what's wrong with leo girls?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by libraness on Monday, March 11, 2013 and has 26 replies.
i was best friends with this leo girl for over 10 years. we got into a huge argument a year and a half ago and havent spoken since. shes very stubborn, she thinks shes always right and doesnt know how to apologize. if i ever did something wrong, then i would always say im sorry to her and anytime we got into an arguement, i would always be the bigger person and apologize and break the ice first. this time i didnt do anything wrong! last week i saw her at a mutual friends party and she completely ignored me and didnt even look at me. she said hello to everyone except me. i caught her husband (who is also a leo) staring at me and when i caught him, he looked away. i dont get it...whats is up with leo girls? when ur pride is hurt, u just ignore a very close friend and act like you dont care? i know deep down she cares...i mean afterall, we have been best best friends for over 10 years!! plus her husband was staring at me. do leo girls hold grudges for a long time and do they ever come around to an old best friend? im a libra, shes a leo, her husband is a leo. has anyone had any experiences with a leo female?
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Posted by libraness
i was best friends with this leo girl for over 10 years. we got into a huge argument a year and a half ago and havent spoken since. shes very stubborn, she thinks shes always right and doesnt know how to apologize. if i ever did something wrong, then i would always say im sorry to her and anytime we got into an arguement, i would always be the bigger person and apologize and break the ice first. this time i didnt do anything wrong! last week i saw her at a mutual friends party and she completely ignored me and didnt even look at me. she said hello to everyone except me. i caught her husband (who is also a leo) staring at me and when i caught him, he looked away. i dont get it...whats is up with leo girls? when ur pride is hurt, u just ignore a very close friend and act like you dont care? i know deep down she cares...i mean afterall, we have been best best friends for over 10 years!! plus her husband was staring at me. do leo girls hold grudges for a long time and do they ever come around to an old best friend? im a libra, shes a leo, her husband is a leo. has anyone had any experiences with a leo female?


I've never met a Leo.
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Posted by greengemini
It's all part of the drama they love to create.

DRAMA? DRAMA? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM? YOU ALWAYS DO THIS. I REGRET EVEN ASKING YOU TO COME TO MY FIRST COUSIN'S SECOND HUSBAND'S THIRD CHILD'S FOURTH BIRTHDAY PARTY.
I'M SICK OF YOU JUDGING MY LIFE PATH.
Teheheh smile
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Posted by xdimplez
We hold grudges like champs


I don't hold grudges. I remember facts. Winking
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Posted by Huntress
Posted by xdimplez
We hold grudges like champs


I don't hold grudges. I remember facts. Winking
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beautiful!!!
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why the emphasis on her leo husband staring at you? is that relevant to the argument between you and your friend somehow?
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...remembering 'facts' selectively i imagine Winking
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Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
...remembering 'facts' selectively i imagine Winking


I rarely hold the past against anyone unless they hurt a loved one beyond reason. Honestly smile
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well i'm absolutely crap at holding grudges. it's soooo annoying but i just don't like confrontation so when someone hurts me or someone i care about i will just avoid them completely. when i first started seeing knobhead around town i would almost have a panic attack cos i just wanted to stab him with a butter knife or chuck myself at his feet...swinging feverishly between the two. seriously...it was like i couldn't breathe and so i just had to get him out of eyeshot.
these days i see him and i'm like.....'meh' LOL!!! (thank god cos my daughter was getting sick of being sent out on knobhead recconnaisance before i would get out of the car.)
life's too short for grudges don't you think? deffo too short to stress over knobheads.
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mind you...having said that.....if someone brings confrontation to me which has happened before with a pisces woman who had been a friend for a while before cutting me dead randomly one day. her daughter had been bullying my daughter at school but despite that i spoke to the head and not the girl's mother but she confronted me about it all one day after school.
let's just say....'don't make me angry...you won't like me when i'm angry'.
i either release the anger or i just cut you dead.
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Posted by tiziani
Yeah I think she was just being an equal opportunity offender against all cats in her vent.
And you are all staring and circling her like a piece of meat right now. Poor libraness, right in the lion's den.

