When a leo come back

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Zuletnilibra on Saturday, August 12, 2017 and has 14 replies.
Hi everyone. Sorry but English is not my first language sorry for the grammar. I'm a libra woman I'm 28 years old. I met this Leo man on a dating site . His just turn 31 years old. My question is why would a Leo text me after 2 months. Every thing was going well or I though it was going well.This Leo was my boyfriend for 1 week. Everything was going well he a cardiologist which I thought his was always busy because never can plan to see each other with plan it was when his not on call and must of the time I guess his want to rest I would just send text like good morning I hope you have a great day or something text like I know you working but I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you or how your day is going. I know his busy with his work his job is his life. I give his space. When I thought everything was going well his send me a text out of the blue and said " sorry . I don't think it will be a good idea to meet again. I kind of started dating my ex again. I don't think it will be to nice for me or her to keep seeing you ... Sorry wish the the best. I was like what?? He was like better this way before we keep going sorry. Then his block me from Whatsapp. After 2 months well yesterday I receive a text from him saying "Happy Birthday " I text back my birthday is on Oct 4 . His text back " very early happy birthday then! Sorry it was meant for one of my friends from work. Hope you having a great time!!! I replied thanks same to you !! Happy late birthday (August 4). His reply back " I am impressed night!!! Thanks !!! I replied good night sweet dreams . The I check my whatsapp and his unblocked me . Where I know we knew each other for 1 months. We were boyfriend and girlfriend for 1 week. Every started to fast there was chemical. I never forgot about in that months I thought I found the right guy. He left me like a object or something very cold man the way his broke up. Do you guy think he got scare the way everything was going so fast. Or he regret leaving me for his ex. Or was confused maybe he knew her long time and wanted to work thing with her.may be his was playing game or his thought his could find someone better than me and could find one better like .. I know Leo don't come back they ego is to much. And don't say sex because we never have sex . ... I don't know what to think .. I don't react back and act very chill
I agree you guys going to say his a jerk. His playing game with you.. I don't know what to think here the libra me thinking if I give his a second chance I really can't trust his I don't if we saying his working at the hospital or dating some one. I don't want to be a toy for his I have pride and dignity. Then I'm thinking well maybe his lie about of the ex story. Or maybe his learn his lesson. Or every started to fast . Well why I put myself in his shoes because something it can happen you can started dating a person and you maybe were in a relationship for 2 years and ex want to come back then you go back and notice that you make a big mistake leaving the person you were in that month and don't know something like that what why I want to hear you Leo opinion. That why I don't what to think .
Can some please give me your opinions.,,, thanks I really appreciate
stop being a libra and just make a decision already lol

You're right he could be playing you and since you haven't had sex yet im sure thats not all hes after BUT you said he was your boyfriend for one week..?? can you explain more
Don't go back, it will just be an ego stroke for him. If you're really considering it, At least make him kiss your ass and feet for a while.

But do you even still have feelings? Or just curious as to if you can get him to come back?

Cause when someone does that to me I've lost actual feelings for good.
Thank you moonshineLeo for helping trying to understand this Leo man, I really appreciate it ??. Yes we knew each other for 1 months I know sounds really fast ... One time him just on our second date for we always just to talk on the phone and text the first time we met for 1 hours the second time 3 weeks we met each other and he kiss me by surprise and I told he that I'm don't kiss anyone like that and that would like something serious then he said ok let be in a relationship. I know it was to fast but for me I felt chemical between each other and he was sweet charming and good looking type of libra woman taste. He was into me too.. Then after 1 week of relationship each I always text him good morning , or I'm thinking of you or I hope you're having a great day and etc. or talk on the phone a lil because he a cardiologist I know he work long hours and I respect he work . Then after a week when everything was going perfect he text me out of the blue " sorry. I don't think it will be a good idea to meet again... I kind of start dating my ex again today.... I don't think it will be to nice for me or her to keep seeing you... Sorry... Wish you the best!!!! I reply back to him " wow you don't know what you want want!!!! You play to much!!!! And you lie to me that you miss me and that you can't wait to kiss me and hug me !?!?!?!? And me respecting your job and space cause you work long hours I never had a problem with that cause I know your job requires a lot from you... I'm speechless now...I can't do anything that wish you the best with her !!!! It a shame it couldn't continue but I was really happy with you while it lasted.. Too back I didn't knew you before... How lucky she ... !!!! I wish you the best with her !!! Then he block me from he whatsapp..... He never contacted me !!! I thought he was happy with her!!! I always think about he but I continue my life dating other man I'm very attractive... Then after almost 3 months out if the blue he send me a text saying " happy birthday " then I replied back " my birthday is on October 4 ..." He said very early happy birthday then ! Sorry it was meant for one of my friends from work.. Hope you are having a great time!!! Then I replied " thanks .... Same to you!!!! Happy late birthday to you ( August 4 )... He said " I am impressed ! Night !! Thanks I replied " good night sweet dreams.
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You're overthinking this. It's simple, the two of you barely knew each other and his ex was never truly out of the picture. He may have started something with you to get over his ex. When his ex came back into the picture, he went back to her.

The main issue is that he never made time to see you. Yes he may be a cardiologist, but I know doctors who are in relationships and make time to see the people they are dating. This should have been a big red flag. Leos are busy people, but we will ALWAYS make time for the people we care about in our lives. We enjoy physical affection, so if we're not spending time with you that's a problem.

