Always come back when least expected.

Sorry guys hit enter too soon.....

Once again... My libra friend, popped up again with a surprise call last night after a fall out and misunderstanding we had about 2 months ago. I thought he was gone for good. He called back stating he missed talking to me and how everything was a misunderstanding (he was mad at me for being my honest scorp self) he couldn't end our friendship, yada, yada. He had a slight cold and said when he got sick he rmembered how much I cheered him up the last time he was sick (remember when we were fwb's and I spent the day with him while he was sick) a long time ago. I was blase and asked how he was. I actually took him some soup today we talked about general stuff. I am going into his line of work soon and my new business I am working on will envolve his line of work as well. He huged me like we hadn't seen eachother in years (he did that the last time we hadn't seen eachother in about 5 months) when I was dating another libra from DXP 🙂 which leads me to the 2nd libra return...

Yes my ex-libra boyfriend from DXP has been calling and we have been talking daily. I told him my feelings changed and I don't feel the same as before, but I do care about him. He said "I will fight for you." "We were meant to be". I said, "who are you gonna fight for me? Me? Good luck. LOL!!!"

I just don't know about that. Too much hurt and my feelings have changed romantically although I still care for him very much.

Ironically the scorp and I mended our differences and our friends. I don't know maybe the scorp thing. We went through a lot over the past month. You have no idea.

Taurus showing intense interest.

Crazy how all this sudden interest, besides my libra friend(#1)we could never be more than friends, it is weird. Yet I am just not jumping for either of these opportunity. Nothing is quite moving me.

I care so deeply for all of them, some more than others, but just can't be sure about the relationship potential thiing at all. All too much. Damn when it rains it poors!!! LOL!!!

What is a scorp to do?

options! how nice :-)

You guys know me. I am always open to being friends if all else fails 🙂. One situation is more sensitive than the others. I don't like being indecisive and won't make a decision until I am sure about something.

It also is no fun being alone anymore... 😢

a muse a libra,

I don't know how nice, when I don't know about any of them. I guess time will tell. The one I fear the most is the one I am currently drawn to the most...

Hehehe but you KNEW he'd be back!!! The Libra....apparently they always come back LOL.

Enjoy the attention, especially if its been a tad barren of late 😛

" I don't like being indecisive and won't make a decision until I am sure about something. "

you sound like a libra! Even though I don't like being indecisive either, I do like to have options, to be ABLE to make a decision is kind of freeing. Since you're friends with them, it sounds like you have to time to contemplate. Don't feel rushed, don't let those lonely feelings push you around...

fear, even though it isn't a pleasant feelings, is a very telling one...usually when I am most afraid, it is because there is something to lose, which to me means, that something is very important to me...

I'm tired of being alone too.... 😢

Yes, but if he's willing to "fight for you", does this mean he'll not pull the disappearing act?

BTW, is LP still on DXP from time to time?

Shhhhhh... HP, yes he is very seldom, but I know of a time or two he lurked around. I am just being honest. LOL!!! I really don't know about that. Really.

For those of you who don't know the history....

Libra 1 and I were friends, then fwb's he got emotional about me first, when I wasn't and then, I got emotional about him and he wasn't, so eventually we remained very close friends. I was there for him through two relationships etc. We are just really close, but had a fall out and didn't really talk for a few months. He and I will only ever be friends.

Libra 2, I met on DXP, we had a what started out as a great relationship. Long distance that eventually ended because I didn't feel as though he was there when I needed him most and others were including Libra 1. The one who wants me back, but my feelings for him are not as they were romantically as I will probably always care for him.

Taurus, have known for almost 2 years, live in different cities, initially went out with a group of friends a couple times. Mad chemistry and eventually and finally went out on a date after several attempts previously when both our schedules clashed. Still major chemistry time will tell. He is a great guy.

Scorpio, initially went out a couple times, crazy jealous and kind of possessive and stalkish... LOL!!! Drama over the past month. Cut off friendship all together with him, but something keeps bringing us back together... Crazy but intriguing lately for some reason. Deep in my heart I know he won't be a good mate for me in the long run, but he has recently opened up and confessed he is in love with me and have been persuing strong. I on the other hand am not in love with him, however there is something very intriguing about him that keeps me interested to an extent. I like the similar bluntness we share and the crazy sarcasm that he says most others don't get, but, I am a scorp as well after all.

Still, no one that sparks my heart the way it should be sparked... I agree with KG I am concentrating on my business and new position I just accepted until my business is off the ground, so I am not persuing either. I will continue to go out with the Scorp and Taurus from time to time, which leaves me lonely still.

I did go out with a Leo recently, great time, no chemistry. Great guy though. Sighhhh!!!!

Hey Queensscorpio..Sounds like a dream come true, yet your worst nightmare? lol Me right now, am having terrible luck with all the men in my life 😢 Yet all I can do is think about the Libra who doesn't seem to care much right now..I left my old job where I met the libra- three weeks ago..On my last day I told him this wasn't goodbye and he agreed and smiled at me. So later on that week when I was already gone for a few days at my new job, he sent me a text which surprised me, asking to see me..But for some reason my phone got screwed up and the text came through the next day, so it was too late to respond. So over that weekend I decided to contact him, and we were speaking online and he ws flirting with me like crazy..I was under the impression it was a sure thing, that we were gonna get together that night..He didn't say "yes for sure!" But he gave me a real strong "maybe", it all depended on what time he got back from where he was going..Anyway long story short, he got back too late that night and we didn't see each other. I was upset but didn't tell him that..So a week goes by, I try to contact again that weekend now, and I get the same crap..He got home too late..But meanwhile online he was telling me how "we need to get together soon" and blah blah...I miss him terribly 😢 I haven't seen his beautiful face in almost a month now after this week is up..With my new job, I work nights, and he works days so during the week is impossible to get together so all I have to work with for now is the weekends..What I dont get is why he initially contacted me, then tell me all this nonsense about "have to get together" and then just blow me off both times I make an effort to see him? My friends say I should let him go finally in hopes that he will eventually pick up the damn phone and call me..so this weekend was the first weekend since I left my old job that I haven't contacted him..You say it took your guy two months to want you back right? Well I hope eventually he wants me back too 😢 We are FWB's but I really hope someday it turns out to be more..I just don't understand Libras I really dont.. If you don't want me, then why are you feedingme all the BS? Makin me think we will get together then blow me off when I make the move? 😢

LOL!!! CA... Libra 1 was FWB's and that is all we would have ever been. Sometimes when it starts that way it remains that way I hear. The two of us passed our moment of possibly becoming more. He and I are just friends now. We fell out so that is why we haven't contacted eachother in a couple months. My ex-hubby and I started as FWB's and ended up together for 8 years. Go figure...

He isn't ready for a relationship right now, so it would be a complete waste for you to hang on with hopes of wanting more. Librans don't like losing people though especially if it is a partner or FWB that they have great sexual chemistry or emotional connection to. So, when he said lets get together, he probably just wanted to shag you nothing more. It isn't anything he is doing wrong, because they make it clear what their intentions are. You just have to take it for what they say. They flirt terribly and are very considerate and can make a woman think she is the only person in their world when they are with you. Unless his actions and words coinside and change then there will be nothing more... Sorry 😢

I am just living and letting life happen, I find that is the best thing to do what will be, will be. Good luck.

Things that are meant to be and left in the hands of fate will ALWAYS come to pass. BTW I'm always here.

You are right LP... Things that are meant to be will come to pass.
Glad to know you are here sometimes.