Understanding Leo male
This topic was created in the Leo forum by stacintucson on Wednesday, November 29, 2006 and has 12 replies.
I had another random encounter with my Leo last night at an academic lecture. I asked him to walk me to my car, we chit chatted and then I asked him if we were friends (he hasn't called me for several months although we run into each other periodically). He was surprised and became uncomfortable rather quickly...he has issues with closeness clearly. The conversation was light and ended on a good note as we both went our separate ways. But late last night he posted the following on craigslist. I know it is from him to me...little hints he dropped within that I would recognize. What do Leo males out there think about this??? And yes I responded in kind...
Teasing...
You like to tease me.
You like to taunt me.
You know how to tantalise me.
One seductive phrase and I'm lost to a fantasy world, whose boundaries blur with reality, like a horizon melding into the ocean on a hazy summer's day.
You use your charm to entice me.
You pick your words ever so carefully.
You choose the right moments to bait me.
And you do it repeatedly and relentlessly.
You build me up slowly and surely, tempting me with the promise of what is to come, leaving me yearning for more? And I await impatiently at the edge of my seat, for one more word, one more clue to your next move, for another temptation, maybe a revelation.
So you tempt.
And you taunt.
And you tease.
And then you say ...
Nothing.
And you leave me hanging in frustration, out of control, without release, as you walk away, triumphant and sated with gratification.
Until the next episode.
Until the next time you select your moment.
Until the next time we play the game
Teasing...
You like to tease me.
You like to taunt me.
You know how to tantalise me.
One seductive phrase and I'm lost to a fantasy world, whose boundaries blur with reality, like a horizon melding into the ocean on a hazy summer's day.
You use your charm to entice me.
You pick your words ever so carefully.
You choose the right moments to bait me.
And you do it repeatedly and relentlessly.
You build me up slowly and surely, tempting me with the promise of what is to come, leaving me yearning for more? And I await impatiently at the edge of my seat, for one more word, one more clue to your next move, for another temptation, maybe a revelation.
So you tempt.
And you taunt.
And you tease.
And then you say ...
Nothing.
And you leave me hanging in frustration, out of control, without release, as you walk away, triumphant and sated with gratification.
Until the next episode.
Until the next time you select your moment.
Until the next time we play the game
boyz.....
sometimes I think they need to long.
for what it is worth when I told the last leo that I liked him or complimented him in anyway he was suprised and would become very uncomfortable.
sometimes I think they need to long.
for what it is worth when I told the last leo that I liked him or complimented him in anyway he was suprised and would become very uncomfortable.
Thanks for those thoughts. Oddly, I randomly encountered him yesterday at a local coffee house and felt compelled to ask him if he had sent me anything anonymously. He denied it although not convincingly and then removed it by the time that I returned to my office! The coffee house is wireless, he had his laptop and it was still posted 30 minutes before I saw him but within 30 minutes of our conversation, it had magically disappeared. I understand that he is petrified of feeling anything for anyone but good god! When I asked him, he said that the only time he sends anything is when he is drunk in the middle of the night and sends declarations of love...but then recants them in the morning when his fear returns. Guess that was a BIG hint. What the hell do I do now??? This man is most perplexing...
You can sit down beside me and have a drink.
boyz ... can't live with 'em ... can't do most positions without.
boyz ... can't live with 'em ... can't do most positions without.
Make it a double...as I doubt this is the last I have heard from Jewdini...which he totally got off on by the way. And men wonder why womyn become total wine lushes by 30!
lol!
I hear you. I love me some wine.
What the hell is there to be afraid of anyway? Really?
Actually, I know the problem. He is afraid of giving up his freedom. Yawn! What about your bloke?
I hear you. I love me some wine.
What the hell is there to be afraid of anyway? Really?
Actually, I know the problem. He is afraid of giving up his freedom. Yawn! What about your bloke?
My best friend, who married a leo after one hell of a tug of war, says she instinctively didn't throw herself at her husband for many years because she knew he would run away. She figured if she stood still, he would eventually head in her direction.
She had to establish trust first, before making a move and it took FOREVER.
She had to establish trust first, before making a move and it took FOREVER.
Apparently, he was skittery because he wasn't in a place where he was ready to have a wife and he always saw her as wife material.
Well my Jewdini is off to Africa in a few weeks so perhaps he will have a little self-reflection time. Indeed, he is a skittish soul, much to my surprise. I am not the world's most patient person, being an Aquarius and all...and this man is certainly pushing me to the very ends of what I have. But I am finished with the contact for a while. Hell, if he can't even admit that he sent me an anonymous love note and then erases it as soon as I ask him about it...seems like he has a LONG way to go. He is only 30...as if that matters with men...
He has mentioned what he is looking for in a wife now that you mention it...had forgotten about that it was so long ago. Ugh. So much emotional baggage...
well , this message board answered all of my questions much more clearly then the other message board, and i didn't even have to ask!... yeah my leo wrote me a poem before we started really dating.. strange! it'd be nice to get another one though.. thats what irked me.. he gave me a poem way in the beginning and i thought he was some "gamer" tryin to get in my pants.. and now we're closer( when it counts )he won't write one! yeah. and i have the same trouble, i just give him this invisble line of distance so he feels free. being with a leo is like wanting to cuddle a bitchy cat, you just wanna squeeze him and lovee him and be closeee but then he runs away and twitches his ears up at you. or its like blue balls.
i mean im a girl so i don't really know what blue balls is like but im sure its like a female orgasm that almost happened but you were dissed.
mm scratch all that.
mm scratch all that.
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