Astrology aside, it doesn't sound like this guy was into the relationship. It sounds like he's just another person who is afraid to be single and used you as a placeholder/rebound. That's why the relationship seemed to move so quickly. You were the recipient of is misplaced emotion. Unfortunately nothing you can do but find someone more emotionally stable.

Also be a better friend to yourself. This guy dropped you as soon as his ex came back after claiming as his girlfriend. Why would you want someone like this back? He clearly doesn't value you. Don't fret over someone who is willing to throw you away. Not everything that runs is meant to be chased.
My question most people say Leo don't come back... They have a big ego.... Why did he text me after 3 months... Then after that birthday text I when to my whatsapp and he unblocked .... I don't know what to think here came the libra of me ...? everything was going great maybe he got scare because everything was going so fast like the relationship and he run and say that story.... Maybe he wanted to go back with her and give it a chance maybe he knew her More than me and didn't work out I could happen to anyone let say you were in a relationship for 2 years and always fighting but you met someone then your ex look for you and you started a new relationship recently And then you get in a new relationship everything is going perfect with your new partner... But He never mentioned any ex to me the only thing we would said I work too much I don't have time to met people or date .. ... When he text me was on Thursday but I didn't wanted to ruined and I didn't over react... That why I asking you Leo's opinion or some of you than know Leo's ... I really like he ever thing was going perfect ... I still think of him ... And I do have dignity and pride ... But I want to be take seriously... I know if he got scare and run ... Or if he when back with ex and didn't work or he play game !!!! This why I hate to be a libra weighting everything
Thanks chuckcem , so you said don't waste my time with him... That he just playing around.... Thankyou I really wanted to hear a Leo opinion... And as a libra woman even if I go back it would not be the same !!!why ??? Cause when he tell me he working I would not believe him .... He broke that trust .... Even if I was happy in that time that say a lot about him.... I'm 28 years old I want a stable relationship not playing game
Chuckcem, at first this Leo guy asked like Sunday if I wanted to pass to the hospital and said hi to him because he was in call but I wanted to give him he space of work maybe I messed up I should have go to the hospital when he invited me.... And he would ask to see at 10 pm and wanted to pass But typically libra I like to be doll dress up and like to blow dry me hair and do my nails and plan ahead .. Maybe was me who messed up
Any way after that text he had not contacted me again.....
Posted by Zuletnilibra
My question most people say Leo don't come back... They have a big ego.... Why did he text me after 3 months... Then after that birthday text I when to my whatsapp and he unblocked .... I don't know what to think here came the libra of me ...? everything was going great maybe he got scare because everything was going so fast like the relationship and he run and say that story.... Maybe he wanted to go back with her and give it a chance maybe he knew her More than me and didn't work out I could happen to anyone let say you were in a relationship for 2 years and always fighting but you met someone then your ex look for you and you started a new relationship recently And then you get in a new relationship everything is going perfect with your new partner... But He never mentioned any ex to me the only thing we would said I work too much I don't have time to met people or date .. ... When he text me was on Thursday but I didn't wanted to ruined and I didn't over react... That why I asking you Leo's opinion or some of you than know Leo's ... I really like he ever thing was going perfect ... I still think of him ... And I do have dignity and pride ... But I want to be take seriously... I know if he got scare and run ... Or if he when back with ex and didn't work or he play game !!!! This why I hate to be a libra weighting everything
You're still missing the point. Him being a Leo or not doesn't make much of a difference in this situation. He said that he couldn't date anyone because he was busy, but he somehow found time to get back with his ex. Does that make sense to you? It's shouldn't. That's a HUGE red flag.

Again, you are oscillating in your mind and overthinking this. Libras often want to consider multiple points of view, so understand that when a Leos really cares about someone, we are incredibly straight forward. If he wanted you, you'd KNOW it. There'd be no doubt in your mind. He pushed you away because he was not over his ex apparently. Since he did have more time with the ex, he was more emotinoally invested in her.

As for what people say about Leos, we don't go back to people who we jettison from our lives (at least not in the same way). We may be fine with bring friends or even hooking up in the future, but once our trust is broken we never return in the same capacity as before. This is not your situation though. This guy was simply not invested in your relationship in the first place. You were not the issue, HE was.

The reason he texted you after 3 months is because things probably aren't working with his ex (exes are exes for a reason). He probably wanted to reopen communication to see if he could possible keep you as a potential romantic option in case he became lonely. Again he is treating you like a placeholder or a rebound for his emotions. You don't want this guy to treat you like a mere option.

Regardless of his reasons, this guy has already proven he's meotionally stable to be boyfriend material. Let him go.

Thank chuckcem .... You got my point..... And was trying to understanding everything and yes that why I hate to be a libra because we libra overthink and we consider multiple points of view. You really sure be a psychologist or astrology ?? you gave me the answers I wanted and really help me because most people would give me the answers like he just playing with you or move on .... And you begin to say that when Leo want to be with you they spend time with you.. Regardless even if he a doctor he broke my trust because I was thinking he working in the hospital with patients and and I respect he job . and he take advantage and I whenever or we can when plan anything but he had time to spend with he ex .. And like you said he maybe having problems with her and wants to have me like a option when he feel lonely. But what really open my eyes is how you explain exactly every little detail but the red flag of Leo is spending time even if they busy but he did have time to spend it with her ....