what shall I do with my x leo who cheated me
This topic was created in the Leo forum by Abigal on Friday, April 4, 2014 and has 14 replies.
I just found out his f**king engage after the day I gave my self to him he stop calling me I asked him to talk coz were coworkers no chance to avoid him!!but he escape everytime I ask him to wait I just want to be comfortable that were not together anymore because when I ask him he still said yes!!do you think guys these people are ashamed that I knew his secret??!is it worth to ask to speak to him!
Pls reply me seriously I'm tired and sometimes hurt when I see him flirting I don't want to see him I'm affected but what I can do??were on the same place everyday!!
??? You "gave yourself" to him? So you slept with him already ?
Think you've been played, sorry to say.
Eula has already given you good advice on here before; as she said, he didn't want a relationship with you but you fell for the words, you fell for this "I wanna marry you" bs and you don't even know each other.
Stop running around after him! He's engaged so you say; think of HER instead of yourself!
Think you've been played, sorry to say.
Eula has already given you good advice on here before; as she said, he didn't want a relationship with you but you fell for the words, you fell for this "I wanna marry you" bs and you don't even know each other.
Stop running around after him! He's engaged so you say; think of HER instead of yourself!
If I understand correctly, you found out he was actually engaged to someone the day after you two had sex? And now he is avoiding you?
It is pretty clear what is going on. You were a conquest that he conquered. He got what he wanted and now he is done. He is avoiding you because he is finished and doesn't want to deal with the clinginess. I am sorry this happened and he took advantage of you, but don't waste your time with him. Don't give him the time of day. If you guys are coworkers then just interact with him on a professional/business level and all other times ignore him.
It is pretty clear what is going on. You were a conquest that he conquered. He got what he wanted and now he is done. He is avoiding you because he is finished and doesn't want to deal with the clinginess. I am sorry this happened and he took advantage of you, but don't waste your time with him. Don't give him the time of day. If you guys are coworkers then just interact with him on a professional/business level and all other times ignore him.
Posted by AriesGirl74
??? You "gave yourself" to him? So you slept with him already ?
Think you've been played, sorry to say.
Eula has already given you good advice on here before; as she said, he didn't want a relationship with you but you fell for the words, you fell for this "I wanna marry you" bs and you don't even know each other.
Stop running around after him! He's engaged so you say; think of HER instead of yourself!
+1
Posted by Abigal
Pls reply me seriously I'm tired and sometimes hurt when I see him flirting I don't want to see him I'm affected but what I can do??were on the same place everyday!!
If you really want to feel better, and get rid of his hold on you, then stop stop stop acting as though you are affected by his behavior.
If he was bad enough to treat you this way, then I suspect he is pleased to see you suffering without him.
Stop it. Don't let it show.
Put a smile on your face and ignore the hell out of him.
Don't give him the satisfaction-- this too shall pass.
Posted by AriesGirl74
Stop running around after him! He's engaged so you say; think of HER instead of yourself!
I can't agree with this. lol sorry.
I think the OP ought to be thinking of herself, in this situation-- and she should put as much distance between herself and this guy as possible.
Even though they work together, I know.
And this:
Posted by AriesGirl74
he didn't want a relationship with you but you fell for the words, you fell for this "I wanna marry you"click to expand
You see the contradiction, here-- right?
I don't want a relationship vs I want to marry you.
??
If the latter came after the former, then it's no surprise that she was confused.
Idk how old she is, but the lesson is hard enough to learn without people blaming her for believing what she was told.
In the future, perhaps she will be a bit more wise regarding people who contradict themselves.
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by AriesGirl74
Stop running around after him! He's engaged so you say; think of HER instead of yourself!
I can't agree with this. lol sorry.
I think the OP ought to be thinking of herself, in this situation-- and she should put as much distance between herself and this guy as possible.
Even though they work together, I know.
And this:
Posted by AriesGirl74
he didn't want a relationship with you but you fell for the words, you fell for this "I wanna marry you"
You see the contradiction, here-- right?
I don't want a relationship vs I want to marry you.
??
If the latter came after the former, then it's no surprise that she was confused.
Idk how old she is, but the lesson is hard enough to learn without people blaming her for believing what she was told.
