What is going on with this Leo guy?
This topic was created in the Leo forum by canlock on Monday, July 18, 2016 and has 6 replies.
Hey guys.. So I'm not new to dxp. I forgot my password to my old account and had to make a new one.
Anyway, so I have been speaking to this Leo guy for a month now. We started speaking between June 15-18. He's been consistent. Really consistent. There hasn't been a day that has gone by that he didn't message me and he has always initiated contact first. He hasn't even given me a time to initiate contact first. (No calls, just texting though). Side note: I didn't really take him on at first because I was seeing this Aqua guy since last year February and really fell in love with him and we were going through problems. We stopped speaking a lot over the past year. We never seemed to be on the same page and of course I love him so my mind was set on him. Anyway at that time last month I got fed up and realized maybe it's time for something new. Cause clearly I thought this guy was interested. Anyway, this Leo guy as I said was consistent, he only brought up anything sexual about 2 times or so ever and it wasn't really anything disrespectful or forward though I know he's attracted to me but he's repressing it for some reason. He would compliment me and he'd send my pictures of his face or body and I'd compliment him also. He also opened up to me about some past stuff and how he thinks he's numb now to most things.. And other things here and there. I'm not one to open up easily so of course I didn't much but I did open up a bit.. So about a week ago there was this big party and we both were going and that would be the first time we actually see each other in person (he said when we first started talking that he always saw me around but was too shy to approach me). So I saw him at the party and we didn't do anything but dance. After we all went home he messaged me and I replied "Hi
". Later in the morning I get a call from his "girlfriend" saying she's his gf and asking if I was with him last night etc. Anyway I'm like "WTF" first she calls me over a hi and he has a girlfriend? Okay.. I wasn't mad or anything cause as I said earlier I'm still trying to get over that Aqua guy cause I actually just officially ended things with him today and I am not ready to take on the hurt that comes with men right now.. After that I asked him what that was about. He basically avoided the whole situation as if he's immune to her craziness or just doesn't care and continued speaking to me.. Daily and consistently for the past week. We saw each other again at a bar crawl just yesterday and I told him I don't wanna waste his time so if he's trying to speak to me thinking I am going to go forward with something with him while he has a girlfriend, I won't do that because I respect relationships. He says "When I started speaking to you I didn't have the intentions of trying to do that". I said okay great, then that was that cause he asked me why I looked so sad so I gave him a little insight about the aqua guy and how he's not in my life anymore. He gave me some advice.
Anyway, so I have been speaking to this Leo guy for a month now. We started speaking between June 15-18. He's been consistent. Really consistent. There hasn't been a day that has gone by that he didn't message me and he has always initiated contact first. He hasn't even given me a time to initiate contact first. (No calls, just texting though). Side note: I didn't really take him on at first because I was seeing this Aqua guy since last year February and really fell in love with him and we were going through problems. We stopped speaking a lot over the past year. We never seemed to be on the same page and of course I love him so my mind was set on him. Anyway at that time last month I got fed up and realized maybe it's time for something new. Cause clearly I thought this guy was interested. Anyway, this Leo guy as I said was consistent, he only brought up anything sexual about 2 times or so ever and it wasn't really anything disrespectful or forward though I know he's attracted to me but he's repressing it for some reason. He would compliment me and he'd send my pictures of his face or body and I'd compliment him also. He also opened up to me about some past stuff and how he thinks he's numb now to most things.. And other things here and there. I'm not one to open up easily so of course I didn't much but I did open up a bit.. So about a week ago there was this big party and we both were going and that would be the first time we actually see each other in person (he said when we first started talking that he always saw me around but was too shy to approach me). So I saw him at the party and we didn't do anything but dance. After we all went home he messaged me and I replied "Hi
". Later in the morning I get a call from his "girlfriend" saying she's his gf and asking if I was with him last night etc. Anyway I'm like "WTF" first she calls me over a hi and he has a girlfriend? Okay.. I wasn't mad or anything cause as I said earlier I'm still trying to get over that Aqua guy cause I actually just officially ended things with him today and I am not ready to take on the hurt that comes with men right now.. After that I asked him what that was about. He basically avoided the whole situation as if he's immune to her craziness or just doesn't care and continued speaking to me.. Daily and consistently for the past week. We saw each other again at a bar crawl just yesterday and I told him I don't wanna waste his time so if he's trying to speak to me thinking I am going to go forward with something with him while he has a girlfriend, I won't do that because I respect relationships. He says "When I started speaking to you I didn't have the intentions of trying to do that". I said okay great, then that was that cause he asked me why I looked so sad so I gave him a little insight about the aqua guy and how he's not in my life anymore. He gave me some advice. PT 2..
So that was yesterday and he texted me again today.. Just as consistent and normal. So I'm kinda confused now. There are problems here. Clearly he likes me and I like him. He has a girlfriend and a crazy one at that. Not sure if he's trying to get away from her. Red flag is the fact that he has a girlfriend and possibly could be or could have cheated on her. Don't know if I should keep a guard up with him and not allow myself to REALLY like him cause I don't want to get hurt. I am keeping it on a friendly level since I wouldn't feel comfortable to go forward cause he has a gf. Not sure if he wants to just be friends but who really puts in that much energy just to be friends with a girl? Lol. In this case I don't mind if things move very slowly because I need time to heal and get myself back together cause I'm still hurt over my last guy and cannot take anything on like this for a few months.. But I'm curious.
