Are Libra Guys and Gals a JEALOUS type?

I was wondering....to be cautious at least...

Please any helpful hints...

my boyfriend tends to be but he hides it (or tries to).

Yes we are. From time to time. Depending on the other persons zodiac. But our ethics keep reminding us that being jealous is not fair. So we control it to a great extend even when we are burning with jealousy.

hitting the sauce this evenin', Leebra? 😉 I am!

Yessss are you kidding?bMy libra boyfriend gets jealous if I pay too much attention to the cat.

Oh...that's why...
Now I know...hehe...

I mailed this Libra who is getting along with me this way :
" My daughter said you were trying to call, she did not take the call
because she's not good at speaking english, she might not understand you.
Is everything OK? "

He replied:
" Bad mistake! I did not try to call you, maybe one of your other lovers.
Hope your mails to me are copy and paste from your collection. I will go find some sweet ass."


I was shocked, hurt and wondering. But then, I realize maybe he was just jealous.
You think so?

Up to what extent can a Libra man do when he is jealous and woman likewise?

Jealousy? Yes but not as intense as cancer or scorpio.
My libra friend got jealous of me and my other close friend. There would be distain in his voice when asking about said close friend or lots of put downs. There was another time where it was him, my close friend and I. As soon as we started to 'act close' or speak of things libra could not relate to, my libra friend excused himself and didn't come back for 15 minutes. I think I've said this in another thread. The rule is: Out of sight out mind.

I personally get jealous real fast and real easy of course my moon in aqua will help tone it down but scorpio planets say otherwise, its an internal battle really.

It may not be super apparent but if you look for it, the clues ARE there.

*sigh*

You know what I find really interesting. We, meaning the libras in the group, usually say straight up that someone is a jackass and has no good intention towards you. We say it in different ways but we get to the base of the problem right away and we don't dick around about it. To us, generally, it is as pain as day. We get right to the problem, hoping to save needless heartache .....yet, does anyone ever listen? NOOOO!

They just keep trucking head strait into the wall. THEN they come back and say Libras are all assholes.

Not all of us are but we can see an asshole coming and try to protect people.

I am going to tell you straight up. This guy is a controlling, manipulative man. It is all right there. Plain as day. He thinks you are really submissive and will go along with anything he wants.

* He replied:
" Bad mistake! I did not try to call you, maybe one of your other lovers.
Hope your mails to me are copy and paste from your collection. I will go find some sweet ass."


This man will NOT be a good partner because he is hostile, controlling, and emotionally unstable. You haven't even met him, yet the writing on the wall is glaring.

Seriously. Do better for yourself. This man cannot save you because he has not yet saved himself. If you choose this path and end up with him, you will have a lifetime of heartache and mistreatment.

Amen to that.

WoW! LS!

I think you said it rightly right.
I actually have thought about it but you know women when liking someone we overlook some things. But as soon as we gave it a thought again and accept the shouting reality then we see truth. Only acceptance to things make it easier.

I second the motion.

* women when liking someone we overlook some things.

Soooooo true! It is so hard to see it when you are in it. A friend gave me some really great dating advice. "People always tell you who they are and the trouble you will have with them in the first three dates. You just have to listen for it."

I have had men tell me they beat their ex, cheated, or pull stunts like this usually within the first three dates. It is better to walk than risk getting hurt.

You seem like a genuinely sweet person so I "KNOW" there is a great guy out there with your name on him! You just have to step over some of the crap, like this libra guy, along the way. You can do it! 😉

Yeah, Libran men can get very jealous and show it!!!

"Hope your mails to me are copy and paste from your collection. I will go find some sweet ass."

I know I'm later on this response, but WOW. This guy is definitely a player and showed absolutely no respect to you. Aren't you the one who he's been wooing this whole time? Aren't you the one he wants to see when he visits your country? Aren't you the one he's been writing love poems to? His response shows indication of a guilty conscience and I am almost postive that he is the one who is doing the copy and paste from his "collection". Ugh, he urks me and I don't even know the guy. Go find a better suitor, JJ.

thanks HP dear

Oh Libra Libra...so unpredictable...hehe

"You seem like a genuinely sweet person so I "KNOW" there is a great guy out there with your name on him! You just have to step over some of the crap, like this libra guy, along the way. You can do it! "

Thank you LS, that is a sweet thing you say...

