Why

Why do we have to let go of someone we love in order for them to see what they have (only Leos)

We take each other for granted I suppose, or some feel stifled?

I am currently going through this with a Gemini man that I love deeply. Its been a month or so since the argument/breakup happened and from what everyone is advising me. I should let him go and give him space. I will give him all the space he needs, but in the meantime, I am in hell, and he hasn't tried to speak with me... A couple of Gemini men, are advising that I speak with him or he will forget about me....

In his defense, I can be a drama queen, at times, and overly emotional....😉 But as the saying goes, if you let something go and it comes back it was always yours, if you let it go and it doesn't, then it was never really yours to begin with...a very tough pill to swallow for a lioness.

yes i know , i told him if i am not good enough to commit to then i am not good enough for him to hang and chill with me and have sex etc... so i told him ill let him have the time he need (cause he said he is not ready for relationship)so he knows how to reach me when he is ready but that dont mean ill be waiting ... HE SAY OKAY.he is used to me going back on my word every time i try to show i am serious i call him wanting him .. so i am pretty sure he is thinking that right now.. but i dont know how else to show him

I think he knows you'll be waiting which is the problem. He doesn't want a relationship and that can take years before he's ready. He's letting you go...period. When I'm ready and wanting something serious, I wouldn't let a great thing get away from me. It doesn't matter what you show him, he just doesn't want it and we get frustrated if we can't give 100% .

QUOTE :HE IS LETTING YOU GO if he wanted to do that then why wont he be straight forward and telling me by in stead tag me along .....

Kewl pic GAGA......

Reading all you wrote make alot of sense...itold him to have all the time he needs.. he knows where to find me .. but that doesnt mean i will be available but i dont have any intentions of seeing any one

As that old saying goes, don't make a man a priority when your just an option. And this is typical girl verbally says I want more and then guy backpedals because he's given the opportunity to realize he's going to lose his freedom and most men no matter the sign will run for the border and save themselves first, freedom is everything to a man and if it's not his idea to commit he'll let you go and he could love you deeply and still let go because his priorities are out of order, when men value freedom more than anything else he'll easily opt out, he may pull the let's be friends card because hey he get big benefits without losing his anything mainly his freedom.

You want to show him you're serious, delete him on all social networks, delete all of his contact information and move on, scare him, scare the hell out of him, he'll be back lol and when he comes back don't be eager to reply back to him, TAKE YOUR SWEET TIME and let him squirm with anxiousness waiting on you and if your really hardcore don't answer, that will ignite his flame and he'll be back on the prowl trying to get you back and when you finally talk to him don't even talk about the past, let it go, just treat him like one of those friends you aren't all that thrilled about, don't be mean but keep it short if your on the phone b/c the longer you linger on the phone the more apt you are to start spilling all your hurt and disappointed and he'll get to feel like he made the right decision letting you go so don't be sad, just be your happy self, everything is fine, I'm good even if your not in my life, you could be dying inside but don't let him know it and be honest and direct but only if he's the one asking questions, don't pretend you don't love him but don't act like you need him either.

He'll be back if there is a new woman give it 6 months, if he's just playing around give him 8 weeks if there is absolutely no attempts by you to contact him but until then work at getting over him...Whatever you do don't contact him, he'll only hurt your feelings by running away from you b/c he feels guilty and feel pressured so save yourself the rejection and move on.