In the future, perhaps she will be a bit more wise regarding people who contradict themselves.
click to expand
Lol yeah but what I meant was, she's whining about how she's hurt by seeing him flirting etc when if she thinks about the fianc?e for a second she can see what an actual douchebag he is. She is acting like the wounded girlfriend when in reality there is no such relationship.
I completely agree she should distance herself. And I do feel for her.
She appears very young but sorry, it sounds like he wasn't even very sophisticated in his "attack" (for want of a better word!) in getting her; he might as well have just clicked his fingers at her. How can anyone believe those words from a guy she doesn't really know?
He wasn't exactly wooing her over a long time...
F****ck i know its myfault i trusted to this knd he is a local guy from dubai im 26yrs old he tell me things lke real im dumb i have trusted him!!!!!what pains me is i see him everyday at work i dont know how to act im trying to speak to him after work he will say yes then leave me waiting im tired i asked him if were still together he still say yes all i want is for him to say the truth and be honest to.me im not sooo much inlove im just hurt maybe coz i have given my trust and myself which i wont be doing.anymore!!!!im 27 already i just trust easily thank you for people answered me hir what shall i do at work act as nothing happen??maybe thats whati need to do
Hun, a lot of people have suffered with Leo players - me included - yes it's hurtful when you have to see him everyday but you need to accept that you must chalk it down to experience and move on. It's good to have trust because you want to see the good in people but in all honesty you need to keep guys who are after you at arms length- make them work if they want something meaningful with you.
You can either just keep it civil on a professional footing at work, or if that's too difficult then you'll have to ice him out.
I'm sure he's loving the fact that you are running around trying to talk to him but in all honesty there's no future to this. What do you think you will gain? A friendship, something more? It won't happen to be honest. He's either not interested or he wants to have a fianc?e with a f-buddy on the side. I know how you feel, I've been there but at some point the penny will drop. You are better than that and you deserve better.
You can either just keep it civil on a professional footing at work, or if that's too difficult then you'll have to ice him out.
I'm sure he's loving the fact that you are running around trying to talk to him but in all honesty there's no future to this. What do you think you will gain? A friendship, something more? It won't happen to be honest. He's either not interested or he wants to have a fianc?e with a f-buddy on the side. I know how you feel, I've been there but at some point the penny will drop. You are better than that and you deserve better.
Thank you for answering and hearing me out aries :-) for 2 days he didn't come to work so I was release from the pain preparing me how to act when I see him again your right I deserve better we deserve better,than this!this put to my experience and I won't forget this we all have weaknessess but thru them we will be strong :-)
Posted by Abigal
Thank you for answering and hearing me out aries :-) for 2 days he didn't come to work so I was release from the pain preparing me how to act when I see him again your right I deserve better we deserve better,than this!this put to my experience and I won't forget this we all have weaknessess but thru them we will be strong :-)
Stay strong Abigal, coz these Leos know exactly how to keep us on that string, giving us a little "yank" every now and then with their words to keep us interested, but doing things completely opposite with their actions which show we don't mean anything to them. As long as you can accept that he does this (ok I'm not bad mouthing ALL leos here!) you can arm yourself and know how to deal with the confusing and contradictory behaviour. I'm glad you have had a break from him; "my" Leo lives nowhere near me so the distance really helps me with his constant BS lol!
No hun it is not your fault at all for believing that piece of shit! You did not deserve that and he was dead wrong. Sometimes I wish men like him would just drop dead! Yeah I said it!!! This world would be a much better place without them. He's nothing but a disgusting, piece of shit coward that doesn't deserve anyone. And to be honest, a lot of leo men are known for doing this shit. It's sickening to me. And they always run away from situations instead of handling it like a man. (Except if he's a mature lion) Please move on from him. He is trash and you deserve much better. Ignore him and move on. Act like he doesn't even exist. I'm sorry that this happened to you. Stay strong.
thanks missna!and aries girl.:-) we all deserves the best for we are precious i just hate this kind of guys who are coward good on sweeping of your feet and once you fall its finish they totally BS thinking how cool they are im just getting stress everytime i think of it !im praying he change his area really, anyway i know ill get this through thanks really i appreciated it
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