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Nov 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 355 · Topics: 46
My libra broke up with cappy ex 2 yrs ago..and we became friends right after..then flirted..now a bit more serious..he used to talk a lot about her..and then he said he's over her after a year..but sometimes he still speaks abt her..like when we were out, hell say your like my ex..when it comes to food choices etc..then he will demonstrate..'she'll say...' I wonder if he misses her..I have not completely replaced her in his heart..he will never have her again he said a long time ago..but I wonder if he has some regrets still about that..I know he loves me..he shows it..but I don't know..
They see each other sometimes..and he would tell me abt it. He's not my bf yet..as I am not ready for it yet..don't know but I feel all jealous..sometimes though I bring her up to our conversation...'saying maybe we should call her..etc..playing cool..then I think that is wrong...what do I do abt the ex?
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Apr 07, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 548 · Topics: 49
there is nothing you can do.she is not the issue.
libra ex, did the same. I always had to her about how he has a soft- spot for her.How great she was and I know they saw each other either at social functions or for coffee. It drove me nuts, but I couldn't show that I was jealous.I don't think Libra's like jealous behaviour.
I also , have guy friends that I have dinner and coffee with .He didn't like it, but I just said just like you don't want me to be jealous of all your ex girlfriends that you are still in contact with.Don't be jealous of people that are friends.
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Apr 07, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 548 · Topics: 49
God, comming to think about about it he is still friends will all his ex- girlfriends.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Libras try to remain friends with all their exs. Just because a romantic relationship doesn't work for whatever reason, doesn't mean the other person isn't special wonderful and worthy of love.
We don't like leaving people we care about behind.
The problem is not the nature of his relationship with his ex which is probably a very loving friendship with someone who he has no desire to be in a relationship with. The problem is your reaction to it.
You say you aren't ready for a relationship with him yet you are jealous and want to take HER place in his heart. I think you should reflect on this because this is the real problem.