A lesson learned
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Cancer on Friday, September 14, 2007 and has 15 replies.
Cancer and Libra cannot even be friends. After holding my ground with a certain libra that broke my heart not too long ago, I decided that I would give in and respond to a shallow "trying to be friendly" email. What possessed me ? why, why WHY did I do that? I was doing so well, until I ran into that person at work, and felt uncomfortable at not having responded. He did all the damage to the relationship, and I am the one feeling guilty about not responding to a lame email...... somebody smack me!!! lol
Anyway my libra people here will not be suprised that of couse he did not respond, and I was like ok....WHY WRITE THEN??
That was really nice of you. You were the bigger person. I had a thing go down with my cancer that didn't turn out to well either, she liked to blame everything that went wrong on me. I would have totally responded had cancer emailed me!
As to why he didnt respond? Its a libra thing? I know alot of people on here say it but he's probably sorting things out for himself. For me, I have to figure out the PERFECT response and they may take me a long time. Give it a couple of days or weeks, I'm sure he'll respond or thats just plain rude.
As to why he didnt respond? Its a libra thing? I know alot of people on here say it but he's probably sorting things out for himself. For me, I have to figure out the PERFECT response and they may take me a long time. Give it a couple of days or weeks, I'm sure he'll respond or thats just plain rude.
What did you say in the email?
If it was just a catch up email, you guys are now caught up. What is there to respond too? You'll hear from him again at some point.
If it was just a catch up email, you guys are now caught up. What is there to respond too? You'll hear from him again at some point.
Yes I agree with Little Sparrow....they always come back at some stage
This is not true. One of my best guy friends is a Cancer and I am a Libra. He is the sweetest. Very moody, but sweet.
saymyname, huh??? What isn't true. Cancer, he will respond. They hate bad endings and love to keep their options open. You will see.
There's Ms. QS!
hey there...
I said doing good hope you are too , answered his question and that was it. I asked how he was... and what was up?
Then... nothing
Saw him online and not even a hello, ran into him at work "ice man" not exagerating...
saw him online on that day, and asked him what his problem was, I wanted to know.... I am so disgusted with myself!!!! not kidding
His reply "I dont know what your talking about, I will get in touch with you soon""i've been so busy, and I've had sooooooo much to do"
I just want to go back to a few weeks ago when I had actually found myself in a good place. This whole thing started because I had to respond to his email, an email which I still do not understand why was sent since he had no intention of remaining polite.
not only does he not have a drop of remorse for anything he has done, he continues to play these games.
I can never leave well enough alone, clearly he was testing me to see if I would respond, once he got that, it was .... adios again.
Changing my name to Stupid.
You were all right....and I blew it with that nice pisces because of course I've been such a grouch
I said doing good hope you are too , answered his question and that was it. I asked how he was... and what was up?
Then... nothing
Saw him online and not even a hello, ran into him at work "ice man" not exagerating...
saw him online on that day, and asked him what his problem was, I wanted to know.... I am so disgusted with myself!!!! not kidding
His reply "I dont know what your talking about, I will get in touch with you soon""i've been so busy, and I've had sooooooo much to do"
I just want to go back to a few weeks ago when I had actually found myself in a good place. This whole thing started because I had to respond to his email, an email which I still do not understand why was sent since he had no intention of remaining polite.
not only does he not have a drop of remorse for anything he has done, he continues to play these games.
I can never leave well enough alone, clearly he was testing me to see if I would respond, once he got that, it was .... adios again.
Changing my name to Stupid.
You were all right....and I blew it with that nice pisces because of course I've been such a grouch
Ummmm...not sure about that....from my experience with my LIbra friend (yes all, just friends now and happy with that), they get carried away with the burdens of the day/s and forget time (literally)....when they say they're busy they are busy....from my experience anyway.
But the "i will get in touch soon"??? that could be any time from 1 hour away to a couple of weeks....THAT is the sucky part I never could get coz that's not soon LOL.
Cancer, I would just leave him be...sometimes this is incredibly difficult for us to do and/or understand but if/when he comes back, its up to you as to whether you want to continue the friendship but he WILL come back...they always do!!!
But the "i will get in touch soon"??? that could be any time from 1 hour away to a couple of weeks....THAT is the sucky part I never could get coz that's not soon LOL.
Cancer, I would just leave him be...sometimes this is incredibly difficult for us to do and/or understand but if/when he comes back, its up to you as to whether you want to continue the friendship but he WILL come back...they always do!!!
Use this time to calm your own emotions/feelings as he probably can sense that there may be confrontation should you communicate with one another and they don't like that....(yes its about what they want LOL). Take this time to get back to what YOU enjoy, take care of YOU :-)
I just do not understand why I need to be contacted ... if he has no intention of
communicating...I take one step foward and ten backwards wherever he is concerned...
communicating...I take one step foward and ten backwards wherever he is concerned...
Cancer, chatz is right. Fill your time with other things. Let him be for now. These guys need time to weigh options and think and think and think some more. I have learned accepting a person for who they are with all their flaws is being a true friend above all. In that, knowing you could not be their mate with their flaws, but accepting them as a friend instead is remarkable. I am experiencing that recently. It is surreal. A relationship I have never had. Caring about a person so much that you actual love them without being emotionally in love with them, but knowing they will never be a good mate for you. Awesome stuff... Lovers come and go, a friendship can last a lifetime (a distinguished libran friend recently quoted that to me).
Hey QueenS ! How re you doing ? Perhaps , do you mind introducing me to this Libra ? I told my ex Libra the same thing when we started the relationship 
Hey Exam:
This distinguished libra, sort of get me as I them... (Oh wait, but that is with most Librans on most levels). I am starting to believe that the best relationships for me and any libra is a friendship. Those are always more smoothly and we are more than comfortable around eachother, but the hard thing is other male zodiac signs, just either are too emotional, petty or just seem to make a big deal out of things and they don't get me... I guess that is why I have let the Libra men reel me in time and time again. Sigh...
Who the hell else is compatible for a scorp with a lot of air and fire in their chart. What sign? Somebody? Anybody? If the opportunity presents itself I will give it a try... Any suggestions? I just don't get approached as often and as bluntly as I do by Libra guys.
This distinguished libra, sort of get me as I them... (Oh wait, but that is with most Librans on most levels). I am starting to believe that the best relationships for me and any libra is a friendship. Those are always more smoothly and we are more than comfortable around eachother, but the hard thing is other male zodiac signs, just either are too emotional, petty or just seem to make a big deal out of things and they don't get me... I guess that is why I have let the Libra men reel me in time and time again. Sigh...
Who the hell else is compatible for a scorp with a lot of air and fire in their chart. What sign? Somebody? Anybody? If the opportunity presents itself I will give it a try... Any suggestions? I just don't get approached as often and as bluntly as I do by Libra guys.
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