Amused

My Libra is cracking me up lately. He's really doing the swaying fence dance these days!

So last night, he tells me he really wants to become a citizen of this country so that it will be easier for him to come and go from Morocco, Europe, etc. Then he added - "Of course you will be there with me."

Then he brings up (again) the idea of me one day being his wife. Ok, heard this one before.

Then, later we're talking and he said that none of his brothers are married, and chances are high that they never will get married. He said "we're not the type that get married."

I responded with "you don't need to let their life's decisions impact your own. maybe you're different."

Ok, you have to understand that I was in no way loading this comment. I am a very direct person, but apparently he still reads b/t the lines with me (even though there is nothing to read).

So a little later in the conversation, he says, "I think sometimes you try to make this relationship too serious too fast. I wasn't looking for a serious relationship when I met you, so let's just see what happens."

I had no idea why he would say that, so I asked. His response was b/c I told him he was different than his brothers about the marriage thing. So, I clarified for him, told him of course we would just see what happens, b/c that's all you can do in a relationship, and that I wasn't looking for anything serious when I met him either, but apparently it happened.

So, he is the one talking about potential marriage and a future together, yet I'm the one making things too serious too fast?!?! Ha! It's dizzying.

Strange creatures that's for sure but we keep hanging around for more.

He just want you to take the lead and push him a bit. Infact take his hand and walk whichever way you want.

amm', you've got him on the run.

"got him on the run"

What do you mean by this, Atom?

intrigued. wondering. attracted to you.

Yeah - I guess that's the feeling that I get. It's been a fun dance - our communication style s are soooo different. I finally have his figured out. I know how to read between the lines - typically I know what he's "saying". I, on the other hand am very direct, and he is still figuring that out. He reads between the lines of what I say b/c that is his style . I told him in that conversation that if I am feeling like we need to take a step to be more serious, I will just tell him that. If I think we should start thinking about marriage, I'll say so.

Hopefully he catches on soon!

Communication style can be a challenge. 'Sounds like you're right on!

Yeah, it took me about 10 months to figure his out. Now that I get it, I'm feeling very comfortable and more relaxed - apt to start "playing" now. By this, I mean, bringing fun, sexy games into the relationship - not playing mind games. We're taking a trip to CA next week - can't wait! I think I'll bring some surprises along.