Anyone w/Leeb placements ever feel a bit insane?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by xomelindabelle on Tuesday, July 14, 2015 and has 28 replies.
lol I literally just went through a plethora of emotions this morning, due to the majority of my life being unmanageable. I feel so incredibly off balance and like I'm grasping at straws. My Libra moon and ascendant are the source for a lot of leisurely carelessness, which in turn works against me and I feel so chaotic and end up depressed. Any of you Libra suns, moons, ascendants, or any other placement feel this kind of crazy at times? lol
Balance is non existent to me. I'm insane to the point I've driven myself into a state of sanity lol.
My best friend is a Libra sun, Cancer moon, Leo rising, and when he gets upset all hell breaks loose lol.

Example we were playing a video game the together the other day. He he died in game then raged, and I could hear things being thrown/broken then he left the Skype call without saying a word. I didn't hear from him for like 3 days after that lol
Posted by Soul
My best friend is a Libra sun, Cancer moon, Leo rising, and when he gets upset all hell breaks loose lol.

Example we were playing a video game the together the other day. He he died in game then raged, and I could hear things being thrown/broken then he left the Skype call without saying a word. I didn't hear from him for like 3 days after that lol

Jesus lol I think that's more his Cancer moon than anything. Libra moons don't shut people out for days. We're too passive, we give in and talk when the storm has ended lol at least, that's how I am. My fits are emotions tend to be short-lived. But I could see a Cancer maintaining distance while upset, absolutely. I'm sure all of those placements confuse him! lol
*my fits OF emotions tend to be short-lived.
Posted by SingASong41
Yes! All the time! You're definitely not alone. I feel this frustration a lot. The funny thing is, I have no problem bringing balance to other people and their relationships, but my life is so unbalanced lol. Must be chiron in Libra.

Can't imagine what it must be like for you considering you have an Aries sun.



Exactly!! I always want to channel my good, progressive energy into helping others do well. But me? Mehh, Libra says 'do it tomorrow'! And the next day, and then the next day haha

Yes, it's really contradictory. I didn't notice it initially but it's a struggle. I do have the Arian energy and want to move forward, but my Libra moon and ascendant only allow for me to move forward with FUN plans lol nothing responsibility related. I want to kick me own butt sometimes lol
Any advice on how to handle a Libra when their moon is in Scorpio and Ascendant in Cancer and they are mad at you? I said a few mean things yesterday and now they are ignoring me though I did apologize.
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My best friend is a Libra sun, Cancer moon, Leo rising, and when he gets upset all hell breaks loose lol.

Example we were playing a video game the together the other day. He he died in game then raged, and I could hear things being thrown/broken then he left the Skype call without saying a word. I didn't hear from him for like 3 days after that lol

Jesus lol I think that's more his Cancer moon than anything. Libra moons don't shut people out for days. We're too passive, we give in and talk when the storm has ended lol at least, that's how I am. My fits are emotions tend to be short-lived. But I could see a Cancer maintaining distance while upset, absolutely. I'm sure all of those placements confuse him! lol
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Don't get me wrong 95% of the time he is awesome. Extremely funny and entertaining, in fact the only person who can actually make men laugh. But that rare 5% you will see somthing a bit scary.
Makes me laugh not men 0-o
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Any advice on how to handle a Libra when their moon is in Scorpio and Ascendant in Cancer and they are mad at you? I said a few mean things yesterday and now they are ignoring me though I did apologize.

Oh holy crap...lol from my experience with water moons and ascendants, they need to do things on THEIR time. Give them their process to sort out their feelings. They do appreciate apologies and recognition of wrong doings, but they're ignoring you right now because they simply don't want to deal with you after being hurt. No offense intended. I just know that water placements have a much different process emotionally. This person's air sun is not dictating how they're interacting with you now whatsoever; the Scorp moon is consuming them most likely. Just have patience, the Libra sun will allow them to come back. And eventually water signs come back if you don't hassle them to emerge when they're not ready to do so.
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My best friend is a Libra sun, Cancer moon, Leo rising, and when he gets upset all hell breaks loose lol.