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Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s

let's just say....'don't make me angry...you won't like me when i'm angry'.
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Do you turn into the Hulk?
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Posted by greengemini
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
why the emphasis on her leo husband staring at you? is that relevant to the argument between you and your friend somehow?


I think she's trying to make a point with that statement.
Since her husbands a Leo too, his treating her just like her wife is treating her.
And him staring at her and looking away...I've seen that before. Leo's do do that.
It's all part of the drama.

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oh yeah i get it then. leos DO do that! they don't do it as good as we scorps though Big Grin
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yeah i kinda do huntress! i don't go green though. i go bright red
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that is such a cootie wootie piccy woo jynja!!
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Posted by DawnOfDay
Posted by greengemini
@DawnOfDay
Well nice to meet yah. Dealing with powerful instinctive carnivores can be a very
dangerous occupation indeed but somebody's gotta do it smile.
I read that Gemini's are most equipped for lion taming.
I guess it's the whole two people in one thing.


Where??s your whip?
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I am guessing that this argument was a big one. I am not your typical Leo so may be I can not go deep on this. My patience goes long and far for people that I love and have known a long time. Mush shorter with people I could care less about. We can hold a grudge though if you have hurt us deep enough. I think with time and with talk if people are open to it that can change. Leos can be very forgiving as well, but if you two have not talked and neither is willing to talk about the situation then it may be a lost cause. As far as her husband he may only know her side and of course he has his wife's back.
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Thanks everyone for your replies. I think deep down she still cares about me because we have been best friends for a very long time. I also think she would like to retain our friendship but her pride is in the way. However, I still dont understand why they ignore someone who was so close to them. I caught her husband staring me. I'm thinking she probably told him to stare at me to see what I was up to and who I'm talking to. I forget to mention that she is a very jealous girl. What do you guys think?
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Posted by libraness
I caught her husband staring me.


When I was engaged, my fiance would stare at the individuals (male or female) that I wasn't speaking to when seeing them in public. He's heard so much from me.. how could he not?
Posted by libraness
I'm thinking she probably told him to stare at me to see what I was up to and who I'm talking to.
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No offense intended with this comment, but the way you communicate in this sentence sounds very paranoid.
Just approach her and break the ice one on one. Easy peasy lemon squeezy.
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Huntress I'm sick and tired of breaking the ice to her and apologizing. Ive done that WAY too many times...no joke! It's now her turn. She's got to learn how to swallow her pride and stop being so damn stubborn...gosh.
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Posted by libraness
Huntress I'm sick and tired of breaking the ice to her and apologizing. Ive done that WAY too many times...no joke! It's now her turn. She's got to learn how to swallow her pride and stop being so damn stubborn...gosh.


Until that day comes, you can't force her to do that. You evidently already have made up your mind. There is nothing but a stronghold on both parties.
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Until that day comes, you can't force her to do that. You evidently already have made up your mind. There is nothing but a stronghold on both parties.

Huntress, r u leo by any chance? Do you leo's ever come back? If so, is it a long time? or do you hold grudges forever?
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Posted by libraness
Until that day comes, you can't force her to do that. You evidently already have made up your mind. There is nothing but a stronghold on both parties.

Huntress, r u leo by any chance? Do you leo's ever come back? If so, is it a long time? or do you hold grudges forever?


I'm a Leo. I don't hold grudges, as stated earlier in the thread; I remember facts. I've never cut somebody out of my life unless they hurt a loved one of mine badly.
If somebody doesn't show humility however, even if they believe it *was* my fault, I don't see the point in trying to mend ties if they'll just hold it in their mind. I'd much rather be friends again without talk of fights or "I'm sorry", regardless of who's 'fault' it was.
History belongs in books, not friendships.
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Thanks for that!
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Posted by libraness
Thanks for that!


smile Hopefully it helps. Hope your friendship is salvaged.
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Thank you very much! smile Hope it is too.
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