WHY THE HELL DOES HE EVEN BOTHER!!

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libra_lis
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he's soo annoying...i must like annoying cuz it's buggin the shi* outta me...he hasnt called me alll day, since yesterday afternoon.....last nite im sure he went out, then today he's just ignoring me....SHOULD I IGNORE HIM ALL WEEKEND or will that be bad for me?? what can i do to make him as crazy as he's making me? he's not my bf or anything but he knows i like him AND ITS NOT THE SEX lol.... im too nice to tell him that but im about to =) he's not even that nice...he's selfish self centered and only calls or txts when he feels like it.....CAN U TELL IM MAD? is it not worth my time ,is he playing games?
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Your leo can sense your urgency for him thus he will not give you the time or attention you want so badly, he wants to chase you and your too available thus he can smell clingy, attached, latched on thus his freedom to roam is in jeopardy and he will not pursue anything with you.

I would suggest you cool out, go do your own thing, try hard to not think about him and when he contacts you, IGNORE him, don't text back, don't call back right away, send him straight to voicemail, initiate contact at your leisure, meaning allow a couple of hours between his text to you or his call to you, once he senses you are no longer that into him ie not worshiping him, he will pick up and start to throw on the leo charm and begin to woo you back in.

You can never let him feel you have been fully captured by him which will keep him intrigued and essentially keep communication open on a regular, in his eyes you are a friend that he occasionally sleeps with so why would you waste so much time and energy on a man that clearly knows his place in your life, it's not fair to him that your strategizing and categorizing him as a friend but want more..now your frustrated and angry for NOTHING, jus b/c he knows you want more doesn't obligate him to give more.

Once you shift your focus away from him will you see the results you crave
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Stop sleeping with him if you can't deal with how he's treating you or if your feeling slighted in some way than it's best to leave him alone b/c he's not doing anything malicious or deliberate, he's being a typical male lion and spreading the love lol giving women a good ole dose of warm affectionate attention, leo charisma and hot sex, he's treating you like most women that are booty calls get treated (sorry if that sounds harsh) i would suggest you find a few guys that you like and date (not sleep with) but date, if you were dating and doing your own thing you wouldn't care if he called or didn't call, you would be too busy doing what you love to do b/c thats what he's doing..trust that he is

You don't want to be his main girl, you will have to fight to be pack leader, when you get indepth with a male lion you will have to WORK to keep his interest, think yourself lucky that he's not all up under your arm pit, the relationship you dream of wanting and having comes at a price.
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libra_lis
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makes sense...well as a constellation that friday i wrote this originally he called melater that nite to come hang out w/him at his friends house..it was him and his 3 close buddies....kinda weird i was the only girl there but we alll played pool and he was actally KINDA nice askn me questions n stuff...nowwww tell me what was that all about..? maybe his first choice cancelled on him?lol
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libra_lis
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ugh seriously im soo happy im not 'jumpin' at his every whim....he called me sun. i didnt answer OR call back...shoulda kept it up all week but noooo i answered his txts yesterday then he called me at 10later that nite...i didn't answer then he txts me in usual suave way 'WAT U DOIN LOSER FACE' really wat the f*** do i c in this jerk... so i told him i was about to go to sleep ...then he txts me 'I WAS THINKN BOUT GIVN U SOME' i was soooo livid i just said i was tired and then he called me but i didn't answer i have bad reception in my apt. then he said i was wack and i just said 'if thats how u feel' .... wats wrong with him?? seriously...is he a retard or am i lol lol
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tiki33
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Nope not wack, leo men love attention and your making him work at getting what used to be free lol! So of course your wack in his eyes, he's not getting his way with you.

I personally don't feel leo men are annoying, I feel they require a lot of time, patience and attention on there terms and this can irritate some women.

don't take him so seriously, learn how to enjoy his playfulness or shall I say appreciate it, leo men aren't malicious and thats what I like about them, they are genuinely interested in the person they focus on but it jus so happens he may be focused on a whole lot of other things and people or focused intensely on himself, once he captures you and he's aware of it he will move on to capture someone else's attention or be the show off that he is and thats when self reliance comes in, you have to know how to go do your own thing while he burns up that energy some place else. If you like him don't hide it but don't be a doormat either.