Here's our birth charts if any of you need it.
Mine is the Cancer sun
Sun 03°15' Cancer
Moon 06°25' Libra
Mercury 15°14' Gemini
Venus 12°59' Gemini
Mars 08°28' Gemini
Jupiter 14°03' Capricorn
Saturn 06°46' Aries
Uranus 03°48' Aquarius
Neptune 27°03' Capricorn
Pluto 00°40' Sagittarius
His is the Leo sun
Sun 24°48' Leo
Moon 18°51' Libra
Mercury 08°40' Virgo
Venus 09°09' Cancer
Mars 10°55' Aries
Jupiter 03°55' Gemini
Saturn 25°59' Sagittarius
Uranus 27°11' Sagittarius
Neptune 07°41' Capricorn
Pluto 09°51' Scorpio
So that was yesterday and he texted me again today.. Just as consistent and normal. So I'm kinda confused now. There are problems here. Clearly he likes me and I like him. He has a girlfriend and a crazy one at that. Not sure if he's trying to get away from her. Red flag is the fact that he has a girlfriend and possibly could be or could have cheated on her. Don't know if I should keep a guard up with him and not allow myself to REALLY like him cause I don't want to get hurt. I am keeping it on a friendly level since I wouldn't feel comfortable to go forward cause he has a gf. Not sure if he wants to just be friends but who really puts in that much energy just to be friends with a girl? Lol. In this case I don't mind if things move very slowly because I need time to heal and get myself back together cause I'm still hurt over my last guy and cannot take anything on like this for a few months.. But I'm curious.
Here's our birth charts if any of you need it.
Mine is the Cancer sun
Sun 03°15' Cancer
Moon 06°25' Libra
Mercury 15°14' Gemini
Venus 12°59' Gemini
Mars 08°28' Gemini
Jupiter 14°03' Capricorn
Saturn 06°46' Aries
Uranus 03°48' Aquarius
Neptune 27°03' Capricorn
Pluto 00°40' Sagittarius
His is the Leo sun
Sun 24°48' Leo
Moon 18°51' Libra
Mercury 08°40' Virgo
Venus 09°09' Cancer
Mars 10°55' Aries
Jupiter 03°55' Gemini
Saturn 25°59' Sagittarius
Uranus 27°11' Sagittarius
Neptune 07°41' Capricorn
Pluto 09°51' Scorpio
bump?
You need us to tell you that he's got a gf and he's trying to talk to you on the sly while his gf isn't around? Try calling him at 2am repeatedly. See who answers the phone.. You'll have your answer
Posted by leowwwWell, I was really just asking if a platonic relationship is all he would want or he has a hidden agenda. I don't mind having him as a friend cause he seems to be a genuine friend. What he does with his relationship isn't my concern really. But really trying to see if Leo men in general like to befriend girls before they try to move in on them? I haven't had much experience with Leos.Posted by canlock
PT 2..
So that was yesterday and he texted me again today.. Just as consistent and normal. So I'm kinda confused now. There are problems here. Clearly he likes me and I like him. He has a girlfriend and a crazy one at that. Not sure if he's trying to get away from her. Red flag is the fact that he has a girlfriend and possibly could be or could have cheated on her. Don't know if I should keep a guard up with him and not allow myself to REALLY like him cause I don't want to get hurt. I am keeping it on a friendly level since I wouldn't feel comfortable to go forward cause he has a gf. Not sure if he wants to just be friends but who really puts in that much energy just to be friends with a girl? Lol. In this case I don't mind if things move very slowly because I need time to heal and get myself back together cause I'm still hurt over my last guy and cannot take anything on like this for a few months.. But I'm curious.
Here's our birth charts if any of you need it.
Mine is the Cancer sun
Sun 03°15' Cancer
Moon 06°25' Libra
Mercury 15°14' Gemini
Venus 12°59' Gemini
Mars 08°28' Gemini
Jupiter 14°03' Capricorn
Saturn 06°46' Aries
Uranus 03°48' Aquarius
Neptune 27°03' Capricorn
Pluto 00°40' Sagittarius
His is the Leo sun
Sun 24°48' Leo
Moon 18°51' Libra
Mercury 08°40' Virgo
Venus 09°09' Cancer
Mars 10°55' Aries
Jupiter 03°55' Gemini
Saturn 25°59' Sagittarius
Uranus 27°11' Sagittarius
Neptune 07°41' Capricorn
Pluto 09°51' Scorpio
Not sure what youre asking, youre still hooked on your Aqua and this leo dude has no respect for his gf apparently. You said you know he likes you and im guessing contacting you as much as hes doing..theres more than platonic friendship on his mind. The fact that he avoided talking about why his gf contacted you and alluded to her being crazy;.....eh red flag...red flags all around.
You say you respect relationships and thats awesome, clearly he doesnt...his own.
Cut him loose, he sounds douche-yclick to expand
Idk what you want us to say, what kinda advice you want.
This douchebag is cheating on his gf that you already know about. Youre not hung up on your ex at all. Thats what you tell yourself incase he rejects you.
You obviously like him alot but your worth more than being some guys screensaver when his gf is away.
The hidden agenda is that he wants to fuck you.
This douchebag is cheating on his gf that you already know about. Youre not hung up on your ex at all. Thats what you tell yourself incase he rejects you.
You obviously like him alot but your worth more than being some guys screensaver when his gf is away.
The hidden agenda is that he wants to fuck you.
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