VERY STRANGE COINCIDENCE

This topic was created in the Leo forum by TheAviator on Sunday, August 13, 2017 and has 7 replies.
My current boyfriend and my ex boyfriend share the SAME birthday (but different year). I don't know if similar birthcharts have to do with it, but they act eerily similar, down to:

- The way they speak.

- The way they think.

- The way they act.

- Same morals and values.

Ever since I have broken up with my ex, I have regretted this decision. I was depressed and was unable to get over him for months. I prayed and begged for him to come back. But all attempts were futile because he never responded to me. Then one year later, out pops a guy who is almost a clone of him, except that this new guy has green eyes instead of grey, is much taller than him, has a black dress uniform as opposed to khaki, and is also a virgin like me. He is everything I wanted in my ex but better. Do you think this is a second chance? Or a strange coincidence? Whether or not, I will never let this guy go. I was so mean to my ex. I was verbally and emotionally abusive, withholding affection, comparing him with other men and flirting with other men. It made him incredibly insecure, unloved and depressed. As a Leo, he needed attention and affection while I never gave it to him. I played games to feed my ego and to see how far his limits were, and hurting him to see how he would react. I am the absolute opposite with this new Leo right now.

How do I make Leos feel loved and appreciated? I give this Leo a lot of affection, attention and compliments. I wanted to kiss away all his worries, sadness and insecurities. I want to be there for him during the darkest times. I hold him a lot and listen to him. Is there anything else I could do?
...what sign are you?
I am a Sagittarius.
Posted by TheAviator
I am a Sagittarius.
I know a leo male who was in a relationship with a sagg for about three years. She treated him like straight up trash. He would constantly go out of his way for her just for her to hurt him more and more. Every time i saw him he looked depressed. I sat with him one day and i asked him why be with her? as a leo myself i understand not wanting to let go but man she was horrible to him. They FINALLY broke up about a month ago and i hope for good this time because he can do so much better. Do not do the same thing to your new leo, just do nt. Leos do not deserve the treatment that some saggs bring on.
I agree. I don't want to lose him. This is why I always reply to his texts as soon as possible, never compare him to other guys, always compliment him and do things to make him feel secure and do things that he likes. I am very respectful, affectionate and attentative to him. The thing is, like my ex, he is insecure and thinks I am seeing other guys. How can I convince him that I'm not and make him feel wanted and loved?
Posted by TheAviator
I agree. I don't want to lose him. This is why I always reply to his texts as soon as possible, never compare him to other guys, always compliment him and do things to make him feel secure and do things that he likes. I am very respectful, affectionate and attentative to him. The thing is, like my ex, he is insecure and thinks I am seeing other guys. How can I convince him that I'm not and make him feel wanted and loved?
Why does he think you are seeing other guys?
I would not tell him that he resembles mt ex remarkably. I guess I still miss my ex terribly. He's not exactly a replacement though

I'm not sure why he thinks I'm cheating. Maybe he thinks I'm attractive and long distance for the relationship. He is not my ex, but he brings a great and convincing illusion.

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