You know, I think I have claws under my sleeves too.
I can get hurt, but I regain strenght right after I shed tears for it.
Then all weakness and pain drained out. Only strenght remain.
Then plan how to rise back, but not by drastic measures.

I was thinking, I will meet this guy.
I need to see his face and eyes.
Show him how wrong he is when he thought he had my heart.
Then when we meet up, then I say :
"I thought I am in love with you, but I was wrong. I am sorry."
Then walk away.

I know, he'll have mixed emotions though how tough he is.
Because I want to prove that women can flirt too and send signals
but not serious about it.

We can do that, yes?

How could I hurt a heart that is not really intended to do good?

I believe in that saying too"what goes around, comes around".
If that move would hurt him then it only means he care?

Sometimes we have to give people their own dose of medicine.

Sometimes we have to wear strenght (when truly we are scared) to protect ourselves from pain. Anyway, I am not on that end yet. Will cross the bridge when I get there.

Your point is really kind. It shows your tenderness as a person.
But we have to be careful, when we are in love we are an easy fool.
Even the seem unfriendly smile we tend to believe, because we love the person.

Do you have any other suggestion?
I will sincerely follow a rule if it can protect my heart.

Thank you Miss VL.

PS - I myself is hurt just thinking about that plan. Because I like him.
But who will make him realize he is hurting a nice woman?

Who can ever tell he will really be hurt?

We never really know.

But the fact I was hurt - is the bloody truth.

That's not really revenge - walking away - that's defense.

(from my own POV)

Jealous? tell me about it..heh. my Libra man is....he's governed by a Scorpio Moon!!


as for me, i CAN be..but not intensely

jing

If you go ahead with your plans to see him, you are saying to him his behavior doesn't matter, that he is still worthy of your time and attention. The ONLY way to tell him that what he has done has hurt you and is not acceptible is to break it off and no longer engage with him. Walking away and not looking back is true strength.

If you go ahead and see him and then say, "you really hurt me. I want ... I need ...." Your presence is enough for him to realize that it doesn't matter how he treats you, you are still holding onto hope and he can treat you as he pleases.

The best revenge is living well.

Thank you very much. This forum really opens a variation of option for me.

But then as always there are 2 sides of a coin.
We don't know what is in his mind, heart.
Almost always the theory you have yourself will differ when facts are gathered.
I really have to see his eyes.
Not to make revenge but see the flesh behind the mails.
Then protect my heart by walking away (because of the advises I took from here)
Revenge is too much for what I wish to do - the word is too intense - overacted.

When my ex husband brought home a woman when I was 9 mos pregnant
He said his co-worker
I served them dinner - washed the dishes they used
Saw them kiss from my eye's corner whenever I turn around
My heart was really broken, pieces to pieces
I left marriage - then gave birth
After a year ex hubby appeared saying "I want you back"
Told him - I can never come back - I am no more in love.
Re arranged life - moved forward -
Never regretted that moment up to this present time.
I was very glad I took that courageous step.
My life now is really better.
Courage - determination - hope
This is life - there is real battle.

If you really want true love you have to take the risk.
But taking risk in love requires skill - you should be guarded by sanity.
When chance is there, grab it. Chances are it may never re occur.
Take the risk, it's part of it.
Who knows, it could be worth it.

"No one stumble while sitting down"

PS - when I left marriage I was 24 got married 23 - now I'm 39 - have never remarried again

New Letter from the Libra Guy!

Hi - and good morning

Thanks for interesting evening!!
But as we are approaching each other rapidly I will try to give you better
insight in this guy you are chatting to
About the erotic side...
You look great
But I'm not a guy who is looking to your side of the world for excess to
sex.
Even here in the west a film director has a strange kind of attraction on
lady's (maybe that_s why I became one)
And my economical success is visible also here.
So all my life I have had offers - more than I could handle .....
( last night as we were chatting I received an sms from a lady your age
inviting me over for a glass of wine.....) ( did not go )
I'm not saying this to boast about my love life.
But because its important to me that you understand my intentions and goals.
When entering into a relationship it has to offer me something more than
just the ability to put another trophy on my shelf.
That's why I'm not desperate about chatting up lady's
It has to be more to it - both for body and soul.
Sometimes I find that strange feeling - that you give me.
I don_t know what it is - or what its linked to.
But I know it when its there.
Its stimulating and a bit frightening - because I feel like loosing a bit of
control - and that_s weird ( a directors most distinct ability is to be in
control)
You kind of give me that feeling - and its tempting but also a little
scary..
If meeting up - It would be a way of finding out
Don_t know what you think of it....

