wat is it that leo men dont like bout cancer women

This topic was created in the Leo forum by femalecancer on Friday, August 24, 2007 and has 14 replies.
im into this leo but i hear leos n cancers dont mix.why, wats cancer doing wrong?
cancer - too clingy (possessive), is not open w/emotions, home is where the heart is, will pocket every $ but will complain that doesn't have a penny.
possessive?is not open w/emotions?home is where the heart is? im sorry i kinda slow can u explain this (its interesting).i dont complain that i dont have any money, i just dont brag about it.
i really dont mind if he is a flirt cuz i know hes faithful.i know so much about him n his personality n i havent spent that much time with him. i dont think he knows anything about me though. i've been readin these message boards n i never relized cancers hide there feelings so much.i am like that! is that annoying to leos?
being a cancer i hold my feelings back alot n it also makes me evasive. i dont answer any questions that show my feelings because im always tryin 2 avoid gettin my feelings hurt or getting embarrassed.ethier that or i just give short answers, not giving 2 much away. i am also a very tactful person because i never want 2 hurt any1s feelings. i always think twice because i dont wanna do sumthin 2 sum1 i wouldnt want happenin 2 me.
hmmm, i am a cancer girl but i have a ton of LEO in my chart, so i act like a leo in a lot of ways. but, anyway...last summer when i was briefly single i was flocked by leo men. it seemed that every guy that was into me was a leo...ugh, it was nuts! and i am NOT too fond of leo men at all. they are way too possesive, jealous, etc. for my taste. and they are also far too egotistical.
clarification ^^^ all the leo males that i know/have met are that way.
wow i cant believe i didnt get into zodiac signs sooner! this is so interesting. the way cancers r alike n the way leos r alike. i hope more ppl write smile
should i be more open to how i feel about him?
"why do you have to show everyone you care?! that's embarassing!"
i think thats sweet to here smile
yea i might feel kinda annoyed though if were out n im trying 2 give him the attention n hes giving everyone more attention.than again i will just do the same back.lol
"Just don,t cling or play the victim crap"
ok
so0o can i get an example of the victim crap?
w0w its a alot of drama in the cancer message board wit this post!
newayz i just wanted 2 say that leos r very positive. i like that smile
man these other cancers or idk who they were i think they were cancers smile
were gettin annoyin.
so0o any more advice?
i dont think im that annoyin buh i could b wrong.
sulking, being pushy, possessive, jealous, clinging, accusing, assuming are a few things that will get on a leo males nerves, trying to pick his behavior apart, trying to change him, stop him from shining, taking up all his time and not allowing him space to express himself will get you kicked to the curb real quick and a hurry or simply ignored...be confident, be self reliant, send the message through actions you don't depend on him for emotional fuel to complete you. If your not emotionally secure don't even bother with this sign, he will see through it, play with it, drive you insane and then throw you down like a used toy, his tendency to flirt and play with others has nothing to do with his lack of love for his girlfriend, this is part of who he is, but if you don't know or understand this, a leo's behavior will work your nerves and wear the relationship thin.
If you feel a certain way, sad, angry, mad etc it's okay to express that but please don't live in it, sleep in it and talk about it to the point of exhaustion...the victim will be left wallowing alone, leo have those I just wanna be alone, I'm depressed moments, they aren't always sunny but as LK stated, they find ways to deal with it and get on with life, my leo sleeps it off and wakes up a new person, leo's find outlets to get that frustration off their chest, they don't wallow and sulk for too long.
holding feelings back will probably push a leo away, they are very expressive physically, if he feels your not being open, well he more than likely will not trust you, the more you give the more you get with this sign, his loyalty and love depends on your ability to express yourself and express your love for him, open up your heart and he will give you his. Hold back well you get what you give out.
OKAY U GUYS ANSWERED MY QUESTION!
I AM DEFFINATELY NOT GOIN 2 WASTE MY TIME WITH HIM.
w0w i didnt know i could b so0o annoyin!
LOL
i want someone to help get past my ups n down, not get annoyed by them.
when i have 2 do it myself i stay in my shell 4 awhile.
idk buh i love to cheer ppl up when there down.
i dont get annoyed at all.
do leos get annoyed cuz they like bein the center of attention so much that they get annoyed by givin attention? or is it u guys just dont understand y we cant just pick our selves up. cuz i love feelin loved, so0o i need that attention wen im down.
btw i was born @ 2:43 am.
i am so0o confused ppl r talkin bout moons n rising suns.....wat dose all that mean?
they r ...% of aries moon n ....% of virgo sun? or vice versa.
I have never dated a cancer woman, but one of my good friends (a Sag) currently is. They have a completely destructive love/hate relationship. From what I see she is very clingy and extremely manipulative. He's no angel himself, but she loves to play the victim card at every opportunity. I can't even begin to count the number of threatened suicide attempts...
But the sex is good, so they ignore the dysfunction. It drains the life out me just being a fly on the wall, I couldn't imagine dealing with that many head games.

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