Will I ever see this Leo male again?
This topic was created in the Leo forum by donggri84 on Sunday, March 4, 2012 and has 6 replies.
What happened then?
well you can either go along with everything he suggests...as you have been doing...and end up never really knowing what the fuck is going on OR you can tell him that if he really wants to live with you and really has feelings for you to DITCH THE LONG DISTANCE GIRLFRIEND.
what is so hard to work out?
so far, what you have with him is all about him. where are you in all of this? let alone this woman he has been stringing along by remote for 2 years. it's utterly ridiculous. tell him you want all of him or nothing at all and MEAN IT!!!
this can't possibly be enough for you!!
and btw...it really doesn't matter if every single family member of his thinks you're great...you're not having a relationship with them at the end of the day. yeah, it helps that you get on with them but don't let that fool you into thinking it gives you a stronger hold on him cos it doesn't.
leos care what others think but ultimately, they'll only do what they want to do...or who, lol.
what is so hard to work out?
so far, what you have with him is all about him. where are you in all of this? let alone this woman he has been stringing along by remote for 2 years. it's utterly ridiculous. tell him you want all of him or nothing at all and MEAN IT!!!
this can't possibly be enough for you!!
and btw...it really doesn't matter if every single family member of his thinks you're great...you're not having a relationship with them at the end of the day. yeah, it helps that you get on with them but don't let that fool you into thinking it gives you a stronger hold on him cos it doesn't.
leos care what others think but ultimately, they'll only do what they want to do...or who, lol.
oh...just saw you ditched him anyway. stick to that. don't speak or see him again. if he eventually comes back, hopefully he wil have shed the gf and will be all yours 
if you want someone who you know for a fact can maintain two emotional relationships simultaneously of course.
if you want someone who you know for a fact can maintain two emotional relationships simultaneously of course.
take heart sweetie. you are absolutely doing the right thing. sure, you're left with loads of 'what ifs' but if you don't contact him, in time the answers to all your questions will become apparent. he was maybe saying that you wouldn't see him and that he wouldn't respond to your messages to emphasise what YOU are 'throwing away'....leos are great ignorers anyway (speaking from experience).
it hurts i know but you now have to face your future as though he is not going to be part of it. this way you will protect yourself from future hurt. he may well come back and he may have ditched the ex or he may try and come back without ditching the ex...when that time comes, if you have managed to detach yourself enough from him, you will be able to make any decisions with clearer perspective.
why won't he ditch her!! what is the excuse for that!!
the thing is that all the time he doesn't ditch her, he is not emotionally available to anyone else.
the ball's in his court hun, you let him stew in his own juice. he knows what he has to do but he's probably a little cheesed off that he doesn't have his cake and eat it too situation going on any more.
you did good. staying with him would've reduced you to being his doormat. you maintained your dignity and showed him the door.....even though he did try and turn it around to be as though HE was showing YOU the door...typical leo behaviour!!
it hurts i know but you now have to face your future as though he is not going to be part of it. this way you will protect yourself from future hurt. he may well come back and he may have ditched the ex or he may try and come back without ditching the ex...when that time comes, if you have managed to detach yourself enough from him, you will be able to make any decisions with clearer perspective.
why won't he ditch her!! what is the excuse for that!!
the thing is that all the time he doesn't ditch her, he is not emotionally available to anyone else.
the ball's in his court hun, you let him stew in his own juice. he knows what he has to do but he's probably a little cheesed off that he doesn't have his cake and eat it too situation going on any more.
you did good. staying with him would've reduced you to being his doormat. you maintained your dignity and showed him the door.....even though he did try and turn it around to be as though HE was showing YOU the door...typical leo behaviour!!
Hahaha thank you so much!
It was a great idea to do this! and I mean post this online
I am very much thankful for your words and wisdom.
This is truly great
I will be ok, I am luckily surrounded with the most lovely, loyal caring friends. (and obviously lovely lady here online for encouragements!)
I'm going to leave this post with a bit of cockiness...
He so is going to regret it :p
ahhh no that is not a pretty colour on me but its better than self pitying I guess.
He is a dreamer and idealiser from my experience and extremely ambitious.
Who knows what goes in his head and that is not important for me to speculate.
Thanks again,
with kind regards,
It was a great idea to do this! and I mean post this online
I am very much thankful for your words and wisdom.
This is truly great
I will be ok, I am luckily surrounded with the most lovely, loyal caring friends. (and obviously lovely lady here online for encouragements!)
I'm going to leave this post with a bit of cockiness...
He so is going to regret it :p
ahhh no that is not a pretty colour on me but its better than self pitying I guess.
He is a dreamer and idealiser from my experience and extremely ambitious.
Who knows what goes in his head and that is not important for me to speculate.
Thanks again,
with kind regards,
glad to have been of service. i'm scorpio btw...you'll rarely get a leo responding to anything on here, lol.
*runs and hides*
*runs and hides*
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