Example we were playing a video game the together the other day. He he died in game then raged, and I could hear things being thrown/broken then he left the Skype call without saying a word. I didn't hear from him for like 3 days after that lol

Jesus lol I think that's more his Cancer moon than anything. Libra moons don't shut people out for days. We're too passive, we give in and talk when the storm has ended lol at least, that's how I am. My fits are emotions tend to be short-lived. But I could see a Cancer maintaining distance while upset, absolutely. I'm sure all of those placements confuse him! lol

Don't get me wrong 95% of the time he is awesome. Extremely funny and entertaining, in fact the only person who can actually make men laugh. But that rare 5% you will see somthing a bit scary.
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I'm sure he's a lot of fun to be around, I actually think he has a good combo of his main three signs. Just have patience, like I said with GemGuy's situation. He'll be back. smile
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Any advice on how to handle a Libra when their moon is in Scorpio and Ascendant in Cancer and they are mad at you? I said a few mean things yesterday and now they are ignoring me though I did apologize.

Oh holy crap...lol from my experience with water moons and ascendants, they need to do things on THEIR time. Give them their process to sort out their feelings. They do appreciate apologies and recognition of wrong doings, but they're ignoring you right now because they simply don't want to deal with you after being hurt. No offense intended. I just know that water placements have a much different process emotionally. This person's air sun is not dictating how they're interacting with you now whatsoever; the Scorp moon is consuming them most likely. Just have patience, the Libra sun will allow them to come back. And eventually water signs come back if you don't hassle them to emerge when they're not ready to do so.
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I figured that was likely the case, guess I was just making sure it was best to do. Nothing else I can really do anyway until they are willing to come around. Thankfully I'm a Gem so in the meantime I can busy myself with other things lol
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Posted by gemguyaz34
Any advice on how to handle a Libra when their moon is in Scorpio and Ascendant in Cancer and they are mad at you? I said a few mean things yesterday and now they are ignoring me though I did apologize.

Oh holy crap...lol from my experience with water moons and ascendants, they need to do things on THEIR time. Give them their process to sort out their feelings. They do appreciate apologies and recognition of wrong doings, but they're ignoring you right now because they simply don't want to deal with you after being hurt. No offense intended. I just know that water placements have a much different process emotionally. This person's air sun is not dictating how they're interacting with you now whatsoever; the Scorp moon is consuming them most likely. Just have patience, the Libra sun will allow them to come back. And eventually water signs come back if you don't hassle them to emerge when they're not ready to do so.

I figured that was likely the case, guess I was just making sure it was best to do. Nothing else I can really do anyway until they are willing to come around. Thankfully I'm a Gem so in the meantime I can busy myself with other things lol
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Yeah, I'm sorry :/ I just know that majority of the time, how I feel and my moods always have to do with my Libra moon; it's a huge part of me. So this Leeb is really experiencing their Scorp moon right now. But it doesn't mean this negates their Libran sun. It's still there for sure. Just hang in there, your Gem ways will help keep you busy Tongue
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Posted by gemguyaz34
Any advice on how to handle a Libra when their moon is in Scorpio and Ascendant in Cancer and they are mad at you? I said a few mean things yesterday and now they are ignoring me though I did apologize.

Oh holy crap...lol from my experience with water moons and ascendants, they need to do things on THEIR time. Give them their process to sort out their feelings. They do appreciate apologies and recognition of wrong doings, but they're ignoring you right now because they simply don't want to deal with you after being hurt. No offense intended. I just know that water placements have a much different process emotionally. This person's air sun is not dictating how they're interacting with you now whatsoever; the Scorp moon is consuming them most likely. Just have patience, the Libra sun will allow them to come back. And eventually water signs come back if you don't hassle them to emerge when they're not ready to do so.

I figured that was likely the case, guess I was just making sure it was best to do. Nothing else I can really do anyway until they are willing to come around. Thankfully I'm a Gem so in the meantime I can busy myself with other things lol
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it depends what you did and how good the relationship was before you did it.

sometimes we come back, sometimes we don't.
i normally am fairly resistant to things. i suppose like most people though, if one area of my life is particularly stressful everything else can go out the window. i like to think of my scales a bit like those toys you had as a kid. if you knocked it down it just manages to come back up again and find balance. it's when the scales are so heavy on one side that the whole device comes toppling after.
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lol I literally just went through a plethora of emotions this morning, due to the majority of my life being unmanageable. I feel so incredibly off balance and like I'm grasping at straws. My Libra moon and ascendant are the source for a lot of leisurely carelessness, which in turn works against me and I feel so chaotic and end up depressed. Any of you Libra suns, moons, ascendants, or any other placement feel this kind of crazy at times? lol

Yeah, I'm learning the hard way that carelessness doesn't work. I used to hate when my Mom would force me to do chores or practice/study things. I just hate feeling like I HAVE to do something; it doesn't help that I also have Sun and Venus square Uranus.