(what do you think sisters?)

Probably not typically but then its an Air sign so can be unpredictable.

Libra is unpredictable but dudn't got that extreme jealosy possessiveness of Scorpio or Aries. Depending on their self esteem Libras Libra men can become jealous Alpha Libra males I would imagine are not jealous types they got everything goodlooks, money - big bank accounts, great job, high IQ you name it only his girfriends become jealous thats it.

Libra girls I don't unpredictable but also very manipulative Libra being a Masculine Cardinal sign of Leadership has to win Libra girls have Masculinized cognitive processes so its not................ I'm not sure Jealousy? hmmmmmmm that is too petty considering this Cardinal sign but its about Leadership and trying to outmanuver you.

Thank you Joe-S that's quite an insight.

Is there an exact description of the date OCtober 20, 1958
Dont know much of astrology - just horoscope (hehe)

Jing

You seem like such a sweet good person but everytime I read something about this man everything about me cringes. You believe he is being honest and kind and open. I think he is a manipulative, masogynistic, jerk. I am not saying this to be unkind to you but because I sincerely believe he is going to lie to you and hurt you badly.

No one stumbled while sitting still, but no one regretted walking away from an abuser either.

This man, I sincerely believe, in one of the biggest jerks I have ever read about.

i know nothing I can say will tempt you from this path, and you will meet him. I just think it is a really big mistake. I believe he will prey upon your kindness. He may marry you, but he wants a submissive, traditional wife, that doesn't ask any questions when he brings a coworker home. He may marry you, but that doesn't mean you will be happy.

I hope I am wrong but I highly doubt I am.

I must say that I do not consider the possessive jealous component of Scorpio and Aries as being related with low self esteem but with Libra yeah becoz its quite unusual for this sign to be like that.

Shouldn't be kinda cuspy, you going out with an older man? If you are 18 that's not a problem.

"No one stumbled while sitting still, but no one regretted walking away from an abuser either."

RIGHT! This was my point all along. When I walked away from ex-husband I never regretted it. Infact my life became more colorful. When young - thought he is the only man in the world for me. But that is young imaginations. When you grow more mature you see a larger view of life. You'll realize there is more to it.

Dear LS - I feel genuineness in your concern to me - believe me - I see your point and agree with you. But there are businesses that needs to be dealt personally in order for them to get closed. It takes strong spirited woman to handle a fragile heart and years of life's battles had made me (I think). I would like to face this one. But not to bite the bait. But conquer my remaining weaknesses.

From my former post : "That's not really revenge - walking away - that's defense.
(from my own POV)"

That is why I am telling all along...a woman in order to perform the tricks must guarded by sanity, has the courage of conviction and is determined to do what she thinks is right. Very difficult but courage is an elemnet to succeed.

I was not saying I will love him or hate him either...I simply said I will face him and then walk away...

damn I'm drunk "should be kind of kuspy" October 20.

What are your weaknessess?

Joe - don't understand much - what is it "kuspy"?

weaknesses - afraid to face truth

scared of what people might think of me

Yeah she is jealous of you that's her father and you like older men that's what's up.

holy sht.

"Yeah she is jealous of you that's her father and you like older men that's what's up"

Who is jealous of me? Who is father of who?

Don't understand.

your background is sckrewed man that's what I talkin' about that's what's up are you with an older man now? What's the deal? You must be one of those Asian girls hookin' up with an older white guy.

I'm 40 soon - the man is 49

don't play games with me ok? Who are you messing with? who is this jealous girl you were talking about.

I am well travelled - own businesses - what do you mean hookin' up older white men?
Slow down pal...

and he's got a daughter?

There is no jealous girl.

The man is jealous of the call from my mobile.

Read the post again from the top.

you are philosophizing about this and that