Are 2 Libras Compatible as a Couple

Hello All, I'm thinking about asking this guy out who's a Libra like i am. I have never been in a Libra/Libra Relationship before. So my question is 2 parts. Will he get offended if i ask him out? And, are 2 Libra's compatible as a couple?

Thanks for your comment. I will see him in a couple of days at a friends party. All i keep thinking about is what will i say to him. I'm thinking about maybe taking a shot of tequila first just to loosen up or to calm my nerves sorta speak. But then again I'm saying to myself what the heck, just go for it all he can say is yes or no. Besides you cant miss what you never had.

Posted by neyesee
Thanks for your comment. I will see him in a couple of days at a friends party. All i keep thinking about is what will i say to him. I'm thinking about maybe taking a shot of tequila first just to loosen up or to calm my nerves sorta speak. But then again I'm saying to myself what the heck, just go for it all he can say is yes or no. Besides you cant miss what you never had.

Please try not to ask him out. It will reverse the dynamics of the relationship. He will feel like a girl and you like a man. Certainly you wouldn't want to begin on a wrong foot.. unless you're Aries, then, ahem.. you're the man.

Posted by spica

Posted by neyesee
Thanks for your comment. I will see him in a couple of days at a friends party. All i keep thinking about is what will i say to him. I'm thinking about maybe taking a shot of tequila first just to loosen up or to calm my nerves sorta speak. But then again I'm saying to myself what the heck, just go for it all he can say is yes or no. Besides you cant miss what you never had.

Please try not to ask him out. It will reverse the dynamics of the relationship. He will feel like a girl and you like a man. Certainly you wouldn't want to begin on a wrong foot.. unless you're Aries, then, ahem.. you're the man.

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I laughed on the last part of this comment. But this is not true in my opinion. Libra males love to know they are admired almost just as much as leo man.(BIG emphasis on the ALMOST...lol) However if your going to flatter him try not to over do it. Im afraid if you do, he will think your a little obsesive and you will scare him away. But i say go for it girl! Just PLEASE PLEASE look your absolute best from hair folicles down to the polish on your toe-nails. Smell great, and make sure your breath smells like roses. He will be soooooo flattered that you lowered your ego just for him! =) Good luck

@ PinkLibra, I have already decided what i will look like from head to toe. Topping it off with a few sprays of my Coco Chanel. Which is definitely an attention grabber, it always works(LoL). It is known that us Libra's know how too dress for the occasion,while doing it with class. I was also thinking the same thing, how will i approach him with out leaving him thinking that I'm being too assertive. I think I've come up with a plan for that (Thee approach).


@Spicia, If my approaching him the right way reverses the dynamics then i say it wasn't meant to happen, which will be his loss. Its been so many times when i have been out, and i see a guy looking as if he wants to approach me, and he doesn't do it. When half of the time a man would like to come and speak to us women first but some times, there either scared of rejection or in some way feel intimidated. When little did he know that I'm (we) are approachable. Which is why i have come to the conclusion that i will initiate the conversation first. Instead of wondering what if.

Okay, do it as you would like.. It's your choice anyway 😉

I'm with Spica. If a guy doesn't approach, he probably has a good reason and it probably has nothing to do with you. I wouldn't go there if I were you.

No no no, there is NOTHING wrong with asking a guy out. It doesn't make me feel like less of a man if a woman asks me out, I like it. I am slow to make the first move. We look for reassurance before we would take the leap. If you like him, say so. If you want to go out with him, tell him. Whether he shares the opinion of you or not, I'd rather know if it were me. And if some woman thinks she is the man just cause she asked me out first it ain't gonna work anyway so whatever.

Thanks @LibraSid, I do like strong men, wouldn't have it any other way. With that said I'm going for it!

Posted by neyesee
Thanks @LibraSid, I do like strong men, wouldn't have it any other way. With that said I'm going for it!

Go for it and let the board know what happens!

Posted by LibraSid
No no no, there is NOTHING wrong with asking a guy out. It doesn't make me feel like less of a man if a woman asks me out, I like it. I am slow to make the first move. We look for reassurance before we would take the leap. If you like him, say so. If you want to go out with him, tell him. Whether he shares the opinion of you or not, I'd rather know if it were me. And if some woman thinks she is the man just cause she asked me out first it ain't gonna work anyway so whatever.

Oh I agree! There is nothing wrong with it just experience has taught me, if a guy doesn't approach he usually has a reason.

Posted by little_sparrow

Posted by LibraSid
No no no, there is NOTHING wrong with asking a guy out. It doesn't make me feel like less of a man if a woman asks me out, I like it. I am slow to make the first move. We look for reassurance before we would take the leap. If you like him, say so. If you want to go out with him, tell him. Whether he shares the opinion of you or not, I'd rather know if it were me. And if some woman thinks she is the man just cause she asked me out first it ain't gonna work anyway so whatever.

Oh I agree! There is nothing wrong with it just experience has taught me, if a guy doesn't approach he usually has a reason.

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Yep..
Plus shes prolly going to have to do all the asking later on.. Libra girls actually like a 50/50 or even a more take-charge partner than them.. someone she can rely on.
If she's gonna ask him out, he'll just be in for the ride, because Lib women are not desirous of being the take-charge peeps all the time.

I still maintain she's going on a wrong fo0ting, but no harm trying, right?