I remember reading an interesting article that talked about how you have to do the opposite of what you want to get what you want. If you want to have leisure and fun, you have to work and be disciplined to be able to afford that leisure and fun. If you want to be happy, you have to be willing to push through fear, depression, unhappiness, and negativity. If you want to be careless, you have to be careful and diligent enough to build a life that can support a bit of carelessness here and there. It was really interesting, especially being somewhat Libra dominant and interested in unifying opposites.
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Oh my gosh, I absolutely understand despising having to do chores growing up lol being told that I HAVE to do something just irks me! Tongue It's why I do the opposite a lot, and that can be really dangerous in terms of responsibility.
That article sounds pretty accurate! I think I'm going to consider that approach. It seems applying my will to situations has not helped much at all!
Posted by utopian
So your chart is like Merc in Pisces, Pisces/Aries Venus and Gem Mars?

Pisces may bring in the depressive side. Gem the chaos and the unbalanced axis of the Sun & Venus to your moon and Asc.

Yet enough good aspects between them to recognize the organized chaos smile

Who is this directed to? Just want to be clear lol
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Posted by SingASong41
Yes! All the time! You're definitely not alone. I feel this frustration a lot. The funny thing is, I have no problem bringing balance to other people and their relationships, but my life is so unbalanced lol. Must be chiron in Libra.

Can't imagine what it must be like for you considering you have an Aries sun.



Exactly!! I always want to channel my good, progressive energy into helping others do well. But me? Mehh, Libra says 'do it tomorrow'! And the next day, and then the next day haha

Yes, it's really contradictory. I didn't notice it initially but it's a struggle. I do have the Arian energy and want to move forward, but my Libra moon and ascendant only allow for me to move forward with FUN plans lol nothing responsibility related. I want to kick me own butt sometimes lol

Hmm I don't know about this. Libra energy is cardinal energy too. I have sun, merc, venus, and pluto in libra and I'm a fairly active and motivated person. Even when it comes to doing stuff that's not fun. lol.

I think mars has more to with motivation and action than the other placements.

My dad had a libra mars and he was highly successful and driven in his career and anything he took on. I don't know if libra energy is the culprit here.
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That is true, but along with the good qualities of Libra, people have noted them to be a bit indulgent in leisurely activity, procrastination taking over a lot. But that does not mean everyone with Libra placements is this way. I just know I have these faults occasionally and it was described by an astrologer to me, as well as fellow Leeb moons and rising. So it honestly just depends on the individual.
Oh my doctor wants me on medication but I refuse lol! I always feel anxious with over thinking especially when I really like someone who I feel like is playing games! Gonna call him on his bullshit soon though!
I also get stressed out and start eating candy like I am right now lol
Libra sun piscesmoon libra rising here and ohman the moods change unbalanced all the time to extreemee either really happy energetic outgoing but a second later can be very quite depressed reserved , I feel you girl with that chaos and off balance .meditation seems to helps to feel more of a balance
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Posted by SingASong41
Yes! All the time! You're definitely not alone. I feel this frustration a lot. The funny thing is, I have no problem bringing balance to other people and their relationships, but my life is so unbalanced lol. Must be chiron in Libra.

Can't imagine what it must be like for you considering you have an Aries sun.



Exactly!! I always want to channel my good, progressive energy into helping others do well. But me? Mehh, Libra says 'do it tomorrow'! And the next day, and then the next day haha

Yes, it's really contradictory. I didn't notice it initially but it's a struggle. I do have the Arian energy and want to move forward, but my Libra moon and ascendant only allow for me to move forward with FUN plans lol nothing responsibility related. I want to kick me own butt sometimes lol

Hmm I don't know about this. Libra energy is cardinal energy too. I have sun, merc, venus, and pluto in libra and I'm a fairly active and motivated person. Even when it comes to doing stuff that's not fun. lol.

I think mars has more to with motivation and action than the other placements.

My dad had a libra mars and he was highly successful and driven in his career and anything he took on. I don't know if libra energy is the culprit here.

That is true, but along with the good qualities of Libra, people have noted them to be a bit indulgent in leisurely activity, procrastination taking over a lot. But that does not mean everyone with Libra placements is this way. I just know I have these faults occasionally and it was described by an astrologer to me, as well as fellow Leeb moons and rising. So it honestly just depends on the individual.

