maybe?
Now I am asking total strangers what you all think I don't want to open up to him and have him destroy me? (I fear that is where it will go.)
He told me he likes me. I like him but should I, being exact opposites? Is he wasting my time? Does he really like me? How should I handle this Leo if we do really like each other?
Leo's please help?
I am an Aqua Woman who met a Leo male 7 months ago. He lives in a different town and has a very interesting career. ( he backs $ $ racing teams) He has always been someone who I can see myself with in the future, but a few months into us seeing, dating, talking what ever you want to call it, he told me he was with a girl which happened to also be staying at his home. I found this out in a text after I asked him when I could see him again. We had not seen each other in a while since he is gone 90% of the year with his job. I did not take what he said well and called him a liar and a douche. He told me no one had ever spoken to him like that in his life, Oh and I do want to add that we did not have sex during this time.So I blew it off he wasn't talking to me and I was not going to speak to him either.. oh well right?I deleted everything pics, texts, and phone # I moved on. I don't see the logic in wasting my time or anyone else's. I circular date which is, at any given time I have 5/6 guys I date or hang out with. Out of those guys I pick one to actually have sex with, I am human after all. haha.. anyway I have a pretty good non dramatic life. I just want the right guy to spend my time with. I am not going to settle for some douche. He sent me a text 3 months later wanting to explain what happened. In grand Leo fashion expensive dinner with his closest friends and hang out on a yacht of course! At this point we had sex so that is not what he was looking for from me who waits 7 months any more? We have been talking again and I have asked him what he wants. I explained what I want from a man. He just simply said he digs me. He also sends me the most beautiful songs via text which I find very romantic. Other people in my life do not see it. I also like that I have my time and he has his. Mine is spent bettering myself (volunteering, exercising, time w/ friends & family) His is spent with race car groupies and drivers party life. does he want to settle down maybe?
Now I am asking total strangers what you all think I don't want to open up to him and have him destroy me? (I fear that is where it will go.)
He told me he likes me. I like him but should I, being exact opposites? Is he wasting my time? Does he really like me? How should I handle this Leo if we do really like each other?
Leo's please help?
Normally I'd say absolutely not. I guess I'm torn because he does have a magnetic quality, but I think you're right. I'd never be able to put up with it for long. Thanks!
I am sorry I posted on your question by mistake.
I hope everything works out well for you but my advise...
Try dating 3-6 men at a time until you have a ring on your finger or what ever your relationship goal is.
I went back to what woman did way back in the day. We have all the options when it comes to men.
Back then you dated several guys went for walks, talked, dinner, dancing, whatever you picture to be a perfect date until you had a proposal for marriage or living together, a family what their goal was. Women dated this way for a long time because we are the pot of gold at the end. Woman knew this back then and now we all question ourselves (as I do from time to time)
I am no expert but it does work for me. I date 5/6 guys at a time and I have gotten to know many guys, some are great just not for me, some are friends now, some want to know if I will marry them or live with them and some just want sex.
It is not always fun and if it isn't then I walk.
Look at it this way look at couples when you out. Men date "up" usually. Date like a man "UP" but act like a woman. You don't NEED a man you WANT a man, but a good one. The first sign of trouble run! Don't make any excuses for them just run! There are thousands of men out there that all want someone. Just keep your confidence up and KNOW that you are THE POT IF GOLD AT THE END. If the guy you are talking about doesn't notice a huge difference after you do this...then he is not good for you and it is his loss.
And...now apparently said leo has dropped everything in his life, rented a uhaul, and is packing right now to drive here and move in with me. I've been fighting back a delicious grin since I got this call. However part of me is terrified to have him move in. Especially with the ex still being a roommate. I'm in for some heavy issues when my leo shows up.
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