I think it's pretty accurate the way Linda Goodman describes libran energy. We tend to burn the rope at both ends for awhile. Then we crash and can't even move for a while. Both
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Oh yes, absolutely!! I go into a hibernation when I'm burnt out lol

Posted by chita
Libra sun piscesmoon libra rising here and ohman the moods change unbalanced all the time to extreemee either really happy energetic outgoing but a second later can be very quite depressed reserved , I feel you girl with that chaos and off balance .meditation seems to helps to feel more of a balance

I have a lot of earth placements and a couple water, as well as certain houses in water domains and my midheaven being Cancer. It's crazy, all of this energy contradicts itself sometimes and I feel crazy haha so you get it! I've just gotten into meditation so I think that will be pretty helpful! smile
utopian:

These are actually my placements:

Aries Third Decan ??? ~ Libra Moon ??_ ~ Libra Ascendant ??_ ~ Taurus Mercury ??? ~ Taurus Venus ??? ~ Gemini Mars ??_ ~ Gemini Jupiter ??_ ~ Capricorn Saturn ??? ~ Capricorn Uranus ??? ~ Capricorn Neptune ??? ~Scorpio Pluto ??? ~ Pisces North Node ??? ~ Cancer MC ~ Cancer Chiron ~

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^ I don't know how all of these placements affect me yet, so still learning lol
I thought I posted on this but maybe not. I know I wrote this somewhere...lol. I'm a bit spacey. Anyways the answer to this is so yes.

Sun/Merc/Ven/Pluto- Scorp
Moon- Virgo
Mars/North Node- Sag
Jupiter/ASC- Libra
Saturn- Aqua
Uranus/Neptune - Cap
MC- Leo
Lilith- Aries

The combo of Scorp Sun, Virgo moon & Libra ascendant.... the whole mixture is like complete chaos. I am the epitome of a hot mess if there ever was one. I am extremely outgoing yet I couldn't be more shy (Libra asc-Virgo moon clash). I love to rationalize and make people laugh, enjoy being around me yet I am closed off and don't want to talk to people. My moon and ascendant are not friends LOL. Really it just depends on the situation. For example, if I like a guy I am closed off, scared to make them not like me by being weird (I am weird though so I guess that works against me), which is my moon and ascendant somewhat working together. If I am with friends who I have opened up to I am outgoing and full of life, and I act like my crazy self. I love being around people! People I know that is. Sometimes I wonder if I seem stand-offish... I don't think so, because even though I am shy, my ascendant in Libra always shows the good manners shyly and I am pretty polite respectively. However I work in customer service and if a customer pushes me enough my Mars in Sag plus me being a Scorp bleeds through and I become irritable and my rage is very apparent lol....I'm not afraid to give someone an attitude if they have an attitude with me if I know I'll never see them again. My Libra coworker and I get along really well, and when I start going off he tries to take over and becomes Mr. Diplomat while I am fuming off to the side lol. My ascendant always tends to keep me in good spirits, and people comment on how I always to be of good cheer when below the surface I may not be happy at all. Granted I prefer to be this way. I never want to be part of "Misery Loves Company". Spreading happiness is so much better than the opposite. My Virgo moon also hides away my emotions. Typically I don't like to deal with emotions very much though I do feel them. I like to avoid them as sometimes they bring a lot of difficulties into life. I feel insane lol, but this somewhat sums me up in a complex nutshell. I'm the human paradox.
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Posted by gemguyaz34
Any advice on how to handle a Libra when their moon is in Scorpio and Ascendant in Cancer and they are mad at you? I said a few mean things yesterday and now they are ignoring me though I did apologize.

Yikes. I have left people without looking back for saying mean things to me. The reason for that being, I don't purposefully say things to hurt anyone. I don't except that treatment in return. Also, I never wanted future children to grow up in a household where their parents resolved conflicts with verbal or emotional abuse. So for me, it's an easy decision.

With a water moon, you may have a better chance because they are more likely to understand emotional outbursts and they are more attached than a sag moon like myself is gonna be.

You should apologize and tell her you know how inappropriate your comments were and that the next time you get upset, you'll make sure not to handle it that way ever again.

Of course, only if you mean it smile
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I did apologize and I did mean it! We just gave each other space for a few days. We were both depressed and missing each other badly and it came out when we made up. Winking

All good now.